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zugjug

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Hi guys - new to this. Have been lurking, reading reviews for a week or two etc and looking to dip my toe in the water.

I am an overweight guy, though, and very conscious of it - are any of you in the same situation? Do the girls treat you ok - have you been turned away ?

Offline threechilliman

Shouldn't make a scrap of difference. You're there to pay her and fuck her. Don't worry what she thinks.

tcm

Offline Turtle Z

I'm with TCM so long as they're not having to crane you onto a low loader to get to your punt.

Offline pumps

I'm not overweight so I cant say for sure


but for the girls it bothers; they usually mention in on their profiles in the Q&A's! And its probably only due to overweight people can tend to sweat more &  smell.

So as long as you go in there sparkling clean ( which you should be doing anyway ) You've got nothing to worry about!

zugjug

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Thank you for the re-assurance guys - exactly what i was wanting to hear

Offline webpunter

Thank you for the re-assurance guys - exactly what i was wanting to hear
I really don't think they give a flying-fuck.  Maybe some of the 'Courtesans' but ones to avoid anyways.  Time for a [badly packed] kebab !

KenniLingus

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Don't worry about it.

I was 16stone when I started - with a massive swing belly!

Offline Turtle Z

Don't worry about it.

I was 16stone when I started - with a massive swing belly!

Yes, and he's put weight on   :D

tonysoprano

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I'm not overweight but I can tell you now if I was being paid to have sex i'd far rather have a slim girl in good shape than some fat fucking pig.

You can talk about WG's being paid to do a job but I refuse to believe physical appearance of punters doesn't affect their performance in some way. They wouldn't be human if it didn't.

Best thing to do is check with any prospective WG if she has any issues with the larger man (belly not dick). At least then you know where you stand.

Ben4454

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For someone who is getting paid far more than a brain surgeon you would expect she can make some allowances.

Offline Turtle Z

I'm not overweight but I can tell you now if I was being paid to have sex i'd far rather have a slim girl in good shape than some fat fucking pig.

You can talk about WG's being paid to do a job but I refuse to believe physical appearance of punters doesn't affect their performance in some way. They wouldn't be human if it didn't.

Best thing to do is check with any prospective WG if she has any issues with the larger man (belly not dick). At least then you know where you stand.

This is of course spot on but I would expect very few WG's to mention it as an issue when you turn up. Some do state 'no fatties' on their profile.

KenniLingus

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Yes, and he's put weight on   :D

nah - 11 now. All due to lots of riding! Bikes not girlies unfortunately

Offline webpunter

Have seen some of the domination type girlies mentioning stuff like 20 stone limit for their restraint tables.  Can you imagine the fucking thing collapsing when you're all tied up  :lol:

fredpunter

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Don't worry about it.

I was 16stone when I started - with a massive swing belly!

Are you serious? Is 16 stone over weight? I just dropped my pie.

Offline Stiltskin

Are you serious? Is 16 stone over weight? I just dropped my pie.

No it's not, unless you're under 7ft tall.

Offline Roth

For someone who is getting paid far more than a brain surgeon you would expect she can make some allowances.

+1  :thumbsup:  Fucking right!! :thumbsup:

carefree

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I'm not overweight but I can tell you now if I was being paid to have sex i'd far rather have a slim girl in good shape than some fat  lfucking pig.

You can talk about WG's being paid to do a job but I refuse to believe physical appearance of punters doesn't affect their performance in some way. They wouldn't be human if it didn't.

Best thing to do is check with any prospective WG if she has any issues with the larger man (belly not dick). At least then you know where you stand.

And then that would apply to being ugly, bad teeth, bad breath, a hairy back, smelly feet, no hair or shit hair, 70s style hairy cock and balls, bandy legs, no legs, disabled etc etc etc

Basically if you aint spot on perfect you'll get a shit service :lol:

Online Corus Boy


Hi guys - new to this. Have been lurking, reading reviews for a week or two etc and looking to dip my toe in the water.

I am an overweight guy, though, and very conscious of it - are any of you in the same situation? Do the girls treat you ok - have you been turned away ?


Yes and I don't worry about it when punting. 

A nice little Asian lady will rub your belly and ask you when the baby is due?  My usual responses are;

We haven't made the baby yet!

Or

It is twins!

Either will get a response in fits of laughter. Not at you but with you.

Yes and I don't worry about it when punting. 

A nice little Asian lady will rub your belly and ask you when the baby is due?  My usual responses are;

We haven't made the baby yet!

Or

It is twins!

Either will get a response in fits of laughter. Not at you but with you.

Asians can be very direct.  I used to alternate work between the Philippines and the US, and on my return to the Philippines a work colleague greeted me with "Hello, I see you got fat".  The twins joke worked there as well.

On topic, does appearance significantly matter?  Once you pass the minimum threshold a WG has and get in the door, it does not matter how good looking you are, you are not getting a freebie.  So you, the handsome bloke and the ugly bloke are all paying the same.  You get better service if you smarten yourself up a bit, as mentioned above, and that's the only difference.

carefree

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Always said it and always will, we are pounds and pence to them and they dont give a fuck about anything else.

Im reading other posts on here like "can you become friends with a prossie" or "do prossies mind if guys are married".......they dont give a fuck so stop analysing it :dash:

306

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It will work if you are very clean and understand it can be very hard for the wg to ride you due to your size so sex can be difficult blow job no problem .

kenw1

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nah - 11 now. All due to lots of riding! Bikes not girlies unfortunately

Why not both. :)

yorkshire123

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Hi guys - new to this. Have been lurking, reading reviews for a week or two etc and looking to dip my toe in the water.

I am an overweight guy, though, and very conscious of it - are any of you in the same situation? Do the girls treat you ok - have you been turned away ?

Define overweight?
I'm a bit of a tubby cunt but virtually every prossie I have met (paid) has sucked & fucked me like I'm some sort of porno stud, never underestimate the acting skills of your half decent prossie.
I must admit (to steal a line from a film) I'm one charming mother fucker & if asked said prossie's would fuck me for free, you may not be so lucky  ;)

Offline Anadin

I was 25 stone a couple of years ago and from early on made sure to check whether or not they'd be Ok with larger clients. After a while I realised that most good W/Gs would say in their profile who they'd be unwilling to see.

Diehard

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As long as your wallet is fat she will make you feel like her favourite client.

You are not going on a date. You are paying a stranger your hard earned to perform the services that are advertised. Your appearance is irrelevant.

Quit worrying, have a jammy doughnut beforehand to give you energy, and spend every minute you are with her getting your value for money doing what it is that you enjoy with a woman.

Offline Denhamhoop

Yep i am the fat bloke in the pub but im always clean presentable on time and pay the required amount.Thats all that matters but yes sometimes i would imagine the girl would rather Brad Pitt/George Clooney was wanting them to suck their cock and fuck them but well life is unfair.Plus i know ive got people skills and the girl will laugh at some point and everyone likes a bit of banter don't they

Offline Dani

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There is no need to worry unless you are in the extreme size which may not be suitable for some beds (wooden slated ones) but if average sized or even a bit larger the prossie wont care one bit.  All we care about is you are clean and polite (and obviously have the right money :lol: :lol:
You are paying for a prossie to ignore any imperfections.  You are paying her to forget she doesn't fancy you otherwise if we only had sex with men we fancied it would be dating and would be free.

Being overweight does not automatically make you unfanciable regardless of paying or not as even prossies like different types of men some like tall. short. thin. muscular and even overweight just the same as men like different shapes and sizes

spkmstr48

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There is no need to worry unless you are in the extreme size which may not be suitable for some beds (wooden slated ones) but if average sized or even a bit larger the prossie wont care one bit.  All we care about is you are clean and polite (and obviously have the right money :lol: :lol:
You are paying for a prossie to ignore any imperfections.  You are paying her to forget she doesn't fancy you otherwise if we only had sex with men we fancied it would be dating and would be free.

Being overweight does not automatically make you unfanciable regardless of paying or not as even prossies like different types of men some like tall. short. thin. muscular and even overweight just the same as men like different shapes and sizes

Well put Dani, if everyone liked the "ideal" there wouldn't be bbw WGs

Offline MDB72

I think Dani sums up the situation perfectly. I am overweight and was anxious but never had a problem. You just need to exercise caution about getting too energetic on weak beds. From what WGs have told me and seems to be corroborated by dani they would rather a large clean respectful guy than a skinny dirty guy who is ignorant. Ironically I am happy to punt but scarce to go to a gym cause people may laugh!!
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Offline Cuntminion

Fuck yes, all to gluttony

I don't make excuses for it, but am actively sorting it out now

Really though, it shouldn't matter

I would say cleanliness is most important, rock up covered in filth paid or not a woman has every right to say no

Few extra pounds and she treats differently, wrong job she is in

Read feed back on whoever you choose, try and gauge their attitude

Offline Cuntminion

Yep i am the fat bloke in the pub but im always clean presentable on time and pay the required amount.Thats all that matters but yes sometimes i would imagine the girl would rather Brad Pitt/George Clooney was wanting them to suck their cock and fuck them but well life is unfair.Plus i know ive got people skills and the girl will laugh at some point and everyone likes a bit of banter don't they

What woman doesn't want Pitt or Clooney, never seen Frank Spencer or Johnny Vegas listed for ideal male, if I did I would probably propose

Jessamy

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What woman doesn't want Pitt or Clooney, never seen Frank Spencer or Johnny Vegas listed for ideal male, if I did I would probably propose

Johnny Vegas any day of the week please!

Like Dani said, there are definitely escorts who personally prefer larger guys and find larger clients to be a huge turn-on.

Offline AgedCases

I've a 50-inch waist and am a bit paranoid about WGs rejecting me or giving a shit service.

But then I saw my 1st WG and when I mentioned how I felt, she told me to stop being silly and sucked me dry!

Offline Cuntminion

Ill be honest I did message the woman I met before I booked and let her know I'm not great looking or in great shape

Not so much self conscious but self aware

I can work on the weight not the ugly though

The whole you pay your money , anything should be tolerated I don't buy

If the wc has sensitivities should be up front about them, if the client has insecurities or unsure be upfront also


Offline Cuntminion

Johnny Vegas any day of the week please!

Like Dani said, there are definitely escorts who personally prefer larger guys and find larger clients to be a huge turn-on.

I don't disagree , everyone likes what they like

Offline ayreon010

Some women do put things on their profile to indicate what kind of man they want to see etc etc.
I always make it a point though after an initial request to see if she is free to point out my size etc etc so she has a choice early on to not continue.

Offline Cuntminion

Could have a

"If you can't get through the door"

Rule

But tbh at my heaviest sex was last on my mind, walking more than a mile was energy sapping enough

Offline muffherwell91

I've a 50-inch waist
Your making me feel inadequate, my waist is a mere 28 inches!  :( And yes it shouldn’t matter what size you are, however, I am sure that your doctor would recommend that you maybe lose a few inches.

JV547845

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I think getting good service still boils down to being clean, polite and trust worthy.  They've seen it all before.
« Last Edit: May 11, 2015, 11:46:59 pm by JV547845 »

Offline Stapler

As a side line, if you are overweight and would like to do something about it go here and eat REAL food :

Eat: Meat, fish, eggs, vegetables growing above ground and natural fats (like butter).
Avoid: Sugar and starchy foods (like bread, pasta, rice, beans and potatoes).

External Link/Members Only



You won't lose weight exercising!

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Offline RedKettle

was a fat bastard when I started but all the worry about security precautions (punting phone, browsers, getting cash unnoticed, back story for why I an there, false ID for the WGS etc etc...) is causing me to lose weight.   :D


306

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Spoke to wg punter sweating by time he got to her door .offered shower .but could not fit in shower so no shower taken she. Did not enjoy said punter !

Online Corus Boy


Spoke to wg punter sweating by time he got to her door .offered shower .but could not fit in shower so no shower taken she. Did not enjoy said punter !


That is a by-product of being large.

Offline lol

If every girl were a perfect actress then it wouldn't make any difference, but they're not. That means the better you look, the better service on average you will get. Of course appearance is a subjective thing but losing weight when overweight is one of the things that virtually everyone agrees will improve how you look.

And if you want a better experience punting there are benefits to losing weight on your side too including the base of your cock not being hidden by pubic fat, more choices for positions, not getting tired after a few minutes.

I'm a lazy fuck and lost 20kg without any exercise, I just ate less and can attest to all of the above. If you're lacking motivation, you can copy my incentive system which was 7p added to my punting budget for every gram lost (ie. £70/kg).

Offline Cuntminion

was a fat bastard when I started but all the worry about security precautions (punting phone, browsers, getting cash unnoticed, back story for why I an there, false ID for the WGS etc etc...) is causing me to lose weight.   :D

Just a question

All the phone, browser stuff etc this is more for fellas in a relationship?
I don't do any of the above, I'm the only one using my browser and phone and no relationship here

Offline Cuntminion

As a side line, if you are overweight and would like to do something about it go here and eat REAL food :

Eat: Meat, fish, eggs, vegetables growing above ground and natural fats (like butter).
Avoid: Sugar and starchy foods (like bread, pasta, rice, beans and potatoes).

External Link/Members Only



You won't lose weight exercising!

External Link/Members Only


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Bit of exercise never hurt anyone but diet is key

Went from smashing a bargain bucket in two sittings to lean meat veg and fruit
Early days just under a month but first thing I noticed is an energy level increase in general


Offline RedKettle

Just a question

All the phone, browser stuff etc this is more for fellas in a relationship?
I don't do any of the above, I'm the only one using my browser and phone and no relationship here

Yes some of that stuff is only for those in a relationship but as discussed elsewhere the things aimed at keeping a distance between the WG and your ID and life (such as a punting phone) are (in my view) essential for all.

spkmstr48

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you can't outrun a bad diet.

So beer and bread not ideal then?  :D

spkmstr48

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Do you think losing weight would harm my decadent Roman Senator and slave owner personna for roleplay?