Author Topic: "I love you" - when to be concerned?  (Read 675 times)

Offline LLPunting

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As much as I prefer GFE I haven't heard this in a long time in a paid session, especially without an EE or Russian accent, until recently and not much over the years.

One reg suddenly started saying this repeatedly throughout a session she engaged in particularly passionately and putting her starfish on the menu, also sent me an ILU message after.

For those that have heard these words from an SP when were or weren't you taken aback and (later) considered if you needed to do something about it?

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Do both of you a favour, head for the hills.

Offline mancsguy1975

I suspect she may be after your LLPcashmoney, like the first reply said, at best get an ego trip out of it, and run like Usain Bolt in the opposite direction
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As much as I prefer GFE I haven't heard this in a long time in a paid session, especially without an EE or Russian accent, until recently and not much over the years.

One reg suddenly started saying this repeatedly throughout a session she engaged in particularly passionately and putting her starfish on the menu, also sent me an ILU message after.

For those that have heard these words from an SP when were or weren't you taken aback and (later) considered if you needed to do something about it?

You need to do something immediately every single time. Speaking from personal experience, I had a SP profess her love for me and only recently has she stopped trying to contact me. Even after blocking her and everything, she would not leave me alone. No matter how many times I spelled it out to her. It was just constant harassment until finally it stopped, which was recently.

If the feeling is mutual, great. If it isn't, end it, and then run for the hills (plus document everything)!

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Say it back. Get some good timea like dates extra time in favour.
Then ovs fall out of love.

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Do both of you a favour, head for the hills.
I suspect she may be after your LLPcashmoney, like the first reply said, at best get an ego trip out of it, and run like Usain Bolt in the opposite direction

It's ok, she's since suggested a 3-way with her friend and fellow SP I also know biblically so the frame has been reset, at least until I hear her friend will drop her usual price.

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Say it back. Get some good timea like dates extra time in favour.
Then ovs fall out of love.

One of the few lies I'd never tell a woman, whether she be civvie or SP.

Offline Colston36

How sane is she? This happened to me when I was young and good looking. The lady in question turned out to be pathologically jealous and could easily have stabbed me to death if I hadn't been wearing a suede coat. I swapped her for a very young Polish girl who gave me my only dose. I forgave her when my doctor told me girls could have it without knowing. I should have stayed with her; she would have saved me a very expensive divorce.
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You need to do something immediately every single time. Speaking from personal experience, I had a SP profess her love for me and only recently has she stopped trying to contact me. Even after blocking her and everything, she would not leave me alone. No matter how many times I spelled it out to her. It was just constant harassment until finally it stopped, which was recently.

If the feeling is mutual, great. If it isn't, end it, and then run for the hills (plus document everything)!

No harassment received but will watch out for further behaviour.  Telling me not to pay will be the big moment to pause and have a serious conversation.  Not averse but have no idea how many other "lovers"  might be involved!

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How sane is she? This happened to me when I was young and good looking. The lady in question turned out to be pathologically jealous and could easily have stabbed me to death if I hadn't been wearing a suede coat. I swapped her for a very young Polish girl who gave me my only dose. I forgave her when my doctor told me girls could have it without knowing. I should have stayed with her; she would have saved me a very expensive divorce.

Seems sane and has a seemingly strong support group here in the UK so it's not cos she's all alone.
Civvies have been the worst for STIs for me, yup there are a few that a girl might not realise she has and that makes for really contested news when I'm the one reporting showing symptoms.   SPs I've gone off book with have been far more calm and sanguine about it.

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Never happened to me although I've had quite a few marriage proposals from Thai ladies.

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You must be a Hansum man  :hi:

That was what the Chinese ex said, though she more often said "Ah! Big cock!" Thinking back on it she was probably slagging me off, spent far too much time playing Candy Crush in prone bone then she left in a huff when I wouldn't pay her Mah Jong debts..

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Never happened to me although I've had quite a few marriage proposals from Thai ladies.

They never wanted to marry you just use you, Mr Tripod

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You get it all the time when visiting Thailand from Thai ladies " me love you long time"  :D