I fucked up big time

[Laro]

Erm I'm going to get alot of shit from all of you but please try provide some reasonable advice too. Firstly id like to mention im young, from an relatively large ethnic background. I met an escort in Summer 2015, same background,same age.. she liked the look of me, i liked her. By the time i came back from summer break (University) she was gone. Now i should mention at this stage we have never used protection, i could just never cum with her..probably nervous etc. So after months of searching agencies, adultwork every..seeing every girl from that particular background in hope of coming across her i was resigned to her having quit for good. Untill a few weeks ago, i booked with an new profile and it was her. I honestly thanked god for it..i know wtf right? Anyway first session goes by and still no protection, still cant cum. Until i saw her yesterday that is and ended cuming inside her. I wont lie it felt good, i felt a connection to her. After spending my whole short life to date alone without any form of love, this was something i craved. Now my senses have returned and i have tried to message her regarding the morning after pill but i havent had any response, she reads the messages and ignores them. But im not sure if she is actually in charge of her own communication, she told me she was but who knows. Secondly she refuses to tell me any details of private life, where she lives, real name etc, so no real chance of a relationship. She assured me she would take the morning after pill when i did it but im not sure. Wtf should/can i do? Im really not capable of being a dad yet, nor could we even raise the child if i know nothing about her. Any help would be appreciated, i cant go to anyone else as nobody would understand the situation at all. Should i see her again in person and ask her?

[vw]

Sounds like a load of trolling bullshit to me or someone that needs a brain doctor.   

So you don't worry about STD's just getting some hoe pregnant.

You searched high and low for a barebacking skank and think she owes you personal info ?

I call fantasist !

[Laro]

Yeah i honestly thought this would be reaction i got. I dont blame you, i would think the same thing, hence why i was reluctant to post it. I wish this wasnt true, i wouldnt have to go through the stress and anxiety. I only wanted her personal information because i liked her, had i met her under different circumstances may wished to marry her. She dosen't do bareback ordinarly that i know of anyway, shes just a normal young girl. Please just give me the benefit of the doubt, im not here to indulge in any fantasy, i just want advise about what to do

[bod666]

A) troll
B) get a grip - (if real) she's a professional barebacking Ho - you need to worry more about gonorrhoea or hiv more than getting her pregnant.

Still kudos for writing a lot of words that wastes our time. 

[vw]

She dosen't do bareback ordinarly that i know of anyway, shes just a normal young girl

So your the special one, did you ask her for BB or did it just come naturally.

A link would be nice if we are going to continue with your fantasy post.

[bod666]

Advice - get to the gum clinic.
Re if the girl is pregnant - if she's old enough to sell her body then she's old enough to be responsible for it. On the remote possibility she is then she'll get in touch with you. But she won't be as no one is that stupid.  Unless she came across a bit retarded? 

[vw]

Unless she came across a bit retarded? 

Match made in heaven a retarded prossie and the retarded punter who fell for her, that would make a good novel.

Laro why don't your review your baby mama ?

[Laro]

Advice - get to the gum clinic.
Re if the girl is pregnant - if she's old enough to sell her body then she's old enough to be responsible for it. On the remote possibility she is then she'll get in touch with you. But she won't be as no one is that stupid.  Unless she came across a bit retarded? 

I have reasoned with myself that its purely a commerical transaction. If she dosent have enough respect for herself to stop, despite been given the opportunity to stop, then why do i give a shit. I just dont want a child, espicially with her. I though i had a life to look forward too. She may have some mental difficulties, she did seem slightly odd, very slightly though. So who knows, why would an escort even want my child? Exort me for child support? I dont have anything anyway personally

[Laro]

So your the special one, did you ask her for BB or did it just come naturally.

A link would be nice if we are going to continue with your fantasy post.

I cant i left the description vague on purpose. Id rather this not getting back to her and getting blown up further

[vw]

She may have some mental difficulties, she did seem slightly odd, very slightly though. So who knows,

Think you may find you have a few also, as i said in the first post, see the head doctor !

If she dosent have enough respect for herself to stop.

Seems barebacking you have no respect for your self, and posting this nonsense proves my point

If she dosent have enough respect for herself to stop, despite been given the opportunity to stop.

So she should do as you say becuase your such a stand up guy trying to save her from her job choice.

I though i had a life to look forward too.

You could have HIV to look forward to, would get tested so you know if you have much to look forward to.

I cant i left the description vague on purpose. Id rather this not getting back to her and getting blown up further

Bullshitter line 101, how is it getting blown up, she doesn't exist !

Anyway don't believe a ward you say, I'm just bored so humouring you !

[WelshClipper]

No sane person would get themselves into a mess like this. The alarm bells should have been ringing in your head from the get go.

What the fuck do you think your were doing. You say you are young and from a major ethnic background. We all carry the baggage of our childhood with us, but in adult life you have to figure out basic shit or you will end up fat, with an ugly controlling wife and six kids at the age of 40 and look like every other sad fucker out there.

So as has been said, if you have barebacked a prossie and if you are suffering from EAS, time for a reality check. Get yourself tested, put her behind you and start again...

Literally START AGAIN

.....Jesus Christ   

[Laro]

No sane person would get themselves into a mess like this. The alarm bells should have been ringing in your head from the get go.

What the fuck do you think your were doing. You say you are young and from a major ethnic background. We all carry the baggage of our childhood with us, but in adult life you have to figure out basic shit or you will end up fat, with an ugly controlling wife and six kids at the age of 40 and look like every other sad fucker out there.

So as has been said, if you have barebacked a prossie and if you are suffering from EAS, time for a reality check. Get yourself tested, put her behind you and start again...

Literally START AGAIN

.....Jesus Christ   

I know, honestly so disappointed with myself. I just came across someone similar to myself and assumed it would different from a normal escort. I will get tested, but i cant put her behind until i know shes not pregnant, should i just delete my number and prevent any sort of communication with her? But then what if she is pregnant, i have a responsibility towards it. So many hypotheticals

[NIK]

Assuming this is true as you are already aware you have made at least two fundamental mistakes - unprotected sex and becoming emotionally involved. My simple advice is forget about it. There is nothing more you can do.
Now as this will go on forever around in circles I am locking it. Thankyou for your contribution.

[vw]

Well 1st things what is a large ethnic background ?

Firstly id like to mention im young, from an relatively large ethnic background.

I know, honestly so disappointed with myself.

Good

I just came across someone similar to myself and assumed it would different from a normal escort.

You said she was mental !  Is that your common ground !

I will get tested

Sensible

i cant put her behind until i know shes not pregnant

Ask her then !

should i just delete my number and prevent any sort of communication with her?

Not if you want to find out about the pregnancy, but when you are satisfied I would

But then what if she is pregnant, i have a responsibility towards it.

Ask your family, they will know the right way for your major ethnicity.  Most people get the tax payer to pay anyway !

So many hypotheticals

Here is a hypothetical ! How the fuck did you get into university ?