Author Topic: Do you say thank you?  (Read 1694 times)

Online midspunter

Just a question - and no criticism implied either way - prompted by a recent conversation with a regular.

When you finish - and it could be straight after cumming or as you are walking out the door - do you say thank you to the escort?

Offline Jonestown

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Why not, it sounds like a civilised thing to do.

Offline Bum Lovin Criminal

Long Answer:  NO!

Snog at the door, squeeze of the arse cheeks, check my wallet and bounce.. :lol:

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I thank everyone who gives me a good service why should SPs be any different?  :unknown:

Offline big-al93

If you enjoyed it why not? Personally I doubt I have or would just after finishing, although I might say I enjoyed that or something, but as I'm leaving I don't recall if I have, probably more of hope to see you soon (just after the snog and grope of the arse, don't check wallet as I generally don't take it in), which I'm assuming would be taken in a similar vein.
Mind you I probably thank most trades like plumbers ect as they are leaving.

Offline RandomGuy99

I have pre-printed thank you cards with a score box that I complete after the event and then hand it over to the SP as I'm leaving

Offline MLawro93

Yes. Its polite. A thank you at the end or just a follow-up afterwards. Doesn't have to be complicated or anything specific.

Online Upsndowns79

Yes I find myself saying thank you at the door and has been said above this is the same as anywhere/anyone who either provides good service or even does something that helps me (life opening a door etc). It’s just a basic human courtesy. I’d say almost always I receive the same courtesy back.

Offline FLYING BLUE

100% Yes

It's polite & is the natural way of things for me.
Being polite costs nothing.
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Offline Mkhelen

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Do you say thank you to your doctor or dentist or coffee barista

Manners doesn't cost extra


Offline John Johnson

Sweden if a society focused on manners so of course I do.

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"Wham! Bam! Thank you Ma'am!"  :yahoo: :hi:

Online therichardrichard

Sure, out of polliteness as most others here do. Especially so if she was very good.

Online Coriniumstud

Every time even if it’s my regular, no harm in being polite

Offline Thephoenix

Of course I'd say thank you.
I've been brought up propper. :rolleyes:

Offline Punterperson1971

Every time even if it’s my regular, no harm in being polite
Same here even if it’s a regular as well,normally I say just as I’ve cum and pulled out and they usually say “my pleasure or thank you too”it’s a nice thing to do
I even say thank you for their time if I’ve text for an enquiry or a booking
« Last Edit: August 24, 2026, 04:35:56 pm by Punterperson1971 »

Offline DastardlyDick

I thank anybody who has provided me a service or help.

Offline PilotMan

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Sweden if a society focused on manners so of course I do.

I used to travel to Sweden fairly frequently.

I have an English friend who has lived there for over 30 years. He speaks Swedish, but according to his Swedish friends, it's not very good  :lol:

He held a party at his house, I was one of two non Swedish speakers there.

I found it interesting that one of the girls told another girl off for speaking Swedish amongst the group while I was present, saying it was impolite and inconsiderate.

Offline Trotter671

Absolutely always say thanks as others have said it's just a nice and polite thing to do. If I've had an outstanding time then I'll let the lass know and look at next time they will be about (normally the Thai tourers) to hopefully see them again. They usually get the gist with the kissing and hugging before I depart!

Offline Pillowtalk

Just a question - and no criticism implied either way - prompted by a recent conversation with a regular.

When you finish - and it could be straight after cumming or as you are walking out the door - do you say thank you to the escort?

Yes, of course.

Online shagmore

Yes, I would, out of courtesy, there is no charge for manners

Offline TomTank

Yes, I usually belt it out in a loud whiny moan as the last twitches of my penis squirt sperm

Offline Adoniron

Always as I leave. Even if I didn't have a great time. Its just politeness.

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Lack of manners shows people how to treat you.

« Last Edit: August 24, 2026, 10:27:02 pm by PilotMan »

Offline Herts_Outcaller

Straight after I Cum "Are you OK?"

As I leave "thank you so much for your time today, it was a pleasure to see you etc"

Be nice, and you'll get better service in return.

Offline alabama1

Straight after I Cum "Are you OK?"

As I leave "thank you so much for your time today, it was a pleasure to see you etc"

Be nice, and you'll get better service in return.
'Treat her well'
« Last Edit: Yesterday at 12:12:31 am by alabama1 »

Offline Nomerzypuntr

Ist meet with my reg was formal so thank you, are you ok, sorry, can I this, can you do. From next meets it became informal like seeing GF or side chick or FwB, but I texted Thankyou via text after every meets. It also makes her comfy with me all the time. We didn’t discuss sex before and after meet, just two normal ppl convo each other.
During sex I get full freedom, no judgable, after I cum I didn’t need to pull out mine just be in that moment. Rather saying thanks I prefer to treat her nice  :dancegirl:

Offline Paul9144

Not always in person/immediately after us having sex. However, I do sometimes shortly after the booking or a few hours later send them a warm message to in effect say thank you for providing a wonderful service and that I throughly enjoyed our time together. In addition, another way of me saying thank you is highlighting the good service that they've provided through my positive reviews of them on here, as I'm cognizant that positive reviews are highly likely to provide them with more business interest/potential new clients reaching out to book.

Offline Bum Lovin Criminal

Yes, I usually belt it out in a loud whiny moan as the last twitches of my penis squirt sperm
"ThAaaNNK.... YooOOooU.... VeerryYYy...  kIIInnddlY mIiiSS".. :D

Offline Chris1990mcr

Probably not a direct thank you but if its exceptionally good and a girl who does her own comms ill sometimes send a message saying I enjoyed it afterwards.

Did that earlier in the year with a TS in Manchester who replied and asked if I was free and wanted to go for dinner.

If only that happened frequently.

Online Punting2022

Why thank you. its her job. Say Bye tbh and i had fun.

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Why thank you. its her job. Say Bye tbh and i had fun.

So you never thank anyone who serves you if it's their job?  Waiters, shop staff, door staff, porters, NHS staff, and so on.
« Last Edit: Yesterday at 04:36:09 pm by PilotMan »

Offline Bum Lovin Criminal

So you never thank anyone who serves you if it's their job?  Waiters, shop staff, door staff, porters, NHS staff, and so on.

                           /\ /\  /\  /\  /\  Yes!  All of the above and more./\  /\  /\  /\ 

But what are you saying "Thank You" for exactly...." Thank you kindly madam for the use of your........cervix, time, Anus, hands, lips, Breasts?

Showering an SP while seeing her is what most do, eg. " your ......is awesome, those......are beautiful,  I love the way you......, your an amazing.......etc, etc.."

all sound good.  I boost my SP's egos no end with compliments and praising dirty talk if she agrees.

 Saying "Thank you miss"  turns a punt akin to buying beans at tesco, of stepping off a bus and sounds creepy as fuck after a steamy session..(IMHO).. :D

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                           /\ /\  /\  /\  /\  Yes!  All of the above and more./\  /\  /\  /\ 

But what are you saying "Thank You" for exactly...." Thank you kindly madam for the use of your........cervix, time, Anus, hands, lips, Breasts?

Showering an SP while seeing her is what most do, eg. " your ......is awesome, those......are beautiful,  I love the way you......, your an amazing.......etc, etc.."

all sound good. I boost my SP's egos no end with compliments and praising dirty talk if she agrees.

 Saying "Thank you miss"  turns a punt akin to buying beans at tesco, of stepping off a bus and sounds creepy as fuck after a steamy session..(IMHO).. :D

We clearly have different ways of looking at things.

As you already acknowledge, SP's do realise they are providing you with a paid service. I do it as my way of acknowledging my appreciation of the person providing the service.

That's not at the exclusion of offering compliments and praise, it's in conjunction with that. Nothing creepy about either, if sincere.

Online Punting2022

So you never thank anyone who serves you if it's their job?  Waiters, shop staff, door staff, porters, NHS staff, and so on.

Nhs is a bit diff to a whore lol. Nhs are helping you. A whore isnt helping. Shes giving a sex service. ll say that was fun be polite on exit and entry. Like c ya hello etc. But thank you is a bit weird in tge context

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Nhs is a bit diff to a whore lol. Nhs are helping you. A whore isnt helping. Shes giving a sex service. ll say that was fun be polite on exit and entry. Like c ya hello etc. But thank you is a bit weird in tge context

NHS give a medical service, prostitutes deliver a sex service. Both are paid to do their jobs.

If the sex service whores are delivering isn't helping you, then probably best not to visit them any more.

Like I said, we clearly have different ways of looking at things.


Offline hairdownthere

I always say 'thank you' on my way out the door, along with 'it was nice to meet you'

It's only good manners

Offline snaitram99

I usually say "Kop khun kap" to a Thai masseuse before leaving. They usually do the hands thing and say "Kop khun ka" back to me. It's the only Thai i know but usually seems appreciated. (Males say kap, females say ka so not a typo)

Online Punting2022

I always say 'thank you' on my way out the door, along with 'it was nice to meet you'

It's only good manners

Nice to meet is fine, which i say on way out
Next time i cum in one, i may say thank you. See if it makes things weird

Offline Thephoenix

I usually say "Kop khun kap" to a Thai masseuse before leaving. They usually do the hands thing and say "Kop khun ka" back to me. It's the only Thai i know but usually seems appreciated. (Males say kap, females say ka so not a typo)

I always like to throw up a quick wai too.
A polite gesture that's always appreciated.

Offline Nomerzypuntr

Nhs is a bit diff to a whore lol. Nhs are helping you. A whore isnt helping. Shes giving a sex service. ll say that was fun be polite on exit and entry. Like c ya hello etc. But thank you is a bit weird in tge context

NHS aren’t helping, they all get paid :wacko: if a SP satisfies our needs, it needs to be appreciated.

Offline FiveKnuckles

Usually a thank you, followed by hug or small peck on cheeks.

Horrible punts usually end with a quick, bye or laterz, which translates to fuck you!!  :D