I find that if I make a video of the girl I see then:
1-I see the reality of the sex with the girl more objectively, and a girl however hot she maybe, once you have a great video of her , you may find you think do I need to see her again, perhaps no.
There is also another alternative if you really like a girl.
2 -There are 3 working girls I have really liked so I got to know them, the first was Denisa who used to work in Baker street in Manchester street, we used to hang out a lot, she would come to my house and I would go to her home and we'd go to dinner drinks etc. I STOPPED being a client though as I could see she viewed client sex as work. i asked her out by visiting her at her work after meeting her once for escort sex. I was just myself, and asked her out in a honest simple way, we went onto know each other for years.
she was fucking other guys outside of work but I didn't care as I saw it for what it was, you can't fall for girls that promiscuous BUT you can fuck them silly.
Another girl called Maria who I was crazy about and she worked in norbury near streatham, a tall size 12-14 blonde, well she wasn't so keen to go out with me at first but after about 6 meets as an escort, she told me we were going out and we went to Westfield shopping centre for the day the next Saturday, again I was just myself, all this flashing the cash and boasting won't work as these girls meet guys like that all the time.
my conclusion I suppose is go out with regular girls as well as escorts or go out with an escort, but you will only be able to fuck her outside of her work, she would be horrified to have a man she tucks in her bed as a client.
hope it helps.