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Author Topic: Is punting more fun when you are in a relationship?  (Read 882 times)

I have been single 3 years almost now and apart from a 17 month hiatus in the middle I have been doing a lot of really good punting.  However sometimes being single can be lonely and I need a bit more than a wg for a few hours. However I do like the freedom of being single and don't want to end up living with someone again.
Before being single I punted my way through 3 longish relationships and had all the ordeals that you hitched lads have keeping it from the exes. Trouble is I kind of miss the secrets and the double life as it added extra excitement to my punts.  Now I am single I don't have to really cover my tracks as much I miss the buzz.
So my question is do you think punting is more fun when you are in a relationship because the secret identity adds more spice to punting?
I am specifically talking about keeping punting secret from a partner not friends, patents or work etc

Sure a bout of alfresco punting will put the risk and buzz back in to it works down here.  Or of that fails cherry knocking pas bad conquests is a good buzz.

I don't know what it's like to punt when single, but yes, having to behave like your on some kind of secret mission certainly adds a buzz to it. It is FUCKING BRILLIANT!!

tcm

I don't know what it's like to punt when single, but yes, having to behave like your on some kind of secret mission certainly adds a buzz to it. It is FUCKING BRILLIANT!!

tcm
Haha like your train of thought a man after my own ideals

Offline cueball

I should get a part in spooks

The cunning sub plots I've set up over the years

Offline Mansell

I don't know what it's like to punt when single, but yes, having to behave like your on some kind of secret mission certainly adds a buzz to it. It is FUCKING BRILLIANT!!

tcm
Fill your life with dangerous risky hobbies then you know your alive  :D :D

Offline bod666

Much as I love punting I'd much rather be in a relationship where I didn't need to. I have to say though that punting has definitely disproven the myth that the best sex is with someone you love. I've had much better sex with escorts than I have with her indoors (though I can't actually remember the last time I had sex with the missus - which is why I punt).

Once you've scratched some of your perverted itches then punting is just sex with hot girls. It's great but a little unfulfilling.

If I was single I'd still punt - but I'd make more effort to find a decent partner that was more sexually compatible. Then once I had that partner I'd stop punting.

Much as I love punting I'd much rather be in a relationship where I didn't need to. I have to say though that punting has definitely disproven the myth that the best sex is with someone you love. I've had much better sex with escorts than I have with her indoors (though I can't actually remember the last time I had sex with the missus - which is why I punt).

Once you've scratched some of your perverted itches then punting is just sex with hot girls. It's great but a little unfulfilling.

If I was single I'd still punt - but I'd make more effort to find a decent partner that was more sexually compatible. Then once I had that partner I'd stop punting.

Doesn't life teach us that relationship sex goes down the pan in all* cases? No man is a hero to his valet, and people in relationships end up treating each other like valets.

*or as near all as makes no difference

Offline Neal69

I am not a thrill seeker.

I have enough risk in my normal life to satisfy any risk taker or anyone who engages in extreme sports.

So while I do get a certain buzz from walking  to the flat and pressing the buzzer and finding who is hiding behind the door it is no where near the fear I have of getting caught out by Mrs N.

What I am after is good sex from a good WG to satisfy my needs.

As I have said before, If Mrs N opened her legs more regularly then I would give up punting tomorrow as she was a great shag in her younger days.

Smiley required for Hmmmm

 

Offline Quesadilla

Look, I've had a few drinks (half bottle of very nice cognac in fact) - and I really do like a lot of you guys here so please don't take this the wrong way.

I have learned to be far more understanding of many of the reasons that married guys punt but...
...for me, as a single punter having separated after marriage with no infidelity, and then taking punting back up - I think punting is WAY more fun when single.  Reading some of the lengths you guys have to go through to keep yourself from being found out - honestly it sometimes puts a big grin on my face.  But sometimes it makes me feel really bad for you.

If you're married with kids you risk literally everything - not just your marriage, but your relationship with your kids and your financial security. Being found out would destroy many of you.

I have two friends who ended their marriages through "civvy infidelity" rather than punting and as a result they now NEVER see their kids. Their kids have decided they want nothing to do with a father who would lie to them and their mum on a daily basis.  Not now, not ever. Maybe they'll mellow with time, but I don't know kids can be funny about this shit.  Is that not something that plays on your minds and makes you wonder sometimes?

I really envy you guys who have had kids as I have not had that privilege (yet) but as a result I'll be honest I think some of you are NUTS if you're risking all that for a punt. I do struggle to see how you get a thrill out of it given all that's on the line. All this stuff about punting phones and alibis and making up stories for WGs.  Fuck!!  One little slip up and all that you hold dear is down the toilet.

As I said, probably the cognac kicking in, broken my golden rule about not drinking and posting but there I've said it anyway as the question was asked... no doubt will regret it tomorrow.
Banning reason: Obnoxious and arrogant + Veiled threat of outing punter on UKE

Offline sticko

One word MS - yes! 

I don't go to extreme lengths to cover up my punting as I lead a fairly independent life in my marriage / family set-up, but I still enjoy the secrecy and planning.  It's annoying sometimes not to be able to be completely spontaneous but - touch wood - I can punt more or less when and how I choose.

One word MS - yes! 

I don't go to extreme lengths to cover up my punting as I lead a fairly independent life in my marriage / family set-up, but I still enjoy the secrecy and planning.  It's annoying sometimes not to be able to be completely spontaneous but - touch wood - I can punt more or less when and how I choose.
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You are my married man punting role model. You seem to balance both lives in perfect tandem hats off and I take a bow. 

Look, I've had a few drinks (half bottle of very nice cognac in fact) - and I really do like a lot of you guys here so please don't take this the wrong way.

I have learned to be far more understanding of many of the reasons that married guys punt but...
...for me, as a single punter having separated after marriage with no infidelity, and then taking punting back up - I think punting is WAY more fun when single.  Reading some of the lengths you guys have to go through to keep yourself from being found out - honestly it sometimes puts a big grin on my face.  But sometimes it makes me feel really bad for you.

If you're married with kids you risk literally everything - not just your marriage, but your relationship with your kids and your financial security. Being found out would destroy many of you.

I have two friends who ended their marriages through "civvy infidelity" rather than punting and as a result they now NEVER see their kids. Their kids have decided they want nothing to do with a father who would lie to them and their mum on a daily basis.  Not now, not ever. Maybe they'll mellow with time, but I don't know kids can be funny about this shit.  Is that not something that plays on your minds and makes you wonder sometimes?

I really envy you guys who have had kids as I have not had that privilege (yet) but as a result I'll be honest I think some of you are NUTS if you're risking all that for a punt. I do struggle to see how you get a thrill out of it given all that's on the line. All this stuff about punting phones and alibis and making up stories for WGs.  Fuck!!  One little slip up and all that you hold dear is down the toilet.

As I said, probably the cognac kicking in, broken my golden rule about not drinking and posting but there I've said it anyway as the question was asked... no doubt will regret it tomorrow.
I love the pretense of your post and reminds me of the title of one of my favourite songs "what sober wouldn't say"
Brandy or not you hit upon some valiant points and the negative side of married punting.  Each person has a different story though and some people are at perfect ease living a double life and I say good on them because I have been there. Ironically the ex prossie that I left my wife for brought up my son for 6 years. He hated her but not coz she was an ex prossie.
On the other hand the flip side to me is that single punting allows me to punt when I want work hours excluded and not have to rush home or worry about what shower gel I have used. But then I do miss the added risk of punting icognito

Offline shagbambi

Hi Q, I hope your head feels better this morning.

I have learnt one thing in life, that there is no black and white, only shades of grey.  Go well Q.


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