Author Topic: Where are all the Mistresses?  (Read 1440 times)

Offline Tony4447

20-25 yrs ago when I started punting Manchester and the surrounding area had a substantial number of Mistresses with there own makeshift dungeons etc, now when I do a search there isn’t even a handful when it use to be thriving, if they are around the aren’t on AW, anyone got any ideas as to what is gone on?
« Last Edit: August 03, 2026, 08:21:11 am by Tony4447 »

Offline ulstersubbie

The BDSM scene in Manchester is nowhere near what it was years ago, not quite dead but the choice is very limited nowadays. I feel that once the legendary Bury Dungeon closed its doors for good, things started going downhill and top quality Dommes became scarcer and prices just kept on climbing. I think you're better off venturing further south for a good session, Birmingham or even London perhaps.

Online TomTank

Very true.
The Bury Dungeon (AKA The Manchester Dungeon) was also incredibly open to taking on trainees, and many of the mistresses around the North West and M62 corridor learnt their trade there.

The current alternatives are all a bit under the radar.
Theresa's place in Radcliffe was decent and still did some training but I think may have closed
Manchester Chambers in Ashton is decent but not a big rota
Sheba's place in Eccles is very good but very under the radar

I think it's a mix of supply and demand.
As with much of this industry there are other ways to make money, OnlyFans etc.

You'd think the demand might be higher with society becoming more kink aware, but maybe the younger generations are looking for something a bit different, or able to find it in different ways.

It kind of mirrors parlours in Manchester, nowhere near as much choice as there used to be ..... real shame.
I miss the ease of just thinking I want a good dungeon domme session and having a decent choice .... I loved that place Mistress Rose had in Denton, very dungeony but also had a tall blonde lady there who could be quite sexual .....


Offline Tony4447

Very true.
The Bury Dungeon (AKA The Manchester Dungeon) was also incredibly open to taking on trainees, and many of the mistresses around the North West and M62 corridor learnt their trade there.

The current alternatives are all a bit under the radar.
Theresa's place in Radcliffe was decent and still did some training but I think may have closed
Manchester Chambers in Ashton is decent but not a big rota
Sheba's place in Eccles is very good but very under the radar

I think it's a mix of supply and demand.
As with much of this industry there are other ways to make money, OnlyFans etc.

You'd think the demand might be higher with society becoming more kink aware, but maybe the younger generations are looking for something a bit different, or able to find it in different ways.

It kind of mirrors parlours in Manchester, nowhere near as much choice as there used to be ..... real shame.
I miss the ease of just thinking I want a good dungeon domme session and having a decent choice .... I loved that place Mistress Rose had in Denton, very dungeony but also had a tall blonde lady there who could be quite sexual .....

Yep I sessioned many a time with Mistress Rose, she was my first Mistress, originally had a place near Stockport college and then moved to Denton. There were quite a few independents with their own dungeons but all appear to be gone.

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Offline Dickled

About 15 years ago I used to go to this place in Bolton...
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Mistress Stern was Suzanne and had previously worked at Bolton Mystique and TJ's.
Sadly, she's no longer with us, but I really liked her, and the prices she charged were very reasonable for a mistress.
I also went to that place in Bury, owned (I think) by Julia Pink? It was a real training ground for future dommes.
Compared to those times, so much seems a little uninspiring today by comparison.
But maybe that's just me getting old.
« Last Edit: August 04, 2026, 04:48:29 pm by Dickled »

Online TomTank

I think that Mistress Stern was Honey from TJs .... really good but probably not a real domme ....

Julia used to front the Manchester Dungeon in Bury but it was actually owned by a guy called Ian who lived in Thailand

Offline Dickled

I think that Mistress Stern was Honey from TJs .... really good but probably not a real domme ....

Julia used to front the Manchester Dungeon in Bury but it was actually owned by a guy called Ian who lived in Thailand
Yes, that was her. She probably did the mistressing bit a little on the hoof, but I always enjoyed my sessions with her, and liked her very much as a person. In addition, she had a stunning looking daughter who was happy to participate sometimes.

Online TomTank

Yes, that was her. She probably did the mistressing bit a little on the hoof, but I always enjoyed my sessions with her, and liked her very much as a person. In addition, she had a stunning looking daughter who was happy to participate sometimes.

Was that Nikki from TJs?
I think she used to say Nikki was her daughter (although they weren't related) .....

Offline Dickled

Was that Nikki from TJs?
I think she used to say Nikki was her daughter (although they weren't related) .....
No, she was her real daughter. In the parlour I knew her as Holly.

Online TomTank

No, she was her real daughter. In the parlour I knew her as Holly.

Wow, would have loved that .... what was Holly like?
Honey must have had her young; I'm sure she was in her 30s but might be wrong ....

Offline Dickled

Wow, would have loved that .... what was Holly like?
Honey must have had her young; I'm sure she was in her 30s but might be wrong ....
Holly was beautiful, maybe about 22 when I knew her, and a nice, likeable girl as well.
It must be over 10 years since Suzanne (Honey) died. Not sure how old she was, but definitely died far too young.