I read with amazement what some meets are like , so far from my dfk .owo cim sex meets ,
once you start these other things are the above too tame for you ?
do you plan to move on to other things later?
like pain or such things
its opened my eyes but each to their own
i am wonder should i dip my toe in the water for pse
what do you think ?
Originally I alternated between very hard core experimental punts and quite vanilla GFE punts with no sign of it making the vanilla punts seem "tame". They are still enjoyable on their own merits, more relaxed, as it should be if it's to mimic being with a girlfriend. PSE is IME more in your face than laid back which is nice sometimes as well but for different reasons.
I gradually stopped asking for "either or" and now ask for both. I explain that I want a "MGIADSE" - ie My Girlfriend Is A Dirty Slut Experience - which contains elements of both GFE and PSE usually starts out like a GFE but then gradually morphs into harder or more extreme stuff. Like your girlfriend has out of the blue decided to try and impress you by showing what a dirty slut she can really be.
Some escorts are definitely up for this and able to deliver - others don't have that flexibility - but with a quality escort this is the ideal for me and has the flexibility to go with your mood on the day.
Either way sometimes my punts are still alternating happily between very vanilla / GFE style and sordid PSE fuckfests. I don't see why trying one would in any way make the other seem tame unless your tastes completely change. It might happen but more likely you'll just broaden your horizons rather than completely switch them.