So you're saying some prossies will give u better rate if they want to go see something or a nice room. A nice room, you're easy then. If you want to go look at something why not go with friends instead of punters for what most prossies would charge for overnight. So try and justify however you like, just means you're a sucker. What's your aw profile?
Trying to give a good service? You mean let the likes of me take advantage of you and your good nature knowing that you tell yourself this to cope is probably more accurate.
No, I'm not saying that. I'm saying if the proposal of the holiday is appealing to her, she will be more inclined to offer a better rate. Someone else in the thread (sorry, I can't remember who) mentioned a really good skiing holiday with a WG, she was good at skiing and they had fun together for the whole trip. If she was into that activity, the holiday appealed to her, and that's why he got an arrangement that pleased him. A skiing holiday is my idea of a nightmare, so I would be highly unlikely to accept a proposal for that kind of holiday, and if I did, obviously my rate is going to reflect the fact that I would be spending a large proportion of the time doing something I'm not going to enjoy. And personally no, I wouldn't do it for a nice room, you're twisting my words there - I was saying that staying in the Hilton doing activities I enjoy with a nice guy is a lot more appealing than staying in a Holiday Inn with a client who wants sex morning noon and night and to touch me up for the time in between. That's human nature, I would imagine staying in the Hilton is more appealing to most people than staying in the Holiday Inn. (I have nothing against the Holiday Inn, it's just the example I'm using here).
I think you must have had some bad experiences if you think this job is all about 'letting' men take advantage of you, that's a shame that you were made to feel like that . I hope you meet some nice WGs in your future punting who can show you the other side of it all, that some of us do enjoy giving the best service possible.
Anyhow, none of it is really about me - the only reason I piped up on this thread was because I thought hearing the point of view of WGs on the subject might help the OP find a good way to deal with the issue he was having. He seems to have that sorted now, so there's no need for me to comment further here.