Author Topic: What fetish do you just not get...? (Read 11018 times)

EnglishRebecca121 · « **Reply #100 on:** February 27, 2018, 03:19:38 pm »

Pissing in someones mouth ....just why

TPreston · « **Reply #101 on:** February 27, 2018, 03:43:09 pm »

Quote from: EnglishRebecca121 on February 27, 2018, 03:19:38 pm

Pissing in someones mouth ....just why

Get the impression its a power thing

TPreston · « **Reply #102 on:** February 27, 2018, 03:47:56 pm »

Quote from: MrPunt101 on February 27, 2018, 11:42:52 am

I just to get or find anything to do with financial domination any kind of pleasure at all....

It's very odd, maybe the individual giving away money feels so worthless that having any attention from a half decent looking girl is by giving away money,

The thing that baffles me is that some girls that do it are not that good looking to start with and just come across as self centred, insecure spoilt arseholes, and little girls that think it's just very easy money.

I remember seeing a program on Channel 4 a while ago called rinsing, showcasing this fetish, where men pay for gifts, outfits, nights out etc in return for absolutely nothing... I simply just don't get it and actually quite annoyed that this fetish exists.

It's praying on the weakest and stupidist in society that give away their money to girls that have no shame, concern or conscience.

It's a little bit like cuckolding where the man gets no sex and allows the partner to have many as she wants, essentially she gets everything and the cuckold gets what she gives him... however I have a bit more understanding as you do get something in return and their is something hot about this fetish / fantasy, but the financial domination is just a complete turn off.

A couple others I can't get my head round is:-
being locked in a cage sometimes overnight
pretending to be a pony or animal
being ignored,
forced intoxication,
being in a position to be blackmailed "Utterly Moronic in my opinion".
Vomit
Period Play
Extreme Degradation & Humiliation

To me financial domination, blackmail and some others I mentioned above just feels like another way for girls of today "snow flakes and Millennials" to do the absolute minimum without any skill, talent or effort and then expect as much as they can get out of them, all of this done with an attitude problem from little madam !

Let's get rid of this fetish, shouldn't even be one...

As i posted before - I think its pretty much a hyped up myth. Odd unicorns here and there massively talked about due to the 'free money' aspect leading people to think its a viable thing.

I appreciate there seems to be a small market on twitter where there you don't have to pay to subscribe but on SA where it can be a sweet shop of fit young women, £60 for a months sub is nowt if you're gonna be throwing cash for abusive messages your way - and the female profiles that set up as 'fin domme' and all that shite don't last longer than a fortnight. You very rarely get any girls with older active profiles playing that game.

Danger!WillRobinson · « **Reply #103 on:** February 27, 2018, 04:30:08 pm »

"being ignored,
forced intoxication"

Again, sounds a lot like marriage - ignored in a sexual sense and driven to drink...

Ali Katt · « **Reply #104 on:** February 27, 2018, 04:32:42 pm »

Quote from: EnglishRebecca121 on February 27, 2018, 03:19:38 pm

Pissing in someones mouth ....just why

Saves me getting up.

MrPunt101 · « **Reply #105 on:** March 01, 2018, 10:55:08 am »

Quote from: Ali Katt on February 27, 2018, 04:32:42 pm

Saves me getting up.

One of the best contributions to a post yet
LMAO

Scottish_Kara · « **Reply #106 on:** March 01, 2018, 02:22:57 pm »

Tickling
Hardsports
Adult Baby Minding
Period Play

cash2spare · « **Reply #107 on:** March 01, 2018, 11:28:19 pm »

A few to be honest:

Shitting and pissing on people.
Being tied up and all the pain that it entails (I wanna smile be excited and enjoy my punt)
A 3 way involving another guy, why?
Being a slave.

Donbe · « **Reply #108 on:** March 02, 2018, 04:03:59 pm »

shit and periods. Just don't get it.

PatMacGroin · « **Reply #109 on:** March 02, 2018, 04:56:45 pm »

Quote from: Putin on February 16, 2018, 07:50:15 am

Webcamming - Imo, this should only be used for checking her out, making sure she is genuine or arranging a meet... For anything else, please watch free porn

Never though of this as a fetish, more like interactive porn. Is porn a fetish? I guess in both cases it could depend on what is being done infront of the camera.

Webcamming doesn't have to be only with an SP though. With a civie partner, especially during a period of long distance relationship, it can be a bit of fun. I have found it a huge turn on especially as a bit of edging play just before being re-united. The extra element of anticipation leads to an extra hot session.

I suppose in that way it could also be used as goood build up before visiting a WG!

PatMacGroin · « **Reply #110 on:** March 02, 2018, 04:56:52 pm »

I'm a pretty vanilla guy, so most of the fetishes mentioned here don't appeal to me.

The thought of things like water sports, hard sports, vomit etc, are physically repulsive.

The idea of "Findom" makes me extremely angry.

The stuff that just completely baffles me is the pretending to be an animal, like a pony or a puppy.

I tried to look up if there's an official name for that, but didn't find one. But I did find this link which gave me a few laughs:

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Some of them have to be made up, especially:

Autoplushophilia - Arousal to oneself dressed as a giant cartoon-like stuffed animal

Scarboroughdude · « **Reply #111 on:** March 02, 2018, 05:08:51 pm »

Quote from: PatMacGroin on March 02, 2018, 04:56:52 pm

I'm a pretty vanilla guy, so most of the fetishes mentioned here don't appeal to me.

The thought of things like water sports, hard sports, vomit etc, are physically repulsive.

The idea of "Findom" makes me extremely angry.

The stuff that just completely baffles me is the pretending to be an animal, like a pony or a puppy.

I tried to look up if there's an official name for that, but didn't find one. But I did find this link which gave me a few laughs:

External Link/Members Only

Some of them have to be made up, especially:

Autoplushophilia - Arousal to oneself dressed as a giant cartoon-like stuffed animal

Melissaphilia
Arousal to bees and wasps ...... FFS thats just weird.....

Cornish sub · « **Reply #112 on:** March 02, 2018, 07:22:21 pm »

Quote from: Bogof60 on February 24, 2018, 01:20:51 am

WTF is balloon bursting

I'm no expert but I'd hazard a guess it involves balloons and something sharp.

Health and Fitness · « **Reply #113 on:** March 02, 2018, 07:40:19 pm »

I have never understood how some people are turned on by hard sports, to me it sounds absolutely revolting.

Bogof60 · « **Reply #114 on:** March 03, 2018, 09:35:32 am »

Quote from: Cornish sub on March 02, 2018, 07:22:21 pm

I'm no expert but I'd hazard a guess it involves balloons and something sharp.

Was kind of hoping it would be something a bit more sex related

Ali Katt · « **Reply #115 on:** March 03, 2018, 04:25:30 pm »

Quote from: PatMacGroin on March 02, 2018, 04:56:52 pm

I'm a pretty vanilla guy, so most of the fetishes mentioned here don't appeal to me.

The thought of things like water sports, hard sports, vomit etc, are physically repulsive.

The idea of "Findom" makes me extremely angry.

The stuff that just completely baffles me is the pretending to be an animal, like a pony or a puppy.

I tried to look up if there's an official name for that, but didn't find one. But I did find this link which gave me a few laughs:

External Link/Members Only

Some of them have to be made up, especially:

Autoplushophilia - Arousal to oneself dressed as a giant cartoon-like stuffed animal

I know the nickname for it is yiffing.

Ali Katt · « **Reply #116 on:** March 03, 2018, 04:27:00 pm »

Quote from: Donbe on March 02, 2018, 04:03:59 pm

shit and periods. Just don't get it.

Nothing wrong with a bit of blood sport. You get a meal and a fuck for the same price.

rathbone · « **Reply #117 on:** March 03, 2018, 08:52:42 pm »

Quote from: PatMacGroin on March 02, 2018, 04:56:52 pm

Autoplushophilia - Arousal to oneself dressed as a giant cartoon-like stuffed animal

Quote from: Ali Katt on March 03, 2018, 04:25:30 pm

I know the nickname for it is yiffing.

I vaguely know someone who's a "furry" - he dresses up as a stuffed animal at the weekends. I had to google to find out more about furries/ yiffing - apparently some people just feel an affinity towards cuddly animals in a non-sexual way, whereas with others its a kink and they meet up for weekend conventions in a similar way to swingers. Each to their own and all that, does nothing for me.

Cock & ball torture is another that does nothing for me apart from making me wince. I had a long conversation with a WG about it because a potential client had requested it: she's a girl next door type and does a great GFE but doesn't list any kinks, so he was barking up the wrong tree.

bbwandy72 · « **Reply #118 on:** March 06, 2018, 11:47:11 am »

Several. Findom, adult baby minding, hardsports, role play, etc. But while they may not do anything for me, others like them. Who am I to say they're wrong? If it works for them, then great. Live and let live.

Romney · « **Reply #119 on:** March 06, 2018, 12:46:50 pm »

Breath play. Completely baffles me. Why would someone want to risk actual death for whatever feeling it might add to the sex? I prefer to leave my punts walking, with a smile on my face, rather than in a body bag.

I remember reading a dom's profile who offers this, and she made a point of saying that she's trained in CPR. I hope that's not similar to all the wg's who say they're trained in massage, but never really are.

unclepokey · « **Reply #120 on:** March 06, 2018, 02:37:17 pm »

Quote from: Donbe on March 02, 2018, 04:03:59 pm

shit and periods. Just don't get it.

+1

vw · « **Reply #121 on:** March 06, 2018, 03:05:53 pm »

Quote from: Romney on March 06, 2018, 12:46:50 pm

Breath play. Completely baffles me. Why would someone want to risk actual death for whatever feeling it might add to the sex? I prefer to leave my punts walking, with a smile on my face, rather than in a body bag.

I remember reading a dom's profile who offers this, and she made a point of saying that she's trained in CPR. I hope that's not similar to all the wg's who say they're trained in massage, but never really are.

I is fantastic feeling, must be done responsibly though.

Ali Katt · « **Reply #122 on:** March 06, 2018, 03:37:12 pm »

Quote from: virtualwaster on March 06, 2018, 03:05:53 pm

I is fantastic feeling, must be done responsibly though.

This. Don't think I would do it with someone I just met though, the feeling or climaxing and being light headed is up there.

Romney · « **Reply #123 on:** March 06, 2018, 03:57:59 pm »

I actually had one wg do a form of breath play on me without my expecting it. It was frightening, even though it was just for a few seconds. She stopped immediately when I told her to, but never again, and now I always tell any sp I'm with that breath play is strictly off limits.

I think I'm just far too conservative for anything like that, but glad you like it. I'm sure it feels great, but if you're starving your brain of enough oxygen to get light headed, you're getting close to actually damaging it too. That's a pretty thin line, and if you cross over it for too long, I imagine that bad things could happen.

Ali Katt · « **Reply #124 on:** March 06, 2018, 04:07:06 pm »

Quote from: Romney on March 06, 2018, 03:57:59 pm

I actually had one wg do a form of breath play on me without my expecting it. It was frightening, even though it was just for a few seconds. She stopped immediately when I told her to, but never again, and now I always tell any sp I'm with that breath play is strictly off limits.

I think I'm just far too conservative for anything like that, but glad you like it. I'm sure it feels great, but if you're starving your brain of enough oxygen to get light headed, you're getting close to actually damaging it too. That's a pretty thin line, and if you cross over it for too long, I imagine that bad things could happen.

It's a stop start method that works best. I've only ever done it when climaxing with a then girlfriend it was intense, but I like it a bit rough.

greg101 · « **Reply #125 on:** April 22, 2018, 04:02:47 pm »

Quote from: Bogof60 on March 03, 2018, 09:35:32 am

Was kind of hoping it would be something a bit more sex related

Balloon fetish, for those that are interested, is sexual. Or so I'm lead to believe.

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greg101 · « **Reply #126 on:** April 22, 2018, 10:22:21 pm »

The fetish I don't get is the 'fluid' one. There is a guy that rocks up towards the end of the night and drinks the seaman out of the condoms, WTF! couldn't even entertain that in a million years. Also sploshing, hard sports/watersports, all seem daft to me.

Horizontal pleasures · « **Reply #127 on:** April 22, 2018, 10:37:14 pm »

Quote from: Lacumba01 on February 12, 2018, 10:58:04 pm

I quite enjoy Hardsports to be honest.
with a clean Mistress, prefer having it with mistress to WG.

To be honest the porn turns me the fuck on.

However, at times i do wonder how such a highly regarded man as myself, gets to be turned on by such.. the dawn of internet .
Literotica. simply reading erotics online, then teen bully stories . i remembered imagining what could be the worst that the brat girl could do to him/Her.
well, it ended up with toilet slave. and that became my path into hardsport porn and ultimately i had to try it.

for some reason, when you are so close to it , mouth on ass, the poo apears not to stink as it would if it was perceived from a distance.

I always get blindfolded as i cant stand the sight of it. love the mental turture of it.

so let us have a review soon please.

nigel4498 · « **Reply #128 on:** April 22, 2018, 11:08:30 pm »

Quote from: greg101 on April 22, 2018, 04:02:47 pm

Balloon fetish, for those that are interested, is sexual. Or so I'm lead to believe.

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Trouble with balloons, one prick and their gone.
Sorry, couldn't resist.
I'll get my coat

candec · « **Reply #129 on:** April 23, 2018, 09:11:09 am »

I've never seen the appeal of the Fem Dom scene. I'd piss myself laughing if a woman tried that on me.

G.Raff · « **Reply #130 on:** April 23, 2018, 10:55:04 am »

Obviously there is a wide range of fetishes and each one is individual, however there are some broad categories that keep coming up and are very common.

Is there a correlation between a particular fetish and some other event that might have happened at some point in one's life?

Any research done in the matter?

BarneyBubbles · « **Reply #131 on:** April 23, 2018, 01:21:26 pm »

Ive tried lots of things over the years. Apart from the usual things I've found some stuff I've enjoyed (MMF, TV/TS, some elements of sub/dom), some stuff that was ok but left me a bit 'meh' (uniforms, watersports, anal, FFM) anf some that I've found baffling or unpleasant (hardsports, fisting). Each to his or her own though..."as long as you dont do it in the street and frighten the horses".

smartieshouse · « **Reply #132 on:** April 23, 2018, 02:13:25 pm »

Slight thread drift but I have a massive high heel fetish which means I insist girls wear them throughout any booking.

If any fellow "heel fans" would like to get in touch feel free:-)

Rich

bitofanovice · « **Reply #133 on:** April 23, 2018, 02:25:08 pm »

Not sure about fetish

But a decent (and I mean really decent) roleplay is very very hard to find nowadays !

bhudda · « **Reply #134 on:** April 23, 2018, 02:27:00 pm »

Quote from: BarneyBubbles on April 23, 2018, 01:21:26 pm

Ive tried lots of things over the years. Apart from the usual things I've found some stuff I've enjoyed (MMF, TV/TS, some elements of sub/dom), some stuff that was ok but left me a bit 'meh' (uniforms, watersports, anal, FFM) anf some that I've found baffling or unpleasant (hardsports, fisting). Each to his or her own though..."as long as you dont do it in the street and frighten the horses".

I dont get mmf or mmmf or any number of ms greater than 1

Derrick101 · « **Reply #135 on:** April 23, 2018, 02:39:01 pm »

Sounding!!

Who on earth wants bloody great probes stuck down their cock

BarneyBubbles · « **Reply #136 on:** April 23, 2018, 06:46:57 pm »

Quote from: bhudda on April 23, 2018, 02:27:00 pm

I dont get mmf or mmmf or any number of ms greater than 1

Bizarrely I'd always assumed that I'd love FFM...its one of those classic fantasies... but i've tried it a few times and always been left disappointed . MMF works for me but really depends on the relationship with the couple.

magnetico · « **Reply #137 on:** April 24, 2018, 12:23:17 am »

Crazy list of fetish for this one :
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I don't think I really "get" any of them

Adult Babies
Age Play
Anal Play / Strap On
Ball Busting
Bastinado
Blindfolds
Bondage Rope and Restraints
Body Worship – Clothed; Not intimate
Breath Play / Breath Control
Caging – Short Term / Overnight
CBT – Cock Ball Torture
Chastity
Champagne Tasting
Collars
Corsets
Confinement
Corporal Punishment Judicial & Extreme
Distance Training
Dog Training
Domestic Discipline
Domestic Service / Butler & Maid / Chauffeur
Double / Triple / Multiple Sessions
Edge Play
Electrics / Erostek / E-Stim / Violet Wand
Enforced Exercise / Weight Loss / Diet
Face Sitting / Smothering / Ass Worship – Clothed
Face Slapping / Spitting / Hair Pulling
Feminisation / Maid Training / Sissification
Fetish Club Attendance
Forced Bi
Forced Feminization / Slut Training
Financial Servitude
FinDom / Blackmail
Food Sploshing
Foot Fetish / Shoe / Boot Fetish
Gags
Glove Fetish
Hoods
Humiliation & Degradation
Human Furniture
Intelligence Fetish / Psychological Domination
Interrogation Scenarios
Introduction to BDSM for Newbies / Quick Taster
Key Holding & Chastity
Leather Fetish
Latex Rubber Fetish
Leg / Nylon worship
Knife Play
Maid, Sissy, Slut Training
Medical, Needle play, Blood
Mid-Week / Week-End Stay-Overs
Mistress & Master Double Domination
Mummification
Nail Fetish
Nipple Torture and Tease
Objectification / Corner time
Orgasm Control and Denial
Outdoor Play
Overnight / Extended Sessions
Pony, Puppy Play
Role Play Scenarios
School Classroom Scenarios
Sensory Deprivation, Objectification
Slave Training / Obedience Training
Smoking Fetish
Shopping Slaves
Smothering, Queening
Spanking / Flogging / Caning / Whipping, etc
Spitting
Strap on
Take Me Out For Lunch, Dinner or Shopping
Tickling
Tie & Tease / Tease & Denial / Eye Contact
Toilet Training, Hardsport
Trampling / Kicking / Stomping / Dancing
Travel and Trips – National / International
Water Sports
Wax & Candle Play
Wet and Messy
Whipping

S.X. MacHine · « **Reply #138 on:** April 24, 2018, 03:31:37 pm »

Oh, come on! Champagne Tasting doesn't sound too pervy...or am I missing something?

Lizzie_Lockhart · « **Reply #139 on:** April 24, 2018, 05:22:23 pm »

Quote from: S.X. MacHine on April 24, 2018, 03:31:37 pm

Oh, come on! Champagne Tasting doesn't sound too pervy...or am I missing something?

Courtesy of Urban Dictionary...

xx

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Terryray · « **Reply #140 on:** April 26, 2018, 06:44:09 pm »

Quote from: mrsheepish on February 13, 2018, 12:56:07 pm

A few people have said it already but I just don't get anal neither do i very often ,mores the pity

CalWise87 · « **Reply #141 on:** April 26, 2018, 08:00:09 pm »

Mine has to be anything involving, shit or vomit, that's fucking disgusting !!

I do have a thing for footjobs/heels and flexible (gymnast style) positions lol

Titti Tatti · « **Reply #142 on:** April 28, 2018, 05:06:09 am »

I figured out recently why I have no interest in paying more for come on body/face.
When the money shot happens,my eyes are always closed.

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