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Author Topic: Why Do So Many Polish Escorts Refuse to See Black Men?  (Read 2044 times)

Offline Menace

I'm not black but I'm not white either :-P, but I've noticed that almost every polish profile state a refusal to see men of African ethnicity. I've seen the likes of Michelle Independent and Emily20 and they were fantastic but I really do feel sorry for men who are of African origin and who look at their profiles but realise they cannot see the above mentioned girls because of their skin color. One thing that I've learnt over the past two years is that the color of someone's skin is so irrelevant.

But why is this? I don't want to be close-minded and go for the easy suggestion that it's racism but I'm interested into what the issue could be. Next time I see a polish escort I may politely ask but is that suitable or too personal?
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Offline Mart1976e

Well, people say it's preference rather than racism. You can't force someone to have sex with someone else, as it's then sex without consent. Regardless of the money.

However, when someone says "no black men", or a Thai wg refuses to go with any non-Asian men, then how is it not in a way racist? It's a weird thing, but I think we just have to acknowledge that our tastes and preferences can be a bit racist. Is that any worse than liking woman with big natural tits, though? Or short women? Aren't they also imposed on the person at birth, like race?

As for Polish girls. Well, not all will refuse black guys, but it is well known that it can be difficult for dark skinned guys in the EE countries in many ways. Then again, it's hardly only an EE issue.

Not that it affects me, I'll shag birds from anywhere!
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Offline newforthisyear

The polish girls I've seen have been extremely tight and couldn't take the full length of me (I'm white).

Maybe they can't handle it? Or it's a cultural thing, i don't know.
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Offline Marmalade

I'm not black but I'm not white either :-P, but I've noticed that almost every polish profile state a refusal to see men of African ethnicity. I've seen the likes of Michelle Independent and Emily20 and they were fantastic but I really do feel sorry for men who are of African origin and who look at their profiles but realise they cannot see the above mentioned girls because of their skin color. One thing that I've learnt over the past two years is that the color of someone's skin is so irrelevant.

But why is this? I don't want to be close-minded and go for the easy suggestion that it's racism but I'm interested into what the issue could be. Next time I see a polish escort I may politely ask but is that suitable or too personal?

I'd say it's probably none of your business...

tbh this issue has been done to death on here. They are entitled to refuse to see anyone they want and for any reason or for no reason. It's a private service, not a public one. If she wants to be like the ancient temple prostitute and see anyone who turns up, that's her business too. Stating it on the profile is nicer than turning someone away on teh doorstep surely. No, it is not racism. Racism is active discrimination. Someone who takes private clients picks and chooses who she or he likes. A mouthful would be "Miranda wishes to offer her time and companionship to gentlemen of Caucasian and Asian descent." i.e. she doesn't intend to fuck black guys.

"Race discrimination is not unlawful if the job involves working for a private household, working abroad for most of the time or when, with regard to certain jobs, the Crown is the employer." Source

Similarly it can be viewed from 'reasons' -- where the accused has reasonable concern:
http://www.cartercamerons.com/companys-request-not-amount-race-discrimination/

So stop worrying your head about it please do. You'll just stir up a never ending thread of aggro. Your do-good sense of helping black guys to get laid will just increase their sense of rejection. What they have to do is suck it up. Same as you or I do when some prossie abroad refuses to see us cos we don't speak the local language.



Offline Stiltskin

I've heard several Polish girls talk about black guys in a negative way. I didn't want to get into it, so didn't ask what the problem was. Maybe it's something deep in their culture?

Offline Ben4454


For some it will be a preference for others it will be indirect discrimination. Perhaps they had one bad incident with a black man and now is stereotyping and generalising the entire minority.

Who is who we will never know  :rolleyes:
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Offline nestor

there's still a lot of ingrained racism in Eastern European countries. During the period of Russian control they were exposed to relatively few non-Europeans, and there was no multiracial contact to dispel old prejudices. In terms of racial acceptance, countries like Romania and the Czech Republic are about as advanced as the UK was 50-60 years ago. With no immigrants from a "commonwealth", and the isolation (and paranoia of foreigners) produced by the iron curtain, they have a lot of catching up to do.
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Offline condomman

I'm not black but I'm not white either :-P, but I've noticed that almost every polish profile state a refusal to see men of African ethnicity. I've seen the likes of Michelle Independent and Emily20 and they were fantastic but I really do feel sorry for men who are of African origin and who look at their profiles but realise they cannot see the above mentioned girls because of their skin color. One thing that I've learnt over the past two years is that the color of someone's skin is so irrelevant.

But why is this? I don't want to be close-minded and go for the easy suggestion that it's racism but I'm interested into what the issue could be. Next time I see a polish escort I may politely ask but is that suitable or too personal?

Never noticed this Menace but tbh, when I do my searches I discriminate against them and exclude Polish women from my searches. In a 10 year waste of punting, I've only seen one Polish woman who was worth the money. I've tended to notice the 'discrimination' (seeing how everyone gets uppity when you call it racism) more from Asian escorts though. Trying to find an Asian that will see my "black ass" is like trying to pick a needle out of a haystack.
Excuses I've got when enquired have been "black man robbed me once", "black men are unhygienic", "Black man dicks too big" and my personal fave "All my friends are black and I don't want to bump into anyone who knows me"!
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Offline star69


 Because their dicks are supposedly double the size of cumberland sausages or so the story goes..
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Polish m8 from work told me half or most of them don't see polish guys either so yeah...black guys are not the only ones missing out.

Offline condomman

Because their dicks are supposedly double the size of cumberland sausages or so the story goes..

Mine is half the size of a cocktail sausage so I can assure you the fable is a myth
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Offline paul_b_1977

Polish m8 from work told me half or most of them don't see polish guys either so yeah...black guys are not the only ones missing out.

I've understood that restriction to be due to not wanting to shit too close to where you eat, as the saying goes.

In terms of racial preferences, I think there is just some deep seated racism towards black people in some parts of Eastern Europe which result in some girls not wanting to see black guys. I've heard similar stories of girls being harassed by some unruly clients who happen to be black, so the animosity and fear from those personal experiences result in the restrictions.

Online smiths

I'd say it's probably none of your business...

tbh this issue has been done to death on here. They are entitled to refuse to see anyone they want and for any reason or for no reason. It's a private service, not a public one. If she wants to be like the ancient temple prostitute and see anyone who turns up, that's her business too. Stating it on the profile is nicer than turning someone away on teh doorstep surely. No, it is not racism. Racism is active discrimination. Someone who takes private clients picks and chooses who she or he likes. A mouthful would be "Miranda wishes to offer her time and companionship to gentlemen of Caucasian and Asian descent." i.e. she doesn't intend to fuck black guys.

"Race discrimination is not unlawful if the job involves working for a private household, working abroad for most of the time or when, with regard to certain jobs, the Crown is the employer." Source

Similarly it can be viewed from 'reasons' -- where the accused has reasonable concern:
http://www.cartercamerons.com/companys-request-not-amount-race-discrimination/

So stop worrying your head about it please do. You'll just stir up a never ending thread of aggro. Your do-good sense of helping black guys to get laid will just increase their sense of rejection. What they have to do is suck it up. Same as you or I do when some prossie abroad refuses to see us cos we don't speak the local language.

I agree with most of this Marm but I do see a WG who refuses to see say ALL Black men as racist as they aren't treating the person as an individual BUT its entirely up to the WG who she sees and don't sees, and must always be so.

This is certainly an issue with no resolution as has been proved by countless previous threads.

Offline Jimmyredcab

In 35 years of punting I have never seen a black girl, I would never see a black girl ------------ that is my personal choice, why shouldn't pro$$ies also be able to choose.     :unknown: :unknown: :unknown: :unknown:

Well. Not sure about polish WGs... But a girl I use to date was Polish and only ever use to go for black guys (I was a one off). Her current boyfriend is black. Basically if you were black and not ugly, she'd want to fuck you... Maybe it's different for WGs but because of this girl I doubt it can be said for all polish girls (she spent most of her life in Poland too)

But as poster above mentioned... It's not racism it's preference. I would not pay to fuck a black girl because that's not what I like... I'm Asian. Never been turned away for my race. But wouldn't care if I did... Some girls like Asians believe it or not... So for every girl that doesn't like X race (Asian, Latin, black or whatever) you'll find a girl that exclusively likes that race (how many times you been told a girl only likes black guys) although I guess it's abit different when punting but there you are

Offline condomman

In 35 years of punting I have never seen a black girl, I would never see a black girl ------------ that is my personal choice, why shouldn't pro$$ies also be able to choose.     :unknown: :unknown: :unknown: :unknown:
With the greatest respect James, you should admit to your racism. In my generation, it's seen as something disgusting and distasteful but based on your comments I'm in little doubt you grew up in an era where certain terms were banded about. I don't think you should be bashed for your right wing extremist views for the record as you are of your time and I have no doubt, when I'm older, my views will be seen as out dated.
To answer your question though, I think prossies as you call them are generally more open minded than yourself
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Offline Marmalade

I don't fuck fat fuckers, paid or unpaid. Does that make me fattist?  Other than fucking, I see no difference with overweight people unless they are elbowing me on a plane.

I don't fuck old mingers. Does that make ageist? I see no difference with the elderly unless they want to get in bed with me.

I don't fuck certain black ethnicities. Their body language and cultural manner when fucking turn me off. Does that make me racist? I see no difference with black people of any ethnicity in everyday life, as long as the ones that turn me off sexually don't want to fuck.

If I was a woman, I wouldn't want to fuck many Americans, black or white. Apart from Californians and a few isolated exception, they are noisy, coarse fuckers. Does my dislike for their manners make racist?

I make no difference between one person and another, even on here, unless someone starts to come the cunt, attack me personally, demonstrate sub-human characteristics worthy of a troglodyte, invade my personal space and so on. Neither are people the same from day to day. But you can't change certain things, like being an ugly old fat minger or even stuff on the day like geeky piss flaps or rotting teeth or dirty fingernails. Sex is an invasion of body space: it is unacceptable unless you choose to give permission. Even a kiss is legally an assault: but if you make a clear and vokuntary choice to accept it no-one gives a fuck to prosecute.

All these fuckwit cunts moaning that a prossie won't see them need to suck it up. They are against allowing someone the freedom to decide what to do with their own body and diguising it as racism. They are scum, basically. Their bleating has fuck all to do with genuine racism in Polish people or any other race. So fuck off and find someone who *wants* to shag you, you miserable bastard.

A woman or a man has the right at all times to fuck who he or she likes, as long as the same right is respected in those others. Payment makes no difference. Some women like a romantic dinner, some like a love letter, some like cash. It's all the same and they have the same rights, the same as you do.
« Last Edit: June 27, 2016, 10:47:02 AM by Marmalade »

Offline Jimmyredcab

With the greatest respect James, you should admit to your racism. In my generation, it's seen as something disgusting and distasteful but based on your comments I'm in little doubt you grew up in an era where certain terms were banded about. I don't think you should be bashed for your right wing extremist views for the record as you are of your time and I have no doubt, when I'm older, my views will be seen as out dated.
To answer your question though, I think prossies as you call them are generally more open minded than yourself

I don't fancy black women -------------- so that makes me a racist.    :crazy: :crazy: :crazy: :crazy:

We are allowed to use the word pro$$ie on here, if you find it offensive I can suggest a forum that might suit you better. 

Offline Marmalade

I agree with most of this Marm but I do see a WG who refuses to see say ALL Black men as racist as they aren't treating the person as an individual BUT its entirely up to the WG who she sees and don't sees, and must always be so.

This is certainly an issue with no resolution as has been proved by countless previous threads.

Your sentence to me isn't quite clear there Smiths, maybe a typo so I'm not sure of the sense. "See say all..." Do you mean she is racist but she is allowed to be? If so it's a technical fine line but I would I think disagree unless she has the same attitude towards friends and people other than those she has sex with.
« Last Edit: June 27, 2016, 10:51:42 AM by Marmalade »

Online smiths

With the greatest respect James, you should admit to your racism. In my generation, it's seen as something disgusting and distasteful but based on your comments I'm in little doubt you grew up in an era where certain terms were banded about. I don't think you should be bashed for your right wing extremist views for the record as you are of your time and I have no doubt, when I'm older, my views will be seen as out dated.
To answer your question though, I think prossies as you call them are generally more open minded than yourself

I am no fan of redcabs but its NOT racism to have a preference that you don't wish to punt with Black WGs, its called personal choice and he is the one paying so up to him.

Offline condomman

I don't fancy black women -------------- so that makes me a racist.    :crazy: :crazy: :crazy: :crazy:

We are allowed to use the word pro$$ie on here, if you find it offensive I can suggest a forum that might suit you better.
Didn't say you were racist because of that James. You've got enough posts on here and regardless of those, YOU know who you are. It's one thing being a proud white man but it's another thinking that you're better than others because you're white. Not trying to dig you out. Just wish you'd be honest about who you are. I'm not offended by that term. I just try to refrain from put downs of anyone. I feel less mainly when I have to resort to such terms or calling people cunts online.  :hi:
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Offline Mart1976e

I agree with most of this Marm but I do see a WG who refuses to see say ALL Black men as racist as they aren't treating the person as an individual BUT its entirely up to the WG who she sees and don't sees, and must always be so.

This is certainly an issue with no resolution as has been proved by countless previous threads.

It's fair enough, but so what? What can you do? Force them to have sex with people they don't want to? Sure, it's racist. But, so what? People can be racist about who they choose to have sex with. Only having sex with women is sexist in that way. Refusing to see ugly girls isn't any worse than that. All of them are about rejecting people before you get to know them as an individual.
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Offline rg41

In 35 years of punting I have never seen a black girl, I would never see a black girl ------------ that is my personal choice, why shouldn't pro$$ies also be able to choose.     :unknown: :unknown: :unknown: :unknown:

I agree

Online smiths

Your sentence to me isn't quite clear there Smiths, maybe a typo so I'm not sure of the sense. "See say all..." Do you mean she is racist but she is allowed to be? If so it's a technical fine line but I would I think disagree unless she has the same attitude towards friends and people other than those she has sex with.

IMO it IS racist to exclude say ALL Black men because that isn't treating people as the individuals they are, BUT in punting a WG MUST always have free choice so whether it is racism or not its up to the WG to decide. The alternative of course would be forcing WGs to punt with people they don't wish to which is wholly wrong obviously.

Online smiths

It's fair enough, but so what? What can you do? Force them to have sex with people they don't want to? Sure, it's racist. But, so what? People can be racist about who they choose to have sex with. Only having sex with women is sexist in that way. Refusing to see ugly girls isn't any worse than that. All of them are about rejecting people before you get to know them as an individual.

I already answered this in the post you quoted.


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