Kinks and fetishes in normal life

[shagmore]

If this is in the wrong area please move, hopefully the correct section as its outside of punting.
Question is what kinks and fetishes do you get up to in your real life and not with WG's.
For me, watersports (even though this started out in punting) have now got my partner who was a WG to do this, she had never done it before so it was an exciting time for both of us.
Sniffing her used underwear, especially after a long walk - the aroma is amazing
Going on from above, going down on her after a long walk, or at the end of the day before she has freshened up. This is a new one for me and it is unbelievable, would not dream of this with punting.
Licking her out and cleaning up after you have cum inside of her, again, this is not something that would entertain in punting

I think that about wraps it up for me

[Stevelondon]

I’m a fan of a bit of kink play and have to admit in my punting play. It’s usually (most of the time) me being the passive not in control partner. Tie and tease, tease and denial etc.

But in my formative years it was different. My first real long term girlfriend, liked being tied to the bed as teased. Me edging her until she was gasping to cum  .  My first love……. Bless her.

A few over the passing of time have been similar. Shopping with a gf with her wearing fuck all under her coat. Just the once cos it was winter and she was freezing 😂

Craigslist lass who again loved being being tied up and teased, she actually loved watching me fuck an escort then only be allowed to play with herself afterwards 🤷🏼
But that was with me….. she had several blokes in her life who fucked her whenever she asked.

At my age now my sex life is only when I punt and that’s fine. I can’t be arsed to lead a vanilla sex life anymore. I’m fine with me   

Like most of you lot (older ones especially) I suspect we could write books about our exploits if only we fancied it. 😂

[Davey Dykes]

I love being pissed on, civvy or payed for. Civvy is obviously far more difficult and obviously it will come up in conversation so needs to be way outside your peers and friendship group if you do go about it.

I also suspect I'm a bit sub but never been to a pro Domme as just don't fancy heavier duty stuff. Been with some kinky girls and suggested they rough me up a bit and call me names but not happened as yet as I think they assume I'm joking being a pretty layed back, friendly guy with them.

[timsussex]

I love being pissed on, civvy or payed for. Civvy is obviously far more difficult and obviously it will come up in conversation so needs to be way outside your peers and friendship group if you do go about it.

I also suspect I'm a bit sub but never been to a pro Domme as just don't fancy heavier duty stuff. Been with some kinky girls and suggested they rough me up a bit and call me names but not happened as yet as I think they assume I'm joking being a pretty layed back, friendly guy with them.

Why not give a pro Domme a go - afraid you might like it ?

seriously though read some reviews and pick out a lady that can be relied on to  stick to a plan
I know that some ladies can get carried away with their agenda rather than yours but a bit of planning you'll be fine  - perhaps avoid those that have a dungeon

[Davey Dykes]

Main reason is the ones I like the look of are very expensive and don't actually allow sex.

I might be okay with that in certain cases but I'd always want the option of fucking them to be available.

[timsussex]

Main reason is the ones I like the look of are very expensive and don't actually allow sex.

I might be okay with that in certain cases but I'd always want the option of fucking them to be available.

Yes I must admit the best Dommes I've seen don't allow sex but there are a few (down here anyway) that I'd rate as good for a beginner that do

I have posted previously that being a topnotch Domme  just seems to need a different mindset and also means that you are never going to find a civvy

[shagmore]

I love being pissed on, civvy or payed for. Civvy is obviously far more difficult and obviously it will come up in conversation so needs to be way outside your peers and friendship group if you do go about it.

I also suspect I'm a bit sub but never been to a pro Domme as just don't fancy heavier duty stuff. Been with some kinky girls and suggested they rough me up a bit and call me names but not happened as yet as I think they assume I'm joking being a pretty layed back, friendly guy with them.

Until my new partner, apart from WGs never said about my watersports fetish, but with her being an x WG we have a very open and robust conversation about sex.
I mentioned it one day, then whilst we had the hot spell was sitting in garden having a drink. She said she needed to pee, I said to her you do know how to tease me. With that she said, I cant be arsed to go all the way to the toilet, and stripped off and looked at me. Didn't take me many seconds to strip of and lay on the grass. The feeling of my new partner pissing on me for the first time was sensational.
Not been repeated, but has said will treat me for my birthday

[Davey Dykes]

That sounds great. 

The ex used to do it for me on special occasions, mind you she loved it in return. Not bothered in the slightest about giving back to SPs. I also really like being spat on.

[Stevelondon]

Until my new partner, apart from WGs never said about my watersports fetish, but with her being an x WG we have a very open and robust conversation about sex.
I mentioned it one day, then whilst we had the hot spell was sitting in garden having a drink. She said she needed to pee, I said to her you do know how to tease me. With that she said, I cant be arsed to go all the way to the toilet, and stripped off and looked at me. Didn't take me many seconds to strip of and lay on the grass. The feeling of my new partner pissing on me for the first time was sensational.
Not been repeated, but has said will treat me for my birthday

Win win……… what with this hosepipe ban 

[Ptrsctt]

Congratulations, love WS amongst other things… hope your GF enjoys it as much as you do

[Stevelondon]

Congratulations, love WS amongst other things… hope your GF enjoys it as much as you do

Perhaps you could enlighten us on some of your experiences over the last couple of years