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Offline Cum_again

Japanese vomit porn....

Why would you do that?

Offline Horizontal pleasures

Japanese vomit porn....

Why would you do that?
if you just ate sushi. Y u c k.

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Period Play
I do not get it in the sense that I do not know what it means, and I like the idea as breaking an old taboo of not touching a lady while she is menstruating. But what do you actually do?

What do you put over the bedclothes?
I assume you will not do oral.
But if you did oral there will be no kissing afterwards! (not suitable for vegetarians).
And would she do oral on you after you pull out?
If you do fingering or real live orgasms you will need a shower (understatement).
Do you need a condom?

Has anyone done it - if so please share man or woman.
Thanks
I think period play is a catch all term, much like hardports can include a range of activities.

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Period Play

Has anyone done it - if so please share man or woman.
Thanks

I don't offer period play as a service, but I do sometimes Indulge with my OH.

It's not for the act itself, blood does nothing for either of us and he's actually a little bit squeamish of period blood getting on bedding etc.

But some women, myself included, get an amazing surge of hormones at that time of the month. Inhibitions are lowered, I can't keep my hands off him and the orgasms are a lot more intense. It's like being a teenager again!

There's also physical changes to the vulva and vagina, muscles are contracting and spasming (which is also what causes period pain) which makes the area more sensitive and everything feels more intense. I'm also told that I feel warmer and tighter.

 :hi:

Xx

Offline Blackpool Rock

I don't offer period play as a service, but I do sometimes Indulge with my OH.
Do you charge him extra for this service  :unknown:  :sarcastic:

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Wow what a bunch of boring fuckers :D if it’s legal and consensual I’ll do it, that said I do draw the line at HS and needle play.

How about some non boring reviews?  :rolleyes:

2.5 years and still not showed us how adventurous you are. 

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I don't offer period play as a service, but I do sometimes Indulge with my OH.

It's not for the act itself, blood does nothing for either of us and he's actually a little bit squeamish of period blood getting on bedding etc.

But some women, myself included, get an amazing surge of hormones at that time of the month. Inhibitions are lowered, I can't keep my hands off him and the orgasms are a lot more intense. It's like being a teenager again!

There's also physical changes to the vulva and vagina, muscles are contracting and spasming (which is also what causes period pain) which makes the area more sensitive and everything feels more intense. I'm also told that I feel warmer and tighter.

 :hi:

Xx

Thanks for the tout.   :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

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I don't offer period play as a service, but I do sometimes Indulge with my OH.

It's not for the act itself, blood does nothing for either of us and he's actually a little bit squeamish of period blood getting on bedding etc.

But some women, myself included, get an amazing surge of hormones at that time of the month. Inhibitions are lowered, I can't keep my hands off him and the orgasms are a lot more intense. It's like being a teenager again!

There's also physical changes to the vulva and vagina, muscles are contracting and spasming (which is also what causes period pain) which makes the area more sensitive and everything feels more intense. I'm also told that I feel warmer and tighter.

 :hi:

Xx

Lizzie - thank-you for your sensible and well intentioned explanation of period play.  I'm not squeamish and as a male who has appreciated the benefits you describe can vouch for everything you have said. I'm sorry some saw it as a tout - I saw it as an honest explanation.

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Lizzie - thank-you for your sensible and well intentioned explanation of period play.  I'm not squeamish and as a male who has appreciated the benefits you describe can vouch for everything you have said. I'm sorry some saw it as a tout - I saw it as an honest explanation.


Why not apologise for not reviewing in your 4 years here, instead of apologising for others. ?   :bomb: :bomb:

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"As a male", huh?  :rolleyes:

Lizzies OH maybe, thats why he is vouching or the blood sport product placement touting attempt.   :sarcastic: :sarcastic: :sarcastic:
« Last Edit: February 16, 2018, 03:23:07 am by vw »

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Lizzie - thank-you for your sensible and well intentioned explanation and as a white knight can vouch for everything you have said. I'm sorry some saw it as a tout - I saw it as honest advertising.
Corrected your post. honour is restored  :sarcastic:

Offline Putin

Findom - Just don't get it, why would one throw away their hard-earned money so easily :thumbsdown:

Webcamming - Imo, this should only be used for checking her out, making sure she is genuine or arranging a meet... For anything else, please watch free porn

Hardsport 
Watersport
Rimming
Cross-dressing
Food sex

Each to their own
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Cheap tacky uniforms - nurses, schoolgirls, policewomen etc. I specifically mean the ones that you buy in Anne summers etc. I don’t get how anyone finds those outfits arousing

Thank god - not just me. Decent uniforms, yes, but these monstrosities, oh god no.
Also "naughty nuns" - ok, I suppose the occasional catholic punter taught by nuns may harbour fantasies of a revenge fuck, but nope, don't really get it.
Oh yeah, and "cat" outfits.

Offline MJ.spritzen

Feet

I mean, they're just feet! What's the turn on?



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Offline purple_t

There are lots of fetishes that aren't for me but I get why other people might be into them. But one I really can't get my head around is fetishism for leather, rubber, latex etc. It's a big thing in the BDSM world but I don't understand how a certain type of material turns people on

Offline purple_t

Feet

I mean, they're just feet! What's the turn on?



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It's something you either get or you don't. I have a major foot fetish, but it's not like any pair of feet will do, they have to be petite, clean, well-maintained

Offline Thecunninglinguist

Necrophilia
I agree. I used to be into necrophilia, beastiality and flagilation, until l realised l was flogging a dead horse!


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Offline Blackpool Rock

Roms.  Very similar.
Not really as dead bodies don't stop you touching or try to hurry you up plus they don't ask for extras on everything  :hi:

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Not really as dead bodies don't stop you touching or try to hurry you up plus they don't ask for extras on everything  :hi:

True, but they do lie very still, smell funny and often leak stuff.

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Feet

I mean, they're just feet! What's the turn on?



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For me the shape. Can't beat a good foot wank.

Offline Doombar

I used to be very vanilla in civvie life and never tried fetishes until I started punting.

I have now tried many fetishes (anal, DP, pissing in mouth, DT to puke, spanking, flogging, caning, nipple torture, electro, etc).  ALL were taught to me by WGs who enjoy them and asked me to do them.  Having the right teacher makes all the difference (eg. Lindsey!).  Also it takes time to feel comfortable with new things so don't be put off after first attempt.  I defo wouldn't try HS or Trans though.  :hi:

Offline emkay

Girl on girl in threesomes.

If there are two girls in the room I want all their attention on me.

Offline TPreston

Financial domination seems like a complete nonsence (I can get most other fetishes that there maybe some kind of sexual pleasure derived from them) but to give cash away and get nothing in return ? If some have so much money they would get greater feelgood by giving it to a charity.

I'm of the opinion that partakers in this fetish from 'our side' are rare as rocking horse shit.

Odd examples here and there and the barking about it online doesn't match the bite. All the girls who claim to be master findoms also meet for P4P and camgirl more often than not - if they where making that much of a killing giving some lad shit over text would they really need to be spending 30 hours a week jiggling at a webcam  or meeting lads for a few readies in a hotel.

On SA where it'll be as good a place as any to meet someone like this, the findomme profiles dont last a month - they realise they're wasting their time with masterbaters that wont send them fuck all. The same with girls seeking platonic relationships, profiles last a fortnight or so. the market isn't there.

There will be isolated examples and odd lads who'll send £20 or a takeaway for attention off a fitty, but no serious wedge IMO

Offline munterhunter

I have to say I find the idea of hardsports revolting. A mate and his wife are heavily into the BDSM scene and I went with them a few times to Birmingham Bizzarre a fetish event held monthly in a nightclub in Chinatown. I watched a demo of needle and knife play.
A woman in her 30's sat while a guy used a small surgical stapler to fix a thin black ribbon to her upper arm like lacing a boot or a corset and finished it off by tying the ends into a bow.
He then put 4 hypodermic needles in the upper area of each of her boobs one above the other. There was no blood I didn't find watching either gross or particularly erotic but the woman sat quietly with an almost serene expression on her face!

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Chat only for cash. Webcam I understand, I can understand why someone would use a phone chat line if it was the 90s and they were a teenage boy or if they are in the honeymoon stage of a new relationship, but who does phone sex anymore?

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Offline AgedCases

Men who like to lay on roads and have women drive over them. Fuck knows how that's a turn-on.

Offline Blackpool Rock

Men who like to lay on roads and have women drive over them. Fuck knows how that's a turn-on.
WTF  :wacko: That's a new one on me  :unknown:

Offline Drayki

Has to be hard sports,  :vomit: and anything to do with feet,   :scare:

Offline anyfucker

Period Play
I do not get it in the sense that I do not know what it means, and I like the idea as breaking an old taboo of not touching a lady while she is menstruating. But what do you actually do?  anything you want to do

What do you put over the bedclothes?   a towel surprisingly
I assume you will not do oral.   you assume too much
But if you did oral there will be no kissing afterwards! (not suitable for vegetarians).   of course there is kissing
And would she do oral on you after you pull out?   why not, it would be rude not to
If you do fingering or real live orgasms you will need a shower (understatement).   of course and you can fuck in the shower
Do you need a condom?   no as i only do this with a long term partner not a WG

Has anyone done it - if so please share man or woman.
Thanks
see above
I don't like feet, watersports or hardsports
« Last Edit: February 22, 2018, 04:59:47 pm by anyfucker »

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I don't offer period play as a service, but I do sometimes Indulge with my OH.

It's not for the act itself, blood does nothing for either of us and he's actually a little bit squeamish of period blood getting on bedding etc.

But some women, myself included, get an amazing surge of hormones at that time of the month. Inhibitions are lowered, I can't keep my hands off him and the orgasms are a lot more intense. It's like being a teenager again!

There's also physical changes to the vulva and vagina, muscles are contracting and spasming (which is also what causes period pain) which makes the area more sensitive and everything feels more intense. I'm also told that I feel warmer and tighter.

 :hi:

Xx


I had two previous girlfriends who were the same. They had seriously increased sexual drive especially nearing the end of their period.
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Offline Brokenshed

It may not be a fetish, but what's the point of an overnight booking?
They limit the sex and want to sleep for most of the booking

Offline rockstar

I know it's not a fetish as such, and a lot of guys insist upon it, but I just don't get the appeal of anal. Looks great from certain angles in porn films but vastly overrated in reality, IMHO. I daresay I'm in a minority. Saves me about £40 a punt, though.
totally agree. Never understood why so many guys wanna shag birds up the arse when there is a lovely juicy pussy there crying out for attention.

Offline TPreston

It may not be a fetish, but what's the point of an overnight booking?
They limit the sex and want to sleep for most of the booking

Waking up to your cock being sucked is pretty nice

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totally agree. Never understood why so many guys wanna shag birds up the arse when there is a lovely juicy pussy there crying out for attention.
It's like saying why would anyone want their cock sucked when they can have a handjob?

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Smoke fetish. Don't have a clue why I have it, but would be fucking loaded if I hadn't spent thousands over the years getting my fix of it.

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Smoke fetish. Don't have a clue why I have it, but would be fucking loaded if I hadn't spent thousands over the years getting my fix of it.
I've not had a smokey Blowie. I have heard it feels different though.

Offline Colston36

I don't offer period play as a service, but I do sometimes Indulge with my OH.

It's not for the act itself, blood does nothing for either of us and he's actually a little bit squeamish of period blood getting on bedding etc.

But some women, myself included, get an amazing surge of hormones at that time of the month. Inhibitions are lowered, I can't keep my hands off him and the orgasms are a lot more intense. It's like being a teenager again!

There's also physical changes to the vulva and vagina, muscles are contracting and spasming (which is also what causes period pain) which makes the area more sensitive and everything feels more intense. I'm also told that I feel warmer and tighter.

 :hi:

Xx

I've just been asked by a lady if I fancy period play. I shall oblige, though it's not my thing. Reading though all the other comments I really don't understand fin dom, balloon bursting, being an adult baby and vomit - but each to his own. I'm quite shocked at some of the censorious attitudes here.

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I've just been asked by a lady if I fancy period play. I shall oblige, though it's not my thing. Reading though all the other comments I really don't understand fin dom, balloon bursting, being an adult baby and vomit - but each to his own. I'm quite shocked at some of the censorious attitudes here.

WTF is balloon bursting  :unknown:
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It may not be a fetish, but what's the point of an overnight booking?

Everyone has a reason for it, not all just sex you know.

Personally I prefer an overday as I go all day and night  :yahoo:

Offline Deeeazy

Hard sports, pain, tourture, puke and feet !  How is shitting or hurting someone or being kicked in the nuts erotic ? Maybe a connection with insecurity !?!?

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Hard sports, pain, tourture, puke and feet !  How is shitting or hurting someone or being kicked in the nuts erotic ? Maybe a connection with insecurity !?!?
I don't get men that want pins stuck in their scrotum or stamping with high heels. I don't no about insecurity, I think it takes a lot of balls (pun intended) to even wear a chastity belt, it must come from some childhood experience as well as being submissive. Personally, I like being scratched, bitten and held tightly; nothing more than that really.

Offline dkn

There are lots of fetishes that aren't for me but I get why other people might be into them. But one I really can't get my head around is fetishism for leather, rubber, latex etc. It's a big thing in the BDSM world but I don't understand how a certain type of material turns people on
And there you've hit on one of my major fetishes.  Any naked woman is a disappointment for me.  It's all about tight, shiny clothing, especially leotards, swimsuits, PVC and leather.

See, that's what makes us all special - we're all unaccountably different...

Offline redtill

tried it & didn't get it....tied up or blindfolded  :unknown:
wouldn't consider these fetishs but love a nice pair of sexy
feet & rimming a nice pert firm ass :hi:

Offline MrPunt101

I just to get or find anything to do with financial domination any kind of pleasure at all.... :unknown:

It's very odd, maybe the individual giving away money feels so worthless that having any attention from a half decent looking girl is by giving away money,   :P

The thing that baffles me is that some girls that do it are not that good looking to start with and just come across as self centred, insecure spoilt arseholes, and little girls that think it's just very easy money.  :wacko:

I remember seeing a program on Channel 4 a while ago called rinsing, showcasing this fetish, where men pay for gifts, outfits, nights out etc in return for absolutely nothing... I simply just don't get it and actually quite annoyed that this fetish exists.

It's praying on the weakest and stupidist in society that give away their money to girls that have no shame, concern or conscience.  :thumbsdown:

It's a little bit like cuckolding where the man gets no sex and allows the partner to have many as she wants, essentially she gets everything and the cuckold gets what she gives him... however I have a bit more understanding as you do get something in return and their is something hot about this fetish / fantasy, but the financial domination is just a complete turn off.

A couple others I can't get my head round is:-
being locked in a cage sometimes overnight
pretending to be a pony or animal
being ignored,
forced intoxication,
being in a position to be blackmailed "Utterly Moronic in my opinion".
Vomit  :vomit:
Period Play  :scare:
Extreme Degradation & Humiliation  :timeout:

To me financial domination, blackmail and some others I mentioned above just feels like another way for girls of today "snow flakes and Millennials"  to do the absolute minimum without any skill, talent or effort and then expect as much as they can get out of them, all of this done with an attitude problem from little madam ! :manhater:

Let's get rid of this fetish, shouldn't even be one... :wacko:
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