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Offline anonymous1

There will be mate, i noticed a difference in 2 weeks.
Give the mofo no attention. You will flat-line then you will get morning wood and higher libido, well thats what happened to me... but i keep relapsing  :(.
To be fair I still get morning wood, but only for a few seconds lol. But I think watching porn and wanking every day for the past 10 years or show probably hasn't helped. Think it will take more than 2 weeks for me to see if there's any change.

Offline uutarn

To be fair I still get morning wood, but only for a few seconds lol. But I think watching porn and wanking every day for the past 10 years or show probably hasn't helped. Think it will take more than 2 weeks for me to see if there's any change.
Well i'm only going by personal experience of course, but i was pretty much in the same boat as you... 10 years wanking over porn and i saw a change in two weeks, it was slight but there was a change.
Take it for what its worth  :hi:.

DogFace36

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 Excellent post OP. Ditching porn and stopping wanking for a while sound like good advice for any man, not just punters.  I used to use poppers but I found they really get you over stimulated during a punt so packed them in and feel better for it.

Offline maxxblue

(Warning long post)

This is what cured me of a 7 year erection problem in punting. Hope that it cures someone else too!

Not sure if the OP was referring to this, but this is a well-known website on exactly the same topic, but backed up by the science:

External Link/Members Only

(N.B. the term 'fapping' means 'making love to one'self' - i.e. having a wank) 

Offline Trenlover

its not the porn for me , its the wanking ,ho

tbh porn doesnt do anything for me, but the more ive wanked recently the less sensitive my cock is and the less horny i am

Offline maxxblue

its not the porn for me , its the wanking ,ho

tbh porn doesnt do anything for me, but the more ive wanked recently the less sensitive my cock is and the less horny i am

That is exactly what the previous post is about.

americandianna

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The OP has it right. As a veteran of swinging and other forms of public kink, with many close male friends, I've heard endless discussion on this point and experienced guys agree. I've been giving clients that advice for a long time. Limit your masturbation, limit your porn, and try to acclimate to a lighter touch.

If you have trouble with condoms, masturbate wearing one. This will also help with the problem of sex not feeling as good as wanking. Viagra is of course a big help, but just getting used to the condom may work for you without the chemical help.

There is also a huge difference between cheap condoms and good condoms, and if you are even slightly above average use the large size. Condoms are NOT one size fits all. It's worth your time to experiment (perhaps while masturbating) and find out which brands fit you best.

A lot of guys do well with the brands of condoms that have a reservoir tip designed to let your penis move in it. Pleasure Plus is one such brand in the US, don't know if you have them. If the condom doesn't have this built in you can put a tiny dab of lube inside before rolling it on.

If you ask the WG in advance, many if not most will try to have your brand on hand, especially if you offer to kick in a little extra to cover the cost. Or stop and buy a small package on your way to the punt; if you leave the extras the lady will view it as a "tip" and appreciate it.

Offline WelshClipper

 :vomit:
The OP has it right. As a veteran of swinging and other forms of public kink, with many close male friends, I've heard endless discussion on this point and experienced guys agree. I've been giving clients that advice for a long time. Limit your masturbation, limit your porn, and try to acclimate to a lighter touch.

If you have trouble with condoms, masturbate wearing one. This will also help with the problem of sex not feeling as good as wanking. Viagra is of course a big help, but just getting used to the condom may work for you without the chemical help.

There is also a huge difference between cheap condoms and good condoms, and if you are even slightly above average use the large size. Condoms are NOT one size fits all. It's worth your time to experiment (perhaps while masturbating) and find out which brands fit you best.

A lot of guys do well with the brands of condoms that have a reservoir tip designed to let your penis move in it. Pleasure Plus is one such brand in the US, don't know if you have them. If the condom doesn't have this built in you can put a tiny dab of lube inside before rolling it on.

If you ask the WG in advance, many if not most will try to have your brand on hand, especially if you offer to kick in a little extra to cover the cost. Or stop and buy a small package on your way to the punt; if you leave the extras the lady will view it as a "tip" and appreciate it.

Great advice. I am going to try the wank with condom.

Slightly off topic but as a continuation, my problem is not the boner but the orgasm. Not every time but more than I like. Apparently very little research as to why this happens.

Anyone had this problem and then found a remedy ?

Bluefin

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:vomit:
Great advice. I am going to try the wank with condom.

Could end up costing a fortune though



Slightly off topic but as a continuation, my problem is not the boner but the orgasm. Not every time but more than I like. Apparently very little research as to why this happens.

Anyone had this problem and then found a remedy?

I think this is also linked to desensitisation due to the overuse of porn.
I've not watched porn or had a wank since reading this post so I'll see if it works as I too also get this.
Think at my next punt she might get drowned in the stuff!

Offline WelshClipper


Could end up costing a fortune though

I think this is also linked to desensitisation due to the overuse of porn.
I've not watched porn or had a wank since reading this post so I'll see if it works as I too also get this.
Think at my next punt she might get drowned in the stuff!

My porn these days consists of a girl stripping. Its all I need. Maybe I should get the wg to do a strip at the beginning of the punt.  :unknown:

5th Musketeer

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Could end up costing a fortune though

I think this is also linked to desensitisation due to the overuse of porn.
I've not watched porn or had a wank since reading this post so I'll see if it works as I too also get this.
Think at my next punt she might get drowned in the stuff!
Wow!! :yahoo:  THREE hours and counting  :yahoo: :yahoo: :yahoo:

Offline anonymous1

So far I've gone 4 days and believe me that is the longest I've gone. I don't miss the porn but getting the urges which I'm fighting off, really hope this works.
« Last Edit: January 27, 2016, 02:58:11 pm by anonymous1 »

Bluefin

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Wow!! :yahoo:  THREE hours and counting  :yahoo: :yahoo: :yahoo:

 :lol:
Ok should have said since I read this thread. Eight days and counting, which is a record for me in 34 years :yahoo: got to say this forum helps though!

5th Musketeer

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:lol:
Ok should have said since I read this thread. Eight days and counting, which is a record for me in 34 years :yahoo: got to say this forum helps though!
Good for you - but I just couldn't resist saying what I did assuming today was what you meant, not when the thread started.   ;)

Offline threechilliman

Still no porn or wanking for me since a week ago last Sunday. The problem is I keep having sex.

tcm

LL

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Still no porn or wanking for me since a week ago last Sunday.
I lasted 2 days!

Fagin Again

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I imagine that most of us on this site are over 30.  We are therefore the lucky ones, because we didn't grow up with internet porn, and therefore the issues being discussed here are generally manageable and remediable.

This is not the case for an increasing number of young men in their late teens and early twenties, whose brains are so hard-wired from an early age to masturbating in front of – in many cases – quite extreme pomography that they are unable to achieve erection with a real woman.  The "looseness" of a vagina compared to a hand is the lesser problem.  The greater is that a real woman is, quite simply, far too dull and unstimulating compared to what they are used to.

This is not a trivial matter.  More and more young men are suffering from this affliction, and some – for this and other reasons – find real girls such an intimidating prospect that they will probably never venture away from "computer sex".

My guess is that most people on this site will, if they reflect, know of some youth or young man in their wider orbit to whom this may possibly apply.  Once, we might have suspected that the reason that a young man's never had a girlfriend is that he's gay.  Now there may be other reasons...

(Perhaps it's nature's way of solving the problem of over-population...)



Offline uutarn

So far I've gone 4 days and believe me that is the longest I've gone. I don't miss the porn but getting the urges which I'm fighting off, really hope this works.
It does work, it just takes time and it won't be a complete reversal either. It just slowly gets better and better.

Offline magri

This is one of the best posts I've read & I'm going to give it a try

Offline anonymous1

It does work, it just takes time and it won't be a complete reversal either. It just slowly gets better and better.
What's stopping me really is curiosity and seeing how long I can hold off, think I am seeing a bit of a difference already as I woke up rather excited this morning lol. Will also look into getting Sildenafil as I think that's slightly cheaper than viagra but with the same outcome.

Offline anonymous1

Also I should probably get my cholesterol checked as high cholesterol runs in the family and heard that can cause erectile dysfunction.

Offline WelshClipper

It does work, it just takes time and it won't be a complete reversal either. It just slowly gets better and better.
I abstain from wanking about a ten days before, but I find if I then go into the punt, the little guy has lost all interest, like he has switched off. So what I do now is stop 10 days before but have a quick one about 2 days before to 'wake him up out of sleep mode'

Anyone else experience this ?    :unknown:

Bluefin

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I abstain from wanking about a ten days before, but I find if I then go into the punt, the little guy has lost all interest, like he has switched off. So what I do now is stop 10 days before but have a quick one about 2 days before to 'wake him up out of sleep mode'

Anyone else experience this ?    :unknown:

Fuck don't say that I'm 9 days with no fap, porn or sex and was hoping for a punt tomorrow, hope its not in sleep mode!

jcdmj12

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I abstain from wanking about a ten days before, but I find if I then go into the punt, the little guy has lost all interest, like he has switched off. So what I do now is stop 10 days before but have a quick one about 2 days before to 'wake him up out of sleep mode'

Anyone else experience this ?    :unknown:

Never got that far, I'm on day 5 of no wanking prior to a big session tomorrow. If I went much longer, then passing dogs would be in danger of me trying to hump them.  My balls are like watermelons. No idea how you guys make it that far.  :scare:

Offline WelshClipper

Fuck don't say that I'm 9 days with no fap, porn or sex and was hoping for a punt tomorrow, hope its not in sleep mode!

Like everything else, we are different so don't panic. I read it off another guys thread and thought yeah, that is me.

And it works fine so all good...

Offline WelshClipper

Never got that far, I'm on day 5 of no wanking prior to a big session tomorrow. If I went much longer, then passing dogs would be in danger of me trying to hump them.  My balls are like watermelons. No idea how you guys make it that far.  :scare:

Maybe pull a quick one tonight but go easy, just 2 fingers..  no grip of steel.   :cool:

jcdmj12

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No way.  I plan on leaving my (willing) victim tomorrow looking like she lost a fight in a wallpaper paste factory.  :yahoo:

Bluefin

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I abstain from wanking about a ten days before, but I find if I then go into the punt, the little guy has lost all interest, like he has switched off. So what I do now is stop 10 days before but have a quick one about 2 days before to 'wake him up out of sleep mode'

Anyone else experience this ?    :unknown:

Update: I had a punt (see my latest review) after 10 days of no porn, sex or wanking and you were right about "sleep mode" my performance was disappointing.
I think I was "flatlining" as Ben calls it as I did feel my sex drive had lessened, surprisingly, so its probably not a good idea to plan a punt until it starts to pick up again I'm going to continue this experiment to see what happens.

Offline threechilliman

I've had to start again after a Sat evening pornfest. I promise not to look at any porn. :lol:

tcm

Bluefin

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I've had to start again after a Sat evening pornfest. I promise not to look at any porn. :lol:

tcm

Willpower tcm willpower!

Offline anonymous1

I've gone 10 days now and the urge isn't there no more and it's the longest I've gone without it in 16 years. Don't have any punts planned until next month, so given myself a chance to completely give this a go and see if it works.

Offline WelshClipper

Update: I had a punt (see my latest review) after 10 days of no porn, sex or wanking and you were right about "sleep mode" my performance was disappointing.
I think I was "flatlining" as Ben calls it as I did feel my sex drive had lessened, surprisingly, so its probably not a good idea to plan a punt until it starts to pick up again I'm going to continue this experiment to see what happens.

This is exactly what I mean. By all means abstain for ten or 20 days before a punt. But my advice is wake the bugger up out of sleep mode 48 hrs before punt. Works for me.

Offline anonymous1

Been over two weeks now, I'm impressed with myself.  :lol: Can't really say I've seen any difference yet, but think I've kicked my porn and wanking habit.

Offline Trenlover

I can barely go 72hrs without a wank , last time I went almost 4 days without a wank my cock was bursting and so sensitive I blew in about 60 seconds.

Offline WelshClipper

Can't really say I've seen any difference yet, but think I've kicked my porn and wanking habit.

That is much more important than how long you abstain. Bet you could wank with 2 fingers now to a vision of a nice pair of tits.and explode in 2 minutes.. :cool:

Offline uutarn

Been over two weeks now, I'm impressed with myself.  :lol: Can't really say I've seen any difference yet, but think I've kicked my porn and wanking habit.
Good stuff man, the longer you go without, the easier it gets. It doesn't mean you have to abstain forever, just enough time so your fella can adjust  :thumbsup:.

Offline anonymous1

Good stuff man, the longer you go without, the easier it gets. It doesn't mean you have to abstain forever, just enough time so your fella can adjust  :thumbsup:.
Weird thing is, now I've stopped I don't want to start again. I'm aiming for a month or more because I heard it takes 6 or more weeks for your brain to rewire back to normal, or something like that anyway. Also afraid if I do the deed again I might relapse lol.

bensonhedges20

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Edging works

Also pull out before you are about to come and start kisaing her etc delaying penetration or oral. Then go back fter a few mins but sustain. Will ensure longetivity providing you can focus on something else and delay the inevitable.

Spanky_bum_time

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I'm 36 and grew up with porn on the net, I remember a relationship I was in that due to distance meant we got together once or twice a week and had a good 4 - 6 hour shagging session, When that relationship ended I got pulled back into the seedy world of Internet porn and developed a taste for extreme porn and was wanking 1 - 3 times a day, I then discovered tadalafil and took them as an enhancer, Even when going on punts I'd take a pill. Then due to a dose of the clap (caught from a civvy not a WG!) my attitude changed, I stopped watching porn and stopped wanking, i find i sleep better and have dreams again, would still pop a pill before a punt tho, when I travelled to Thailand I decided not to take any pills, I find I'm performing fine, get a good erection and last as long as with a pill, only thing I find may stop me getting hard is if I overdo the drink! I reckon if I can lose a stone or so as well things could be even better!

Offline uncle jessie

Well this certainly works well, I had 10 days with no porn or wanking and drank plenty of fluids the only problem being pissing like a race horse  :D. Three days before a punt it was time for a wank to get him ready for action, the punt with a reg had a slight hiccup in the fact of once stimulation started the little fella was like a dripping tap with pre cum, which resulted in her not wanting to do OWO  :dash:, can't and don't blame her for not doing OWO though considering. Anyway apart from that was a good punt which ended up with a load that even she was impressed with  :yahoo:. The thing is she has suggested using a cock ring next time to stop the pre cum ? .

Offline WelshClipper

The thing is she has suggested using a cock ring next time to stop the pre cum ? .

I learn something every day. I thought cock rings were to stop an erection going limp. So it be used to stop precum.

Thanks for that  :thumbsup:

5th Musketeer

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I learn something every day. I thought cock rings were to stop an erection going limp. So it be used to stop precum.

Thanks for that  :thumbsup:
That's what I thought too

Offline WelshClipper

That's what I thought too

Once in my punting career a wg said she needed to put a condom on because of the precum. If I see her again, I will tell her to put a cock ring on and forget the condom  :yahoo:

Offline Marmalade

Update: I had a punt (see my latest review) after 10 days of no porn, sex or wanking and you were right about "sleep mode" my performance was disappointing.
I think I was "flatlining" as Ben calls it as I did feel my sex drive had lessened, surprisingly, so its probably not a good idea to plan a punt until it starts to pick up again I'm going to continue this experiment to see what happens.

I personally sometimes try a little bit of porn just before I get in the taxi to a punt. It slows down breathing, gets the mind and body focussed on having sex.

If I am having a binge abroad where sex is cheaper and more plentiful, I often have found my first sex session a but under par, the second one an improvement, and then on, continued daily, my system seems to get into the swing of it.

5th Musketeer

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Once in my punting career a wg said she needed to put a condom on because of the precum. If I see her again, I will tell her to put a cock ring on and forget the condom  :yahoo:
I used one about 30 years ago, when I was having a great physical time with my girlfriend (she introduced me to it) and it kept me up and ready for a long time after I would normally have wilted.  :drinks: :D

Offline WelshClipper

I personally sometimes try a little bit of porn just before I get in the taxi to a punt. It slows down breathing, gets the mind and body focussed on having sex.

If I am having a binge abroad where sex is cheaper and more plentiful, I often have found my first sex session a but under par, the second one an improvement, and then on, continued daily, my system seems to get into the swing of it.

This is me, if its every other day.  If I leave it too long I flatline, if I do it every day then I go limp. But every other day I could go on forever. Let me see 365 divided by 2... that's 180 punts a year.  Hmm, OK there is the punter budget to consider but whatever.

5th Musketeer

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This is me, if its every other day.  If I leave it too long I flatline, if I do it every day then I go limp. But every other day I could go on forever. Let me see 365 divided by 2... that's 180 punts a year.  Hmm, OK there is the punter budget to consider but whatever.
Focus on nothing but Romanians and you will save 20% to 40% getting those 180 punts  :lol: :lol: :lol:

Offline Marmalade

This is me, if its every other day.  If I leave it too long I flatline, if I do it every day then I go limp. But every other day I could go on forever. Let me see 365 divided by 2... that's 180 punts a year.  Hmm, OK there is the punter budget to consider but whatever.
It's a way to make foreign punting economical, or at least close, though I realise that's not an option for everyone. I quite like the 'trashville' punts in some countries, where a punt can cost as little as a fiver. Stay for a month and it's a holiday to remember.

Offline WelshClipper

It's a way to make foreign punting economical, or at least close, though I realise that's not an option for everyone. I quite like the 'trashville' punts in some countries, where a punt can cost as little as a fiver. Stay for a month and it's a holiday to remember.

I can but dream but make the most of what I have.  :thumbsup:

Offline Marmalade

I can but dream but make the most of what I have.  :thumbsup:
Dreams can help making the most of what you have.

No chance of a wee trip to the continent even ... maybe 'meet up' with an (imaginary) old school pal or research thd 'history'?