Arranged a punt as my reward and I found out that the sensitivity hasn't increased much, just loads more cum (I couldn't resist requesting CIM for the first time ). BJ took ages and I ended up just finishing myself into her mouth. Couldn't even get hard for a second pop. An hour meet and no penetration just oral. Soul destroying. First meet in a while that I haven't used viagra but there wouldn't have been much point unless I wanted sex without the feeling.
Try not to beat yourself up (no pun intended) about this - I'm sure that experience is more common than you realise. At least you did cum. On my last two punts I didn't climax at all, despite the most recent one being with the hottest woman I've ever had sex with. I guess I could have had a go at finishing myself off, but I didn't want to because wanking is something I can do free at home (and anyway I'm on a wank ban, lol).
I left that punt feeling part-destroyed, but it wasn't long before I began to see it differently and wrote a glowing review of the girl in question (Hot Kim x). I didn't cum, no, but I did get naked with an amazing woman, played with her massive tits and tiny clit, and had great OWO. She then rode me like an animal, before I flipped her onto her back and fucked her - hard. I kept going until I couldn't. It certainly wasn't the ending I wanted, and I'm prepared for the same again next time, but what I'm trying to do is take the many positives from the situation, and not dwell on the negative.
I reckon the only answer is to keep up the good work on the wank ban, healthy lifestyle etc - and when it comes to shagging WGs, to see it as fun and practice for even more fun ahead.
Ive been on a wank ban for 3 weeks now, and no internet porn, defo helping. Im still shaggin and am getting better erections with more sensation.
Ill carry in this route instead of total cold turkey and see if its more gradual improvement
Now this is what I'm talking about - very encouraging!