I usually dont read let alone reply to such blatantly 'sour grapes '/ bitter remarks on the rare occasion they arise as were there a genuine complaint from a decent guy all he'd have to do is inform me and I'd do all I could to compensate but what we have here is a transparent attempt to harm my reputation by an arrogant disrespectful and narcissistic little man who didn't like not being able to manipulate and intimidate the girl he was paying and who he had the misconception that in doing so he was entitled to treat as he wanted and clearly didn't like being told he couldn't!
I'd like to begin by stating that despite his school boy attempts at insulting me ( I mean come on, could those remarks been anymore juvenile....."looks older,bad teeth,fishy lady bits.."!! It's the equivalent of a scorned teen circulating a rumour of a girl being spotty smelly n frigid to the school!!! )Whilst I've no doubt there will be those gullible enough to have bought it and believed the couple of neg reviews over the 100+ good 1s on aw (& bare in mind it's human nature that it's predominantly the times were not totally happy that we make the effort to go write a review-I'm guilty of this myself having only ever left 1review on just eat& that was the time I'd argued with the guy on the phone after calling to state my order was wrong n he'd had a bad attitude! I'd never left a review of the dozens of good-excellent meals I'd had from places on there!! )
I've never really put much effort into obtaining positive reviews online (I receive frequent texts after meets to thank me personally and there by making me feel secure in the knowledge my clients are in the majority of cases v happy with my service)although when someone makes an effort to leave one they are greatly appreciated. With 3 exceptions I've never actually asked a client to leave me a review and the 1s I have are when he's done so off his own volition and not at my coercion! Testament to this is the fact my rating number is higher than it states as if I've forgotten to mark the booking as confirmed after he leaves and he goes to leave a rating it only classes it as 'feedback only 'and doesn't contribute to my number! Were my ratings "a joke "& as he's implying somehow not genuine why would I go to the effort of making up or asking for a positive review that wasn't earned &then not bother to mark it as 'confirmed 'and have it classed as a positive rating???!!! Also as the majority of my bookings are reg clients and I think it's better to not have a dozen reviews from a handful of names the majority of my feedback comes from clients who've either left me my 1st rating or possibly a 2nd( think a couple of reviews from same person are fine especially over time as it shows he's still seeing me mths/yrs on!). Also worth noting is the fact that many of the clients leaving fb have numerous ratings themselves so isn't a though I've just fabricated members myself and used those accs to leave reviews (as I'm told some people do!)! With all that in mind which,upon evaluation, is the most likely to be true..... the few meg reviews or the 100+ glowing 1s( all of which seem to say similar things)????!!!! It doesn't take Sherlock Holmes to deduce there maybe more involved here than a gen review intended to prevent other guys being misled by a fictitious profile with no insidious bitter motives at heart as this guy is claiming!!!
Having said all that,and in the interest of full disclosure,for reasons I shall explain in a mo last year ,particularly the 1st half, wasn't my best year and I must admit to being far from my usual self!! I'd found out I'd had lymphoma/lymph node cancer and after taking the 1st few mths of 2016 off to have treatment and cpl of surgeries I'd returned to work in April! Now for all the plus points to this profession sick pay isn't one of them and whilst I was in remission and 100x better than I had been in hindsight I could have done with another mth or so building myself back up! Although I felt much better and was happy to be getting back to work I must confess to being somewhat skinnier than norm and was still getting tired easily and had a weak immune system! I would make a point of explaining to new clients I'd been a bit poorly end of last yr and despite being fine now was just struggling to regain some weight. I'd also say that due to a recent biopsy I still had a tiny dressing on side of boob so had been keeping my bra on! It was actually a lump removal which had then left a v sensitive scar but decided biopsy was less of a turn off mdidn't require going into details & killing the mood!!! 99% of my clients were fine with this and understood that ultimately escorts are humans too and are susceptible to all the ups and downs everyone else is!!!
In an ideal world we'd all the able to take indefinite paid sick leave at the first sign of sickness be it a big 1 or a minor cold or flu bug but unfortunately life isn't like that!!! Can you say that there's never been a time where although not 100% fighting fit you've still needed to carry on and try to make it go as unnoticed as possible?!! I felt fine but did get tired easily& rather than whipping off the bra to reveal either a v visible fresh scar(which I found v uncomfortable to have touched at the time) or a NHS dressing-a sure fire mood killer- i opted to just keep my bra on&pull it to side lol!!
As an ex smoker (&still indulge on the odd occasion as stated on my profile)& a frequent costa patron my teeth aren't as pearly white as I'd like but are other wise clean& in good condition......straight and all present n correct lol !! Regards the
"circles under eyes" I was undoubtedly easily tired more than norm bk then however given sufficient notice to prepare for booking (which wld consist of the 45 min prior to booking time at which I'd requested he text to confirm he was still coming there by giving me enough time to take a quick bath& made up as I do prior to every booking once it's been confirmed as don't like to get ready til I know I've definite plans-however this chap decided not to text to confirm as arranged and instead text me as on my st!!!! This then meant a frantic dash about trying to quickly get showered& ready as he rudely waited on my st with engine running!!! This should have been a major red flag and one I'd usually have detected as indicating his true nature but as I say I was somewhat off my game and attributed his manner to being nervous rather than being a nob head!!! Instead of having time to get properly made up (&apply a little under eye concealer.....something any woman over 25 will tell you covers all traces of lack of sleep,whatever the reason causing tell tale give away lol) but given 10 min notice I was certainly not as prepared as I'd have liked and certainly pretty flustered (as I freely admit although fairly bright and educated I'm undeniably scatty lol!!! This is just me but doesn't work well with receiving unexpected visitors and why I ask for booking to be confirmed 45min before.
(Incidentally this was also the reason for the guy who says he waited 90mins. I think that's the guy I'm thinking of as can't think of anyone else who I've kept waiting 90min and that was due to him not confirming and me taking another booking believing he wasn't coming! As I received the 2nd guys text to say he was 5min away I could hardly tell him I was busy after all when he'd done exactly as asked so I'd said to the 1st guy I'd be 50-60min. As it transpired the booking was for hr not 30min so by time I'd got quick shower it was 90min. This isn't something I usually do as particularly with it being my house not a rented work flat I've been careful to keep things discreet. Making a habit of expecting clients to wait around would not be v discreet!
Back to the 1st review....Above all else and one thing that confirms without question to me this guy is simply trying to damage my reputation for "I'll teach her...." motives( but by the fact it's well over a year since this review was posted I'm only just reading it clearly didn't work!!Now had I experienced a drop in clientele I'd have set out to find out why and become aware of this!) I remember every client I've met up with but a few for all the wrong reasons-this guy I remember well because he was such a toss pot ( excuse my language but no other description quiet covers it!!). Regards the "soso bj" this I make no apologies for!! On my profile I clearly state that the only prerequisite for a booking are that he's clean,respectful &looking to hit it off and have fun! If this Is the case and he's.clean and respectful I'll do my upmost to ensure he's completely satisfied with are meet. I really do want my clients to not just have an ok time but want them to have a great time and I'm happy to put the extra effort into ensuring this!He should feel it was money well spent not just adequate for the fee' However if a guy is rude,disrespect,objectionable or aggressive I'll either refund his money straight away and tell him to leave,just tell him to leave or complete the booking but providing no more or no less than that contracted by what's outlined on my profile and the verbal agreement inferred by him requesting a booking&what we discuss prior to the meet. If I'm being treated disrespectfully and shown no regards for my feelings or working conditions then in my opinion I'm no longer obliged and certainly not inclined to do all I can to ensure he has the best time possible!!
This man was not a nice guy! Whilst not aggressive or so instantly objectionable upon arrival that I could warrant cancelling the booking,and still had hope that his initial aloofness was just nerves as is often the case,and by the time I'd realised his true arrogant disrespectful superiority complex and delusional beliefs that I was inferior to him as an escort things had gone too far to simply refund and conclude the booking but neither had it been of a nature which I could have ethically just told him to leave without a refund (as I would feel morally permitted to do were he aggressive or similar)so I finished the meet but providing only that which I was obligated to. I felt (&still feel) justified in not going out of my way to put extra effort into ensuring he was happy with everything! He showed no regard or interest in my experience of the encounter...at worst he was aiming to make me feel inferior to him and at best had no desire to make me not dislike every moment of it never mind actually enjoy the liaison!!!
He couldn't even show such basic levels of respect and consideration as to ensure he was clean for the meet?!! It's very telling when a man feels it's acceptable to arrive at a booking of this nature not just not fresh but actually dirty and smelly and even after politely offering the opportunity to freshen up I had to actually use an extra strength Durex for the o (something I never usually do but the idea of ow was simply out if the question!!)!
In conclusion whilst I admit to being off my game at the time of this booking and at a couple of points last year ( I actually took some further time off and when I did return limited my bookings to predominantly reg clients who were aware of my personal circumstances and still were happy to continue seeing me feeling that even though not my usual self the service I provided was still well worth the fee! )
If you require further proof of this guys narcissistic personality then surely his condemnation of my remark about recently having a biopsy must be proof of it?!!! Most people would have shown basic human decency upon hearing such a thing and perhaps offered a token "hope everything was ok?" in response but this guy tries to use it as justification for damaging my professional reputation and income for actually making him aware that escorts and sex workers are actually people too not just objects at his disposal!!! Further more to try and claim that he was unreasonably left feeling he'd took advantage was further proof of his attitude as by claiming I was a drug addict enabled him to account for this feeling whilst not attributing it to any fault in his attitude but to me not being a normal nice genuine girl/lady who had always offered a great service to nice guys looking for mutual fun eith respectful attitudes ! A lady who had had some previous personal probs and was just getting back to normal! To see me in this true light forced him to see me as a person and not an object he could treat with such blatant disregard and thought! Much easier to depict me as a drug addict who'd duped him in some way and left him the aggrieved party!!!
I've always viewed this job in a v positive light aa long as you stick to a few guidelines. 1is to not put the money on offer above the type of client requesting the booking and if it's clear whilst corresponding with someone they're not a nice friendly respectful guy after some discreet fun then no matter how much money is on offer turn it down. 2 only ever work when single as you aren't likely to enjoy the job if you've got a guy at home you'd rather be in bed with 3) don't take on too many bookings a day as if you're overbooked not only does it become less enjoyable but ultimately the clients will see you're rushing and not a relaxed and enjoying the meet as usual 4)don't ever do anything you're not comfortable doing or let someone persuade you into something you've previously said no to 5)if/when the day comes where you aren't enjoying the majority of bookings it's time to hang up your stockings and pack it in-either for a break or for good
Im usually pretty good at being able to separate the nice guys from the nobs prior to actually meeting up but there have been some exceptions that have slipped through the net and I'm attributing the general being off my game as to why I'd not seen this guy for what he was sooner! As most of my bookings are with reg clients via my mob this last cpl years (& particularly last year with having extended periods of time off and then later just popping back to Liverpool every couple of wks for a few days or so) I've actually logged into aw v little as when home my time was booked up with my regular clientele as i always show loyalty to them by giving priority access to my time and doing my upmost to be available at a time to suit them. As such I've noticed no detectable affects of this nasty little mans attempts at retribution although I'm sure there must have been those lacking the common sense and intuition to be able to see this review for what it really is but anyone with a fully functioning bull shit detector is unlikely to have been fooled!! I only learnt of it after hearing a couple of new clients mention reading about me on the mccoys guide and curiosity got the better of me and i had a look. It was there I learnt of the 1neg review on this site and decided to have a look!
So there you have it, the full truth warts n all ( that's just a saying there aren't really any warts involved hahaha!!)! If you're still undecided then read my aw ratings for yourself and see what I'm talking bout( I'd have to be really really really shit to have to go to such lengths as to setting up the 100s of accounts in both male abs female names- to be able to fake the 100 ratings many of which from guys with dozens n dozens of their own ratings from ladies!!! If you're still unsure of the authenticity of the authors click on their ratings number and see if the ladies who've left them are genuine profiles!!! It doesn't take much digging to be able to determine they are genuine accounts from satisfied clients! As I've only recently started going back on aw since losing my mob a few wks ago along with all my contacts I've not really seen many new clients past 10mths (and to give you an idea I'd say maybe only 3-5% of new clients actually leave fb)so only the occasional review is from past yr but that is testament to the fact most of my bookings are with long term reg clients who keep seeing me there by meaning I've not needed to be on aw to make bookings. Whilst I'm not perfect and have my flaws o am certainly nothing like what this guy has tried to deceive people into believing I am. Why someone would think that a couple of neg comments must be true and yet the 100+ good 1s have to be false is beyond me but you can deduce what is fact and what's fiction. Just rely upom those 'little grey cells' to Poirot it out for yourself lol!! Don't be a fool by listening to this tool 😂😘
There, I've said my peace and can now forget this sad little mans attempt to cause further neg circumstances than the 1s he himself admitted to being aware of! Whilst those circumstances weren't the result of being sone kind of junkie but an unfortunate health prob that anyone could unexpectedly have to deal with as best they could! In 99% of bookings there was neither any feelings of anyone being taken advantage of now or then and it was easy to see I enjoyed& was more than happy to see them. Only by treating me so disrespectfully should any guy ever leave feeling that way!!!
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