Living and dating a WG

[Sinnerman10]

But the OP said she'd given up working therefore no link to give 

I've often joked that other members should post up a link in similar circumstances and there is sometimes a genuine curiosity but i'm getting the feeling that your request is both real and perhaps somewhat misguided almost creepy / sinister 

You’re the same guy that does exactly the same and it’s all fine when you do it. When someone also does it it’s creepy / sinister. Make it make sense.   

Like as if I give 2 shits about his and her love life.
And I also remember the other thread when the guy posted a link of that other wg you was taking the piss out of the way she looked and her size, it wasn’t creepy then was it.

I won’t be commenting further on this thread because people like Blackpool rock and others like to start accusing other members of all sorts, when they do the exact same.

[Djj_2025]

@shagmore

I'm sorry it didn't work out for you. I have been in your shoes so I know the difficulties of a relationship with a WG.

This is just my theory, and nothing more than that.

First off, I think a lot of WG's have mental health issues, some caused by the work, some caused them to go in to the work. Either way, it's often difficult for them to maintain a relationship with one person who they can trust and commit to fully.

Second is the loss of security. A good SP will be making a lot of money and this provides them security in life, especially if they invest it well. So giving up that income and putting their reliance and faith in someone (who is known to visit Sex Workers) is a huge leap. Often too huge and scary to make.

It means that the relationship, when tested, often leaves the SP with an easy decision to go straight back in to the work, because it is that which makes them feel they have control over, and security in their life.

This is one of the wisest things said on these threads! I’ve recently started dating an SP, and we both know it won’t last. She’s carrying on working and I’m out there punting. But when we meet, it’s like a different world - her job is her job and it doesn’t change who she is as a person. Set clear boundaries and expectations - we are all adults here - and it can be a beautiful thing…

[Stevelondon]

No I haven’t considered a career in relationship counselling,  which is totally irrelevant to this post.
All I did, was ask him for a link to the Wg. So I could have a go on her. Due to them not being together no more. So I just don’t understand why you would put up something so stupid like me considering a career in relationship counselling. Makes no sense whatsoever.

He also put up she was forced in to prostitution at a young age is complete bollox, we don’t live in a 3rd world country, there’s law and order here. If anyone is forced in to this sort of thing then they could easily contact the authorities. Prossies make shit loads of moneys and they enjoy what they do, the ones I’ve been seeing definitely do.

I was in the pub today after a very satisfying punt ( terrible day for it I know. I unfurled this cheap brolly I had  and the wind completely destroyed it. I’ll post something later on about umbrellas …… be really interesting I promise)…….. anyway. I digress.
As I was saying, me, pub, post punt pint etc.

Listening to the conversation on the table next to me. I won’t go into details about anything but they were oh so obviously three of the daftest blokes imaginable.

You’d have fitted in perfectly and made up the quartet. 🤷🏼 😂

[Blackpool Rock]

You’re the same guy that does exactly the same and it’s all fine when you do it. When someone also does it it’s creepy / sinister. Make it make sense.   

Like as if I give 2 shits about his and her love life.
And I also remember the other thread when the guy posted a link of that other wg you was taking the piss out of the way she looked and her size, it wasn’t creepy then was it.

I won’t be commenting further on this thread because people like Blackpool rock and others like to start accusing other members of all sorts, when they do the exact same.

Missing the point mate, as I posted i've asked for the link "As A Joke" on threads where someone says they are dating a WG etc, there's normally half a dozen or so similar posts, it's called Banter

In this instance another punter has posted up that his relationship has finished and most people are offering a few wise words or a bit of sympathy, indeed my original post was along those lines as I was aware that until very recently he seemed to be really happy with her.

Your posts are the opposite but the creepy / sinister bit comes from the language you've used -

1 - All the wg’s I know seem happy, always going on holidays, getting surgery done always on shopping sprees living their best lives.
Any chance of a link op, so if she does decide on coming back, I could bang her brains out and then think for a second 

2 - No I haven’t considered a career in relationship counselling,  which is totally irrelevant to this post.
All I did, was ask him for a link to the Wg. So I could have a go on her. Due to them not being together no more. So I just don’t understand why you would put up something so stupid like me considering a career in relationship counselling. Makes no sense whatsoever.

He also put up she was forced in to prostitution at a young age is complete bollox, we don’t live in a 3rd world country, there’s law and order here. If anyone is forced in to this sort of thing then they could easily contact the authorities. Prossies make shit loads of moneys and they enjoy what they do, the ones I’ve been seeing definitely do.

3 - The whole purpose being on this forum is to help each other out, give intel, your friend can’t pass over an aw link, because he don’t want sinnerman pumping his ex. Straight forward as that. 

4 - All sinnerman does is sticks to his bookings, I just want to see if she’s worth a bang or not. No harm in that is there?


Seems you are just kicking someone when they're down while others are offering kind words and support and your assumption about someone being forced into it at a young age being bollocks is in itself bollocks, exactly how the fuck do you know 
I've had punts with girls over the years and in convo it was clear to me from things they said that they had had things happen to them in the past, one girl openly said she was conned into it while underage and another couple of girls clearly had unwanted advances from their Dads 

[Thephoenix]

^ ^ ^ This 

[lewisjones23]

At one stage I was shagging an agency girl off the books with no money exchanging hands, I started to play out various scenarios about how it could work out ....

In a moment of clarity, I read her reviews on the now dead Manchester Forum a few times over and reading about how anyone with £160 to spare could take their pick of any of her holes brought me to my senses real quick.

[Punting2022]

She prob wanted to do work still or go back to it.
Will be hard for you. But eventually you will find a new lady. Someone better. Everything happens for a reason in life.

Cash is king and no amount of commitment for a prosse can draw them away. Its how they are built. Unless your a millionaire giving them like 3k a month. They wont give up. Like all jobs, no one takes a paycut.

Just use the freedom you have to enjoy life. You can pay for more sexy attractive ladies. Ladies that do more in the bedroom. Insted of commiting to one.

You were still paying her in a way for sex. Be it living arrangements etc. So you have freedom, pay for more variety

[Chazz]

@Shagmore Thank you very much for your post. Punting is a funny old game. It's all a big charade, a pantomime, yet at the same time can give vivid glimpses of true self knowledge. I'm sorry to hear that things didn't work out as you'd hoped, but glad that you've had the happiest 3 months of your life. It's certainly true, unfortunately, that you can't get the highs without the corresponding lows. I'm currently riding the rollercoaster, riding high at the moment, but braced for the inevitable plunge to the bottom. Thank you again for sharing. It's good to hear that I'm not dancing alone on this particular knife edge.

[Nomerzypuntr]

OP there’s nothing wrong the Sinnerman asked the AW link or profile.
If I’m right you been mentioning abt her many times several threads so punters have the curiosity to meet her as she is a SP.
Maybe she wanted to return to work, make some money.
It’s upto you sharing the link or not, we cant force you nor want to.

I would say to you Shag more.. if she comes back you are lucky.

[daviemac]

OP there’s nothing wrong the Sinnerman asked the AW link or profile.

This is my personal opinion.

Firstly he said she stopped working so there is no link, then we come to the way he asked, "I could bang her brains out", "so I could have a go on her" and "I just want to see if she's worth a bang or no!" shows a total lack of respect for women in the paid for sex game. To be honest I wouldn't tell him who any escort was.

The worst thing is this statement, - "He also put up she was forced in to prostitution at a young age is complete bollox, we don’t live in a 3rd world country, there’s law and order here.", if sex trafficking and women being forced into prostitution was "complete bollox" the police wouldn't have special local and national units to deal with it.  External Link/Members Only

To be honest I have no words for people with this sort of attitude and if you agree with him then it makes you as bad as him.

[Stevelondon]

OP there’s nothing wrong the Sinnerman asked the AW link or profile.
If I’m right you been mentioning abt her many times several threads so punters have the curiosity to meet her as she is a SP.
Maybe she wanted to return to work, make some money.
It’s upto you sharing the link or not, we cant force you nor want to.

I would say to you Shag more.. if she comes back you are lucky.

My advice. Don’t share the link ………. If there is one.

There are enough creeps around who will take it as a sort of challenge to fuck the lass that one of our members dated. Possibly creepy enough to want to chat with the lass about this particular member.

Shagmore me old mate…….. keep it to yourself. 🤷🏼

[mr.bluesky]

I used to know a couple of work colleagues who frequently visited Thailand and married Thai ladies, bought them back to England, neither marriages lasted very long. When you marry a Thai you're not only responsible for the wife but her whole family financially .

[MissWolf]

This is my personal opinion.

Firstly he said she stopped working so there is no link, then we come to the way he asked, "I could bang her brains out", "so I could have a go on her" and "I just want to see if she's worth a bang or no!" shows a total lack of respect for women in the paid for sex game. To be honest I wouldn't tell him who any escort was.

The worst thing is this statement, - "He also put up she was forced in to prostitution at a young age is complete bollox, we don’t live in a 3rd world country, there’s law and order here.", if sex trafficking and women being forced into prostitution was "complete bollox" the police wouldn't have special local and national units to deal with it.  External Link/Members Only

To be honest I have no words for people with this sort of attitude and if you agree with him then it makes you as bad as him.

100% this

[Doc Holliday]

The worst thing is this statement, - "He also put up she was forced in to prostitution at a young age is complete bollox, we don’t live in a 3rd world country, there’s law and order here.", if sex trafficking and women being forced into prostitution was "complete bollox" the police wouldn't have special local and national units to deal with it.  External Link/Members Only

I would like to think the majority of members are aware of the reality of sex work. I suspect he is also, but was just intent on digging a deeper hole for himself.

And whilst I was coming back down the stairs I looked over in the room down stairs there was a dog and a guy there I though must be the pimp or one of there boyfriends he should have just come up and joined In I wouldn’t have minded.

[Nomerzypuntr]

Then I would say it’s better to move this thread to Off Topic Chat 
Like another thread Wife gone for 10 days holidays a punter asked recommendations here, and some of them commented about his wife like is she an SP. So I felt bad there not here coz here is a former SP.
I surprised only Sinnerman asked abt the link, it’s a punting thread.
Also I can’t judge ppl based on reviews and reviewing, either Shag or Sinner

I’m not saying shag to share the link, nor that SP to come back to escorting as she being forced to sex in her younger age. Here I would stand with Sinner, it’s okay to judge me bad/retard it’s upto you guys.

[Sinnerman10]

I know what happens in this industry because a regular of mine was attacked and she was touring by mine and that’s why she had called me because she knew I would most likely be close by and I went and helped her out and people know about this because she put it up on her status.

Everyone is getting the wrong end of the stick here I did say the working girls I know most of them are living their best life’s I didn’t say all. Most of the girls I go to see are cool with me and don’t seem to have an issue. It’s some people on this forum that are very judgmental.

And for the guy that wrote the post it’s his issue and problem for falling in love, just because his broke up with her that doesn’t have anything to do with us. Why should we have to think for a second, whilst we are pumping away and enjoying ourselves. He missed up not me or anyone else.

And the wording I had used was a little ott about sending a link I honestly couldn’t care less if she’s fat and butters or a supermodel I was having a laugh about it and was a little bit ott with my wording if it’s caused any offence to anyone I’m sorry.

[Doc Holliday]

if it’s caused any offence to anyone I’m sorry.

  End of.

[shagmore]

if it’s caused any offence to anyone I’m sorry.

Accepted,

[B4bcock]

Damn!   I was just starting to enjoy this thread.  It reminded me of the good old days and the ding dongs whenever Rebecca was mentioned.

Anyone wanna buy a half bag of popcorn??

[Punting2022]

Why do men decide to date these  girls. A escort is there for sex. Have your 1 or 2 hours of sex. Move on after. Shag another, or shag ur misses etc after.

Escorts are number one liars, they are skilled in acting from thier job. So if one tells you she quit. She has not. She will have other regular contacts she meets. Just because she aint on a site, she will know a way. Few years ago i still used to see a escort, she quit aw, but gave me alternative number, so we met. Same rates, but meets ran over.  Stayed transactional. So in op case i 100 percent can tell you, she was meeting others. No issue, 1 month or so hard to get over. Then easy to move on. People move on from years of marriage, so a few years with a w hore should be easier.

Just go out party enjoy life.
Never date w hores again op. You will be fine.
I wouldnt give link either, someone here could use to get info about u etc

[Snagbadjer]

Damn!   I was just starting to enjoy this thread.  It reminded me of the good old days and the ding dongs whenever Rebecca was mentioned.

Anyone wanna buy a half bag of popcorn??

I haven't forgotten about the snitches on here who like to give stick but go crying to mods when you point out their "emotional attachment syndrome" to English Rebacca haha.

[Sinnerman10]

Accepted,

Sorry op, I said I wanted to shag your ex’s brains out. Wording was wrong. 
Just try not to fall in love again, carry on pumping and enjoying it.

Life’s too short to be in love with a prossie.   

[Doc Holliday]

Anyone wanna buy a half bag of popcorn??

How much are you asking?

I would just pop it in the freezer until the next thread comes along.

[Blackpool Rock]

Why do men decide to date these  girls. A escort is there for sex. Have your 1 or 2 hours of sex. Move on after. Shag another, or shag ur misses etc after.

Escorts are number one liars, they are skilled in acting from thier job. So if one tells you she quit. She has not. She will have other regular contacts she meets. Just because she aint on a site, she will know a way. Few years ago i still used to see a escort, she quit aw, but gave me alternative number, so we met. Same rates, but meets ran over.  Stayed transactional. So in op case i 100 percent can tell you, she was meeting others. No issue, 1 month or so hard to get over. Then easy to move on. People move on from years of marriage, so a few years with a w hore should be easier.

Just go out party enjoy life.
Never date w hores again op. You will be fine.
I wouldnt give link either, someone here could use to get info about u etc

You don't necessarily choose who you fall in love with, it just happens 

[haltron1991]

I empathize a bit with you OP, as I definitely develop a bit of EAS after a particularly good shag. Good conversation, chemistry, cuddling, DFK, and multiple rounds always do that to me.

It's hard not to run back for a repeat at times, but I try to let it simmer and it'll die down. And then I'm off to drooling over the next one before too long.

Thankfully I travel a fair bit for work and tend to be thousands of miles away within a day or two, makes it hard to run back to the girl and make the EAS worse.

[PilotMan]

Its not to be honest , it's a one off assumption in my opinion

"To be honest" - does that mean that you usually lie then?

If you are being "honest" -then you must have an opinion of your own or something to make your "honest" claim, otherwise saying "to be honest" is just you trying to add some weight to empty words which really have no substance, and therefore you really have no opinion or anything of value to say.

Why don't you share your opinion then  - or maybe you have zero experience and have no opinion of your own.

[Sinnerman10]

I can put my life on it, she will be back. Spreading her legs wide open for other men.

[Doc Holliday]

I can put my life on it, she will be back. Spreading her legs wide open for other men.

So your apology was meaningless?

[PilotMan]

So your apology was meaningless?

Sorry only means something when it is accompanied by changed behaviour.

So he obviously isn't sorry.

I think he's made it abundantly clear the type of character he is, so he's best ignored.

[Snagbadjer]

Ffs just get your pal to put her link up, prove me wrong simple 

How many times are you going to beg him for the link?

[PilotMan]

How many times are you going to beg him for the link?

See the last line of my post above yours

[Sinnerman10]

How many times are you going to beg him for the link?

This was yesterday, I kept asking him because I didn’t believe him. I honestly thought he was making it up.

[Snagbadjer]

This was yesterday, I kept asking him because I didn’t believe him. I honestly thought he was making it up.

Fair enough. Good luck on your next punt mate.

[Sinnerman10]

So your apology was meaningless?

No, not at all, I apologised for my wording it was out of order,  so what’s the issue now ? All I said is she will be back working but not in that sort of way.

[Sinnerman10]

Fair enough. Good luck on your next punt mate.

What’s my next punt got to do with anything mate.

[Doc Holliday]

No, not at all, I apologised for my wording it was out of order,  so what’s the issue now ? All I said is she will be back working but not in that sort of way.

But you didn't just say she would return to work you said this

I can put my life on it, she will be back. Spreading her legs wide open for other men.

So you don't think that wording will upset the opening poster to whom you apologised?

[Blackpool Rock]

But you didn't just say she would return to work you said this

So you don't think that wording will upset the opening poster to whom you apologised?

Not sure it will upset the OP or anyone else but it does demonstrate that Sinnerman seems to have an uncanny knack of just digging himself deeper 

[Sinnerman10]

But you didn't just say she would return to work you said this

So you don't think that wording will upset the opening poster to whom you apologised?

Yeah reading back at it yes, I have to be careful when I’m writing sometimes I don’t mean to upset people it’s just the way I word it. Even yesterday I wasn’t trying to be mean or anything, when I read it back or someone points it out to me then I fully understand,  where there coming from.

[Sinnerman10]

Not sure it will upset the OP or anyone else but it does demonstrate that Sinnerman seems to have an uncanny knack of just digging himself deeper 

Blackpool’s finest rock at it again, the saint, the saviour of this forum

[Thephoenix]

Blackpool’s finest rock at it again, the saint, the saviour of this forum

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It's about knowing when to stop mate.

[Snagbadjer]

What’s my next punt got to do with anything mate.

I like to wish fellow punters good luck on their punts and it's a good faith gesture.

[Nomerzypuntr]

Life’s too short to be in love with a prossie.   

One SP told me like this, she added “never ever”..

[Sinnerman10]

I like to wish fellow punters good luck on their punts and it's a good faith gesture.

Thanks man, also good luck on your next one 

[Sinnerman10]

One SP told me like this, she added “never ever”..

@Nomerzypuntr you think if his ex starts working again, we could tag team her in a MMF 

[Nomerzypuntr]

@Nomerzypuntr you think if his ex starts working again, we could tag team her in a MMF 

My ex  don’t have any

[Doc Holliday]

@Nomerzypuntr you think if his ex starts working again, we could tag team her in a MMF 

I give up.

[hendrix]

Sorry it didn't work out shagmore, I know you seemed quite invested in it from previous posts. Onwards and upwards as they say!

[Blackpool Rock]

I give up.

Me too and apparently i'm the saint and saviour of this forum 

[MissWolf]

I give up.

Doc I'd have given up long ago, you can dye a cheetah pink to hide its spots but its still a cheetah!

[Payyourwaymate]

@Nomerzypuntr you think if his ex starts working again, we could tag team her in a MMF 

Your shifting between apologies and making snide comments makes you come across as very disingenuous. Although, what was OP expecting posting that he fell for an SP on an open forum and now is heartbroken.

OP, I saw your posts now and then talking about the great time you were having dating a SP, perhaps unknown to you...you were in your honeymoon phase and truth be told OP, count your blessings it ended during the honeymoon period and you can just feel heartbroken and reminisce with fond memories.

The alternative to what you are experiencing now if you tried to keep it going and it went wrong, quite honestly would have been an emotional hell. I do not say this lightly.

Good luck for the future OP.