Have been into parties for 10 years, having attended Natasha's and then LMP since 2007 until its demise. I have not yet been to their replacement, The Phoenix Club.
I also attended Hush Parties in Nottm when they first set up, nearly 2 years ago.
Having been spoilt with 2:1 ratios at the above parties, the High ratio does put me off. However, as Chezzie John mentions, when multiple sessions are booked, there are times when the ratio is much more favourable, eg at the beginning or near the end. even at LMP, we once found that there were 8 girls and only 4 of us. I had a dleightful porn star to myself for nearly 45 mins
Will keep an eye out for this party.