Trouble is, largely thanks to this forum, a new girl very often turns into a regular. Adele, for example. Why on God's good earth would you not go back? I try to see new girls as well, but then - in about 30% of cases, I want to see them again too. If you "click", the second time is always better. For me it's simple: you're more relaxed, so more able to let go, the girl trusts you... the sex gets more erotic and dirtier/more sensual depending on how you're feeling.