Premature elactulation only during penetration

[Clarence Boddicker]

Hey guys, recently I've struggled to last more than 3 or 4 minutes when having penetrative sex.  Oral is fine, I can last forever and really enjoy it, but I almost feel a slight stress coming on when I readying myself for intercourse, for context im 55 years old.  I'm still enjoying myself but I find I want to enjoy foreplay for ever longer percentages of a session, as I know that once I commence penetration, it's going to be over relatively soon.  Does this happen to anybody else and is there any advice you can give me? 

[Jonestown]

Oh, i dream of lasting three or four minutes.

[Malvolio]

You could just enjoy more foreplay - or have a wank a few hours before the punt and see if that makes a difference

[Clarence Boddicker]

Oh, i dream of lasting three or four minutes.

Haha, I'm ot sure if I feel comforted by that or sad for us both

[Clarence Boddicker]

You could just enjoy more foreplay - or have a wank a few hours before the punt and see if that makes a difference

That might be worth a try I suppose, but I'm also normally a one pop guy, so I think id then worry I might not be able to seal the deal

[Nomerzypuntr]

First of all don’t need to be stressed about it matter. Foreplay is the key, I would say. Try different positions while sex. Do doggy style as the SP on bed you stand on one leg the other bend on bed, during intercourse. It helps to last longer, spooning position also go for a try. Inform the SP what you looking for, Regular SP always best. Ask massage before or after sex, don’t imitate any porn. Tbh I’m not a fan of porn, BJ.. I’m half your age, maybe it matters 

[texmex]

OP - I empathise. I am more than a decade younger than you and have same problem.
Perhaps it is my unhealthy non-exercising lifestyle, perhaps some other age issue.

I use blue pill, seems to help but not a lot.
Spedra works better for me. However it is not a magic fix.

What I would say is - You are there to enjoy - tell the WG; any experienced WG will have seen it all. Better ones will understand and will slow down if you ask them. The bad'uns will see it as an opportunity to get you out of the door early. Doesn't matter because if they are the bad ones .. it would be poor experience anyway even if you could go on like a stallion.

I always try to pace it with more foreplay, b2b massage or lapdance if available - before oral/sex and so on.
Sadly diva's brazilian lot do not understand the concept of roleplay even when listed on their profile.

[rubberduck221]

To give a other perspective, a lot of guys have the problem of struggling to cum from prenatratrive sex.

The grass is always greener.

[Mr Garmin]

As a youngster in my 20's I was pretty trigger happy and then I met a girl with whom I could literally go for hours. I don't know exactly what changed but I have a couple of thoughts as to what it may have been.

I've always been a one pop guy and forcing a second has always been an anti-climax so I like to make it a good one.

It's all in the mind and I liken it to throwing a switch, once done I can cum within seconds.  However as I get older my body is changing again so nothing stays the same.

[Punting2022]

Its all to do with nerves, mind etc.
When with a partner, no pressure on time, so you last longer. Escorts your always constantly thinking i need to finish on time. So sometimes you do quick etc.
Also you may just be super turned on.  Bonus of early is less recovery time. I once done 4 times cum in my early punting days.

Just carry on cum early and enjoy. Maybe take viagra. A small dose like 25mg. I have found it makes me last longer.

[rebelscum]

Its all to do with nerves, mind etc.
When with a partner, no pressure on time, so you last longer. Escorts your always constantly thinking i need to finish on time. So sometimes you do quick etc.
Also you may just be super turned on.  Bonus of early is less recovery time. I once done 4 times cum in my early punting days.

Just carry on cum early and enjoy. Maybe take viagra. A small dose like 25mg. I have found it makes me last longer.

Like all things on this site, YMMV, especially on Viagra, unfortunately found the opposite when I used it myself.  I came pretty quickly, faster than I usually do, with my booking in Angelita earlier this year and the Party I attended last year.  I deliberately took Viagra after I heard it made people last longer and seemed to have quicker recovery times.  I usually use Cialis.  Might revert back to the latter. 

[maybe]

Can you go again after 3-4mins? If you can then don't worry about it. If you can't, then a longer warm up with Bj and foreplay is nice.

I don't agree with squeezing one out before a punt as I would definitely have the other kind of problem, which is not being able to finish.

Even if you finish 3-4 mins with a shower both sides of the action along with some warm, its still 20 mins, which is alright for 30min booking, don't book longer.

[YorkshireLad]

I usually only last a few minutes when first having sex but I last much longer for round 2 so it’s not an issue.

[Nomerzypuntr]

I usually only last a few minutes when first having sex but I last much longer for round 2 so it’s not an issue.

Me too  I focus on foreplay more in round 1 as mine is hard n long but last a few mins. It last longer in round 2

[alabama1]

Its all to do with nerves, mind etc.
When with a partner, no pressure on time, so you last longer. Escorts your always constantly thinking i need to finish on time. So sometimes you do quick etc.
Also you may just be super turned on. Bonus of early is less recovery time. I once done 4 times cum in my early punting days.

Just carry on cum early and enjoy. Maybe take viagra. A small dose like 25mg. I have found it makes me last longer.

Don't you mean more recovery time ?

[Punting2022]

Don't you mean more recovery time ?

Yes

[Thephoenix]

I'd rather like to have premature ejaculation.

In fact I'd be happy with premature, mature, late, belated, overdue, delayed, late, tardy or any kind for that matter.   

[Charliehutton]

I'd rather like to have premature ejaculation.

In fact I'd be happy with premature, mature, late, belated, overdue, delayed, late, tardy or any kind for that matter.   

I wonder if it's an age thing, TP. I'm in my early seventies, can't function without Tadalafil (Cialis) and only manage to cum maybe once in five. Which doesn't bother me one bit, by the way. Or perhaps it's a side effect of the cock-pill, in which case it might be worth the OP giving it a go, subject to his GP's advice, of course.

[Billybudd]

I use a delay spray , it takes away some of the sensation for sure , but helps me last a lot longer .

[Thephoenix]

I wonder if it's an age thing, TP. I'm in my early seventies, can't function without Tadalafil (Cialis) and only manage to cum maybe once in five. Which doesn't bother me one bit, by the way. Or perhaps it's a side effect of the cock-pill, in which case it might be worth the OP giving it a go, subject to his GP's advice, of course.

I'm afraid it's a factor for me Charlie along with nerve and circulation issues plus side effects from prostate surgery.
However as I'm mid eighties now I've become content with what simple pleasures may come my way.