Author Topic: Having sex with a non WG for money  (Read 1306 times)

Offline titton

I know this is similar to a thread further down and my apologies to that OP for stealing your thunder but I wanted to start a fresh topic so it didn't get lost. I am still buzzing about this and wanted to share it with you guys.

I had a crush on a girl who lived near to me for years. I first saw her many years ago walking past my house when she was about 16 years old with her friend in her school uniform with those bloody "over the knee" socks that have always driven me mad.

Is that just me, by the way? Girls in short skirts with those socks on. I always ensure that I don't get caught looking at other girls when I am out with my missus but these things are the exception to the rule. They are so sexy. I cover my arse by telling her how sexy she would look in them.

Anyway, this girl (we will call her Nicky) who was about 10 years younger than me used to walk by my house and I would try to catch a glimpse if she did. We got to the point where I would say "hello" to her as she would smile shyly back. As time went on and she finished school and started college. We were on chatting terms and i got to know her a little better. She told me that her sister who was also really pretty and cute, didn't like me for some reason. I would always say "hello" to her but she ignored me. She probably had me down as an old letch. Nicky would go out with and then fall out with boyfriends as happens at that age and she would tell me her troubles if we saw each other. One time when she was about 18 or 19 years old, I was in my local pub and she came in with her boyfriend and some of their mates. She looked delicious. I got chatting with her and her friends. When Nicky went to the bar these guys started to tease Nicky's boyfriend, saying that he couldn't keep up with Nicky in bed. He admitted that she was insatiable and just loved sex. He told of her extreme talent with blow jobs and that she would edge him up the the brink for ages, deepthroating and sucking until finally let him explode in her mouth and that she kept gently sucking for another minute to maximise the post cum feelings that so few girls do. They shut up when she came back from the bar but this information was such a turn on to me. The wanks I had about it over the years.
The years went by, my professional career took off and I met someone, rented out my house, moved away from the area and got married. Nicky went on to have 3 kids and also moved away although her parents lived close by.
Fast forward 13 years and I find myself getting divorced from my wife. The day of the final court hearing and I am walking around in the town centre, half relieved the horrid process was over and half shell shocked by the amount of money i had to pay to the ex. Walking around town and who do I bump into having not seen her for probably 4 years? She looked a little tired and run down but still good looking.  We got chatting and it turns out that has just split from her partner and she is moving into a little house back near her parents house. I was moving back into my old house so we were going to be neighbours again.  We swapped numbers and started texting.
Over the next few weeks she would tell me that she was struggling for money as a single Mum. After a few days of these types of conversation I "joked" that I would pay her for services rendered and she joked back that it sounded like a good idea. About a week later and I came home after a few scoops with the boys and Nicky sent a text to say that she was upset because she had asked her Dad for some money for something (decorating I think) and he had said "no". With a bit of Tetleys courage I decided to text her something along the lines of "Can I suggest something without you being offended that may help you out in the short term?".
The response seemed to take an eternity to come back and I worried that she had taken offence. The text come back saying that she wasn't easily offended and what was my idea. I told her that if she wanted, we could make the joke come true and I could, in return give her money. I said that I wasn't getting any and she wasn't getting any and would be our secret" To my amazement and delight she agreed. This was the first time in all the time I had known her that we talked about sex. This opened the food gates for texts back and forth for the rest of the night which was such a turn on. I suggested going around that night but she couldn't because her kids were there bit that we would sort something out in the next few days. I was actually going to fuck Nicky who I had quietly fancied all these years!
For the next frustrating 2 years she dithered, changed her mind, changed it back again and told me she would feel like a whore if we did it for money. I suggested being fuck buddies and that I would pick up bills for her rather than pay her piece meal so she did't feel like that. This was agreed on and then her bottle went again. This went on and on with her bottling out and changing her mind. In the mean time I was helping her out with bits of money that she needed here and there as a mate but with nothing coming back.
Anyway, last week my current girlfriend was away at a meeting over night so I texted Nicky (we keep in touch) and suggested meeting for a coffee in town during the day for a catch up. This we did and had a good old natter whereupon I said I would give her a lift home. She invited me in for a brew, which wasn't uncommon and we sat chatting. As the conversation went on she sidled up to me and I put my arm around her as we spoke. A few minutes later she turned to me and started kissing me. She worked her way down my body, undid my jeans and proceed to blow me with skill and passion, looking up at me now and then and smiling.
Now the sight of Nicky who I still fancied like mad with her mouth around my cock was so horny that i felt sure that I would cum in no time at all but, true to the comments of her boyfriend from all those years earlier, her ability to bring me to edge and know when to slow right down was incredible. After about 15 minutes of this i could take no more and I shot down her throat and she swallowed the lot, all the time looking at me and keeping going more gently for some time after I had cum. Then she got back on the sofa and cuddled up again. Amazing.
Although I can normally only cum once I thought I may as well make hay whilst the sun shines and suggested going up to her bedroom for a long, long awaited shag but she declined saying that we will do that next time. She told me that she would kill me of I offered her any money. lol.
I came back home to where I now live with my girlfriend with the most stupid smile on my face all the way here which is still evident as I type this.
So did I pay her for a blow job? Sort of though not as a linear transaction. Would she have sucked me off without the financial assistance? Well she did say she fancied me anyway. My buzz doesn't come from paying her but from finally having a girl that I have fantasised about for many years, who is now a mate finally do what i have dreamed of her doing so many times in the past.

There have been other girls that I have known in the past such as Uni students working behind the bar at my old local pub. Some of them have complained about money, or the lack of it and I have considered whether to make them an offer but usually thought better of it for fear of it resulting in a feminist outburst. I did, once offer a very cute young girl working behind the bar at a different watering hole, who I had got to know and who was complaining that she had lots of uni work to do and didn't have time to be at work but that she desperately needed the money. I suggested that I could book a hotel room and she could come for dinner with me and spend the night with me and i would give her the equivalent of a 2 weeks wages for her part time job. I said it with a bit of "joke spin" on the white ball so as not to snooker myself if it went wrong. She laughed about it but didn't take me up.
The next time I went in this pub I discovered that she had told some of the other female staff what I had said and they were horrified with me which they expressed at the top of their voices. The landlord had also been informed and had a word with me about it and told me not to offer his staff money for sex or I would be barred. When I next saw the girl herself SHE apologised to ME and said that she hadn't complained and was actually quite flattered. She had just told someone and word had got around. That was the end of that, though.

I have had female friends at university, colleagues I have, and still do work with, friends and work mates of ex girlfriends and ex wife, and staff of (and current), Mums or older sisters of friends of our kids who I would love to have shagged and would happily have handed over money to in exchange, especially when I knew they were struggling financially. Maybe they would have gone for it? They are only human, they need cash and have an asset to get it, just like working girls on all websites who have either chosen this career as their job, have found themselves needing cash and have had the bottle to sell themselves or the very small few girls that do it for the sex and the money is a bonus.

I sometimes look at AW or agency sites that I have used over the years and there are hundreds of girls to choose from but because I know I can have them if I pay the fee, they don't appeal quite as much as many of the girls on "Plenty of Fish"....because you can't just have them. Or can you?? Has anyone successfully offered a girl money on POF or any other dating site without meeting her and got a result? 

Anyway, gentlemen it's nearly 5am and I should go to bed as i working again soon. I just wanted to share that story with you all as it is one that still needs me to finish what I started with Nicky, although looking at the data it could be another 5 years before that happens.

Titton



Offline Terryray

weve all been there in various guises, just keep hoping

Offline ProtocolDroid

It's hard enough to judge people's relations when you know them, let alone when you've never met them. That said, my take on this is that you could have had sex with the Nicky girl a long time ago if you hadn't brought up payment. Sounds as though she was kind of into you already, and in the situation she and you were in when you met her after such a long time anything could have happened if you'd played your cards right. Your reframing that situation in prostitute-client terms ruined it.

With the bar girl I think you made the same mistake. Yes, quite a few women are on AW or on  SA. Some women on POF can be persuaded to have sex for money as well, as may certain others. The majority, though, see their future as being with someone in a normal relationship, and prostitution is an unlikely start of a normal relationship. Don't let the time you spend on here, AW or with escorts convince you otherwise.
« Last Edit: April 29, 2016, 02:02:39 pm by ProtocolDroid »

Offline OakTree

Personally I would never approach the subject of paying for sex with a non working girl. The vast majority of women find the idea of paying for sex as abhorrent.

I don't quite know what your motive for posting this story is. It serves no purpose and I suspect is attention seeking.

flyboy1990

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I think you're playing with fire even considering paying a non working girl for sex.

It seems like the scenario you posted was very VERY coincidental and 99 times out of 100 wouldn't have ended in sex/BJ. As has already previously been stated it seems this girl was already into you and you are using the money thing as a way to justify this tale....

Plus for me the whole idea of a working girl is that if we're all honest, no effect to get our ends away... that who scenario sounds like too much like hard work. Clearly you're willing to drop the cash so why bother with the effort?