Punting vs modern dating

[kingmg]

Is punting more efficient than modern dating as with apps it seems more a transactional approach with women either using you for an ego boost or attention while keeping you on the back burner. Think about time invested and time wasted thinking about potential I feel the clear head and punting is much more effective

[RandomGuy99]

It depends what you goal is.

If it's to have sex then punting is the way to get a fast result

If it's to have a relationship possibly with benefits without paying for it then dating is the way to go.

They're quite different activities.

[Bum Lovin Criminal]

Wish I'd discovered Punting earlier in my life....All that time wasted, money spent, bullshit suffered..

If it were taught in schools, I'd have made sure to study harder and got a much higher paying Job..

[Fush]

Wish I'd discovered Punting earlier in my life....All that time wasted, money spent, bullshit suffered..

If it were taught in schools, I'd have made sure to study harder and got a much higher paying Job..

 

[Paul9144]

Is punting more efficient than modern dating as with apps it seems more a transactional approach with women either using you for an ego boost or attention while keeping you on the back burner. Think about time invested and time wasted thinking about potential I feel the clear head and punting is much more effective

Me personally, dating apps are a waste of time.

Punting in imo is much better and convenient.

Yes, it's not without it's issues but it's much less time consuming than dating.

[Punting2022]

Dating is punting. Pay for a ladies meal drinks etc. Sometimes dont get sex.
150 average drinks and dinner nowadays. Just pay a whore.
Tbh seeking is better then dating apps. You get your sex and still sort of date

[Fookmefooku]

Personally for me. I don't want to get caught in the rat race. Probably says more about me, but the idea of always walking on eggshells, the fact it could end at any moment no matter how much effort I put Into it and the fact I regularly have to take phonecalls and disappear throughout the night. Dating just doesn't make sense when once a month or so I can splurge £70-200, get it out my system and move on

The only benefit of a partner imo is splitting bills, but again, if it ends, your left holding the bag and scrambling to pay the bills

[Stevelondon]

Why the comparison.
Or a better question. Why the need to compare. 🤷🏼

A bit like why buy a car when you can use the bus, train, tube etc.

[stampjones]

My favourite reply to such questions was a quote from someone on here years ago: with punting you're not paying them for sex, you're paying them to fuck off afterwards. Has some relevance here I think

[alabama1]

My favourite reply to such questions was a quote from someone on here years ago: with punting you're not paying them for sex, you're paying them to fuck off afterwards. Has some relevance here I think

So the sex is free then ? 

[Charliehutton]

Wish I'd discovered Punting earlier in my life....All that time wasted, money spent, bullshit suffered..

You could change the word 'earlier' to the word 'later' and I suspect it would still be true for many of our members...

[londonroad]

Dating is punting. Pay for a ladies meal drinks etc. Sometimes dont get sex.
150 average drinks and dinner nowadays. Just pay a whore.
Tbh seeking is better then dating apps. You get your sex and still sort of date

Agree with this. The big advantage of seeking is you get the best of both worlds with guaranteed sex.

[Hornydevil666]

Most men go out on a date to get their balls emptied (we're men after all) and everyone of us has been out on a date that just got a little kiss and a goodnight but just spent £130, so all depends if your looking for a quick shag or to put the effort and a few £130 investments in for a relationship.

[cunningman]

Agree with this. The big advantage of seeking is you get the best of both worlds with guaranteed sex.

Sometimes I do date things with SBs with no sex - just to remind myself (and them) that its not the only thing.
Seems well received, especially if they are single mums that don't drive and appreciate being able to take Junior out for a day, or even just take a car-full of crap to the tip.
There's no transaction either way for that, though I am sometimes supportive without a meet: keeps them onside.

[Punting2022]

Sometimes I do date things with SBs with no sex - just to remind myself (and them) that its not the only thing.
Seems well received, especially if they are single mums that don't drive and appreciate being able to take Junior out for a day, or even just take a car-full of crap to the tip.
There's no transaction either way for that, though I am sometimes supportive without a meet: keeps them onside.

I done diy once for a sb. She then wanted allowance

[shagmore]

Best of both worlds, dating now in a relationship with a WG

[cunningman]

I done diy once for a sb. She then wanted allowance

Then, I suspect, she will be short of a friend that could give support that she could not easily pay for,
and also skint.  Some do not learn.  I don't expect a freebee, that's not the point, but some thanks
and a hint of friendship is nice.  Takes away some of the transactional nature when we're on pay-to-play
time.  I only ever gave one lass an allowance and we weren't having sex - I was trying to stop her from
topping herself.

[Punting2022]

Best of both worlds, dating now in a relationship with a WG

Free sex is it. Otherwise no point

[shagmore]

Free sex is it. Otherwise no point

Yes, even better, when we go out she pays for things like meals and drinks as well - result - a win win all round

[Chazz]

I only ever gave one lass an allowance and we weren't having sex - I was trying to stop her from
topping herself.

You're not really selling the idea of this SB game to me! 

[Fookmefooku]

My favourite reply to such questions was a quote from someone on here years ago: with punting you're not paying them for sex, you're paying them to fuck off afterwards. Has some relevance here I think

I believe it was Chef that once said that

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[stampjones]

I believe it was Chef that once said that

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Maybe but I first read it on here many years ago. Maybe a guy called LL?

[pythondan]

A few men I know who have split with their partners seem to be having quite a bit of "no strings" fun with women of a similar age in similar circumstances. It does tend to be the guys who have made an effort to get in shape and dress well.

There are a few tales of "crazy" women who expect instant commitment but that works in reverse too I guess.

One particular guy had three women on the go at the same time and would often take them away (separately) for dirty weekends when their childcare duties allowed.

He is not shagging 20 something hotties though. YMMV.

[Nomerzypuntr]

Dating is meant for men who have money, good body, handsome. It’s the truth but women won’t agree with this. Sometimes these men also think about the money spending on women, but getting bad sex or no sex at all. Then punting is a great choice.
I don’t have good body, not handsome, have some money, so SPs are only hope, they don’t play drama like civvies. Getting compliments from SPs is far better than good boy certificate from common ladies.