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CityboyLondon

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I commented on a post like this yesterday, I sometimes use anabolic steroids, which for those of you that dont know can decrease libido and cause erection problems when you come off of them for a while. Aswell as following proper protocols a simple health producer called acetyl l tyrosine works wonders for erection problems and raising libido, google it, you can buy it OTC at holland and barrett etc, give it a go, best 10er youll spend!

Offline uutarn

Close to a year of punting for me now and it still plagues me.
Erection is not so much of a problem, its the fucking orgasm. Its actually really depressing.

Just leave it alone for 3 months and all will return to normal...  :scare:
I ain't doing that shit, my libido is far too high, i can barely go 3 days without jerking off.
Longest i've been is 10 days and i was a miserable cunt... nah fuck that.

The irony is i can achieve a prostate orgasm (with the right help) in a matter of minutes.  :wacko:

gingerthom

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Close to a year of punting for me now and it still plagues me.
Erection is not so much of a problem, its the fucking orgasm. Its actually really depressing.

Just leave it alone for 3 months and all will return to normal...  :scare:
I ain't doing that shit, my libido is far too high, i can barely go 3 days without jerking off.
Longest i've been is 10 days and i was a miserable cunt... nah fuck that.

The irony is i can achieve a prostate orgasm (with the right help) in a matter of minutes.  :wacko:
I've commented on this very problem, erection no problem but no feel from sex or orgasm unless i finish off myself.
Had a minor breakthrough today though with the lovely Ebony Kim, wouldn't have come from the sex alone but managed a full fountain with her mouth and hand skills, not sure who was more surprised, her or me, she did jump back a bit bless her. :D
I agree that going without for any length of time is not feasible for most, i managed 2wks but have stopped using the deathgrip and brought the fleshlight out of retirement, i definately had more feeling today because of it.
I would say have a break as long as you can manage and then resume with a lighter touch, whether that's your hand and lube or a fleshlight or similar.
Ironically Prostrate massage does nothing for me :(

Offline uutarn

but have stopped using the deathgrip and brought the fleshlight out of retirement, i definately had more feeling today because of it.
I have a fleshlight, bought in the hopes of "curing" the desensitisation and although i like using it and can orgasm quickly from it, i have heard it doesn't help the problem, in fact hinders it.
But it might be horses for courses...

I might give it another shot since you had positive effects :).

 :drinks:

gingerthom

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I have a fleshlight, bought in the hopes of "curing" the desensitisation and although i like using it and can orgasm quickly from it, i have heard it doesn't help the problem, in fact hinders it.
But it might be horses for courses...

I might give it another shot since you had positive effects :).

 :drinks:
Maybe my deathgrip was tighter than yours :sarcastic:, the fleshlight feels a lot lighter to me although there's quite a selection and many look a lot tighter than mine, some are only half as wide at 0.25", mine is 0.5" and even that is only a finger width and so tighter than most WG's pussys. :lol:
If you can orgasm quickly using a fleshlight but not on a punt, maybe its the condom that ruining the feeling, i think thats part of my problem.

Offline Kriss

I wonder - I had it from a good source that pain killers, such as ibuprofen, can cause desensitization as well as erectile problems.  :unknown:
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Offline uutarn

Maybe my deathgrip was tighter than yours :sarcastic:, the fleshlight feels a lot lighter to me although there's quite a selection and many look a lot tighter than mine, some are only half as wide at 0.25", mine is 0.5" and even that is only a finger width and so tighter than most WG's pussys. :lol:
If you can orgasm quickly using a fleshlight but not on a punt, maybe its the condom that ruining the feeling, i think thats part of my problem.
I just have a standard one...?  :unknown: Dunno mate.
But yea, i think the condom is much to blame but many people can cum with one so no reason why i can't and besides, there's no alternative anyway.

Thanks for the info!  :thumbsup:

Offline Rockhead

Some great comments and tips here folks, cheers.

I'm just over 2 weeks into my self-imposed wank ban - but part of me is thinking 'time to just get back on the horse' and see what happens. So I'm thinking of arranging a short punt for next week.

I have heard that viagra can negatively effect sensitivity, but to be honest it couldn't possibly be any worse than it has been, so I think the benefit may outweigh the negatives, for now at least. It would, in theory, avoid the dick wilt issue - but maybe I have to up it to 50mg. Will see.

I have also heard that zinc  (or ZMA, both available at Holland & Barrett etc) can help as it may boost testosterone levels, which I guess has to be a good thing...

CityboyLondon

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Some great comments and tips here folks, cheers.

I'm just over 2 weeks into my self-imposed wank ban - but part of me is thinking 'time to just get back on the horse' and see what happens. So I'm thinking of arranging a short punt for next week.

I have heard that viagra can negatively effect sensitivity, but to be honest it couldn't possibly be any worse than it has been, so I think the benefit may outweigh the negatives, for now at least. It would, in theory, avoid the dick wilt issue - but maybe I have to up it to 50mg. Will see.

I have also heard that zinc  (or ZMA, both available at Holland & Barrett etc) can help as it may boost testosterone levels, which I guess has to be a good thing...

In all honestly mate, zma to boost test is a complete waste of Time, as is anything OTC, it does however give you an amazing nights sleep and definitely helps with libido / cum volume. Ive spent the last two years of my life toying with bodybuilding supplements, the only proven test booster is a good old jab of vitamin T in the quad lol, not that im advising that, but anything that will actually boost testosterone noticably enough to make a difference is definitely via prescription only. ZMA and acetyl l tyrosine is brilliant for libido and volume though, as is vitamin b6
« Last Edit: August 26, 2016, 08:16:00 pm by CityboyLondon »

Offline Rockhead

ZMA and acetyl l tyrosine is brilliant for libido and volume though, as is vitamin b6

Thanks, I will look out for those, particularly the acetyl tyrosine which I haven't heard of before.

CityboyLondon

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Thanks, I will look out for those, particularly the acetyl tyrosine which I haven't heard of before.

No problem, its basically brain food which helps produce dopamine, increased dopamine equals increased sexual performance and libido

Offline Kriss

No problem, its basically brain food which helps produce dopamine, increased dopamine equals increased sexual performance and libido

Good to know
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Offline uncle jessie

I have found that the flesh light has helped a lot, have been using it with condoms and when I  get inside a real pussy now there is a good level of feeling  :yahoo: that the dreaded death grip desensitizes the little fella that he couldn't appreciate the sensation  :thumbsdown:

Offline DipsyDoodle

I have heard that viagra can negatively effect sensitivity, but to be honest it couldn't possibly be any worse than it has been, so I think the benefit may outweigh the negatives, for now at least. It would, in theory, avoid the dick wilt issue - but maybe I have to up it to 50mg. Will see.
Whilst 100mg will make you rock hard, I found that it makes it very difficult to cum.  I've found 50mg to be the right balance between erection and the ability to cum.

Offline MrMatrix

Some great comments and tips here folks, cheers.

I'm just over 2 weeks into my self-imposed wank ban - but part of me is thinking 'time to just get back on the horse' and see what happens. So I'm thinking of arranging a short punt for next week.

I have heard that viagra can negatively effect sensitivity, but to be honest it couldn't possibly be any worse than it has been, so I think the benefit may outweigh the negatives, for now at least. It would, in theory, avoid the dick wilt issue - but maybe I have to up it to 50mg. Will see.

I have also heard that zinc  (or ZMA, both available at Holland & Barrett etc) can help as it may boost testosterone levels, which I guess has to be a good thing...
I too am at 2 weeks for self imposed wank ban. I'm away again for another 10 days and will be able to maintain it ok till then- without doubt the longest I've ever been with out a wank- bloody frustrating though, There is a remote chance I may get a punt in tomorrow in which case all that would most likely go out the window.
Keeping hard isn't a problem for me, just there is no sensitivity in the bellend, even when Miss UK is sucking me off- so frustrating. And consequently the auto action doesn't work, hence the need to have a wank with her. :unknown:

Offline uutarn

Good luck MrM.  :thumbsup:
I would be interested in your science  ;).

Offline MrMatrix

Close to a year of punting for me now and it still plagues me.
Erection is not so much of a problem, its the fucking orgasm. Its actually really depressing.

Just leave it alone for 3 months and all will return to normal...  :scare:
I ain't doing that shit, my libido is far too high, i can barely go 3 days without jerking off.
Longest i've been is 10 days and i was a miserable cunt... nah fuck that.

The irony is i can achieve a prostate orgasm (with the right help) in a matter of minutes.  :wacko:
Clearly we suffer the same thing the vomiting dummy doesn't work properly. Earlier this year the auto mechanism kicked in on about 5 occasions. Couldn't believe it TBH. I thought at long last I'm back on track, but no. Like you I need relief every 2/3 days otherwise I'm starting to get irritable. This was discussed at the beginning of this thread, so I'm prepared to give it a go. As I've been occupied with work etc its not been too bad. How ever If I feel better (not been well last 3 days) tomorrow I'll try and get a punt in. Other wise next punt will be in 2 weeks time. I'll let you know uutarn.

Offline webpunter

I had a phase a couple of years ago when i kept going soft at points during a massage / HJ & tit-wank session
Had seen the burd a good number of times.  She asked me if i had a lot on the go.  Answer yes.  Add in too much drinking & no exercise
She told me not to worry about stuff & just relax & enjoy.  Made some progress after this.  And on a session a couple of weeks later then much better
I cut out knocking one out for a while & generally improved my 'lifestyle'
Its a confidence thing in part IMO so making a few minor adjustments here & there - nothing dramatic - reaped rich rewards
The burd could sense my improved performance & had a play - a bit of dirty talk rolled in whilst she rubbed my bell-end up & down her pussy nearly had me shooting right there & then
 

Offline nervous1

So did the three week thing.  Somehow managed it & it wasn't easy but not as bad as I thought it would be.  First week is the worst.  Arranged a punt as my reward and I found out that the sensitivity hasn't increased much, just loads more cum (I couldn't resist requesting CIM for the first time  :D).  BJ took ages and I ended up just finishing myself into her mouth.  Couldn't even get hard for a second pop.  An hour meet and no penetration just oral.  Soul destroying.  First meet in a while that I haven't used viagra but there wouldn't have been much point unless I wanted sex without the feeling.

WG was great.  Won't even review her or mention name as it wouldn't be fair on her (and she's well reviewed on here anyway).  She did her part well, it's just that my cock has betrayed me  :cry:

Punting once or twice a month is one of the few pleasures I get in life but I'm just wasting money and walking away feeling like shit so what's the point?!  No choice but to put my punting career on hold for now, perhaps for the rest of the year with a careful once-a-week wank to stop me going crazy.  Maybe have to consider going a few months, which is a terrifying thought indeed, without any masturbation.

*Walks away slowly while world's saddest song plays*

Offline MrMatrix

Good luck MrM.  :thumbsup:
I would be interested in your science  ;).
OK its now been 28 days since my last punt and my last wank. Despite watching an hour of porn last week I didn't chock one out. The need is clawing at me. By chance I may get a punt in tomorrow if all goes well. Its some one I've seen before and she  has a lovely body. So we will find out if my sacrifice has been worth it so the auto trigger works. Even if it doesn't I will carry on with the wanking ban as its the only way as I see it to get any sensation back. If I get a punt in and it works I will update tomorrow. :drinks:
If it doesn't work look under obituaries on Sunday Telegraph.  :angry:

Offline uutarn

OK its now been 28 days since my last punt and my last wank. Despite watching an hour of porn last week I didn't chock one out. The need is clawing at me. By chance I may get a punt in tomorrow if all goes well. Its some one I've seen before and she  has a lovely body. So we will find out if my sacrifice has been worth it so the auto trigger works. Even if it doesn't I will carry on with the wanking ban as its the only way as I see it to get any sensation back. If I get a punt in and it works I will update tomorrow. :drinks:
If it doesn't work look under obituaries on Sunday Telegraph.  :angry:
Hahaha!
Well done bud  :hi:.
Yea, let me know how you get on if that's ok  :thumbsup:.

Offline hungrypunt

Ive been on a wank ban for 3 weeks now, and no internet porn, defo helping. Im still shaggin and am getting better erections with more sensation.

Ill carry in this route instead of total cold turkey and see if its more gradual improvement

Offline MrMatrix

Hahaha!
Well done bud  :hi:.
Yea, let me know how you get on if that's ok  :thumbsup:.
Sorry Uutarn, didn't get my punt in yesterday. sacs are still full- the ban continues. TBH I just didn't get my act together and that window of opportunity slipped by. More worryingly I wasn't that upset over it-  errr that's worrying in its self. Lets see how rest of week unfolds :hi:

Offline Rockhead

Arranged a punt as my reward and I found out that the sensitivity hasn't increased much, just loads more cum (I couldn't resist requesting CIM for the first time  :D).  BJ took ages and I ended up just finishing myself into her mouth.  Couldn't even get hard for a second pop.  An hour meet and no penetration just oral.  Soul destroying.  First meet in a while that I haven't used viagra but there wouldn't have been much point unless I wanted sex without the feeling.

Try not to beat yourself up (no pun intended) about this - I'm sure that experience is more common than you realise. At least you did cum. On my last two punts I didn't climax at all, despite the most recent one being with the hottest woman I've ever had sex with. I guess I could have had a go at finishing myself off, but I didn't want to because wanking is something I can do free at home (and anyway I'm on a wank ban, lol).

I left that punt feeling part-destroyed, but it wasn't long before I began to see it differently and wrote a glowing review of the girl in question (Hot Kim x). I didn't cum, no, but I did get naked with an amazing woman, played with her massive tits and tiny clit, and had great OWO. She then rode me like an animal, before I flipped her onto her back and fucked her - hard. I kept going until I couldn't. It certainly wasn't the ending I wanted, and I'm prepared for the same again next time, but what I'm trying to do is take the many positives from the situation, and not dwell on the negative.

I reckon the only answer is to keep up the good work on the wank ban, healthy lifestyle etc - and when it comes to shagging WGs, to see it as fun and practice for even more fun ahead.  ;)

Ive been on a wank ban for 3 weeks now, and no internet porn, defo helping. Im still shaggin and am getting better erections with more sensation.

Ill carry in this route instead of total cold turkey and see if its more gradual improvement

Now this is what I'm talking about - very encouraging!
« Last Edit: September 11, 2016, 05:37:54 pm by Rockhead »

Offline MrMatrix

Rockhead - its happened so many times and I too have been with beautiful women. If the auto doesn't kick in I will have a wank , which is why I like them to have CIM on their likes list. Even then there have been times and nothing works. But at least I've spent time with a lovely girl (well hopefully I have). We are not alone mate. :hi:

Morecambe Donkey

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Thankyou Ben. Definitely going to give this a go and I will let you know.

Offline Rockhead

Hi all,

Wanted to give some positive news on this whole 'not enough sensitivity / difficult or impossible to cum' thing.

Had a punt today - vanilla stuff, which is really all I'm into - but am pleased to report success. I managed to have a really awesome climax during penetrative sex, and in fairly standard missionary position. This is something I've struggled to achieve for a while, as anyone who has read my previous posts on this thread will know.

What's made the difference? In order of priority:

1. Wank ban - exactly one month has passed since I started this ban, and I think it has paid off.
2. Not worrying too much about the ending, but just enjoying the situation for what it is, whatever happens.
3. A generally healthy lifestyle, plus I take daily supplements of zinc and l-tyrosine. Obviously I cannot claim, let alone prove, that these have made a difference, but for the sake of completion, it's best that I mention them.
4. 25mg sildenafil an hour prior to punt. This is a low dose and taking it may be more psychological than physical, but worth it in my opinion. I did once try a higher dose but found this had a negative effect on sensitivity, the exact opposite of what I was trying to achieve.

So, anyway, I thought it would be encouraging to report some good results from all this, and hopefully it's onwards, upwards and better from here.

Offline Complete Novice

That Sir, is great news.

The update is welcomed, my own ban ends this Friday and am therafter hoping for a similar result!!

Offline MrMatrix

Well done Rockhead great news. I've just passed the 4 week ban and I'm going nuts. Tried for a punt recently and she doesn't do FK despite her profile saying she does, so I walked. I hope to have another shot later this week. Well done Rockhead, brilliant news :thumbsup:

Offline uutarn

Its about 3 weeks for me for the wank ban (well i did once but that was with a fleshlight (does that count?)

Fucked yesterday and although i didn't cum from penetration, it was very very close, and when i used my hand i came pretty much instantaneously.

So although i haven't achieved what i want, i can definitely see improvement.

 :drinks:

Offline Blue Moon

Congrats Rockhead, great result. I think I'll copy some of your suggestions.    Bm

Offline MrMatrix

Its about 3 weeks for me for the wank ban (well i did once but that was with a fleshlight (does that count?)
Fucked yesterday and although i didn't cum from penetration, it was very very close, and when i used my hand i came pretty much instantaneously.
So although i haven't achieved what i want, i can definitely see improvement.
uutarn, youre not suppose to use the fleshlight I would say it does count. I think having a shag is legit excuse for any sort of wank TBH. So it looks like you're improving. Me, despite walking out on a SP this week (cos she didn't FK, which is a deal breaker for me) I still havent unloaded for over 4 weeks  :hi:

Offline uutarn

uutarn, youre not suppose to use the fleshlight I would say it does count. I think having a shag is legit excuse for any sort of wank TBH. So it looks like you're improving. Me, despite walking out on a SP this week (cos she didn't FK, which is a deal breaker for me) I still havent unloaded for over 4 weeks  :hi:
I don't think i could go that long mate, hats off to ya!  :hi:

Offline nervous1

Try not to beat yourself up (no pun intended) about this - I'm sure that experience is more common than you realise. At least you did cum. On my last two punts I didn't climax at all, despite the most recent one being with the hottest woman I've ever had sex with. I guess I could have had a go at finishing myself off, but I didn't want to because wanking is something I can do free at home (and anyway I'm on a wank ban, lol).

I left that punt feeling part-destroyed, but it wasn't long before I began to see it differently and wrote a glowing review of the girl in question (Hot Kim x). I didn't cum, no, but I did get naked with an amazing woman, played with her massive tits and tiny clit, and had great OWO. She then rode me like an animal, before I flipped her onto her back and fucked her - hard. I kept going until I couldn't. It certainly wasn't the ending I wanted, and I'm prepared for the same again next time, but what I'm trying to do is take the many positives from the situation, and not dwell on the negative.

I reckon the only answer is to keep up the good work on the wank ban, healthy lifestyle etc - and when it comes to shagging WGs, to see it as fun and practice for even more fun ahead.  ;)


Thanks for words of encouragement.  After throwing my toys out the pram it became obvious to me that I don't have the willpower to last that long without a punt.  Unfortunately, I've slipped back into bad habits so it's back to wankers rehab for me.

I like the glass half  full approach but I would personally rather resort to finishing myself off if I have to then leave with a bursting sack.  Interesting that some of my most frustrating punts have been with the best looking too.  I wonder how much of that is psychological because I shot my load after a few minutes pounding an overweight WG a few months back.

If you've had great OWO then I would say you are nearly there because I've been feeling very little last few punts.

Hi all,

Wanted to give some positive news on this whole 'not enough sensitivity / difficult or impossible to cum' thing.

Had a punt today - vanilla stuff, which is really all I'm into - but am pleased to report success. I managed to have a really awesome climax during penetrative sex, and in fairly standard missionary position. This is something I've struggled to achieve for a while, as anyone who has read my previous posts on this thread will know.

What's made the difference? In order of priority:

1. Wank ban - exactly one month has passed since I started this ban, and I think it has paid off.
2. Not worrying too much about the ending, but just enjoying the situation for what it is, whatever happens.
3. A generally healthy lifestyle, plus I take daily supplements of zinc and l-tyrosine. Obviously I cannot claim, let alone prove, that these have made a difference, but for the sake of completion, it's best that I mention them.
4. 25mg sildenafil an hour prior to punt. This is a low dose and taking it may be more psychological than physical, but worth it in my opinion. I did once try a higher dose but found this had a negative effect on sensitivity, the exact opposite of what I was trying to achieve.

So, anyway, I thought it would be encouraging to report some good results from all this, and hopefully it's onwards, upwards and better from here.

You are officially now the man on this thread, congrats!

Offline GreyDave

 :hi: rockhead seems to have same thing going on as myself  :( I use 25mg and top up but find now I can pump away until I am well and truly Knackered the little fella goes down and after maybe 20-30-mins I am up and on again with the finishing cum shot often wanked out :( I do the walk-ups and the time thing is often the stopper for me but even with indy girls this is happening more and more Oh well at least the walk girls are cheap ;)  55 age is a bastard as John Beechaman said "I wished I`d had more sex"
« Last Edit: September 19, 2016, 02:39:47 pm by GreyDave »

Offline Rockhead

You are officially now the man on this thread, congrats!

Thanks everyone - I hope it offered some encouragement, if nothing else. I may not be punting again until around October 10, mostly due to funds and a very sick car, but I'm certainly more confident about it and having fun planning what I'm gonna be doing next.

Offline MrMatrix

I don't think i could go that long mate, hats off to ya!  :hi:
Guys great news. Did a punt today and unloaded in cow girl. Indeed I thought her BJ was that good I thought she was going to finish me there and then. and I've never had any one do that before.
So last week went for a punt but ended up walking, got home and after over 5 weeks chocked one out- so annoyed with myself having gone so long. Then to day went to see Ava (body of a goddess I kid you not-see review) and it just all happened so naturally despite no FK. So a wank 5 days ago made no difference but a 5 week wanking ban has made a difference. Just hope its not a one off. This is the first time since February that I've not had to chock one out whilst with a WG. Will continue abstaining till next punt which will be next week.Blimey I feel fired up. :music:
Hopefully there will be more of us having success stories to share.
Still cant believe it  :yahoo:

Online quakeroat

I probably suffered a bit from IRON GRIP syndrome when I started punting. Years of masturbating a certain way and no sex, certainly affected my sensitivity and ability to maintain an erection and climaxing with a rubber when it came to sex.

Thanks to all your posts and taking my own porn and masturbation ban for almost 2 months increased my sensitivity the to point where I was cumming after only 1 or 2 minutes after sex, which obviously has positives and negatives. I'm trying to find a balance of masturbating a couple of days before a punt, which allows me to perform decently in the bedroom, and not cum too quickly. But it is a tough balance and if I do masturbate a bit too roughly pre-punt, it can affect my ability to cum on the day.   

Offline Rockhead

Guys great news. Did a punt today and unloaded in cow girl.
Still cant believe it  :yahoo:

There ya go! Great result. Pleased to hear this working out for you and for others. I reckon the long wank ban did enhance your sensitivity, and the fact that you had one wank a few days ago didn't make any difference. As I've no punts due I've reverted to the pleasures of the hand, but I'm doing it a lot differently - just a very light touch, and using just two fingers, and it has been working with no problem at all. That said, I'll impose another ban for a week or 10 days before I do my next punt.

I probably suffered a bit from IRON GRIP syndrome when I started punting. Years of masturbating a certain way and no sex, certainly affected my sensitivity and ability to maintain an erection and climaxing with a rubber when it came to sex.

Yes, this is the cardinal sin in my opinion - and of course it's totally understandable. No-one is going to tell you to masturbate in a certain way (well, not before this thread was established anyway) and years and years of doing things a certain way engenders habits that are hard to break, and leads to unrealistic expectations.

Offline MrMatrix

I probably suffered a bit from IRON GRIP syndrome when I started punting. Years of masturbating a certain way and no sex, certainly affected my sensitivity and ability to maintain an erection and climaxing with a rubber when it came to sex.

Thanks to all your posts and taking my own porn and masturbation ban for almost 2 months increased my sensitivity the to point where I was cumming after only 1 or 2 minutes after sex, which obviously has positives and negatives. I'm trying to find a balance of masturbating a couple of days before a punt, which allows me to perform decently in the bedroom, and not cum too quickly. But it is a tough balance and if I do masturbate a bit too roughly pre-punt, it can affect my ability to cum on the day.   
In my case 30 years of iron grip in my case - staying up was never the problem, but unloading has been for years. Never helps when the OH says "haven't you finished yet" and thats 20 years ago-
Any ways its good that we can support one another on this forum with these ideas as we are all pretty much in the same boat. I'll let you know next week if it was a one off or not.  :hi:

Online quakeroat

Any ways its good that we can support one another on this forum with these ideas as we are all pretty much in the same boat. I'll let you know next week if it was a one off or not.  :hi:

I didn't realise this was a problem for so many blokes until stumbling upon this thread. It's a big relief to know I'm not the only one out there with this issue. Let us know how you get on MrMatrix  :thumbsup:

Offline nervous1

I've been doing all the wrong things for a while now.  Even watched some porn last week after discovering Ava Coxx.  Was bursting for a punt at the weekend so went ahead with one being willing to finish myself off and definitely taking the blue pill this time after my last disastrous punt.

OWO was still not that great but better than normal and made me want penetration that bit more.  Lasted about 2 minutes in doggy  :)  I always knew two pops was too much to ask but had some enjoyable sex without any pressure on me but my poor level of fitness is what let me down.  Finished myself off while she tongued my balls.  I think if I went long enough I could have gone about round 2 properly as there was enough sensitivity.

As Rockhead said, don't underestimate how much of this is in the head.  I had the eye of the tiger and was simply determined.  The main thing that is going for me is that I never use more than two fingers (even during punt).  I was also lucky that she never used her hand once which was a first for me and always something that usually guarantees floppiness so that's going to be a request from now on - no handjobs!  Even with the unfortunate return of personal hand relief the last while and slight porn relapse there is obviously some improvement in regards to sensitivity.  I may have perhaps 'flatlined' or something after that 3 weeks of abstinence.  Viagra also a must for me.

Offline MrMatrix

I didn't realise this was a problem for so many blokes until stumbling upon this thread. It's a big relief to know I'm not the only one out there with this issue. Let us know how you get on MrMatrix  :thumbsup:
Was it too good to believe. So today 2 days after last punt I'm thinking I can do it again. Nice punt, nice girl, But the auto trigger didn't kick in. Arrrrh after the other day I thought I was on a roll. No, back to having a wank whilst she was on all fours straddling me with her tits in my mouth and a finger in her cunt and my right hand helping me out. O well back to the drawing board. sigh, crest fallen..... :dash:
I've had worse wanks TBH. :unknown:

Offline shant999

Fantastic info gents.

1. Wank ban in place after i don't know how many years!!

At least 2.5 weeks before opening the flood gates. :unknown:

Offline MrMatrix

yes I'm staying with the ban for a while. Only exception is if I'm on a punt and I think I can be forgiven that.  :hi:

Offline threechilliman

As well as playing tontober, I'm doing stoptober. As I've already quit smoking I can't do that, so no porn, no wanking and no alcohol. I'll see how I get on. The stop is already in place.

All in preparation for Newvember......

tcm

Offline Complete Novice

The best of luck TCM, you don't do anything by halves do you!

Offline Romeo Sensini

Totally inspired by the content of this thread, I recognise all these symptoms (and the causes). Currently at day 10 of a total porn and wanking ban and have promised myself a punt as reward on 5th November - hope theres some karma in that!

Ps - sure its mentioned elsewhere but nofap.com is worth a quick visit if you feel yourself weakening and need a diversion (some of its a bit holier than thou and some BS, but there are some useful threads).

Offline threechilliman

The best of luck TCM, you don't do anything by halves do you!

Never ever. If I'm doing anything, I do it big time.

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Offline Rockhead

Totally inspired by the content of this thread, I recognise all these symptoms (and the causes). Currently at day 10 of a total porn and wanking ban and have promised myself a punt as reward on 5th November - hope theres some karma in that!

Ps - sure its mentioned elsewhere but nofap.com is worth a quick visit if you feel yourself weakening and need a diversion (some of its a bit holier than thou and some BS, but there are some useful threads).

Always good to see a fellow cast member from Father Ted on here! Hopefully you'll be fine for the big Five-Aside Priests Over-75 match, Father Sensini - sadly we can't field Father Jack anymore due to rigor mortis and decomposition.

On a serious note, yes, that nofap site is worth a look. There are various ways of going about this - you might choose to avoid wanking altogether, or you might choose to allow yourself some stimulation but stopping short of orgasm, with or without porn / visual stimulation. Whatever you do, I recommend the lightest of touches - it's the 'death grip' scenario that is the real killer, and I think it takes time - sometimes quite a long time - to deprogramme the brain and re-engage sensitivity where it counts.

Some say a 'reboot' can take a total of 90 days. That sounds scary but it feels fairly accurate in my experience. Everyone's different though. The Nofap site has a worthwhile glossary of terms, and this section - about the Reboot process - is a lengthy but interesting read: External Link/Members Only