I am not doubting your review and as stated had removed her from my HL because of it. I also do not doubt the other review that you refer to given that I know the reviewer pretty well, especially as we had both shagged some of the same girls. I have no doubt at all that if she had been like you reported at the time that he saw her then he would have reported that in his review - indeed I suspect that like you he would have walked. Your are entitled to your view but equally I am entitled to state my view that I believe the original review would be accurate, that the reviewer would not have acted distastefully in the way that you suggest (although he did in several other ways ) and that I do not appreciate you making those sorts of comments about him.
Don't "appreciate" it all you like but the chances are that I've saved you from one of the worst experiences you'll ever encounter. You feel it more important to jump to someones defence over the validity of his review when the fact is that you don't know and the evidence suggests his review wasn't fully accurate. You can't have it both ways, put her back on your HL if you choose to believe she was fine 7-8 months ago because by your conclusion, it may well be just an episode and she may get well again and give you a great punt! Have the courage of your conviction then come back and tell us he was right all along!
Are you really suggesting she got well from two years ago, then had a massive worsening of her conditions over the last 8 months, to the point where she can barely dress herself, just after her last review from R? Specifically, what sort of comments don't you appreciate? That in my opinion he slapped someone around with Parkinsons? The thing is, as you rightly pointed out, it was consensual and maybe they both loved it but the simple point I made was that it is not my idea of fun. As I said earlier, if you personally are ok with this then get yourself booked in. What is "distasteful" is a matter of opinion; I'm confident she had signs of illness when he saw her and personally, rough sex of the sort discussed, is distasteful to me, particularly when engaging with someone with such obvious signs of this sort of illness.