Escort Opening up first meeting?

[21Valleys]

Hey guys I'm 21, and met up with a legit 18 year old Escort not 2 days ago. I felt I had a great time with her, we talked alot and the rest of course, but has anyone ever had an experience like this? We talked alot after, and she talked a great deal about her personal life, such as nights out she had, her family and who she was annoyed at, It got quite intimate more than I was expecting to be honest, it felt like she was showing me some part of herself.
I've read that some escorts just talk and talk to wear down time, but I wasn't in the mood to just fuck her brains out senslessly for an hour. I mean it was great it felt very relaxed and that we clicked (even making jokes about little things).

Not stupid realise that I am a client, and she a professional, and mature enough not to fall for every girl I fuck, but couldn't make sense of it. Is this good or bad? She wants to meet up again... any advice guys?

[Horizontal pleasures]

I suggest that for your next punt find a different lady or you might find you are in too deeply with the first lady. Unless that is what you want?

[Jimmyredcab]

Hey guys I'm 21, and met up with a legit 18 year old Escort not 2 days ago. I felt I had a great time with her, we talked alot and the rest of course, but has anyone ever had an experience like this? We talked alot after, and she talked a great deal about her personal life, such as nights out she had, her family and who she was annoyed at, It got quite intimate more than I was expecting to be honest, it felt like she was showing me some part of herself.
I've read that some escorts just talk and talk to wear down time, but I wasn't in the mood to just fuck her brains out senslessly for an hour. I mean it was great it felt very relaxed and that we clicked (even making jokes about little things).

Not stupid realise that I am a client, and she a professional, and mature enough not to fall for every girl I fuck, but couldn't make sense of it. Is this good or bad? She wants to meet up again... any advice guys?

Yes, I have some advice.
Invite her out for a drink with no payment involved, that should give you a reality check.     

[bricky daz]

give me a ton an hour and ill tell you all you want to hear,not in a gay way : )
personally i fuck not talk on a punt.

[21Valleys]

Yes, I have some advice.
Invite her out for a drink with no payment involved, that should give you a reality check.     

Ha. I didn't mean it like that, I meant is she a good or bad escort.

[closeshave]

Who is she?

[cueball]

Ha. I didn't mean it like that, I meant is she a good or bad escort.

She's average bud, they all talk, it's up to you to drive the punt, if you're happy to talk then good luck to you.

Me, I'm there to have sex BUT I'll talk at the start (not for long though)  and after I've popped.

[Dani]

Ha. I didn't mean it like that, I meant is she a good or bad escort.

How could anyone answer that without knowing how she delivered the services and if all services on profile were offered etc.

I would however take every story with a pinch of salt as we often get asked about our private lives so have a back story that is completely untrue to tell clients just as a sensible client would have a believable back story to tell the prossie. 
By her supposedly being so open with you, you will feel relaxed and come back time and again so for her it is good business sense to give you a bit of a fake story so you feel you know her.

However if she is one of the very few who are silly enough to give her real back story then you need to avoid as she clearly has no idea of client/prossie boundaries and when that happens shit normally follows, such as EAS, the sob story about a need for money and so on. 

Prossies may seem stupid and dumb for doing this job but most are pretty shrewd and you don't do this job if you are naive

[Trevor12]

Of course she wants you to see (book/pay) her again if she gets to spend most of her time talking. Most of what she said is likely BS anyway.

IMO, book a few others first, then see if you still want to go back.


Edit: +1 to Dani's post above.

[21Valleys]

She's average bud, they all talk, it's up to you to drive the punt, if you're happy to talk then good luck to you.

Me, I'm there to have sex BUT I'll talk at the start (not for long though)  and after I've popped.

Same situation, guess you don't know these things till you've been about a bit, I found myself basically not having a clue how to drive it yknow nerves and shit, too much research sucks sometimes, "escorts never talk about sex or themselves" online stuff left me confused by it all however I did get the result I wanted (sex, owo). Just a newbie I guess!

[con-a-ser]

Hey guys I'm 21, and met up with a legit 18 year old Escort not 2 days ago. I felt I had a great time with her, we talked alot and the rest of course, but has anyone ever had an experience like this? We talked alot after, and she talked a great deal about her personal life, such as nights out she had, her family and who she was annoyed at, It got quite intimate more than I was expecting to be honest, it felt like she was showing me some part of herself.
I've read that some escorts just talk and talk to wear down time, but I wasn't in the mood to just fuck her brains out senslessly for an hour. I mean it was great it felt very relaxed and that we clicked (even making jokes about little things).

Not stupid realise that I am a client, and she a professional, and mature enough not to fall for every girl I fuck, but couldn't make sense of it. Is this good or bad? She wants to meet up again... any advice guys?

See her again professionally & pay her, talk about mutual intrests, if you have any ask if she would like to do something together,
say grab a meal etc
she may accept
if you take her for a meal or something offer her, her hourly fee if she doesn't accept it you've scored, if not she is only looking at one thing in your pants your wallet

[LL]

Prossies may seem stupid and dumb for doing this job but most are pretty shrewd and you don't do this job if you are naive

But how many 18 year-olds are shrewd!?
I think that they would need to become disillusioned first or at least get a bit of experience behind them in order to gain some perspective into not just their choice of career but of other people in general.
If the OP is only 21 himself it doesn't seem all that unlikely to me that a prossie might actually be interested in him and form a connection with him.  Let's say it's 50/50 either way.  I wouldn't recommend that he continues to see her though.

[cueball]

But how many 18 year-olds are shrewd!?
I think that they would need to become disillusioned first or at least get a bit of experience behind them in order to gain some perspective into not just their choice of career but of other people in general.
If the OP is only 21 himself it doesn't seem all that unlikely to me that a prossie might actually be interested in him and form a connection with him.  Let's say it's 50/50 either way.  I wouldn't recommend that he continues to see her though.

See you point LL, I like podging MILF' s and seeing as I might be a DILF, I can see the connection some of these milfs are trying to make. There subtle buggers though, sometimes I can't tell.

[21Valleys]

How could anyone answer that without knowing how she delivered the services and if all services on profile were offered etc.

I would however take every story with a pinch of salt as we often get asked about our private lives so have a back story that is completely untrue to tell clients just as a sensible client would have a believable back story to tell the prossie. 
By her supposedly being so open with you, you will feel relaxed and come back time and again so for her it is good business sense to give you a bit of a fake story so you feel you know her.

However if she is one of the very few who are silly enough to give her real back story then you need to avoid as she clearly has no idea of client/prossie boundaries and when that happens shit normally follows, such as EAS, the sob story about a need for money and so on. 

Prossies may seem stupid and dumb for doing this job but most are pretty shrewd and you don't do this job if you are naive

Fair enough. To be honest it wasn't very clever of me it was a punt literally less than a mile away from my house (hence why I'm not disclosing her details as it reveals to much about me than I'd like) Well pretty much I approached her on AW, she was fit, offered basic services and there was very little actual talk about anything prior to booking. She texted me her address, turned up talked for 5 minutes (I was obvious through my lack of feedback and my composure a newbie), fucked for a bit, then we started talking (she talked about jobs she'd done, the meaning of her tattoos, her ex, she even asked if it was ok to text someone, asked me about my job (stayed vague) talked about her friends.

Anyway the one thing I found odd is that I gave her my number (new sim, but same phone)... but her number was actually her ACTUAL phone as it synced up to her FB account (with 10 mutual friends, and her real name) didn't add though, as that would deffo overstep the boundries in my eyes, and discretion was part of the deal.

Yeah Not sure what to make of it!

[CatBBW]

it was a punt literally less than a mile away from my house (hence why I'm not disclosing her details as it reveals to much about me than I'd like)

Which we didn't know until you just posted that, so you could have posted the link and no one would have known or even guessed.

Are you sure you're not just trying to keep her to yourself

[cueball]

Which we didn't know until you just posted that, so you could have posted the link and no one would have known or even guessed.

Are you sure you're not just trying to keep her to yourself

Good point cat

Anyway, is not as if there is going to be a baying hoard searching for the op with burning crosses and nooses.

She lives a mile from the op, imagine what amount of folk live within a mile diameter in a city or big town.

[Trevor12]

Which we didn't know until you just posted that, so you could have posted the link and no one would have known or even guessed.

Are you sure you're not just trying to keep her to yourself

+1

From the username, I'm guessing the OP is Welsh. Only 6 18 year old escorts in Wales on AW.

[onedivergent]

It does happen that workers open up and share things depends what type of personailty you are. Its happened with me sharing things and I've had to stop seeing as boundaries I feel on both sides were being over stepped and it wasn't until I spoke to some more experienced workers that I gained a perspective.

[21Valleys]

Which we didn't know until you just posted that, so you could have posted the link and no one would have known or even guessed.

Are you sure you're not just trying to keep her to yourself

Good point, except her profile is on a site dedicated to the exact opposite of that intention, as is her profession? Nah I only mentioned that to add context to my post... which envelopes punting as a whole, and whether it's good for me to become a regular to someone like this, and to get a general idea on what escorts are like. Have a go lads, she's great!   

[madeinwales56]

All prossies open up, my old son. Normally it's their legs! Now stop pudding around and post a link or no one is going to take you seriously.

[21Valleys]

All prossies open up, my old son. Normally it's their legs! Now stop pudding around and post a link or no one is going to take you seriously.

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[21Valleys]

Enjoy and try not to wear he out too much lads  External Link/Members Only

[Trevor12]

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Thought it was her. Of the 6 18 year old escorts in Wales on AW, she's the only one with a phone number visible.

[tictacs]

Enjoy  External Link/Members Only

"Please have a large penis." 

Bareback 

[Trevor12]

"Please have a large penis." 

Bareback 

Hardsports too.

Probably explains why she 'connected' with the OP.

Other people spunk up her and shit on her, but he's happy enough talking.

[21Valleys]

Hardsports too.

Probably explains why she 'connected' with the OP.

Other people spunk up her and shit on her, but he's happy enough talking.

Did BB with her, she said hard-sports was something she was curious about and hasn't tried yet. And I just searched up GFE... Silly question? 

[password02]

''Did BB with her, she said hard-sports was something she was curious about and hasn't tried yet. And I just searched up GFE... Silly question?  '''


Why would you do BB with an escort girl !!! seriously !!! WTF 

[cueball]

Did BB with her

Oh dear, you've a lot to learn sonny Jim

[21Valleys]

Why would you do BB with an escort girl !!! seriously !!! WTF 
[/quote]

She has the rod and regular screenings?

[Toby]

Enjoy  External Link/Members Only

Going by her profile, I'm assuming that English isn't her first language.

[LL]

Now I'm thinking the OP could just be a tout.

[squeezebox]

Oh dear, you've a lot to learn sonny Jim

He's come to the right place to gain a balanced view on the subject.

Many threads on UKP relating to the why's and wherefores on BB. There are some that advocate it, however, it's the minority.

One reason her profile will be 0 feedback is that no-one will want to leave feedback and be knowingly associated with a pro$$ie that offers the service. Everyone to their own...

[cueball]

She has the rod and regular screenings?

Good job the punter who shot his toxic fat into her an hour before you did was clean eh.

Good luck on your journey.

[threechilliman]

Another 'school holiday' thread.....

tcm

[password02]

Another 'school holiday' thread.....

tcm

+1 - School Holidays Starts tomorrow!!

[Bangers and Gash]

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[cueball]

Another 'school holiday' thread.....

tcm

+ another one

I must try to get better at spotting this shite

[21Valleys]

School Holiday?

[Trevor12]

Another 'school holiday' thread.....

Yep

[SaneOnes]

Half term this, more pointless school holidays that - that's how we have these lollygagging ditherers for a generation or two. Quite possibly about 0.0001% of these kids use the holidays for actual studying whilst the rest stuff their faces with sweets whilst trolling and loitering about. Fucking "school holidays".

[jcdmj12]

Well, a different angle for a troll/tout post, but one all the same.

Nice try, "Charlene".

[onedivergent]

Had me there for a mo ! But suspected after pm that on the blag and touting. Not kool amigo.

[Bigus Dickus]

Sounds like another troll or tout to me. Maybe a PG scammer for some pocket money. It really is the silly season now that school is out!

 

[SaneOnes]

21, meaning he is in university, right?

[Type_O_Negative]

Ban is on its way, i'm sure.

[NIK]

More trolling / touting bollocks.
Must be the season for it. A couple more on my radar too.

[NIK]

More trolling / touting bollocks.
Must be the season for it. A couple more on my radar too.

Adam beat me to the diarrhoea troll!