I did it once, then night before had a bad dream of how shit it was so rolled over sent an email come in daisy duke hot pants and pick me up from my local pub for an all day. The change of plan worked, and realised planning is not for me I'm to unpredictable.
To the guys who do this frequently, do you watch lots of porn and these tent to recreate scenes of your favourite porno, won't ask the fuffs as imagine a remake of their favourite romcom, bet some fucker has done serendipity.