Would you want to know if your wife/GF or partner was cheating

[shagmore]

As we are, or have been punters and most of us have cheated on the wife, GF or partner what are your takes on knowing if she is having an affair or meeting up for sex.
Previous relationships I have been in I wouldn't have cared, as I was doing the same, but now would be rather hurt as have stopped the punting lifestyle

[southcoastpunter]

But have you? Why are you still very active on here then? I would have thought that if you had really given up all thoughts of punting again you wouldn’t be on here and commenting as often as you are?

( not in any way complaining or intending to have a go at you but just challenging your thinking)

[thefilthyfucker]

I'd be a bit sad but once I'd gotten over the ego I'd likely ask to watch.

[Punting2022]

Yes you would want to know. Imagine she's preggers worst case scenario but cheating. Kids ovs not urs. Your paying to bring another mans kid up.

I would say id forgave her, and then cheat on her for revenge if not married. Less to loose on a divorce case.
If married then ovs easier to divorce.

[shagmore]

But have you? Why are you still very active on here then? I would have thought that if you had really given up all thoughts of punting again you wouldn’t be on here and commenting as often as you are?

( not in any way complaining or intending to have a go at you but just challenging your thinking)

Punting was a great part of my life for 12 years, I am still very interested in what people are saying and whats going on, the topics etc. But yes I have given up punting, as I am very happy with my new partner.
I did not in any way think you are complaining/having a go - I see where you are coming from. I like to comment as I feel I have a lot to give. Hopefully I can keep doing so

[RyanM92]

I'd be a bit sad but once I'd gotten over the ego I'd likely ask to watch.

This is kind of where I’m at too. Like I wouldn’t want her cheating on me but just like when I see myself in the mirror enjoying a WG.. I kind of have thought how it would look like to watch another man enjoying my wife..

[daviemac]

But have you? Why are you still very active on here then? I would have thought that if you had really given up all thoughts of punting again you wouldn’t be on here and commenting as often as you are?

( not in any way complaining or intending to have a go at you but just challenging your thinking)

He's been a member for 9 years and posted 89 reviews, with his experience he is quite capable of making meaningful contributions therefore staying within the rules.

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[daviemac]

Punting was a great part of my life for 12 years, I am still very interested in what people are saying and whats going on, the topics etc. But yes I have given up punting, as I am very happy with my new partner.
I did not in any way think you are complaining/having a go - I see where you are coming from. I like to comment as I feel I have a lot to give. Hopefully I can keep doing so

It's those who don't make any contributions we have an issue with, there's loads of members who, for various reasons, no longer punt but pass on valuable information and advice.

[shagmore]

He's been a member for 9 years and posted 89 reviews, with his experience he is quite capable of making meaningful contributions therefore staying within the rules.

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Thank you for your support - respect

[shagmore]

It's those who don't make any contributions we have an issue with, there's loads of members who, for various reasons, no longer punt but pass on valuable information and advice.

Agree, been punting for 12 years, have done all sorts, so do feel have valuable information to pass on.
If I can help someone out from my past experiences then I will feel justified.

I never thought that I would give up punting, TBH I never thought I would end up have an EX WG as my partner, but I am happy as hell. She appears to be as well. One thing have noticed a big change in her since she gave up working, much calmer, much more loving and more relaxed.
As you would expect the sex side of things is completely different, when I think back to when I was paying her too now is remarkable.
I have no issues with her ex-profession, if it wasn't for that we would never have met and fallen for each other.
We both know where we come from, there is no stigma attached to it.

OK sorry slightly off topic...

[southcoastpunter]

He's been a member for 9 years and posted 89 reviews, with his experience he is quite capable of making meaningful contributions therefore staying within the rules.

Maybe I didn’t express myself very well as you seem to have misunderstood what I was trying to say. In no way was I saying or suggesting that he has nothing to add of value to this forum but rather was asking him whether he has actually mentally given up punting all together! If I decided to give this up entirely I wouldn’t come on here at all as I know it might tempt me to break/change my decision!
That was all! I thought I covered this in my last sentence but obviously not!

[daviemac]

Maybe I didn’t express myself very well as you seem to have misunderstood what I was trying to say. In no way was I saying or suggesting that he has nothing to add of value to this forum but rather was asking him whether he has actually mentally given up punting all together! If I decided to give this up entirely I wouldn’t come on here at all as I know it might tempt me to break/change my decision!
That was all! I thought I covered this in my last sentence but obviously not!

I thought this ↓ would explain, you don't need to be active to still have an interest.

there's loads of members who, for various reasons, no longer punt but pass on valuable information and advice.

[Punting2022]

Agree, been punting for 12 years, have done all sorts, so do feel have valuable information to pass on.
If I can help someone out from my past experiences then I will feel justified.

I never thought that I would give up punting, TBH I never thought I would end up have an EX WG as my partner, but I am happy as hell. She appears to be as well. One thing have noticed a big change in her since she gave up working, much calmer, much more loving and more relaxed.
As you would expect the sex side of things is completely different, when I think back to when I was paying her too now is remarkable.
I have no issues with her ex-profession, if it wasn't for that we would never have met and fallen for each other.
We both know where we come from, there is no stigma attached to it.

OK sorry slightly off topic...

Did she give it up for your underlying love. Or are you funding her in some way. Paid off debts etc. Or she got a proper 9 to 5 job

[shagmore]

She is currently living off her savings, and will be getting a job in the new year

[Stevelondon]

She is currently living off her savings, and will be getting a job in the new year

I’m not sure you needed to answer that question my friend. It’s got fuck all to do with the guy posing the question….. or any of the rest of us. 🤷🏼

[Colston36]

Agree, been punting for 12 years, have done all sorts, so do feel have valuable information to pass on.
If I can help someone out from my past experiences then I will feel justified.

I never thought that I would give up punting, TBH I never thought I would end up have an EX WG as my partner, but I am happy as hell. She appears to be as well. One thing have noticed a big change in her since she gave up working, much calmer, much more loving and more relaxed.
As you would expect the sex side of things is completely different, when I think back to when I was paying her too now is remarkable.
I have no issues with her ex-profession, if it wasn't for that we would never have met and fallen for each other.
We both know where we come from, there is no stigma attached to it.

OK sorry slightly off topic...

My life was changed when 65 years ago I was assigned  a secretary who my employers didn't know and nor did I had been a call girl as they were labelled then. She gave me a priceless quick education. We were together about 2 and half years. Insanely jealous.

[Stevelondon]

A friend of mine for over 20 years was a SP. Only recently retired from play.
A lovely, brilliantly funny, highly intelligent and wonderful pal. Who provided for her family wonderfully well.
I have been very lucky to have been just a part of her life……… and still am.