If I mentioned why it never happened the first time then anyone who saw her that day would be able to tell who it is and that's not fair since she's not here to defend herself. You act like I purposely set out for that to happen. I don't just pay and mindlessly grope, I let the girl instigate things. Just in this case things never got instigated. You think that doesn't embarrass me enough without your input?
This is barking mad, fella.
Either you were REALLY unclear that you wanted her to instigate or she robbed you. Not once. Not twice. But "four or five" times.
Name the lassie, other punters need to know that they either need to be very specific in their requirements or that she is a multiple, manipulative thief.