Dont see the appeal in fatties. Although i have been with one or two due to bait & switch and me just wanting to unload into anyone so just going along with it...
From my experience, the main logistical problem with the fatties is even when you do find the hole there’s too much cushion around it to get any decent length in her. Ha, and I know what you mean trying to be on top and kiss her/fuck her at the same time.
But I must say, I wouldn’t voluntarily go and meet this woman. B&S I’d go along with it, but voluntarily no. Usually I would say you TOFTT but you seemed to be into this so fair do’s.