Evening gents, long time lurker, first time poster. I have had a total of 5 meetings now, but I often see gents posting on here asking for guidance on what to expect for their first punts. I figured I would share my experience, to hopefully offer some opinions for anyone else thinking of taking the plunge.
Firstly, like many on here, I have a OH, but any kind of physical or emotional contact is a thing of the past, so after finding this site, then adultwork, the taking the next step of setting up an account there, to access private galleries, I finally took the plunge.
Next, I should say I'm late 30s, normal looking, with a few civvy partners, but not many, I'm also a decent guy and polite, but physically quite imposing for some young chicky, which I am well aware of.
My criteria for a first punt was someone with reviews on here, natural, rather than bleached blonde, and curvy bordering on BBw. Other people will have different thoughts on this, but I expressly did not want to see anyone who was totally out of my league looks wise, or much younger than me, due to the nerves I knew I would have, and having the perception some hot size 8 21 year old would look at me like an old man. I also did not want to go for full penetration, or French kissing in my first meet, in case I had trouble with my conscience after (lol,)
Ok, so I send an email on adultwork, requesting a meet, and specifically mentioning my physical size, and the meeting is booked for one morning about 11 o'clock with the busty bbw red trixy in Bristol, for a 30 minute meeting. I whack in a good old rock cd in the car and drive across town. Park the car, ready at any point to send a text to cancel the whole thing, and with my heart in my mouth. I get to the apartment complex, then wait for the text confirming apartment number, then buzzed in through intercom, the find my way to the door. I knock, and by this time I'm shaking!
Trixy opens the door and kinda peers round and smiles so I quickly walk in, and she gives me an awkward hug and kiss on the cheek. I immediately notice a lacy nightgown with huge boobs poking out. I am led into the bedroom, where I immediately offer her payment and my hand is shaking as I hand the money over. She laughs and I tell her it's my first time doing this. She smiles (English is not her first language),and tells me to relax, then offers me a shower, which I gratefully accept. It's clear at this point there was another girl in the apartment, so I make a mental note of exactly how I left my things in case I am robbed! Turns out I need not have worried.
After a good scrub, I walk back to the bedroom with the towel around me as I'm not yet hard, get a playful smack on the bum, and i ask for a back massage, which she is pleased to do. After 5 visits in total, I still stick to the routine of shower and back massage to relax me, which seems to work well, and would suggest considering this for another newbie. I was then asked to turn over, and then things livened up.
In my 5 meets I've established that girls pretty quickly pick up your preference for kissing,and how you want the meet to go. In this case trixy fairly quickly knew that full sex wasn't likely. So instead she started with oral without. She also asked if I would like my bum played with. I knew from experimenting this might be ok, so agreed. What happened next was pretty much like strapping an industrial dyson to my cock
and she had I believe at least 2 fingers in me up to the knuckle! After a few minutes I asked she remove her fingers as it was a little too full on, but also gave me a break from the onslaught.
After disposing of a lubed up glove, she went back to owo, while I decided to watch what she was doing which was hot as hell. After another few minutes more I tried to get her to stop but it was to late, and I shot. It was one of the strongest orgasms I ever had, and I was hanging on to the edges of the mattress, like a drunk when the room is spinning. I was offered a snowball which I declined. I was aware then of the cum being spat out, and trixy gargling with mouth wash, which I figured was a good thing. I laid there for a few minutes trying to get my bearings before staggering to the shower to clean up. From there, dressed and a polite peck on the lips to say goodbye, and thank you. I was told by her she is heading home and retiring in 3 weeks, which I took to mean she would see me again. Then off out into the big wide world, and the whole thing was probably less than 20 minutes!
After, there was a sense of relief, and for me a strange vindication that I just did something that the rest of the world does so now I'm not missing out anymore. There was no guilt, and the whole thing was like being on autopilot, or having an out of body experience.
To summarise, and apologies for the length of the post, the experience was positive, and I would say to any newbies, go for 30 minutes, but take the money with you for a full hour in case you need it. You have plenty of chance in the future to try pornstars, 3somes etc so go for someone you will be comfortable with. If you are nervous or firstimer, tell them! Be polite and respectful. Go for the shower and 5 minute back massage first to relax you, and let them take charge. Only you can decide how you will feel about the whole cheating thing if you have a partner, but for me I seem to be able to separate it out easily which surprised me. Finally, give yourself a visual treat- try for some eye contact, and enjoy it!
Hope this is some use! I did go back for a full service before she left for home, this was all a few months ago now, and I will post some other reviews over the next few days!
Cheers gents!
