AdultWork Reverse Booking Etiquette???

[geetee1966]

Hi all,

Apologies if this has been covered somewhere before, I did search but couldn't find a specific answer.

I have used the RB facility on AW for an Outcall in a months time and in 24 hours have received about 19 bids. Including quite a surprise from one well known / reviewed lady who bid a hundred pounds lower than the rate shown on her profile!!!

I am yet to make up my mind and still have plenty of time but was just wondering if it is courteous to reply to each of the girls who have taken the time to submit bids or just accept the one I want and don't reply  / delete the others?

Any thoughts? What do you guys generally do?

Cheers.

[OakTree]

Hi all,

Apologies if this has been covered somewhere before, I did search but couldn't find a specific answer.

I have used the RB facility on AW for an Outcall in a months time and in 24 hours have received about 19 bids. Including quite a surprise from one well known / reviewed lady who bid a hundred pounds lower than the rate shown on her profile!!!

I am yet to make up my mind and still have plenty of time but was just wondering if it is courteous to reply to each of the girls who have taken the time to submit bids or just accept the one I want and don't reply  / delete the others?

Any thoughts? What do you guys generally do?

Cheers.

I never do. I just deal with the one who's bid I accept.

Once you accept a bid it closes off the RB and I assume they're made aware of that.

[Spunky34]

I use them a lot, with some very good results (some less so, but let's be positive).  How I treat the bids is very simple:

1) if I am not interested and would never be interested (ie just don't find the profile attractive), I just delete the bid, no message back
2) if I like the profile I will message them fairly quickly.  Sometimes they bid with a message which encourages you to email back, sometimes they say nothing.  The object of my email is to try to make sure that they have read my reverse booking and are happy with what I am after, and also to perhaps start a short exchange of messages so that I get a feeling for whether they are friendly, genuine etc.  I make sure to give them a broad view of when I will be making a decision on the booking. Basically it is a holding message to say 'I am interested but I still want to leave it a while before I make a final decision).

I have found this seems to create a good impression and lots of the girls who receive the holding message will bid on future bookings.  Hence why I only message people who give me a positive first impression.

If I can give one piece of advice - just pick the person you like best.  Don't automatically go for the girl who has reduced her rates the most.  I find they are the ones more likely to cancel close to the time. 

Whatever you decide, I hope you have a good time.  RBs are a mixed bag but i still like using them.

Edit:  should also say that a quick message turning down anyone who you don't choose but would really like to see another time seems to go down well in terms of future bids or offers to honour their bid another time.  Basically, be polite to the ones you like.

[Turtle Z]

What normally happens is this...

Try to post at least a week ahead of your required booking and state your very specific requirements, which might be:

Female
Age: 20-30
Height: 5'5" or above
Slim to medium build.
Large natural tits, preferably D cup or above
Area; West midlands
Date & time: ?

The etiquette is that you'll then receive numerous replies from fat over 50 short arses with 'A' cup tits or breast implants all wondering if you might 'consider' them for the booking.

[RedKettle]

I use them a lot, with some very good results (some less so, but let's be positive).  How I treat the bids is very simple:

1) if I am not interested and would never be interested (ie just don't find the profile attractive), I just delete the bid, no message back
2) if I like the profile I will message them fairly quickly.  Sometimes they bid with a message which encourages you to email back, sometimes they say nothing.  The object of my email is to try to make sure that they have read my reverse booking and are happy with what I am after, and also to perhaps start a short exchange of messages so that I get a feeling for whether they are friendly, genuine etc.  I make sure to give them a broad view of when I will be making a decision on the booking. Basically it is a holding message to say 'I am interested but I still want to leave it a while before I make a final decision).

I agree with this - would just add that I always HL any that I think are worthwhile so that I can consider them on another occasion.  Like the above I just bin the ones I do not fancy or who bid way more than I said.

I would also be wary of accepting a bid from a girl well out of the area of the meet - in my experience they are likely to cancel as on the day cannot be arsed to travel to you, or rather a relative will have died or some such crap.

[RedKettle]

What normally happens is this...

Try to post at least a week ahead of your required booking and state your very specific requirements, which might be:

Female
Age: 20-30
Height: 5'5" or above
Slim to medium build.
Large natural tits, preferably D cup or above
Area; West midlands
Date & time: ?

The etiquette is that you'll then receive numerous replies from fat over 50 short arses with 'A' cup tits or breast implants all wondering if you might 'consider' them for the booking.

Yes this is often the case - although the last one I did I had loads of bids and everyone was shaggable! That is however very rare.

[OakTree]

I usually make an RB for about three days ahead. Most girls know if they're available or not so you mainly get those who are, bidding.

I'm quite specific in what I want and I usually have a target of type of women I'm after. I'm mainly going for WGs that are in the £160 plus range so I'll put a bid up that they might go for.

If you ask for £80  or less an hour, most half decent WGs aren't going to go for it apart from mainly undesirables.

Yeah sure I get some chancers but on the whole I end up with what I want.

Remember you can edit it so if you're getting nothing but shit you might have to up it a bit.

[Moresomes]

The etiquette is that you'll then receive numerous replies from fat over 50 short arses with 'A' cup tits or breast implants all wondering if you might 'consider' them for the booking.

And don,t forget that fuckin tranny from Leeds. 

[rumbler]

Yes this is often the case - although the last one I did I had loads of bids and everyone was shaggable! That is however very rare.

Judging by the amount of dross I get on mine each time that sounds rarer than winning the lottery!

[Spunky34]

Remember you can edit it so if you're getting nothing but shit you might have to up it a bit.

I thought once you had received a bid you could no longer edit it, even if you delete all bids.  I always get a message in red saying 'you cannot edit this booking now that a member has expressed an interest in it'.

If I am missing something, I would love to know how to edit it once someone has replied.

[Spunky34]

And don,t forget that fuckin tranny from Leeds. 

I must be doing something wrong, I haven't had a bid off that one in a while...

[OakTree]

I thought once you had received a bid you could no longer edit it, even if you delete all bids.  I always get a message in red saying 'you cannot edit this booking now that a member has expressed an interest in it'.

If I am missing something, I would love to know how to edit it once someone has replied.

I edited the last one I did and I'm sure someone had already bid. Saying that I only edited my requirements not the price.

[Spunky34]

I edited the last one I did and I'm sure someone had already bid. Saying that I only edited my requirements not the price.

Not sure I have ever been successful with that.  I only ever want to edit the requirements box too.  Maybe it has changed since I last tried.  I'll give it a go next time.  Thank you.

[latecomer]

I've tried RBs two or three times but didn't have much luck, perhaps down to the fact that I didn't want a very long booking and therefore didn't bid a great deal of money.  However, I did get a couple of girls who apparently reply to just about every RB that's posted.  My requirements were quite specific and their replies bore no resemblance to what I was seeking.  Having said that, one girl INCREASED her rates to what I was bidding as she normally asks for less.  That's initiative for you!

Hope you have more luck than me!

[RedKettle]

I would now only try a RB in a major city such as London - waste of time in small places such as Grantham  (Which is probably a statement of the bleeding obvious) and even mid sized cities such as Nottingham.

[vw]

I would now only try a RB in a major city such as London - waste of time in small places such as Grantham  (Which is probably a statement of the bleeding obvious) and even mid sized cities such as Nottingham.

Really ?  Many of the girls drive over 70 miles to see me in the sticks, is Grantham that remote  ?

[RedKettle]

Really ?  Many of the girls drive over 70 miles to see me in the sticks, is Grantham that remote  ?

To be fair I have only tried it once in Grantham and it was hope over expectation - but got nothing I would want to see naked!

I have also tried with Nottingham and Sheffield - the former to see if it flushed out any new talent and/or a bargain and the latter in desperation that there might be a decent girl there.  I did get one or two decent responses but hardly overwhelming.  However in London you can get swamped with loads of quality replies and cities such as Cardiff, Manchester and Leeds also seem to generate a good response.

[vw]

To be fair I have only tried it once in Grantham and it was hope over expectation - but got nothing I would want to see naked!

I have also tried with Nottingham and Sheffield - the former to see if it flushed out any new talent and/or a bargain and the latter in desperation that there might be a decent girl there.  I did get one or two decent responses but hardly overwhelming.  However in London you can get swamped with loads of quality replies and cities such as Cardiff, Manchester and Leeds also seem to generate a good response.

when I did one in Birmingham many of the rated Leicester and Nottingham girls replied.  Imagine so many variables are at play.

All I know about Grantham was it had more adverts than Liverpool did in the daily sport adverts 18 years ago !  Even considered visiting !

[RedKettle]

when I did one in Birmingham many of the rated Leicester and Nottingham girls replied.  Imagine so many variables are at play.

All I know about Grantham was it had more adverts than Liverpool did in the daily sport adverts 18 years ago !  Even considered visiting !

I guess i am prejudiced as when I have accepted bids from girls some distance away they have cancelled at the last minute - so I would tend to ignore those from "out of town". 

[vw]

I guess i am prejudiced as when I have accepted bids from girls some distance away they have cancelled at the last minute - so I would tend to ignore those from "out of town".

Judgement call on each one as always with punting.

First remove the ones that cannot read.

The remove the ones with no eye colour !  To lazy to fill eye colour to lazy to ride my cock !

Put one up for next week and 8 of my south coast hotlist have bid already.  That is unfortunate for me, makes the decision harder !

Furthest I had was just north of  Lincoln to the Cotswold's she tuned in to a regular for a while as will drive at silly o'clock and has a sex machine in the boot of her car.

Sorry to hear you got put off when you did a long distance one, always a risk as with anything punting related !

[RedKettle]

Sorry to hear you got put off when you did a long distance one, always a risk as with anything punting related !

so true!!

[Gordon Bennett]

I think you're over doing it putting it out a month beforehand. If you accept a bid now I reckon there's a good chance she'll end up getting a better booking in the interim (maybe at her normal rate) and cancelling on you.
Given what's done is done I'd suggest just sitting on it and making a final  choice of WG a few days before RB ends. I think there's far more likelihood of the meeting occuring if you finalise the booking just a day or so before the due date.

[Horizontal pleasures]

D O H !!
I put up a reverse booking for an incall, with a lower age limit and a location with 15 miles and a postcode. So far 2 bookings, one 71 miles away and too young and one 79 miles away.

I did this because my 2 Plan A ladies did not respond to email and have even not logged on.

[vw]

D O H !!
I put up a reverse booking for an incall, with a lower age limit and a location with 15 miles and a postcode. So far 2 bookings, one 71 miles away and too young and one 79 miles away.

I did this because my 2 Plan A ladies did not respond to email and have even not logged on.

Did you ask for the usual "niche" services that you look for on your RB ?

Was under the impression from girls posting on UKE that many are for your niche !

[Horizontal pleasures]

Did you ask for the usual "niche" services that you look for on your RB ?

Was under the impression from girls posting on UKE that many are for your niche !

thanks, I shall have a look on UKE but so far I am totally mystified about how it works and how to search. It is so different from on here so I had ignored it.

[Mr_Shins]

My most successful reverse booking I made was placed in March 2015 asking for kinky stuff in a hired office room in Central London.

I got loads of bids and turned down the two that became my favourite regulars later. Posh Lottie was the one who actually got selected.
I did store the details of many of the others who had replied and met a total of 5 of them.

If they bid a lot lower than their regular rate, that could be because:
  - They really want that lower rate and lull you into thinking you are getting a great bargain.
  - They keep their listed rates high because they want to choose who they see (i.e. reverse bookings) and high rates put off most people from approaching.
  - They hope to "tempt" you in with a low rate then get your repeat service at their normal rate.

I have recently gone for 1.5 hours at £150. More attractive to them than £100 for 1 hour. 1.5 hours for £180 might attract a better punt. I have also started being more specific about what I am looking for, and who I am looking for.

[phannymuncha]

i do reverse bookings all the time i get some top ladies i get ladies for 14 hours for 500 notes and there rates are usually in region of 1000 for an overnight....dont be dirty when placing a rb you will reap the rewards in return