I don't kink shame
But Findom is the single most stupid god awful fucked up "kink" there is. It's called having a wife. It's stupid from the guy doing it, and depending on the "Dom" element of it, borderline abusive from that side. I just don't understand, look at me giving money away I'm so horny
Anyway. Rant over
Bad analogy.
I’m thinking there are probably a whole lot of guys out there whose wives make just as much or more money than the blokes they are with. Who provide more financially in the relationship. So the idea that findom is like having a wife ……. Wrong.
Findom is what it is. If you are into it. So what.
As long as it’s not having some detrimental effect on you, alls good.
I bet there are plenty who fall into personal problems because they spend money they shouldn’t on what is considered a normal pay n fuck. (Punt)
But that’s ok because it’s not kinky or fetish related.
Findom not my thing either. But if it works for someone…….🤷🏼
