Author Topic: Attitudes Punters v Girls  (Read 1191 times)

Offline Shanks

 I just thought I’d put my two pence in here after a few experiences and reading on here

Been punting 25 years
I’ve noticed a few things

Firstly some of the negative reviews for things like she had towels strewn around the bathroom , she didn’t reply seem overly harsh . Seen these multiple times on great girls who I’ve actually seen myself and couldn’t fault for service or attitude. No doubt some punters are downright rude in how they approach these girls and rightly get ignored or given a shite service
Some fellas are just horrible bastards who hate women in my view

Girls
Some atrocious attitudes and I guess this is why we have this forum to catch them out and report on them it’s uk punting after all

Girls lying about appearance , last minute cancels , working when they obviously shouldn’t be , they need reporting for sure to protect us
Cancelling guys for the smallest of things with no real reason given
Some girls just hate all men also


Overall what I’m trying to say is there needs to be some patience shown on both sides
Girls often have very real issues and challenges in their social lives , childcare issues that come up last minute , partners or family getting involved or finding out so they don’t want to share face pics etc doesn’t make them all scammers . Some of the best girls I’ve seen are often very private and almost paranoid about filming or pics understandably

Bad reviews given for no decent reason do not help anyone
Girls getting bitchy about a punter cause he wasn’t quite right for her also

I always try look past the odd bad review and see for myself

Offline Travis1234

Totally agree with you.
I try not to be too influenced by occasional bad reviews. I’ve seen some girls who had bad reviews and found them perfectly fine. Of course it’s also individual tastes and the experience may be different from day to day. Everyone has a bad day now and again.
Persistent loads of bad reviews are obviously different. A red flag and to be avoided. I guess Thts the whole point of this site to warn punters.

Offline Capper0891

You have to read between the lines with reviews, going both ways. I've seen negative reviews of girls I've seen where it is clear the writer has either never actually seen her, or is deliberately making it up. Going the other way, there have been one or two with a string of positives who turned out to be average or even bad.
You start to question what the point of doing them is. The point of reading a review is to reduce the risk of fraud, danger, bait and switch etc. That is the primary reason. That value is massively reduced however when it is difficult to say if the write ups are legit.

Offline Colston36

You have to read between the lines with reviews, going both ways. I've seen negative reviews of girls I've seen where it is clear the writer has either never actually seen her, or is deliberately making it up. Going the other way, there have been one or two with a string of positives who turned out to be average or even bad.
You start to question what the point of doing them is. The point of reading a review is to reduce the risk of fraud, danger, bait and switch etc. That is the primary reason. That value is massively reduced however when it is difficult to say if the write ups are legit.


The problem is that after a good experience you feel happy. "Euphoric" is the word for that happy state of mind. And if you review at that time you tend to be unduly flattering.

Offline Atlas1957

Reviews should be a truthful report of the experience an individual punter received. Unless you were in the room with the WG and punter while they were having their punt, you do not know what happened during that punt.

Not all punters receive the same experience from the same WG. There is value to reviews that reveal this.

Some WGs provide a variable experience. So the same punter might have a different experience on two different days. Or two punters might have a different experience on the same day. There is value to reviews that reveal this.

Different punters have different standards of what is a good punt. A punter who writes a good volume of reviews is valuable to our community because it helps the readers learn about their standards.

Quote from: Shanks
Firstly some of the negative reviews for things like she had towels strewn around the bathroom , she didn’t reply seem overly harsh . Seen these multiple times on great girls who I’ve actually seen myself and couldn’t fault for service or attitude.
I doubt there are many negative reviews that are for the sole reason of towels or bad communication. All reviews require a meet to be agreed so for "she didn't reply" to apply it would have to mean a meet had been agreed and then communication leading up to the meet fell apart.

Quote from: Shanks
No doubt some punters are downright rude in how they approach these girls and rightly get ignored or given a shite service
Some fellas are just horrible bastards who hate women in my view
Girls getting bitchy about a punter cause he wasn’t quite right for her also
Most bad reviews are not the fault of bad punters, they are the fault of bad WGs.

This just sounds like white knight sour grapes that one of your m'ladies has had a bad review.

Quote from: Shanks
Overall what I’m trying to say is there needs to be some patience shown on both sides
Girls often have very real issues and challenges in their social lives , childcare issues that come up last minute , partners or family getting involved or finding out so they don’t want to share face pics etc doesn’t make them all scammers. Some of the best girls I’ve seen are often very private and almost paranoid about filming or pics understandably
If this was a dating site then fine. But it isn't. One person (the customer) is paying money for a service provided by another person (a businesswoman). If a WG provides a bad service a review can be written about that service.

I think you quickly gloss over this point, so it should be stated and remembered. There are lots of grifters, grafters, scammers and chancers within the WG community. There is money to be made so the business attracts people who want the money, but don't want to do the work.

Quote from: Shanks
Bad reviews given for no decent reason do not help anyone
I can't think of many negative reviews I have read, or any that I have read recently, that didn't give a good reason.