Blacklisted!

[NotoriousNot]

Well, this a new experience for me. I appear to have been blacklisted by one of my favourite girls - Serena, who goes by the name of SSilksxo on AW.

I've seen her twice and had a wonderful time on both occasions. She seemed happy enough and we parted on good terms both times.

I then tried to contact her recently and didn't get a reply to a booking request. A few days later she did reply, saying all was fine and she was just a bit busy. No problem, I thought, and emailed her again a few days later with another booking request, this time for a full week in advance.

She didn't reply and after a couple of days I checked on AW to see if she had deleted my email. She had. Concerned, I sent one more message asking if I'd offended her in any way (my last request had gone into a little detail but hadn't mentioned anything that wasn't on her 'enjoys' list). This email was deleted instantly, without having been read. I believe this is what happens when somebody blacklists you on AW...

I know there are plenty more girls out there, but it can take a while to find one who ticks all your boxes and I'm confused as to what on earth I did that deserved getting blacklisted for.

[threechilliman]

Give her a ring.

tcm

[vw]

What's her profile, I will mediate to get the the bottom of it if you like !

[James999]

What's her profile,

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Perhaps she's getting some decent pictures done for her profile  She looks fit but pics are 

Oh and as for your actual problem, simply create a new AW profile & name and book her under that name, pro$$ies do it all the time 

[NotoriousNot]

Thanks for the suggestions guys! I don't want to make her worry that I'm going to become a stalker, so I probably wouldn't call her even if I had her number (she gives it out when a booking is made and I don't keep stuff like that written down anywhere).

I also wouldn't want to book her again under a different name in case she looked disappointed when I showed up for a meeting.

I suppose I'm not really looking for a solution, just venting my frustration and disappointment. The offer of mediation is an interesting one, and thanks for that. My worry would be that she would say something like 'I pretended to like him twice but just couldn't face him a third time as I find him physically repulsive', which wouldn't do my confidence any good at all!

[vw]

My worry would be that she would say something like 'I pretended to like him twice but just couldn't face him a third time as I find him physically repulsive', which wouldn't do my confidence any good at all!

Maybe she was falling for you and did it to protect herself, be optimistic !

[DogFace36]

   If a girl fucks you about like this just 'next' her and move on. She was good at her job, and it might have seemed like you had a 'connection' but you obviously didn't, so forget about her and get a new one. I know it's a cliche, but there really are plenty more where she came from.

[p3ngu1n]

Well she does offer humiliation (giving) as a service! 

(sorry mate, couldn't resist!  )

[NotoriousNot]

Maybe she was falling for you and did it to protect herself, be optimistic !

I feel better already!

[James999]

It could be that her boyfiend / pimp does her e mails and has just deleted yours as you have such a big cock and after you met her she was a bit loose when he put his tiddler in there 

[MrMog]

If you were blacklisted then surely you would not be able to see her profile?

Hate to be the one to say it but maybe you are just 'not her type' so to speak?

More likely she is just busy on the days you request and can't fit you in her slot.

[MrMog]

Seriously though, if she is ignoring you then tell her to feck off and go elsewhere. There are much nicer lasses out there.

[con-a-ser]

Give her a ring.

tcm

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[MrMog]

If she likes it then she better put a cock ring on it, oh oh oh, oh oh oh oh oh.

Best Beyonce I can do.

[Ben4454]

In my time operating Adultwork I have come to know that the 'likes list' is just a guide line. I have been blacklisted for suggesting a BDSM meet with a working girl who had 'recieving BDSM' on her likes list.

I also did a reverse booking and asked specifically for girls to reply who wanted to do a BDSM meet. The person who won the bid with the best offer blacklisted me because she isn't into BDSM and was offended...

Only suggest these kind of 'different meets' with known girls on UKP with positive ratings. I found these girls have a bit more of a brain or is at least somewhat certified.

[The_Don]

There are many other W/G out there willing to part you from your punting funds.

IMO, move on and find another that not going waste your time (as she already has done)

[AnthG]

If you do decide to phone her I would strongly recommend you do it on a throwaway sim.

I say this as these girls even if they don't want to see you like to store your number for god knows what reason for months on an end, and then even stranger like to phone you back out of the blue months later.

This has happened to three people (including myself as one of the three) in the north east recently.

[LoneWolf2020]

This has happened to three people (including myself as one of the three) in the north east recently.

theres no mystery here, business dries up so they call clients they dont want to see during busier times.

To the OP....most prostitutes are unballanced so the reason she will no longer see you was more than likely fabricated in her mind.

[con-a-ser]

To the OP....most prostitutes are unballanced so the reason she will no longer see you was more than likely fabricated in her mind.

Or he left the toilet seat up

or something petty like that, Might have got names mixed up & block you instead of the bloke before or after

[Spannerman]

Oh and as for your actual problem, simply create a new AW profile & name and book her under that name, pro$$ies do it all the time 

Unfortunately it's not that easy as it links your existing profile and your new profile, it appears as an alias to members providing services. I've been blocked a few times for no reasons at all really. Hardly surprising most of the WGs I've met have been somewhat unhinged and mental. I guess that's what fucking 30 plus people a week does to you 

[James999]

Unfortunately it's not that easy as it links your existing profile and your new profile,

There are easy ways around that 

[Spannerman]

If you do decide to phone her I would strongly recommend you do it on a throwaway sim.

I say this as these girls even if they don't want to see you like to store your number for god knows what reason for months on an end, and then even stranger like to phone you back out of the blue months later.

This has happened to three people (including myself as one of the three) in the north east recently.

Yep, I've had this with two girls randomly sending me texts when business is poor. I don't mind really, I'm a single bloke but they didn't know that....

[LoneWolf2020]

changing sims is all well and good but i think she'll notice when she answers the door 

[JamesCollins]

nah, she never replied to any emails I sent her.

God knows why, only sent her a couple like.

[Terryray]

Its not the excessive shagging that's  unhinging them it s the shite they are sniffing up their  nose,  and don't say none of them do I am not judgemental on this helping quite a few girls off it  they are quite different then

[vw]

I am not judgemental on this helping quite a few girls off it

So your not a punter then, why would a therapist come on here ?  Touting for work ?

[donjuan101]

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Perhaps she's getting some decent pictures done for her profile  She looks fit but pics are 

Oh and as for your actual problem, simply create a new AW profile & name and book her under that name, pro$$ies do it all the time 

true but if she has blacklisted him it means she must have gone off him for some reason  which means probably turn into a shit punt. move on IMO.