ever struggled to cum during a punt

[livlad]

this happened to me a few days ago during a punt despite still being hard it just wasn't happening despite mine and the girls best efforts. In the end had to call time loved the punt but left a bit disappointed at not being able to shoot my load in her pretty mouth.
Has this ever happened to any other guys? what was the outcome?

[SmackmaBitchUp]

Thankfully not yet..... Perhaps because I make sure I'm ready for the punt. And I wanna make sure she gets my monies worth!!! 

[livlad]

I normally have a punting ritual as well to make sure i'm ready but this time my own body let me down

[cueball]

 I've always popped during a punt but I do avoid popping for a couple of days before punting.

Second pop during an hour session can have us both working hard though but that's even better if you ask me, I like vfm

[d00fer]

Frequently, but getting better. It's part of the reason I prefer longer bookings.

[SmackmaBitchUp]

I normally have a punting ritual as well to make sure i'm ready but this time my own body let me down

Doesn't matter how experienced a punter we are... We all get that feeling of excitement/nerves before a punt.. Put it down to experience and you'll learn as you go on...how to better 

[smiths]

this happened to me a few days ago during a punt despite still being hard it just wasn't happening despite mine and the girls best efforts. In the end had to call time loved the punt but left a bit disappointed at not being able to shoot my load in her pretty mouth.
Has this ever happened to any other guys? what was the outcome?

Yes sometimes it happens. The outcome has been i stuck my tongue down the WGs throat and tickled her tonsils instead or did RO on her.

[Lambeth19]

Once when she was making false noises, needed to put my fingers in my ears lol mind you I was stifling a laugh!

[livlad]

Yes sometimes it happens. The outcome has been i stuck my tongue down the WGs throat and tickled her tonsils instead or did RO on her.

thats what we ended up doing some tougue wrestling while she was busy trying to wank me off

[claretandblue]

never on a awork punt but it has happened on occasions in soho due to the shortness of time and oral being covered

[SUMO61]

Yes, on several occasions.

I think it could be a number of things - tiredness, a sense of something not being quite right/natural, use of Viagra/Cialis or whichever brand.

For me, the biggest factor is time pressure e.g thinking i'd better get on with it in a 30 minute booking. That's a right negative thought. So, I tend to punt with non- clockwatchers or book an hour, so I can relax.

I was always a slow cummer as a young lad, always took ages, so maybe it's just a biological thing, nothing to do with punting..

[livlad]

it was a half an hour punt I never tend to book longer with a girl I've not seen before. Usually half an hour is fine for me but will see her again for an hour this time as we have some unfinished business

[The_Don]

Yes a number of times for different reasons

[Outcallguy]

Just a slight curve ball.

surely shooting your load isn't the only bit that's important to you?

Why not focus on fucking a beautiful woman and then if you cum that's just the icing on a fucking awesome cake?

[threechilliman]

Just a slight curve ball.

surely shooting your load isn't the only bit that's important to you?

Why not focus on fucking a beautiful woman and then if you cum that's just the icing on a fucking awesome cake?

Exactly how I go about it. I only cum once at the end and sometimes have to resort to self-abuse to get over the line. I really enjoy oral and fucking with a woman I've only just met. Fucking brilliant for me. The cum is just the icing on the cake, so to speak.

tcm

[Jeff_withpetersen]

I failed to pop twice, both times with a woman that I was developing EAS for. Can't be coincidence and probably speaks to some deep-seated psychological problem deep within me that I've elected to completely ignore

[livlad]

it isn't the most important thing but I really do like to put icing on the cake

[oldjonny]

It can happen, for no discernible reason. One trick I use that seems to work for me is to break off and ask the lady to play with herself while I spank my monkey. I still find it erotic to watch a lady pleasure herself and this technique has not failed me yet.

Happy spanking (and I hope it works for you, livlad).

OJ

[justfornow]

Once i couldn't get second pop out. I was still hard, girl was giving her best and i enjoyed the sex just didn't happen. Not a problem, just kept at it till the end and went home when time was up :d all good imo. I would be bothered if i couldn't cum at least once though.

[anyfucker]

has sometimes happened to me, have also cum very quickly, different outcomes with same girl no rhyme or reason as far as i can tell.
that's also part of the fun - not knowing what's going to happen.

[yorkshire123]

livlad read my thread from last year on the same subject, not happened since by the way
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=28784.msg406513#msg406513

[Aspen]

Only when the girl is useless and uncooperative.

There are a lot around, and there's a certain skill in detecting and avoiding them

[6XP]

A few times, I have failed to pop but not always sure as to the reason why that was.

I have to 'drain the tank' usually the night before or else I cum too quick but sometimes the timing of that isn't quite right.

I do have to have assistance from the 'little blue pill' but sometimes that occasionally does a 'damp squib' on me and doesn't fully work despite belling 'Full Ahead' down to the engine room. On a few occasions, I haven't managed to get a full on stiffie and despite every effort, I just couldn't pop on that occasion.

There may be other reasons that we would identify such as problems weighing on my mind or perhaps when it came to it, I wasn't fully in the mood.

At the end of the day, failure to pop hasn't detracted much from the experience and as others have said, it was the opportunity to fuck a woman I have only just met.

Again as others have said, part of the fun is not knowing what is going to happen.

About 3 years ago, I was seriously struggling to reach the finish line and the girl noticed this and decided to stick her finger up my bum to speed things up a bit which seemed to quickly produce the desired effect! It also was quite an unusual feeling as well!

I shall have to go down that road again sometime.

[azrael]

this happened to me a few days ago during a punt despite still being hard it just wasn't happening despite mine and the girls best efforts. In the end had to call time loved the punt but left a bit disappointed at not being able to shoot my load in her pretty mouth.
Has this ever happened to any other guys? what was the outcome?

I wouldnt worry about it budd, its happened to me on two occasions, as long as it dont fall asleep who cares. Just means you get a longer work out and vfm, wher as the wg has to work twice/thrice as hard to earn it. Its only when your little mate decides on a no show then you should worry and consider using the blue pill. 

[azrael]

Plus the other thing you could do is tell the wg its hard for you to pop, some wg love it as they see it as a challeng

[Redhead Lover]

Just a slight curve ball.

surely shooting your load isn't the only bit that's important to you?

Why not focus on fucking a beautiful woman and then if you cum that's just the icing on a fucking awesome cake?

Fucking the girl and ensuring I cum on her face is the main reason I punt TBH

[cueball]

Fucking the girl and ensuring I cum on her face is the main reason I punt TBH

Gotta agree with you there, I'd be disappointed if I didn't leave my muck behind (whether it's down her throat, in her mouth or in the rubber bag)

[LL]

Sometimes in short bookings yes.  Last time I met with a Romanian skank who turned out to be a right bitch and I just couldn't cum.  If they rush me to cum then it sometimes has the opposite effect on me.

If I go for a massage (in a non-legit dodgy Asian parlour) and am offered a handjob at the end - sometimes I can't cum (10% of the time) - this is because they adopt a one-routine-suits-all mentality whereby they're generally only prepared to tug your cock for 5-10 minutes at the end, if their technique isn't first rate then I can't cum and the nagging from them to "finish" before the time is up just makes it all the more difficult for me.

I've spent years doing 30 minute punts such that I can usually pace myself and shoot within the last 5 minutes, if I'm allowed to control the punt and do what I want that is.  However, some girls get spooked / nervous when I haven't cum by the 15/20 minute mark and are then worried that I'll leave without cumming and therefore disappointed and so they'll put pressure on me to cum at this point in the punt.

Also, I've only given facials to girls a few times.  The OP mentioned he was trying to cum in a girl's mouth and couldn't.  I find it harder to cum this way even though I really want to do it.  Subconsciously perhaps I'm thinking that it's not very nice for the girl and guilt kicks in.  It just feels a bit unnatural even though I enjoy it.  A bit naughty and I'm hesitant.

[vt]

Plus the other thing you could do is tell the wg its hard for you to pop, some wg love it as they see it as a challeng

That's a good idea as I find sometimes girls go a bit too gentle because they're used to guys popping quickly. I see some at parties cumming in less than two minutes of doggy.

I've never suffered from Premature ejaculation even as a teenager, I must be a slow cummer, so sometimes it doesn't happen. When I have experienced difficulties, I've put it down to these reasons, sometimes a combination of them:

1. Condoms deadening sensation
2. Unresponsive or unskilled partner
3. Poor night's sleep beforehand
4. Not enough saved up in the tank
5. Time limit pressures
6. Spending too long on RO
7. Pressure to perform

Usually taking matters into your own hands works as a last resort.

[LL]

Usually taking matters into your own hands works as a last resort.

Absolutely, if I employ this as a backup plan I can cum within a minute or two at the end of a session.  However, at times when I've been rushed I just haven't bothered to finish myself off and have left with a full tank, saved up for the next lucky lady 

[Sheer Tights]

Always happens when the girl pressurises me by saying "come on baby, only ten minutes left. I have another client to see"

[bigmc]

Happened to me a few times. I just pull out and finish myself off. If it's because the girl isn't doing it for me, I close my eyes  and think of one that does 

[password02]

It has happened to me on 4-5 occasions over the last 3-4 years - The latest being last week with my 3some with Platinum Cindy & Hot Ameera.

Review on the London section - https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=46811.0 - should make you laugh 

[Hungarian Lover]

Having to use condoms in this my second sex life does not help certainly not as nice as without and I'm sure the 100mg viagra puts a block on it but as long as the sex happens I do not mind to much, at my age fucking a young girl is a bonus!!

[fettish008]

Yer.i think it was down to nerves as it was my 1st punt.i seem to be ok now.

[greychap]

this happened to me a few days ago during a punt despite still being hard it just wasn't happening despite mine and the girls best efforts. In the end had to call time loved the punt but left a bit disappointed at not being able to shoot my load in her pretty mouth.
Has this ever happened to any other guys? what was the outcome?

The outcome is no cum by end of booking!

[broksonic]

I can cum no problem during sex , but never if she gives me a Blowjob or a Handjob .  I have not problems cuming if I wank myself off

[threechilliman]

I can cum no problem during sex , but never if she gives me a Blowjob or a Handjob .  I have not problems cuming if I wank myself off

Complete reverse for me. Rarely cum during sex and actually prefer a slow, oily handjob to finish. Wonderful!

tcm

[SirFrank]

Twice - once when swinging (just went past the point and despite banging like an SDS drill on hammer mode for fuck knows how long it wasn't happening) and once when punting. I've mentioned this lass several times - chubby bird (curvy on her profile with pics that were clearly 3 years/stone earlier) just off whiteladies rd in Bristol. Fanny like a butchers dustbin. Still wakes me up in the middle of the night that one. I should have walked but didn't and I fucking hate myself because of it. No one can possibly hate me as much as I hate myself. Anyway I had to wank myself off just to get out of there. Even thinking about her clodge 3 years on brings me out in hives. I'm worse than shit me

[Horizontal pleasures]

Its the condoms that stop me coming if anything does, not every time but often enough. Can anyone suggest a brand and or model name of a really really sensitive one?

If I am really stuck I ask for 69.

[Roth]

Nearly in this shit punt.  Then I got my mind around it, came quick and then fucked off out of it at the half way point.

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=44935.0
 

[WhackDaddy]

Happened to me a few times. Mostly when the girl is as cold as a fish and just doesn't do for me or when I have had too much tea and dying for a piss.

[fredpunter]

Its the condoms that stop me coming if anything does, not every time but often enough. Can anyone suggest a brand and or model name of a really really sensitive one?

If I am really stuck I ask for 69.

I sometimes think the problem with condoms isn't how thick they are but how tight they are. If they are firmly gripping your cock anyway, you don't get the nice sensation of sliding into a warm tightish place, the tightness is already there before you get inside. But then if you got condoms that weren't tight they'd presumably just slip off ..... stds are proof that if there is a god he is an evil bastard.

[Wilson85]

Funnily enough the only times I have trouble erecting and maintaining my apparatus and cumming is with a regular or at parties.  Cold or lack of enthusiasim isn't a hindrance.

I'm currently experimenting with two widths of condom to see if that makes a marked difference. I agree that a tight fitting johnny is a negative factor. In my experience prossies understandably prefer a tighter fit to reduce the chance of slippage.

[Blackpool Rock]

Twice - once when swinging (just went past the point and despite banging like an SDS drill on hammer mode for fuck knows how long it wasn't happening) and once when punting. I've mentioned this lass several times - chubby bird (curvy on her profile with pics that were clearly 3 years/stone earlier) just off whiteladies rd in Bristol. Fanny like a butchers dustbin. Still wakes me up in the middle of the night that one. I should have walked but didn't and I fucking hate myself because of it. No one can possibly hate me as much as I hate myself. Anyway I had to wank myself off just to get out of there. Even thinking about her clodge 3 years on brings me out in hives. I'm worse than shit me

Fuck me did you marry her or something! 
Anyway hopefully the bed is still dry LOL 

I've had a few "failures" over the years, normally 1 or 2 a year on new girls where I haven't seen their face pic or they turn out to be a couple of dress sizes bigger than their profile, I normally know straight away I'm going to struggle as soon as I see the girl and decide I don't fancy her enough (I know I'm too picky to begin with anyway).
The problem has also occurred or been worse when I've been really tired or stressed out and you get that horrible nagging feeling of self doubt when entering your next punt in case of a repeat performance.
Best thing to do is get straight back on the horse and book another punt, I once had a failure with one girl so booked a girl I knew was good an hour later and hey presto no problem (thereby confirming in my own little world that it wasn't me but the previous girl, shallow bastard that I am)

[johnnyboy61]

Although the little member always stands to attention without the use of pills it has failed to come up with the goods on a few occasions.

1. When the girl goes at it too hard from the off either in sex or a HJ and desensitises the poor little thing.
2. If I am tired.
3.  If I think I am going to pop too soon and deliberately hold back and slow down I find that moment has gone.

However, being in my mid-fifties and circumcised in adulthood for medical reasons, I'm not too upset on the rare occasions I don't cum (especially as sex is always with a condom). Time spent with a good WG who provides a good service is always a pleasure. However one sweet girl who had not been in the business very long did get a little upset as it had never happened to her before and I was the one having to reassure her that it was ok and that I had had a wonderful time, although I wasn't sure she was convinced.

[Boundless]

Once when she was making false noises, needed to put my fingers in my ears lol mind you I was stifling a laugh!

Yes, I find it a turn off.

Take some fucking acting lessons love!

[GreyDave]

 
1. When the girl goes at it too hard from the off either in sex or a HJ and desensitises the poor little thing.
2. If I am tired.
3.  If I think I am going to pop too soon and deliberately hold back and slow down I find that moment has gone.

Unfortunatly quite often and since I use little pills to help keep up the little fella it seems to be even more often.

I have been lucky and the 1-1 indie girls I ve seem have been calm and not rushed me back to full strengh but taken it as a challange to get me up again . But  the Soho walk ups are quick to say times up love and get you out. I did like to do these but have to say the last few weeks they have not been my best pump n dumps an indie girl shag session seems now to be the better thing for me

[Marmalade]

Some remarkable stuff on the wiki page (with a link to non-ejaculation, called ironically anejaculation). Age, unsurprisingly, makes a difference.

External Link/Members Only

They didn't include "ugly clock watching slapper with loose fanny" but I suppose they can't list everything. 

Occasionally I have just been too bored to come. In places abroad where one can afford several shags in an afternoon at small cost, I often save coming for last one unless an earlier one is remarkable. The bigger Eros joints in Germany are ideal for merry go round fun come. 

[Marmalade]

Yes, I find it a turn off.

Take some fucking acting lessons love!

Just say, no noises please!

I had one once giving it laldi and she paused the Oscar moans and asked politely, "do you like it with or without noises?"

I just about managed to maintain the stiffy and not burst out laughing.

"Without" I replied!