Jesus Marty, grow up.
I messaged you to point out that you first mentioned your STI text on a review thread for Elle, and that this had had unintended consequences for her.
You may not have intended it that way, but that is what has happened. I further pointed out that you should think before you post, as by doing this you (inadvertently) created a link between her and YOUR problem.
If you are entirely happy with what you posted, then why did you get admin to remove the post?
I think it's a bit sad that you are trying to make out that you are the victim in all this, when it is your lack of consideration that could have created an actual, real problem for someone else, rather than the hurt feelings you claim to be suffering from.