Phone manner and voice

[The President]

OMG its so true that a quick call can be the nail in the coffin...

Found a WG that has been on my hot list for a while... I had been let down so called her 

She was rough as a badgers arse, she blew it from 'eeelooo' that sounded like a builder built like a brick shit house and with a manner that was either drugged, half asleep or couldnt be bothered 

If they are going to answer the phone at least try and be somewhat polite and with an ounce of femininity 

Dare I say it it was 'I will call back later to confirm time' - the wallet is in the car statement!

[Jimmyredcab]

I agree totally, but some of these stupid women claim they only give out their phone number after the booking is made via Adultwork, my policy is, no phone number ---- no booking. 

[spiderfred]

It's the part of the transaction that's always the most nerve racking, especially as a pretty shy guy who's been punting for a relatively short time. I find the phone is usually answered in a slightly suspicious way, and because I'm nervous or trying to keep my voice down there's often misunderstandings. It's very rarely feels like a friendly conversation, which it should.

[ForrestGump]

Earlier today I followed up on a Gumtree ad for a local massage sp feeling the need for a nice massage plus extras. The phone was answered by a chavvy sounding female voice with no concept of creating a good initial impression. Based on that initial response I, unfortunately, immediately formed a negative mental image of a really unattractive, rough girl. There's no way I was going to even try her service.

The importance of that first impression. 

[AnthG]

It's the part of the transaction that's always the most nerve racking, especially as a pretty shy guy who's been punting for a relatively short time. I find the phone is usually answered in a slightly suspicious way, and because I'm nervous or trying to keep my voice down there's often misunderstandings. It's very rarely feels like a friendly conversation, which it should.

Agree on this. I hate going on the telephone to do a booking. It is odd to admit this even to myself thinking of it after the fact but it is rather freaky notion to think you are phoning someone to literally come and have sex with them. It just immediately hits home and makes it so difficult to make that call.

Its seems so who cares by any other methods, but that one thing of making that call it seems to totally hit home and make the process freaky and nerve wracking.

For me what really makes the nerves go down considerably is emailing first agreeing the basics by that and then getting permission to phone from the email conversation. Which then means it needs to be an in advance booking which I also am not keen on as I usually like to just phone see someone in a couple of hours time and that be it.

With regards to the topic of the conversation I would say its not just the phone conversation that does it. I remember there was a girl on AW for my region I really felt like seeing as her photos were ok. I googled her AW name and up popped a Twitter account that had a couple of "funny" videos on there of her and she just came across as the most repulsive and masculine type chav in existence in those videos.

[smiths]

OMG its so true that a quick call can be the nail in the coffin...

Found a WG that has been on my hot list for a while... I had been let down so called her 

She was rough as a badgers arse, she blew it from 'eeelooo' that sounded like a builder built like a brick shit house and with a manner that was either drugged, half asleep or couldnt be bothered 

If they are going to answer the phone at least try and be somewhat polite and with an ounce of femininity 

Dare I say it it was 'I will call back later to confirm time' - the wallet is in the car statement!

Absolutely essential to have a phone chat with a WG i am thinking of booking. ANY hint of coldness or a monotone tone is the end of my interest, if i miss out on a gem my bad luck.

[pleasure]

Yeah, the phone call is my least favourite part too. I always try and arrange bookings without it, by whatever means necessary. I wouldn't mind the actual act of ringing up, but having to do it sneakily where no-one can overhear always sets me on edge!

[ForrestGump]

Absolutely essential to have a phone chat with a WG i am thinking of booking. ANY hint of coldness or a monotone tone is the end of my interest, if i miss out on a gem my bad luck.

Totally agree. I'm actively seeking good vibes in the conversation I'm having with a sp. It's pretty much impossible to gauge the level of enthusiasm/interest when the conversation is done via sms. Making a decision on whether or not to go further based on the vibe I get from that call is, in my experience, pretty accurate and improving with experience.

[pleasure]

Totally agree. I'm actively seeking good vibes in the conversation I'm having with a sp. It's pretty much impossible to gauge the level of enthusiasm/interest when the conversation is done via sms. Making a decision on whether or not to go further based on the vibe I get from that call is, in my experience, pretty accurate and improving with experience.

I find I often get entirely the wrong impression from a brief phone call with a girl, whereas if she's capable of carrying on a sensible conversation over the course of a few emails or texts I can be pretty sure I know where I stand with her.

[ForrestGump]

In fairness I do have to allow some leeway when dealing with an EE girl whose English is not so good. But still useful to have the real-time interaction because the attitude and friendliness aspects still come through.

[Dani]

I find I often get entirely the wrong impression from a brief phone call with a girl, whereas if she's capable of carrying on a sensible conversation over the course of a few emails or texts I can be pretty sure I know where I stand with her.

How? if she is miserable you wont hear it, if you have annoyed her somehow you wont hear it in her voice.  Heck I can answer emails and texts when in the foulest of moods or off sick or just pissed off with the silly questions being texted/emailed to me but my response will still be polite whereas on the phone it would be much harder to hide the boredom/annoyance or general disdain in my voice

[Cap]

A lot of blokes want the quick phone call wank fantasy - you know the type of thing in teenage years calling number in the back of the Sport while looking at the pictures 

Working girls must have to put up with this sort of crap all the time, which I suppose why some hide their numbers and ask you to book through AW.

Put youself in their position and leave an open phone number for thousands of horny frustrated guys to read while wanking over the AW pictures and no wonder some girls when they answer the phone as less than enthusiastic - but you can always tell the one who are pissed or high and that for me is a big no no - and even, dare I say, the ones who claim to be mid 20's when the voice, through too much smoking, fags, weed, or cock, makes them sound in their 60's - again a big no no.

Even on the phone blokes will want to go into all the sexual detail for the thrill - girls just want to know when you want to come and how long you want and if there's anything 'special' you'd like - it's business  :timeout

[JV547845]

I like the nerves before hand and the adrenaline rush afterwards of phoning a WG.  It's all part of it building to a real experience meeting a real person in the real world as opposed to my 9001th wank to some porn on the internet.  After loads and loads of numbers that don't pick up it's less of a big deal now and `try to be nice' is always my approach but I'm always so nervous, I must sound like Harry Enfield's teenager the way my voice can suddenly let me down.  It hasn't put anyone off so far though or they've all been too polite to mention it.  I'm bad at remembering to ask everything I need to in person let alone on the phone and I've not really been able to build on `try to be nice' to be as flirty as I can when sexting (if the recipient likes that) but I can't see how I could possibly get any worse.  I think WGs like straighforwardness too because (as ever) it's punting not dating and I don't want to be a TW. 

[Cap]

I've typically found it's better to be open and polite and just say 'would you mind wearing...........' whatever, or 'could you confirm that you...................... as you say in your AW profile', and the great one is 'Do you charge any extras?' - Christ all fuckin' mighty has that caught me out before 

[smiths]

I find I often get entirely the wrong impression from a brief phone call with a girl, whereas if she's capable of carrying on a sensible conversation over the course of a few emails or texts I can be pretty sure I know where I stand with her.

Whereas its not often in my experiences but on ocassion.

[Cap]

Yes we all learn, hopefully, through our mistakes, and at times eagerness on how to deal with all sorts of women 

[smiths]

A lot of blokes want the quick phone call wank fantasy - you know the type of thing in teenage years calling number in the back of the Sport while looking at the pictures 

Working girls must have to put up with this sort of crap all the time, which I suppose why some hide their numbers and ask you to book through AW.

Put youself in their position and leave an open phone number for thousands of horny frustrated guys to read while wanking over the AW pictures and no wonder some girls when they answer the phone as less than enthusiastic - but you can always tell the one who are pissed or high and that for me is a big no no - and even, dare I say, the ones who claim to be mid 20's when the voice, through too much smoking, fags, weed, or cock, makes them sound in their 60's - again a big no no.

Even on the phone blokes will want to go into all the sexual detail for the thrill - girls just want to know when you want to come and how long you want and if there's anything 'special' you'd like - it's business  :timeout

Rather than posting what blokes will want as though you actually know this as fact which of course you dont seeing as its a sweeping generalisation my advice is to stick to what YOU do. The most you can say is its likely some blokes get a sexual thrill in my view. Personally i dont ring WGs i am interested in booking for a sexual thrill on the phone, i need a woman to be present to get that. I seek confirmation that the services i require are definitely on offer at the price advertised, as thats the best i can do to ensure i get what i require. I save my sexual thrills for the punt.

[Cap]

I agree with what you have said - call, confirm, book, go - simple - that's it.  My generalisation is based on conversations with some WG's and yes perhaps on the ignorance of youthful lustful desires and too much cheap porn and testosterone - even when beer cans were adorned by bikini clad babes  :timeout

[Dani]

A lot of blokes want the quick phone call wank fantasy - you know the type of thing in teenage years calling number in the back of the Sport while looking at the pictures 

Working girls must have to put up with this sort of crap all the time, which I suppose why some hide their numbers and ask you to book through AW.

Put youself in their position and leave an open phone number for thousands of horny frustrated guys to read while wanking over the AW pictures and no wonder some girls when they answer the phone as less than enthusiastic -
Even on the phone blokes will want to go into all the sexual detail for the thrill - girls just want to know when you want to come and how long you want and if there's anything 'special' you'd like - it's business  :timeout

There are some who do this but they do it via text and email too.  the majority just ring ask if you are free at such and such, confirm the services and price and that's it.  If a girl hides her number because of this then that is up to her as she will just get it via emails instead, dozens and dozens of emails which take more of your time than a quick call that you can end as soon as they start seeking thrills.

By the way I probably know more about this than you as I am a prossie and do get these calls but not as often as you would think as most idiots prefer to text or email as they can draw it out then and send text after text or really long boring fantasy emails

[wristjob]

When I first started I found phoning a girl to be the most nerve racking thing you could imagine. After a while (5 calls?) you get used to it, it becomes nothing.

I then took a break from punting - come back and it's star all over again with the nerves. Same thing happened 2-3 more times.

[Cap]

That's what I do - if there's a number I call, ask a few simple questions and generally get the feeling if she's ok, confirm a time, and call or text when I'm there - simple really - few mins at the most.

If email then it's typically the same and then eventually the girl gives you her number so you can call or text when you're near.  It's never been a problem but I do understand, from talking with the women, what goes on and what it can be like and some of it is not good.  A booking, in some way, helps prevent timewasters I suppose.

There's a lot of guys who are genuine - and a lot of women who are genuine but like everything else - PG scams, setups, thrill seekers etc - there's always those who will try and abuse it for some reason or another.

[pleasure]

How? if she is miserable you wont hear it, if you have annoyed her somehow you wont hear it in her voice.  Heck I can answer emails and texts when in the foulest of moods or off sick or just pissed off with the silly questions being texted/emailed to me but my response will still be polite whereas on the phone it would be much harder to hide the boredom/annoyance or general disdain in my voice

As far as I'm concerned, any girl can act interested for the minute or two it takes to arrange a booking on the phone. Girls who are capable of actually reading and comprehending a couple of short emails or texts are rarer. Sure, maybe it's because a lot of them are sick of guys wasting their time, but surely that's just as bad with idiots phoning up too?

Either way, I find that if I can strike up a conversation with a girl via AW or text, having read her profile carefully beforehand so I'm not wasting her time with pointless questions, I generally end up with a much better booking, where both parties know what to expect.

[pokenn]

Phone or email, I really don't mind. I prefer to sort out details by email and then confirm by phone, but not bothered too much if I don't speak to the girl on the phone. I've have punts in the past where the girl was sweet as pie on the phone then cold and distant in person.

[pokenn]

As far as I'm concerned, any girl can act interested for the minute or two it takes to arrange a booking on the phone. Girls who are capable of actually reading and comprehending a couple of short emails or texts are rarer. Sure, maybe it's because a lot of them are sick of guys wasting their time, but surely that's just as bad with idiots phoning up too?

Either way, I find that if I can strike up a conversation with a girl via AW or text, having read her profile carefully beforehand so I'm not wasting her time with pointless questions, I generally end up with a much better booking, where both parties know what to expect.

+1

[wristjob]

As far as I'm concerned, any girl can act interested for the minute or two it takes to arrange a booking on the phone. Girls who are capable of actually reading and comprehending a couple of short emails or texts are rarer.

If she feels miserable and is willing to put on a convincing act then maybe she wil do that during the booking. Good girl!

Down the line I've managed to piss off more than a few girls mainly with texts. There's no intonation, my sense of humour really doesn't come across , there's no scope for the briefest of charisma or sounding a bit enthusiastic and interested - which is a cue for her to do the same.

[boydancer]

Must admit that I am influenced by the WGs voice.  If she is friendly and seems quite enthusiastic then I will generally book her.  If she sounds gruff, bored or just plain aggressive then I give it a miss.  I have been wrong once a couple of years ago when I had a WG with a really high squeeky voice (a bit like a mouse). I thought that she sounded like a real odd ball and so I nearly give her a miss.  But as it was a last minute booking and, I was hard up and it seemed a bargain at the time so I gave it a punt.  As it turned out she was OK and I ended up having a really good session and a laugh.

[SirFrank]

OMG its so true that a quick call can be the nail in the coffin...

Found a WG that has been on my hot list for a while... I had been let down so called her 

She was rough as a badgers arse, she blew it from 'eeelooo' that sounded like a builder built like a brick shit house and with a manner that was either drugged, half asleep or couldnt be bothered 

If they are going to answer the phone at least try and be somewhat polite and with an ounce of femininity 

Dare I say it it was 'I will call back later to confirm time' - the wallet is in the car statement!

Had a very similar experience last year. Profile was smoking but when I phoned her she sounded like Mel B off Bo Selecta. - ellllllllllo ya bastard. Fuck that even if the pics were accurate I couldn't put up with that fucking voice. Like nails down a blackboard.

I always use the call to screen. I like to get a feel for the gal. If she sounds like she'd rather watch paint dry I'm gone. Always trust your nose