Am I being unreasonable...??

[Talbear]

So I contacted this lady....

External Link/Members Only

And all things were going well with the comms, and I was well up for seeing her.... Well reviewed etc... Then I noticed in her gallery that there were some photos with a BB punter.... So I checked this on her likes and saw that she offered BB 

So instead of just walking away, I sent her the following email:

'Hi Tinky

I'm really sorry, and please don't be offended by this in any way.... I've seen that you state BB as one of your enjoys....
Is this a service that you offer...??
If so, it's probably best that we don't meet as I am fairly risk adverse....
Would rather be completely honest with you'

I then received the following reply...:

'have only just noticed that you have been to see EASTERN EUROPEAN girls!!!!
Regrettably, I am sure you are fully aware of the problems & issues being created as a result of that with the DWP/Police etc amongst other things???

As is the case with most girls on the site now, regrettably I would prefer that we don't meet, sorry if you feel you have wasted your time, but as a VERIFIED Member with 680 Positive Feedback Ratings, I am not willing to jeopardise myself or my committed, honest and genuine clients?

Tinky x

PS. You may want to check and make sure that your name/profile is not listed on the Service Provider's AVOID at all costs Blog? '

Then followed up by this:

'Just felt I should also point out that ANY person, Male or Female, involved with this type of work, OR that you may have been with in your past for that matter, who did/does or offers ANY of the following..........

CIM, FACE-SITTING, FRENCH KISSING, ORAL WITHOUT, PERIOD-PLAY, RECEIVING ORAL, SWALLOW, SNOW-BALLING, RIMMING & WATERSPORTS ? (ALL of which are “UN-PROTECTED FORMS OF TRANSFER”!)

are no less dangerous or of risk, than someone like me offering BB ?! (which, in 1 way or another, if not all, equates to approx. 90% of the females with profiles on here, and 60% of females on the planet! lol)

The thing that makes me laugh the most is when girls say NO!!! I wont do BB, but either offer any/all of the above OR for an Extra £20 say “I will do OWO or Cum In Mouth & Swallow!?” LOL.... Seriously those are quite possibly the most dangerous thing ANY girl could do, especially in this type of profession?!

Statistically, you are more likely to be hit by a bus, crossing the road?…. Something most of us do at least once a day, if not more?

Think about it, worry about it, be concerned by it, but please DON'T question people over something that you are most certainly guilty of yourself in one-way or another, and have really not given much thought too?

Additionally, In all fairness, it does state quite clearly on my profile:- It is UP TO YOU what you would like to do? I do offer protection if required or preferred and No-One is holding a gun to your head?!

Sorry if this seems a little blunt or abrupt, but again I feel its a bit of a silly comment or concern, having read your previous Feedback meets?

Tinky x

PS. For what its worth, I know of at least 3 guys who contracted health issues, purely as a result of meeting with EE girls but had ONLY requested OWO? Begs the question, who was in there before them? '

So..... Thoughts gents... Looks like I pushed the wrong buttons by being reasonable...... !!!

 

[wazzer]

So instead of just walking away

That's were you went wrong, it's up to her to offer what she likes, it's up to you to decide if you want what she offers.

It is not your or anybody else's right to lecture her on her lifestyle.

[LoneWolf2020]

where did he lecture her? all i seen was him give a reason for cancelling. This prossie obviously cant take what she sees as criticism too well. 

[smiths]

So I contacted this lady....

External Link/Members Only

And all things were going well with the comms, and I was well up for seeing her.... Well reviewed etc... Then I noticed in her gallery that there were some photos with a BB punter.... So I checked this on her likes and saw that she offered BB 

So instead of just walking away, I sent her the following email:

'Hi Tinky

I'm really sorry, and please don't be offended by this in any way.... I've seen that you state BB as one of your enjoys....
Is this a service that you offer...??
If so, it's probably best that we don't meet as I am fairly risk adverse....
Would rather be completely honest with you'

I then received the following reply...:

'have only just noticed that you have been to see EASTERN EUROPEAN girls!!!!
Regrettably, I am sure you are fully aware of the problems & issues being created as a result of that with the DWP/Police etc amongst other things???

As is the case with most girls on the site now, regrettably I would prefer that we don't meet, sorry if you feel you have wasted your time, but as a VERIFIED Member with 680 Positive Feedback Ratings, I am not willing to jeopardise myself or my committed, honest and genuine clients?

Tinky x

PS. You may want to check and make sure that your name/profile is not listed on the Service Provider's AVOID at all costs Blog? '

Then followed up by this:

'Just felt I should also point out that ANY person, Male or Female, involved with this type of work, OR that you may have been with in your past for that matter, who did/does or offers ANY of the following..........

CIM, FACE-SITTING, FRENCH KISSING, ORAL WITHOUT, PERIOD-PLAY, RECEIVING ORAL, SWALLOW, SNOW-BALLING, RIMMING & WATERSPORTS ? (ALL of which are “UN-PROTECTED FORMS OF TRANSFER”!)

are no less dangerous or of risk, than someone like me offering BB ?! (which, in 1 way or another, if not all, equates to approx. 90% of the females with profiles on here, and 60% of females on the planet! lol)

The thing that makes me laugh the most is when girls say NO!!! I wont do BB, but either offer any/all of the above OR for an Extra £20 say “I will do OWO or Cum In Mouth & Swallow!?” LOL.... Seriously those are quite possibly the most dangerous thing ANY girl could do, especially in this type of profession?!

Statistically, you are more likely to be hit by a bus, crossing the road?…. Something most of us do at least once a day, if not more?

Think about it, worry about it, be concerned by it, but please DON'T question people over something that you are most certainly guilty of yourself in one-way or another, and have really not given much thought too?

Additionally, In all fairness, it does state quite clearly on my profile:- It is UP TO YOU what you would like to do? I do offer protection if required or preferred and No-One is holding a gun to your head?!

Sorry if this seems a little blunt or abrupt, but again I feel its a bit of a silly comment or concern, having read your previous Feedback meets?

Tinky x

PS. For what its worth, I know of at least 3 guys who contracted health issues, purely as a result of meeting with EE girls but had ONLY requested OWO? Begs the question, who was in there before them? '

So..... Thoughts gents... Looks like I pushed the wrong buttons by being reasonable...... !!!

 

I would of read her enjoys list first as I always do, this one has both Bareback and Unprotected sex listed and immediately crossed her off as a skank, and looked elsewhere.

What she has said in reply to you would just re-enforce to me that she hasn't the kind of attitude I require from a WG.

[wazzer]

And all things were going well with the comms, and I was well up for seeing her.... Well reviewed etc... Then I noticed in her gallery that there were some photos with a BB punter.... So I checked this on her likes and saw that she offered BB

He hadn't even booked her yet, so what's the point of all the rest.

[salman69]

Hi All,

This is my 1st ever post on here!

I met this lady last year, as at the time she was not offering Bareback and I just required a GFE and seemed quite reputable from her feedback.

I felt her service was quite inadequate and somewhat mechanical, and even advised at the end of our time together that she ask all her punters to write a review on AW in front of her.  I obliged being a gentleman at which point she would not let me touch her laptop to write the review and advised she will type herself putting words in my head about what should be typed.

IMO avoid at all costs.

Apologies if I've crossed any lines here for my comments above.

Regards

[socks]

A quick glance at her profile and I can see why she might think you're a time waster and respond in the lecturing way she has (not that I agree with that, nor condone her non-customer focussed response to you).

But seriously she is an obvious barebacker - the first picture in her gallery is one with a funnel up her arsehole, entitled "hot anal cum" and there's more than one clip in her movies which show her interest in offering a "cum-in-a-funnel-up-my-arse" service. Some BB shots too with obviously different cocks. It's not like she's hiding her BB like a dark secret but as I said she should have been polite to you, cos that's what good businesses do.

[ramrodronnie]

Guys, guys, guys. Listen, I'm not for one minute sticking up for anyone here. But what this Tinky girl says with regard to contracting sexual diseases is acually right. The exchange of bodily fluids, particularly blood is more dangerous than cumming in a girls pussy. I've done quite bit of research on this topic. Where I would slightly disagree with her is, it is statistically safer for a woman to swallow your load, rather than having it hanging around in her mouth. A woman would have to swallow 2 litres of semen to put her at risk of contracting HIV. So it is actually safer for her to swallow your load, then quickly sterilise her mouth. If a woman has any kind of cut, sore absess in her mouth? Then she is much more likely to contract a sexual disease. Any form of blood, or bodily fluids coming into cotact with each other if one of the sexual partners has any form of sexual disease will most likely lead to the other person contracting it.

I hope that this info is of help to everyone? 

[yorkshire123]

Not unreasonable but for a seasoned punter I would have thought you would have done a few checks before contacting her?
Is she the same pikey that's in this review https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=13694.msg211032#msg211032

[Belgarion]

Not trying to be funny mate, but once you see BB, you just move on. No need to clarify anything.

It is not just the STIs, some of these girls are unhinged, I have a mate who got contacted by one that said she was preggers for him.

As a rule of thumb, I see BB and move on. Same with hardsports

[ramrodronnie]

Belgarion, you are right, and even given what I've said, after learning lots on sexually transmitted diseases, I won't do BB with any WG. Always better to err on the side of caution. 

[Placebo88]

A quick glance at her profile and I can see why she might think you're a time waster and respond in the lecturing way she has (not that I agree with that, nor condone her non-customer focussed response to you).

But seriously she is an obvious barebacker - the first picture in her gallery is one with a funnel up her arsehole, entitled "hot anal cum" and there's more than one clip in her movies which show her interest in offering a "cum-in-a-funnel-up-my-arse" service. Some BB shots too with obviously different cocks. It's not like she's hiding her BB like a dark secret but as I said she should have been polite to you, cos that's what good businesses do.

Yes , hard to see how you could miss that she is into bareback  ; its right in your face wherever you look.

She must have though you were deliberately wasting her time because you condemn her behaviour - if she believed it was a genuine mistake she would not have reacted like that.She must have been really pissed off as going by her feedback she is not a member of the dusty phone brigade with nothing better to do.

Although it is well written , most of the content in her messages is factually unsound at best ( mostly blatant drivel that I doubt she believes herself ) ; she probably just made it up to try and put some uncertainty and worry into your mind and knock you down from your position of assumed superiority - this is my interpretation of her thinking , not my own opinions on your motives ; I believe what you have said exactly as written.

I would never make a booking with a barebacker as their chances of having HIV or other STIs is much greater and there is still a small risk from other activities / condom splitting even if you don't engage in bareback with her.

At least she makes no attempt to hide what she does , letting punters make their own decision on it.

[Hertsgent]

Thanks for a good chuckle - you dodged a bullet there!

Yes you should have noticed, but her reply is off the scale in my opinion - why don't you go back and tell her you go with EE girls because they are cleaner and give better service 

And for what it's worth, her BB justification on risk versus other activities is bollocks by my understanding

[Talbear]

Not unreasonable but for a seasoned punter I would have thought you would have done a few checks before contacting her?
Is she the same pikey that's in this review https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=13694.msg211032#msg211032

Yep... That's the one..!!!

Thanks for the feedback guys.....

In response to some of the comments... :

I wasn't judging her, and yes, should have checked the BB status.... However I did my diligence before I committed to a booking.....

Oh well... At least my cock hasn't dropped off and I feel educated by the hooker....!!!!

[Makka124]

I had a brief look and read, you are the punter with choice and can go to see anybody.
Yes her services are not to taste but you shouldn't attempt lecture her, at the end of the day you can inform people she offers bareback and there are alternatives to visit.
It's strange that you have her a written lectures about the dangers of her service

[Talbear]

I had a brief look and read, you are the punter with choice and can go to see anybody.
Yes her services are not to taste but you shouldn't attempt lecture her, at the end of the day you can inform people she offers bareback and there are alternatives to visit.
It's strange that you have her a written lectures about the dangers of her service

Thanks Makka... Perhaps you should take more than a brief read, and read the comments again, as I'm really failing to see how my words are a lecture..???

[Neal69]

Hi TB.

IMHO

Its blatantly obvious that her business model involves offering BB sex.

Again IMHO its bugger all to do with me what her business model is.

She offers it ...I aint interested.

It is not up to me to take the high ground and tell her about it as it is blatantly obvious in her profile.

Are you blind and cannot see that she is offering BB?

I Blacklisted her over two years ago and it was backed up by the link above.

Otherwise I would likely have podged her.

Once again IMHO yes you did overstep the mark by telling her that her business model was wrong.

She sets her stall up , and we either buy or don't .

We are not the punting police 

[NelsonH]

Lots of the girls do this because they resent any form of being told what to do. So civvie jobs are a no no.

They get a strong feeling of their own power and importance. May be wrong of course.

Along you come with friendly criticism or advice. Off they will go on one. You got a totally typical response.

Just don't bother with this kind of thing.

Book or don't book. Walk or don't walk. That's all you bother about.

[sxman]

Hi TB.

IMHO

Its blatantly obvious that her business model involves offering BB sex.

Again IMHO its bugger all to do with me what her business model is.

She offers it ...I aint interested.

It is not up to me to take the high ground and tell her about it as it is blatantly obvious in her profile.

Are you blind and cannot see that she is offering BB?

I Blacklisted her over two years ago and it was backed up by the link above.

Otherwise I would likely have podged her.

Once again IMHO yes you did overstep the mark by telling her that her business model was wrong.

She sets her stall up , and we either buy or don't .

We are not the punting police

Imho business is business and all forms of feedback is good does not matter what your selling, Yes I agree the OP should have spotted that she offers BB, but we all make mistakes.

I dont see where the OP has lectured the service provider, he has just politely told her the reasons why his not buying her services after talking to her for a while, it don't matter what industry you work in if someone don't buy your products or services you would like to know why, and imho the service provider has reacted wrongly.

[Daffodil]

I would of read her enjoys list first as I always do, this one has both Bareback and Unprotected sex listed and immediately crossed her off as a skank, and looked elsewhere.

What she has said in reply to you would just re-enforce to me that she hasn't the kind of attitude I require from a WG.

Spot on.
Why you would even get into a conversation with such a skank is beyond me.

[ramrodronnie]

Imho business is business and all forms of feedback is good does not matter what your selling, Yes I agree the OP should have spotted that she offers BB, but we all make mistakes.

I dont see where the OP has lectured the service provider, he has just politely told her the reasons why his not buying her services after talking to her for a while, it don't matter what industry you work in if someone don't buy your products or services you would like to know why, and imho the service provider has reacted wrongly.

IMO. Spot on sxman72.   

[theGOAT]

Not unreasonable but for a seasoned punter I would have thought you would have done a few checks before contacting her?
Is she the same pikey that's in this review https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=13694.msg211032#msg211032

I found her profile on AW last night - under 25, A-levels at discretion, sorted by #escort feedbacks.  She comes about 3rd in the whole country!!  Then noticed BB, so did a search on here.  Thanks goodness for UKP!! 

The OP's feedback was very interesting - thanks for sharing.  Seeing how a girl justifies BB.  Amazed she wrote so much.  Pikey Prossie logic 

Shame on anyone who did BB with her, and shame on those who gave positive feedback...

Cheers! 

[onepopwunda]

My first post guys, be gentle with me please, (think I've used that line before lol).

I'm very new to punting, half a dozen or so, and I contacted Tinky, feedback amazing but worried about the offer of BB and I got back almost word for word the same as Talbear but in my case much more gentle because at the point of contact, I was still a potential customer.

It's already been said but thank goodness for UKP  !!

For what it's worth my best yet was Tyler-Alexis or Alice as she seems to call herself now. Very pretty Thai girl in Southend, perfect body, I haven't been back cos there are just too many out there to see :-)