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Offline Johnweston

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This lady accepted a reverse bid for my booking in Chepstow. I checked with her as quite a distance from surry. All good. She asked me to put 150.00 in her account as previously been done over with time wasters, so I did. Well the whole episode was a sham and she has tricked me out of the money. No show, no refunds. I reported her to adult work but they have not taken her off the site. I have all the messages, texts, paying in slip as proof. She should not be allowed to get away with this.

Offline Steely Dan

You don't deserve this ... no one does.  I suggest, though, you read some of the helpful basics in the PuntiWiki which make it clear that sending money in advance is NEVER a good or reasonable thing to do.

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Offline laidbackasiandude

This should go onto the UKP Blacklist. The only consolation I can offer is that you could have
got ripped off by a lot more than £150, well done for reviewing and better luck next time.

Ben4454

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She'll get whats coming to her. Karma is calculated.

Offline Dani

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Can I ask why in response to her feedback you replied did not show up but also put "who turns up in jeans"
How would you know she turned up in jeans if she didn't turn up?

Not dismissing your review but your reply on your own feedback doesn't make sense

Offline laidbackasiandude

Can I ask why in response to her feedback you replied did not show up but also put "who turns up in jeans"
How would you know she turned up in jeans if she didn't turn up?

Not dismissing your review but your reply on your own feedback doesn't make sense

I think there's cross wires here as what you wrote refers to a booking or "no-show" back in
December 2014 based upon the feedback listings with an escort NO longer listed.
« Last Edit: January 09, 2016, 06:06:33 pm by laidbackasiandude »

Offline cueball

Can I ask why in response to her feedback you replied did not show up but also put "who turns up in jeans"
How would you know she turned up in jeans if she didn't turn up?

Not dismissing your review but your reply on your own feedback doesn't make sense

That's not a post I'd have put up dani


A lot of us are not keen to have our aw nic bounded round on here

cockneybstrd

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That's not a post I'd have put up dani


A lot of us are not keen to have our aw nic bounded round on here

While I agree Mr Cueball about the Aw NIC being bounded around on here

It was pretty obvious and did contain one bit which had me laughing out loud

Offline cueball

While I agree Mr Cueball about the Aw NIC being bounded around on here

It was pretty obvious and did contain one bit which had me laughing out loud

Agreed  :D

hopestar1978

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Mr Weston has distorted the truth in a big way. He changed the dates and all the goal posts, did not show himself and I entered the agreed place twice, wanted me to walk naked towards a public railway station platform, put the phone down on me, told me he had hidden his car. He made meeting him not only intimidating but also impossible. I offered a refund and I too have all the proof. He would not give me details to refund even though he wasted my time he then proceeded to demand photos which initially I was going to provide but he then from Xmas eve through to New Year's Day continuously harassed and intimated me, I have the texts to prove this. I have a really good history and reputation but this guy doesn't. He has messed women around and intimated them the same way he has me and has a history of it on his profile!!! To do what this man has done to a small women on her own who is actually honest and decent is disgusting. I could barely deal with it, how would a younger less experienced women be??? Shameful and disgusting man.

James999

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Mr Weston has distorted the truth in a big way.

WOW, you joined here within two hours of his review, how come?

hopestar1978

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I joined because I've got a really good reputation and clients and prospective clients have been in touch and alerted me to johnweston and his slanderous review. A lady is entitled to defend herself against a bully and this man is certainly that.

James999

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clients and prospective clients have been in touch

Is that really true, and just how many have been in touch and who?
« Last Edit: January 09, 2016, 08:28:04 pm by James999 »

hopestar1978

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Yes it's true and some have seen the one on AW and been in touch and two from this site. I'm NO FRAUD...

James999

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Yes it's true and some have seen the one on AW and been in touch and two from this site. I'm NO FRAUD...

Well you see that's the problem, by 6pm perhaps 30 people had read his review, as such the likelyhood of them being one of your clients is very remote, and the chance of them deciding to message you is even more remote. And of course you have not named who told you despite being asked.

Far more likely is that one of the shit stirring banned pro$$ies / haters alerted you, in an attempt to shit stir for the site.

So you see the issue is, that you've clearly lied on finding this site  :thumbsdown:
« Last Edit: January 09, 2016, 08:39:17 pm by James999 »

hopestar1978

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No I've had many reviews on AW since the 1/1/16 when that review was posted on there and at 614 I was alerted by text by two people one whom I've met and one I haven't about the post on here. Don't call me a LIAR....

Offline Private Parts

clients and prospective clients have been in touch

Yes it's true and some have seen the one on AW and been in touch and two from this site. I'm NO FRAUD...

Hopestar, presumably your prospective clients were using a Ouija board. Really think you should protect your white knights as they will probably be all the clientele that remains after this.
I'm not defending either side of this dispute but this is not the place to do your dirty laundry.
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hopestar1978

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I'm not airing my dirty laundrey nor am I lying and please don't patronise me. I'm not someone who can be bullied or pushed around. This man has slandered my character as a professional and working girl. I'm justified in responding and certainly in defending myself!! White knights... I like that..and yes as it goes I have many.

cockneybstrd

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Yes it's true and some have seen the one on AW and been in touch and two from this site. I'm NO FRAUD...

Well who were the squealers ?

At the end of day posters will click on your profile see the feedback click on the clients feedback and see that and make their own deductions onto the nature of this character from that.....

yorkshire123

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Mr Weston has distorted the truth in a big way. He changed the dates and all the goal posts, did not show himself and I entered the agreed place twice, wanted me to walk naked towards a public railway station platform, put the phone down on me, told me he had hidden his car. He made meeting him not only intimidating but also impossible. I offered a refund and I too have all the proof. He would not give me details to refund even though he wasted my time he then proceeded to demand photos which initially I was going to provide but he then from Xmas eve through to New Year's Day continuously harassed and intimated me, I have the texts to prove this. I have a really good history and reputation but this guy doesn't. He has messed women around and intimated them the same way he has me and has a history of it on his profile!!! To do what this man has done to a small women on her own who is actually honest and decent is disgusting. I could barely deal with it, how would a younger less experienced women be??? Shameful and disgusting man.

So you knew that he was a wrong-un but you still took the booking & his money?

hopestar1978

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At the end of the day I've stated facts in response to an untruth posted about me. I just wonder if all the people commenting taken the time to read his reviews and then mine???? I'm actually the victim here NOT HIM. At the end of the day we are women meeting strangers by choice, the least the client can do is stick to his end of the deal and treat a woman correctly. That's all!!!

James999

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am I lying and please don't patronise me.

You are not being patronised, but if you come here and lie don't be surprised when it's pointed out to you  :hi:

As for the review,
Whatever the detail both you and the client agree he paid you £150 and you didn't meet, so you have the money in return for nothing, you keep telling us how you have  agood reputation etc, but £150 for nothing 
:thumbsdown:

« Last Edit: January 09, 2016, 09:13:54 pm by James999 »

yorkshire123

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At the end of the day I've stated facts in response to an untruth posted about me. I just wonder if all the people commenting taken the time to read his reviews and then mine???? I'm actually the victim here NOT HIM. At the end of the day we are women meeting strangers by choice, the least the client can do is stick to his end of the deal and treat a woman correctly. That's all!!!

You haven't answered my question, did you know he was a wrong-un prior to accepting the booking?

As a small test of your self proclaimed honesty here's a couple more.....

Are you really 39?
Are you really a size 8?

hopestar1978

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I didn't know he was a wrong un and yes I'm 39 and a size 8. I'm actually the real deal...

cockneybstrd

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At the end of the day I've stated facts in response to an untruth posted about me. I just wonder if all the people commenting taken the time to read his reviews and then mine???? I'm actually the victim here NOT HIM. At the end of the day we are women meeting strangers by choice, the least the client can do is stick to his end of the deal and treat a woman correctly. That's all!!!

Yes i ve read his feedback and well the only assumption i could make on your behalf was stupidity or greed as the two other negatives were major red flags or maybe you were swayed by tales of shopping trips etc

Offline madeinwales56

Mmm. All sounds a bit odd to me. Prossie from Caterham in Surrey bids on a reverse booking from a punter in Chepstow, Gwent. Over 140 miles away. Punter deposits £150 on prossie's request and asks her to walk naked on a train station. You have got to ask yourself why? Why would she accept an rb so far away? Why would he pay £150 up front? Seems this prossie has decent feedback apart from this one. There is probably a little bit of truth in both stories me thinks. I'm sure if he was refunded his money it would make the situation better.

hopestar1978

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Yes we both agree that £150 was paid but I have proof that I turned up twice, phone records, I've screenshot them and texts to prove I wanted to return it. He wasted an hour and a half of my time and I was still willing to return the money but he posted a negative review and that more than balances out for my time and his negative reviews and more so his days if constant harassment!! He is a menace...

hopestar1978

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We were meant to meet and he was to pay the balance but he changed the date, the meet and the place and messed me around... These bookings are common and I travel everywhere for bookings... This man truly was difficult intimidating and harassed me all over the holidays

Offline Hertsgent

I agree - bit of a soap opera this one, and impossible to work it out - first time poster too so no track record

Offline Private Parts

Mmm. All sounds a bit odd to me. Prossie from Caterham in Surrey bids on a reverse booking from a punter in Chepstow, Gwent. Over 140 miles away. Punter deposits £150 on prossie's request and asks her to walk naked on a train station. You have got to ask yourself why? Why would she accept an rb so far away? Why would he pay £150 up front? Seems this prossie has decent feedback apart from this one. There is probably a little bit of truth in both stories me thinks. I'm sure if he was refunded his money it would make the situation better.
Exactly and with a bit of common sense from both parties they can both learn a valuable lesson and to save face this site is not the small claims court. PP

hopestar1978

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Lol not the small claims court... That's funny... I like it... I just wanted to respond but only to his negative review but also to other comments too... I'm genuine and my site and reviews prove it. I have 55 he has around 20 and two are negative and I couldn't leave one as I deleted the original booking when he cancelled it... But he didn't so ge was able to leave me a review but I wasn't able to leave him one or he would have 3 negatives... I know another girl who has seen him and he messed her about for half an hour too... Was difficult to actually meet and kept changing the deal...

James999

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He wasted an hour and a half of my time

Acording to routeplanner the journey is 2.5 hours each way and as such that's a minimum of 5 hours, that's if you went :unknown: ot are you saying you just wasted 1.5 hours on texts etc   :unknown:

Also, you still have not said who alerted you to this review, despite being asked three times  :hi:
« Last Edit: January 09, 2016, 10:01:44 pm by James999 »

yorkshire123

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I didn't know he was a wrong un and yes I'm 39 and a size 8. I'm actually the real deal...

So you didn't do any pre booking checks?

Looks like we have another lying punter in our midst, strange that don't you think  ;)

38 on the profile (think it was 35 when I saw her earlier in the year) but she told me she was 43. She's also never a size 8, more like 12 with a belly. I should have walked......

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hopestar1978

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Ahh well that's a lie if I was 35 in 2014 how am I 39 now? And I've been a size 8 for at least 15 years... Does anyone realise that these men are jaded and liars and I've never been a size 12 EVER... That one is an obvious liar... Check his apparent facts and again my profile on AW... WIW girls need to know about this site and what men are saying... Even the positive reviews are wank stories .... And disgusting and derogatory to women and we are not PROSSIES ... Have some respect... We are women, mothers, sisters and daughters and all the men on here seem to like seeing working girls... Unbelievable ...

yorkshire123

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Ahh well that's a lie if I was 35 in 2014 how am I 39 now? And I've been a size 8 for at least 15 years... Does anyone realise that these men are jaded and liars and I've never been a size 12 EVER... That one is an obvious liar... Check his apparent facts and again my profile on AW... WIW girls need to know about this site and what men are saying... Even the positive reviews are wank stories .... And disgusting and derogatory to women and we are not PROSSIES ... Have some respect... We are women, mothers, sisters and daughters and all the men on here seem to like seeing working girls... Unbelievable ...

Well that didn't take long  :sarcastic:

cockneybstrd

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Lol not the small claims court... That's funny... I like it... I just wanted to respond but only to his negative review but also to other comments too... I'm genuine and my site and reviews prove it. I have 55 he has around 20 and two are negative and I couldn't leave one as I deleted the original booking when he cancelled it... But he didn't so ge was able to leave me a review but I wasn't able to leave him one or he would have 3 negatives... I know another girl who has seen him and he messed her about for half an hour too... Was difficult to actually meet and kept changing the deal...

As I said earlier you had to either be greedy or stupid if you had read his feedback and if you knew he had messed around others why did you bid on his Rb.?

Let's play guess how much the Rb was for. I reckon it was for a bag and half. Hence the one fifty deposit

hopestar1978

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And whoever the guy is from November 24 2014 that is a definite lie! I was in the middle of moving house between 23rd and 29th so where and when did that liar see me? OMG men on here are so bad ruining women's reputations for no reason... It never stopoed me being booked solid this last year either... Proof is in the bookings I get, regulars I have and work that continues to flow through my phone and site

cockneybstrd

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Ahh well that's a lie if I was 35 in 2014 how am I 39 now? And I've been a size 8 for at least 15 years... Does anyone realise that these men are jaded and liars and I've never been a size 12 EVER... That one is an obvious liar... Check his apparent facts and again my profile on AW... WIW girls need to know about this site and what men are saying... Even the positive reviews are wank stories .... And disgusting and derogatory to women and we are not PROSSIES ... Have some respect... We are women, mothers, sisters and daughters and all the men on here seem to like seeing working girls... Unbelievable ...

What's unbelievable is your attitude you don't seem to want to answer any questions. It's looks like your own greed for cash got you in a stupid situation You keep banging on about his feedback but you were stupid enough to accept his bid. But then again your always bidding on every reverse booking going even when you dont meet the specific requirements
« Last Edit: January 09, 2016, 10:17:36 pm by cockneybstrd »

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That were quite a melt down, I missed most of it.

Loved the line... we're not PROSSIES

no love, you're a princess :sarcastic:
« Last Edit: January 09, 2016, 11:12:02 pm by cueball »

Offline Londonpunter30

Think there's more from both sides.  The OP seems to have a history of doing public meets, his not other post on here also mentions someone wanting money up front.

Lesson learned never pay in advance

Offline purple_t

Both punter and pro$$ie sound dodgy to me.

Remember, do your research and never pay in advance.
Why any prossie would agree to meet with a punter stark naked in public, especially in the middle of winter with a punter she'd never met, is beyond me... hardly discreet :lol: and you'd have to be a fool to think a WG who says she will do that for you is genuine.

Offline madeinwales56

I find it interesting that the op, Johnweston, hasn't logged on since he started this thread and a load of kerfuffle. I had my doubts about him when I first read this thread but it's strange he hasn't been back to comment on his handiwork.

Offline mattylondon

I find it interesting that the op, Johnweston, hasn't logged on since he started this thread and a load of kerfuffle. I had my doubts about him when I first read this thread but it's strange he hasn't been back to comment on his handiwork.
I agree with that and with purple_t above. The pair of them come across as well dodgy. She comes across as a right greedy bitch, with a shite attitude and I think there's more about the OP than meets the eye. There's definitely something odd about him, in my opinion.
« Last Edit: January 13, 2016, 01:00:42 am by mattylondon »

Offline Private Parts

I do not think we should concern ourselves any further.
They deserve each other. IMHO
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yourgent

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For what its worth, I have met Hopestar and I can honestly say she is a petite size 8 with big tits. As for age ,39 is close enough, probably 40's but we all know the deal there.

What I would add though is that I could not recommend her to anyone and have shared this opinion with members here in several PM's. In our meet she was more interested in getting high than getting me off. The BJ and sex were lackluster at best and then there was the old excuse of being too sensitive to do much else after RO...so for that reason I would avoid.

Offline mattylondon

For what its worth, I have met Hopestar and I can honestly say she is a petite size 8 with big tits. As for age ,39 is close enough, probably 40's but we all know the deal there.

What I would add though is that I could not recommend her to anyone and have shared this opinion with members here in several PM's. In our meet she was more interested in getting high than getting me off. The BJ and sex were lackluster at best and then there was the old excuse of being too sensitive to do much else after RO...so for that reason I would avoid.
Good info to know. I thought she was way over-priced anyway, for her age but that's just my personal taste.

I'm scratching my head to understand why any guy would want to pay £200 for this woman? Even if she was £100 less, which is where I'd consider her level is personally, I wouldn't book her. She didn't come across well.
« Last Edit: January 13, 2016, 10:54:50 pm by mattylondon »

yourgent

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Yeah, I see your point there and for the record I paid nothing like that. Mine was an RB and was way below her current rates. Wanted to tick and Aussie off the punting bucket list (which she is) and wished i hadn't.

Offline mattylondon

Yeah, I see your point there and for the record I paid nothing like that. Mine was an RB and was way below her current rates. Wanted to tick and Aussie off the punting bucket list (which she is) and wished i hadn't.
Ah, fair enough. At least you didn't waste any cash. She's probably just a chancer who prices herself up as that but does most of her business through reverse bookings.

Btw there's an Aussie who I think represents better value for money, if that's who you were looking to

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Offline Johnweston

Can I ask why in response to her feedback you replied did not show up but also put "who turns up in jeans"
How would you know she turned up in jeans if she didn't turn up?

Not dismissing your review but your reply on your own feedback doesn't make sense
Hi, this was not the hopestar episode, this was due to a lady I was supposed to be meeting at Ikea. She said as requested she would be arriving braless with quite a few buttons undone, skirt with suspenders and stockings. When I arrived and was trying to find her, she said she was wearing a t shirt and jeans, but I never found her, then she turned her phone off.