Outcalls

[Dime]

Just had my first outcall punt today with one of my regulars. I have been to lots of incall punts, but this felt extremely weird as I was the one opening the door, and letting her in. I gave her a drink of water, then we sat on the couch and had a chat before heading up to the bedroom. As I  live in a small village in the country and she asked me "where the actual hell  am I? even the driver was getting lost" 
As I live with my parents, I was terrified one of them was going to come home early from work  and walk in on us  so during the punt I felt I couldn't really concentrate and enjoy it.  For example, when we were taking breaks in between positions I was peering out of the window to make sure nobody was watching, and she said "the worst thing you can do is stand at the window naked".   
 At the same time it was amazing doing it in my bed, and the fact I didn't get caught left me feeling relieved but also smug. However, there were issues- I obviously had to make sure I put the used condom and the wrapper in the bin outside so that no one will see it, and I could still smell her perfume in the house after I phoned her a taxi and she left. I was also a bit concerned about my neighbours seeing her arriving and going, who could  potentially ask my parents who was that girl at your house on Monday?
For those punters who are married, do you like outcalls at your own house? If so, have you ever been or nearly been caught out? Is it wrong to do it on your own doorstep? Do you think an incall is safer as there is less risk of being seen or caught? As I said, because I had visions of someone walking in on us, I wasn't fully concentrating, which wasted it a bit for me. 

[Hobbit]

Just had my first outcall punt today with one of my regulars. I have been to lots of incall punts, but this felt extremely weird as I was the one opening the door, and letting her in. I gave her a drink of water, then we sat on the couch and had a chat before heading up to the bedroom. As I  live in a small village in the country and she asked me "where the actual hell  am I? even the driver was getting lost" 
As I live with my parents, I was terrified one of them was going to come home early from work  and walk in on us  so during the punt I felt I couldn't really concentrate and enjoy it.  For example, when we were taking breaks in between positions I was peering out of the window to make sure nobody was watching, and she said "the worst thing you can do is stand at the window naked".   
 At the same time it was amazing doing it in my bed, and the fact I didn't get caught left me feeling relieved but also smug. However, there were issues- I obviously had to make sure I put the used condom and the wrapper in the bin outside so that no one will see it, and I could still smell her perfume in the house after I phoned her a taxi and she left. I was also a bit concerned about my neighbours seeing her arriving and going, who could  potentially ask my parents who was that girl at your house on Monday?
For those punters who are married, do you like outcalls at your own house? If so, have you ever been or nearly been caught out? Is it wrong to do it on your own doorstep? Do you think an incall is safer as there is less risk of being seen or caught? As I said, because I had visions of someone walking in on us, I wasn't fully concentrating, which wasted it a bit for me.

There's no problem with having Outcalls at one's home if you're single and living alone. In your case, I would forget having outcalls at your home if you're that worried. Anyway, shouldn't you be at school? That should keep your mind off it when you get back to school tomorrow. 

[Tiger63]

Only ever did one outcall and that was a hotel in Edinburgh.
Would never dream of doing one at home....ever

[Yorkle]

Being single I have tried a couple of outcalls to my home (only with well reviewed girls mind you), but the 'thrill' soon wore off.  Felt I had to tidy up before they arrived, hide anything too personal (like post with my real name on etc), and like you I could smell perfume for a day or two afterwards which I wasn't keen on.  Whilst it's none of their business, I did wonder if my nosy neighbours wondered why girls half my age were popping around (and one turned up in short dress and heels despite me requesting a casual look).  But the lazy man inside me wouldn't write off another one in the future!

If I was in your position, it all sounds far too risky to continue with outcalls to your home.

[RedKettle]

Far too risky if married or living at home with parents IMO.  Indeed I think pretty risky even if single.

Letting a WG know my home address is a step too far for me.

Outcalls to hotels are fun, especially when work is picking up the hotel bill...

[Jimmyredcab]

Far too risky if married or living at home with parents IMO.  Indeed I think pretty risky even if single.

Letting a WG know my home address is a step too far for me.

I have done it dozens of times, the biggest risk is that a munter turns up.     

[RedKettle]

I have done it dozens of times, the biggest risk is that a munter turns up.     

or a nutter

[Dime]

Far too risky if married or living at home with parents IMO.  Indeed I think pretty risky even if single.

Letting a WG know my home address is a step too far for me.

Outcalls to hotels are fun, especially when work is picking up the hotel bill...

This. I said to her during the punt "Apart from the taxi driver who dropped you off and possibly some gawky neighbours, we're the only 2 people in the world who know we're in here". She then told me that she had given my address to a friend for security reasons. This was despite the fact she knows me, and has had 3 incall punts with me.

[AnthG]

There's no problem with having Outcalls at one's home if you're single and living alone.

There are many problems no matter who you live with. A few off the top of my head

1. The girls pimp could turn up at your home if you ever say anything here on the forum she or he doesn't like.

2. The girl could post your home address details on forums like Saafe which can be googled by other people in your street. Sometimes they think they are being discreet by knocking the number off. But if you live in a street with few houses on it. Then they will know its you if anyone ever googles their street name and says "seen guy, in his 40s and he said he was an Optician"

3. Girl could steal something when you are not watching, or find out details in your home - your name, your profession etc, to blackmail you with. E.g this girl who you seen will know you live with your parents, and you are freaked both they and your neighbors find out who you've seen. She may think, how much is that worth for me to keep quiet and not tell them. (you may laugh, but this is exactly how blackmailing crazies think and it all starts)

[Hobbit]

There are many problems no matter who you live with. A few off the top of my head

1. The girls pimp could turn up at your home if you ever say anything here on the forum she or he doesn't like.

2. The girl could post your home address details on forums like Saafe which can be googled by other people in your street. Sometimes they think they are being discreet by knocking the number off. But if you live in a street with few houses on it. Then they will know its you if anyone ever googles their street name and says "seen guy, in his 40s and he said he was an Optician"

3. Girl could steal something when you are not watching, or find out details in your home - your name, your profession etc, to blackmail you with. E.g this girl who you seen will know you live with your parents, and you are freaked both they and your neighbors find out who you've seen. She may think, how much is that worth for me to keep quiet and not tell them. (you may laugh, but this is exactly how blackmailing crazies think and it all starts)

Shit - She's right! No more home Outcalls for anyone. Scary stuff! I'm just going to check my doors and windows are locked - back in a sec.

[AnthG]

Shit - She's right!

I am a punter. My avatar is just of Ezri Dax from Star Trek Deep Space 9 as I find her attractive. If there were WGs out there that looked like her. People would never see me again.

[Hobbit]

I am a punter. My avatar is just of Ezri Dax from Star Trek Deep Space 9 as I find her attractive.

Sorry dude - My bad   

[itk]

I have done it dozens of times, the biggest risk is that a munter turns up.     

Never done an outcall to my house but I did one to a hotel I was staying at, and a munter turned up. I did have a feeling she was en route as I was keeping lookout from reception. She arrived, and whether it was just me but she stood out like a sore thumb. She looked similar to the pics but about three stone heavier. I gave her some time, and then followed her up to the room where I just carried on walking past. Waited for her to leave and then checked phone, I never even got a return call or text.  Used a different agency an hour later and had a successful punt.

[Jimmyredcab]

There are many problems no matter who you live with. A few off the top of my head

1. The girls pimp could turn up at your home if you ever say anything here on the forum she or he doesn't like.

It is simple common sense, you don't slag off a pro$$ie who has your home address --------- that is the only downside of an outcall, I used to have them on a regular basis and never had a problem apart from uglies turning up.   

[threechilliman]

Would never dream of doing one at home....ever

For the vast majority of punters it carries way too much risk. Only those with nothing to lose could contemplate a girl visiting their home.

tcm

[AnthG]

It is simple common sense, you don't slag off a pro$$ie who has your home address --------- that is the only downside of an outcall.

You cannot really say anything about them.

I say this as my worst ever experience with a girl flipping out onto me during a subsequent booking. And I mean big style freakout to the extent of me being terrified. It resulted from me posting a positive review for her and saying she was the third best girl I have ever seen. I thought she would love that description. Nope she didn't, she thought it wasn't positive enough for her, and so she accepted the booking. Waited till i got in the house, handed over the cash and was naked. And then freaked out. If this had of been an outcall....

[smiths]

Just had my first outcall punt today with one of my regulars. I have been to lots of incall punts, but this felt extremely weird as I was the one opening the door, and letting her in. I gave her a drink of water, then we sat on the couch and had a chat before heading up to the bedroom. As I  live in a small village in the country and she asked me "where the actual hell  am I? even the driver was getting lost" 
As I live with my parents, I was terrified one of them was going to come home early from work  and walk in on us  so during the punt I felt I couldn't really concentrate and enjoy it.  For example, when we were taking breaks in between positions I was peering out of the window to make sure nobody was watching, and she said "the worst thing you can do is stand at the window naked".   
 At the same time it was amazing doing it in my bed, and the fact I didn't get caught left me feeling relieved but also smug. However, there were issues- I obviously had to make sure I put the used condom and the wrapper in the bin outside so that no one will see it, and I could still smell her perfume in the house after I phoned her a taxi and she left. I was also a bit concerned about my neighbours seeing her arriving and going, who could  potentially ask my parents who was that girl at your house on Monday?
For those punters who are married, do you like outcalls at your own house? If so, have you ever been or nearly been caught out? Is it wrong to do it on your own doorstep? Do you think an incall is safer as there is less risk of being seen or caught? As I said, because I had visions of someone walking in on us, I wasn't fully concentrating, which wasted it a bit for me.

I have never done an Outcall to my own home in over 30 years punting and never will, it breaks my basic security, I much prefer Incalls where I can easily walk if needbe.

[smiths]

I have done it dozens of times, the biggest risk is that a munter turns up.     

That's one risk, another is a low life now knows where you live, not a risk I would take however small it may be, and no I don't mean all WGs are low lifes but you also don't know what ANY WG might be really like or if she has a low life pimp.

[Horizontal pleasures]

not repeating the other comments there is one issue overlooked. I apply it to all pre-booked punts, incall or outcall. I request no perfume please. Perfume leaves clues and you mentioned it.


I also ask for no smoke as that is just another perfume and can have the same effect on parents or the missus.

[Quesadilla]

I am a punter. My avatar is just of Ezri Dax from Star Trek Deep Space 9 as I find her attractive. If there were WGs out there that looked like her. People would never see me again.

If she was escorting you'd be fighting me over her mate!  

[Quesadilla]

That's one risk, another is a low life now knows where you live, not a risk I would take however small it may be, and no I don't mean all WGs are low lifes but you also don't know what ANY WG might be really like or if she has a low life pimp.

I've had both - a munter turn up, and a lowlife who subsequently attempted to threaten me when I gave her a bad review. As a single punter I have nothing to lose but I agree it's not for the faint hearted.  As a result I now only book outcalls to my home with girls who are reviewed by trusted punters here.  Of course, that's no guarantee but for me the benefits of an outcall still greatly outweigh the negatives.

If I was married / attached I would absolutely never even consider it - way too many things that can go wrong.  I've often found bits of underwear and even used condoms in odd places some weeks after a punt - you might think you're being thorough cleaning up but it's amazing how difficult it is to think straight let alone clean up properly after you've just been fucked senseless. It seems inevitable to me that a partner would find something if you're attached.

[lostandfound]

Only ever booked one outcall - one evening 20 years ago, after dark. I was working away from home and had rented a house in a cul de sac where my neighbours were mostly retired, and retired early. IMO I was young and foolish, and wouldn't do it again.

Personally I would never book a girl to come to a property I, or anyone related to me owned. Not worth the risk IMO. 

[Dime]

Only ever booked one outcall - one evening 20 years ago, after dark. I was working away from home and had rented a house in a cul de sac where my neighbours were mostly retired, and retired early. IMO I was young and foolish, and wouldn't do it again.

Personally I would never book a girl to come to a property I, or anyone related to me owned. Not worth the risk IMO. 

Now I do realize how big a risk it actually was, as other punters on here have stated. The fact that she was (possibly) seen entering and leaving my house in broad daylight, carries a huge element of risk. When I booked her I wasn't thinking straight, but I had butterflies all morning, despite being an experienced incall punter. In case any punter gets confused, she is a WG I know from an agency, but she had given me her email address to arrange punts outside the agency.. Therefore, what really annoyed me as I said was when she said she had given my address to a friend as a security precaution, as this was a private punt.   The girl knows me and I know her so I don't like random people I've never even met knowing my address, who could potentially do anything with it.

[lostandfound]

Now I do realize how big a risk it actually was, as other punters on here have stated. The fact that she was (possibly) seen entering and leaving my house in broad daylight, carries a huge element of risk. When I booked her I wasn't thinking straight, but I had butterflies all morning, despite being an experienced incall punter. In case any punter gets confused, she is a WG I know from an agency, but she had given me her email address to arrange punts outside the agency.. Therefore, what really annoyed me as I said was when she said she had given my address to a friend as a security precaution, as this was a private punt.   The girl knows me and I know her so I don't like random people I've never even met knowing my address, who could potentially do anything with it.

I believe this is standard practice for sex workers doing outcalls, and IMO it would be surprising if she hadn't told someone.

[dannyboy1980]

Would never do an outcall as i'm married and would be too risky, neighbours seeing her arrive and leaving, wife returning home, escort knowing my address and possibly finding personal info about me and my missus, knowing my luck even if all that was safe not to happen the ma in law would turn up, on second thoughts that sounds fun she could join us haha.

I haven't even had my first incall punt yet though.

[vw]

I believe this is standard practice for sex workers doing outcalls, and IMO it would be surprising if she hadn't told someone.

+1  have quite a few outcalls and they all have their own security procedures, usually an arrived text here for x hours text when finished.

Never had anyone turn up after the event.

Andy to OP for an extra thrill use your parents bedroom adds an extra layer to the punt !  And when locking door after arrival, turn keys or put catch on so you have a bit of time to react to shock early returnees !

[Swansea lad]

Number 1 rule, tell the WG as little about yourself as possible.

Punting name
Punting phone
Punting age
Punting area you live
Punting job
Never park outside the address
Dont have a facebook profile anymore ( have seen a few girls who are friends of friends on there!)

A few girls probably think they know a bit about me, they actually know a lot about a guy who doesnt exist!

[SophieScott]

I believe this is standard practice for sex workers doing outcalls, and IMO it would be surprising if she hadn't told someone.

Yes, she has to let someone know where she is in case anything goes wrong....even though she's seen you on incalls, it's a whole different world seeing a client in his home.

[smiths]

Yes, she has to let someone know where she is in case anything goes wrong....even though she's seen you on incalls, it's a whole different world seeing a client in his home.

No she doesn't have to but chooses to do so which is smart as I see it BUT that doesn't help the OP of course who wants as few people to know as possible.

The point for ME about Outcalls is it would only take ONE low life WG and/or her pimp and things COULD get very difficult for me, the fact many punters on here haven't had a problem themselves I am glad to hear but it doesn't change my view due to knowing it only takes one. Fortunately I prefer Incalls anyway so it makes no odds.

[Dime]

+1  have quite a few outcalls and they all have their own security procedures, usually an arrived text here for x hours text when finished.

Never had anyone turn up after the event.

Andy to OP for an extra thrill use your parents bedroom adds an extra layer to the punt !  And when locking door after arrival, turn keys or put catch on so you have a bit of time to react to shock early returnees !

[/b]
I had been planning to use their room as they have a double bed  but I thought it was too risky as the sheets would get messed up. When we were going up my bedroom, I told her I was going to lock the front door and leave the key in it  just to be sure no one could walk in on us. She looked at me and said "Oh right" in a quite a hesitant/confused manner. 

[Dime]

Number 1 rule, tell the WG as little about yourself as possible.

Punting name
Punting phone
Punting age
Punting area you live
Punting job
Never park outside the address
Dont have a facebook profile anymore ( have seen a few girls who are friends of friends on there!)



A few girls probably think they know a bit about me, they actually know a lot about a guy who doesnt exist!



This was the problem, as the fact she was in my room means she knows a lot about me already. She was asking me lots of questions about things in my room i.e photos, my DVD collection, and after I came and we'd finished fucking, she started reading one of my uni essays which was lying beside the bed! When I had asked her to swallow my cum, she asked for more water which meant I had to run downstairs again to get her glass. I left her alone in my room for less than a minute, but for all I know anything could have happened.

[vw]

[/b]
I had been planning to use their room as they have a double bed  but I thought it was too risky as the sheets would get messed up.

Fair enough !  I learnt quickly when I was living at home, trick is a few photos of the room before so you can put the pillows back just so.

[Swansea lad]

Thrill aside imagine your mother caught you banging a wg in her bed.

What would the fall out be?

[RedKettle]

Thrill aside imagine your mother caught you banging a wg in her bed.

What would the fall out be?

She was worried about Dime coming home and finding me banging her 

[Dime]

Thrill aside imagine your mother caught you banging a wg in her bed.

What would the fall out be?

I'd probably be kicked out the house and disowned.

[Dime]

She was worried about Dime coming home and finding me banging her 

That's a bit below the belt   

[bitsandbobs]

By far most of my punts are outcalls at home and in 8 years never had a problem - incalls have never really suited me and prefer the comfort of my own home.  I am single so don't have much to lose.

As has been said before, her friend having your address is for security, and is standard practise so maybe don't worry so much about this time and stick to incalls in the future?

[Dime]

By far most of my punts are outcalls at home and in 8 years never had a problem - incalls have never really suited me and prefer the comfort of my own home.  I am single so don't have much to lose.

As has been said before, her friend having your address is for security, and is standard practise so maybe don't worry so much about this time and stick to incalls in the future?

Yeah at least with incalls I know no one knows where I am. At the same time, it was an amazing experience in hindsight. Despite the nerves,  I actually felt the outcall was much more personal as the roles were reversed- I was the one opening the door for her, giving her water, showing her to my room, then  fucking her in my own bed.  When she took her bra and pants off she sexily walked over to my chair and threw them   over it- small thing but great to see. I would be tempted to do it again, as the fear of getting caught was bit of a thrill if that makes sense. However, all I have to do is make sure both my parents are definitely at work all day and won't return at any point. Neighbours haven't said anything so far.

[wristjob]

I believe this is standard practice for sex workers doing outcalls, and IMO it would be surprising if she hadn't told someone.

Just making that comment to her made you sound a bit psycho. I live alone, can do as I please - and when I book an indi punt I usually leave my PC on the profile page. If the cops break my door down a week later cos I've vanished I'll at least give them a clue. I can't imagine any girl would take less precautions.

I only ever did 1 outcall to my house and when the girl turned up her appearance freaked me out. No walking when it's your house matey!!!!! I also became very aware she has my address, as does the taxi driver, her pimp and god knows who. Punting phone - real address, great combo. I won't say I'll never book another outcall, but it's not something I would do casually.

[lostandfound]

Just making that comment to her made you sound a bit psycho. I live alone, can do as I please - and when I book an indi punt I usually leave my PC on the profile page. If the cops break my door down a week later cos I've vanished I'll at least give them a clue. I can't imagine any girl would take less precautions.

I only ever did 1 outcall to my house and when the girl turned up her appearance freaked me out. No walking when it's your house matey!!!!! I also became very aware she has my address, as does the taxi driver, her pimp and god knows who. Punting phone - real address, great combo. I won't say I'll never book another outcall, but it's not something I would do casually.

I'm guessing you meant to quote Dime's post #7, rather than quoting me ...

This. I said to her during the punt "Apart from the taxi driver who dropped you off and possibly some gawky neighbours, we're the only 2 people in the world who know we're in here". She then told me that she had given my address to a friend for security reasons. This was despite the fact she knows me, and has had 3 incall punts with me.

[vw]

Would never do an outcall as i'm married and would be too risky, neighbours seeing her arrive and leaving, wife returning home, escort knowing my address and possibly finding personal info about me and my missus, knowing my luck even if all that was safe not to happen the ma in law would turn up, on second thoughts that sounds fun she could join us haha.

I haven't even had my first incall punt yet though.

Oh Danny boy, the pipes, the pipes are calling
From glen to glen, and down the mountain side
The summer's gone, and all the roses falling
It's you, it's you must go and I must bide.

[livlad]

never done an outcall ever (i don't shit where I eat)
would consider it if i had a hotel by myself but opportunity has never arised

[Happylad]

I`ve probably done as many outcall meets as incalls.  I must have been rather lucky in my choices as all the girls who became my regulars (4 over the years) have started by visiting me at my home, and 3 of them always came to my home while the 4th one visited me roughly as many times as I visited her over a period of 4 years or more.

Those girls whom I saw exclusively in Incalls rarely seemed to merit more than one or two visits.

I have never suffered any unfortunate consequences from these outcall visits

[vw]

Just making that comment to her made you sound a bit psycho. I live alone, can do as I please - and when I book an indi punt I usually leave my PC on the profile page. If the cops break my door down a week later cos I've vanished I'll at least give them a clue. I can't imagine any girl would take less precautions.

Hope that's not using anything Microsoft ! Would have crashed or done  100 updates at 3am and rebooted by then !

[johnnyboy61]

Apart from the security aspects as I'm married it would just feel so wrong and uncomfortable on way too many levels for me to contemplate, even if the other half is away for the night. So much safer and comfortable to do an outcall, even when I have the place to myself.

[Daffodil]

Outcalls to your own home are madness in virtually every case, be you single or married.

You can't walk (at least remember to lock your door if you do) or a psycho prossie may turn up (or it becomes apparent later when you write a review or whatever).

If you're married then it is completely retarded. Every time.

I just can't see the benefits coming anywhere near to balancing the risks.

[TheNewSeeker]

. . . or a psycho prossie may turn up

Ahh the psycho prossie, if we stay the course we all meet her one day. And then you'll be more cautious.

My first psycho prossie was at a sex party. She was taking it from behind with some geezer, stood up in the kitchen; he finished, dropped the rubber in the kitchen bin; she turned round, saw the naked cock and slapped him full on in the face for barebacking her, despite him producing the evidence in the bin. Later in the party she pissed in a pint glass in the middle of the living room. No WS going on at all. Later she rammed a 6" dildo up a guy's arse without lube. He was in pain for about an hour. At the end, bang on 2.5 hours, she started shouting, "time-up, fuck-off everyone, go, now". The other girls were mortified but could not rein her in. Before the party began I'd thought, hmm yum, I'd love to take her home.
 

[vw]

Outcalls to your own home are madness in virtually every case, be you single or married.

Oh well, never going to stop me flower !

[Jimmyredcab]

Outcalls to your own home are madness in virtually every case, be you single or married.

You can't walk

I have had dozens of outcalls to my house, never had a problem ---------------------- but you are correct when you say you can't walk, now I would only have an outcall with a girl I already know.

There is far too much paranoia in this business.     

[vw]

I have had dozens of outcalls to my house, never had a problem ---------------------- but you are correct when you say you can't walk, now I would only have an outcall with a girl I already know.

There is far too much paranoia in this business.     

Some with bad judgement are right to be paranoid, but some people here are insane window walkers and would be shocked if they didn't do a risk assessment form before every planned punt !