Big Dicks - Erections & ED

[Thephoenix]

I've often pondered whether cock size has an effect on ED and the effectiveness of ED medication.

I'm not boasting when I say I have a big cock.
I wonder if there's a formula for effective erections.
We used to say it's to do with the heat of the meat and the angle of the dangle.

I'm not a medical expert but I know a bit about hydraulics.
The pressure required to charge a length of vertical hose depends on the length of the hose, diameter, frictional loss and flow rate.

Medical opinion seems to suggest there's no correlation between size of penis and effectiveness of ED meds but I'm not convinced.
Don't you need higher blood pressure to fill a bigger volume?

Anecdotally my limited personal observations seem to support that conclusion.
I know from conversations and experience in a past threesome, that one of my old pals has what's best described as a little todger.
It's a stubby little member and he's never had any problems with getting it hard, although he's often said he's jealous of my large 'snake'.
Whereas my erections have not retained the rigidity since I reached my 50s.

The amount of pressure and blood flow to achieve full engorgement of my large member is surely greater than for my pal's little todger.

I'd be interested to hear your own experiences and evidence, be it expertise or anecdotal.

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[Mr Garmin]

It's the size and power of the pump and not the volume it needs to fill.

For example, if you have a tiny leak past a closed valve on your household plumbing, when you open the tap the water will initially come out at the normal pressure until it's depleted and if you close the tap and leave it the pressure will build up again via the small leak.

[GreyDave]

  Have to some what agree with Phoenix`s observation of his punting buddy 

I am stuck in the middle at4 1/2 and have to now use pill 50-100mg of sildenafil to achieve that hardness and strength I had years ago

I frequented a lot of swingers events ( there is nothing more painful than being told by a woman "I only play with 8 an above inches and your half that matey ) Bukkakes and more recently Ive done MMF`s as an older guy  the swinger scene is more for the young `uns   

I would say that Ive noticed the longer lads (7 plusers ) so to speak were the ones who operated at what I would of said savoly or half mast but when they puled out after cumming they were full up just for the pop a few lads admitted to me the full hard was what gave them the sign they were cumming and they had to made the decision finish or pull out and wait ...The girthyer types never seems to have a problem and short stubbie lads were always quick to be firm while myself and other below average stood around wanking to gave rigdity. The larger older lads ive chatted to and seen in MMF situations have told me they dose up with both tadafil and Sildenafil thats what got me doing same . its all  ways the small lads up quick and read to go again quick (sadly not me  )  The biggest lads at the swingers event just never got rock though might be helpful in not hurting during the act though   

[Mr Garmin]

I'm lucky in that I don't need chemical stimulation to get me rock hard.  However, more than one girl has told me that they have met young guys in their 20's & 30's that require a blue pill to get hard.

I don't know why this is.

[alabama1]

I'm lucky in that I don't need chemical stimulation to get me rock hard.  However, more than one girl has told me that they have met young guys in their 20's & 30's that require a blue pill to get hard.

I don't know why this is.

Blue pills don't give you an erection, they just help maintain it.

[MaxVerstappen]

I'm lucky in that I don't need chemical stimulation to get me rock hard.  However, more than one girl has told me that they have met young guys in their 20's & 30's that require a blue pill to get hard.

I don't know why this is.

Believe it or not, it’s all in the mind… if you are anxious or nervous etc you can really struggle getting a hard on… because your body is in fight or flight mode. You have to be relaxed and not overthink things.

[runner in the woods]

Believe it or not, it’s all in the mind… if you are anxious or nervous etc you can really struggle getting a hard on… because your body is in fight or flight mode. You have to be relaxed and not overthink things.

Max is so right , ive used the pills, not used the pills , not had success with pills, had great success without the pills , personally i think its to do with if you "click" and if you are relaxed and go with the flow .

[RandomGuy99]

The key is to just relax and enjoy it but do take a watch so.you can keep track of time too

[alabama1]

The key is to just relax and enjoy it but do take a watch so.you can keep track of time too

Shouldn't this be in the 'First time punting' thread 

[MaxVerstappen]

The key is to just relax and enjoy it but do take a watch so.you can keep track of time too

Yeah nothing is more relaxing than glancing your watch to check how much time you got left 

How do you come up with so much random nonsense?! Is there a special school in your area that you have graduated for all this amazing knowledge?!

[Doc Holliday]

Believe it or not, it’s all in the mind…

Frequently yes, but is also age related. Phoenix is ancient   

Given his age and medical history he is also very experienced and knowledgeable about ED.

He has asked about a specific aspect in relation to ED ie penis size and has asked for others experiences. Most posts have not covered this aspect. Perhaps because everyone has a small cock? 

[GreyDave]

He has asked about a specific aspect in relation to ED ie penis size and has asked for others experiences. Most posts have not covered this aspect. Perhaps because everyone has a small cock? 

  I was just about to type I`ve a smaller than average as Ive All ways been smallest in group situations  and sadly age wise I need the pill too its younger lads that maybe asking the question.

As I understand it its nothing to do with pressure but the little chambers closing when filled with blood the next chamber fills ect and then your up (ENGORGED) all though its your mind that causes this but as I typed I remember that old 80`s band ...Ivor Biggen and the D cups then that other chap Hugh Jampton and the rest of the gang I await there response 

[Paul9144]

I've often pondered whether cock size has an effect on ED and the effectiveness of ED medication.

I'm not boasting when I say I have a big cock.
I wonder if there's a formula for effective erections.
We used to say it's to do with the heat of the meat and the angle of the dangle.

I'm not a medical expert but I know a bit about hydraulics.
The pressure required to charge a length of vertical hose depends on the length of the hose, diameter, frictional loss and flow rate.

Medical opinion seems to suggest there's no correlation between size of penis and effectiveness of ED meds but I'm not convinced.
Don't you need higher blood pressure to fill a bigger volume?

Anecdotally my limited personal observations seem to support that conclusion.
I know from conversations and experience in a past threesome, that one of my old pals has what's best described as a little todger.
It's a stubby little member and he's never had any problems with getting it hard, although he's often said he's jealous of my large 'snake'.
Whereas my erections have not retained the rigidity since I reached my 50s.

The amount of pressure and blood flow to achieve full engorgement of my large member is surely greater than for my pal's little todger

I'd be interested to hear your own experiences and evidence, be it expertise or anecdotal.

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I use sildenafil (50mg) not because of ED, but I have noticed that when I do use it - my erections are raging without fail.

Have to some what agree with Phoenix`s observation of his punting buddy 

I am stuck in the middle at4 1/2 and have to now use pill 50-100mg of sildenafil to achieve that hardness and strength I had years ago

I frequented a lot of swingers events ( there is nothing more painful than being told by a woman "I only play with 8 an above inches and your half that matey ) Bukkakes and more recently Ive done MMF`s as an older guy  the swinger scene is more for the young `uns   

I would say that Ive noticed the longer lads (7 plusers ) so to speak were the ones who operated at what I would of said savoly or half mast but when they puled out after cumming they were full up just for the pop a few lads admitted to me the full hard was what gave them the sign they were cumming and they had to made the decision finish or pull out and wait ...The girthyer types never seems to have a problem and short stubbie lads were always quick to be firm while myself and other below average stood around wanking to gave rigdity. The larger older lads ive chatted to and seen in MMF situations have told me they dose up with both tadafil and Sildenafil thats what got me doing same . its all  ways the small lads up quick and read to go again quick (sadly not me  )  The biggest lads at the swingers event just never got rock though might be helpful in not hurting during the act though 

It's a totally different game, and yes being 8" plus appears to becoming more and more of a common requirement.

My best days in that field was much easier when I was younger and in very good physical shape with a full head of hair

With me consistently hitting the gym again for the past 8 or so months (3 days per week without fail), good diet etc. I'm attempting to work my way back to as close as I can to that level of fitness. Me personally, I prefer punting these days as the competent SP's that I've had the pleasure of booking are way much more sexually skilled/advanced - I don't believe that I'd ever return to not booking escorts again as the sex in addition to the incredibly high level of beauty that I've enjoyed the pleasure of and have experienced with some SP's is mind-blowing, I also know exactly where I stand in terms of various services offered etc. Plus, I love and take a lot of pride in supporting our community.

[Thephoenix]

Believe it or not, it’s all in the mind… if you are anxious or nervous etc you can really struggle getting a hard on… because your body is in fight or flight mode. You have to be relaxed and not overthink things.

Ah yes!
 Them were the days.
If only it was that simple.

I've been diagnosed with erectile dysfunction by a consultant urologist and have also attended an erectile dysfunction clinic with specialist nurses to try out various aids &/or medications.

My questions are:
1. Do you believe cock size is in any way related to erectile dysfunction?
2. If that's the case, is the effectiveness of ED medications also related to cock size?

Of course erections and erectile dysfunction may be effected by a myriad of psychological and physiological causes, but having taken all that into account,  I'm still left thinking that cock size plays a part.

Going back to my OP, I can't help thinking about my old pal with his tiny little pecker, always feeling sorry for himself but still able to get hard in his 80s, whereas my dangling  donger needs considerable help to rise to the occasion.

Member's members must come in all shapes and sizes so I'm just wondering if there's any anecdotal evidence to support my theory. 

If not, I'll expect the Doc to eventually chip with his usual expertise to tell me it's not relevant, I've got too much time on my hands, and it's time for matron to move me to the TV room.

[MaxVerstappen]

For fucks sake…. How big is your dick OP?

[Thephoenix]

For fucks sake…. How big is your dick OP?

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[DastardlyDick]

As I'm sure Doc will confirm, there are a lot of things that can cause ED, but I believe blood pressure is the main ons, which is why you shouldn't take ED Meds alongside BP meds - at best, they'll cancel each other out.
One of the few good things about T2D is that prescriptions (including Viagra etc) are free on the NHS.

[MaxVerstappen]

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[Stevelondon]

I remember years back when in my early twenties. Chatting to my then girlfriend’s flatmates. Both nurses although why I need mention that I have no idea.
We always got on well and talked about anything and everything.
The subject of cock sizes came up (don’t ask) and I laughingly said something like,
“Isn’t it how you use it rather than how big it is”

They both laughed (yes we were drunk) and replied,
“It had to be a bloke with a small cock who said that” 

[Stevelondon]

Which of course has fuck all to do with the original question 🤷🏼

[Demon8]

ED medication doesn't work by dick size. It would work by bodyweight and even then you usually take so far over threshold that doesnt matter either - its never the medication itself which directly increases blood flow to the member its entirely affecting neurotransmitters which lead to increases blood vessel dilation. As we get older, production of these neurotransmitters is lowered; you're just telling your body to produce more when you drop a little blue.


Im 7.5", 8" on a 'hard' day and find when I see a WG I definitely have to take a pill, mostly due to the lowered sensation of condoms; getting there is fine, repeatedly pounding a girl no matter how attractive eventually the fatigue and sweat takes over and I start losing motivation downstairs!

[Stevelondon]

Thank fuck I have a little cock and suffer from premature ejaculation 🤷🏼

[Doc Holliday]

 

If not, I'll expect the Doc to eventually chip with his usual expertise to tell me it's not relevant, I've got too much time on my hands, and it's time for matron to move me to the TV room.

I have just asked Matron to switch the TV on for you 

You will have already researched this and found there is no medical evidence to support the hypothesis. So I have nothing to add in that respect.

However forget the science as you were asking for anecdotal evidence. I suggest you are asking the wrong audience in terms of gender.

So after a little big of googling based on the title of the article you first posted ie 'DO BIG DICKS HAVE A HARDER TIME GETTING HARD?' I found some articles including a link to this External Link/Members Only

I should add that the above video has been debunked by the urologists.

My research continues. I will phone a friend later

[Chris1990mcr]

I have not really ever struggled to much to be hard when punting.

What age do most men seem to start to experience ED?

I've experienced a few issues in personal life non punting but of late all seems ok.

[Thephoenix]

You will have already researched this and found there is no medical evidence to support the hypothesis. So I have nothing to add in that respect.

Yeah???

How do I know you're not  just another bloke with a tiny penis?

[Thephoenix]

ED medication doesn't work by dick size.  As we get older, production of these neurotransmitters is lowered;


Im 7.5", 8"

First of all, I'm talking about large penises, not tiny 8" todgers.


Secondly where can I buy replacement neurotransmitters?
I can't find them on Amazon.

[GreyDave]

First of all, I'm talking about large penises, not tiny 8" todgers..

     Im going metric next swingers event   

[shagmore]

I was reading about ED, as in the last few days have had an issue, could be mental, not sure seeing doctors tomorrow, but natural substances that have similar effect to viagra are L Arginine and L Citrulline with Beetroot Extract - Nitric Oxide Supplement, these relax the tension and allow for an erection. Have some on order and will try out.
But in response to the original question, my toddger is about average and do believe in what was said. Its physics are the end of the day. Blood pressure is causing the issue, be this mentally or due to some physical condition, hence the docs appt.

[the_exile]

Big member or otherwise, if you are having problems getting fully erect I would talk to your GP about it.

I remember reading Xaviera Hollander's page in Penthouse ages ago & she said she knew a guy with a 10" penis who would be much happier with a smaller one that worked better, as he did struggle to get it up - but we are talking humongous now. I think at that size you would have problems finding women who could take it all!

[londonroad]

I have not really ever struggled to much to be hard when punting.

What age do most men seem to start to experience ED?


For me it was age 60.

[Strawberry]

First of all, I'm talking about large penises, not tiny 8" todgers.


Secondly where can I buy replacement neurotransmitters?
I can't find them on Amazon.

An 8 inch penis is not a tiny penis, I know, I have seen quite a few.

[RandomGuy99]

First of all, I'm talking about large penises, not tiny 8" todgers.


Secondly where can I buy replacement neurotransmitters?
I can't find them on Amazon.

Exactly how large is large obviously in mms, so it sounds massive like 300mm?

[Doc Holliday]

An 8 inch penis is not a tiny penis, I know, I have seen quite a few.

I think Phoenix was just jesting? 

[simon07]

Thanks Phoenix - you have always been a Long Standing Member. 

[Ivor Hunch]

Have to some what agree with Phoenix`s observation of his punting buddy 

I am stuck in the middle at4 1/2 and have to now use pill 50-100mg of sildenafil to achieve that hardness and strength I had years ago

I frequented a lot of swingers events ( there is nothing more painful than being told by a woman "I only play with 8 an above inches and your half that matey ) Bukkakes and more recently Ive done MMF`s as an older guy  the swinger scene is more for the young `uns   

I would say that Ive noticed the longer lads (7 plusers ) so to speak were the ones who operated at what I would of said savoly or half mast but when they puled out after cumming they were full up just for the pop a few lads admitted to me the full hard was what gave them the sign they were cumming and they had to made the decision finish or pull out and wait ...The girthyer types never seems to have a problem and short stubbie lads were always quick to be firm while myself and other below average stood around wanking to gave rigdity. The larger older lads ive chatted to and seen in MMF situations have told me they dose up with both tadafil and Sildenafil thats what got me doing same . its all  ways the small lads up quick and read to go again quick (sadly not me  )  The biggest lads at the swingers event just never got rock though might be helpful in not hurting during the act though 

How do you arrange your MMF meets?

[Thephoenix]

Thanks Phoenix - you have always been a Long Standing Member. 

 

[GreyDave]

Thanks Phoenix - you have always been a Long Standing Member. 

Bugger..... I was going to say

 We should firmly grasp this Upstanding Member and shake his hand and thank him for he stands behind the other Members   

With credit to Juilan and Sandy Bouna Brittian

[Thephoenix]

Thanks Phoenix - you have always been a Long Standing Member. 

I was going to keep this as a possible character reference should I ever need one for any future misdemeanors, but I'm not sure it would stand up in court.

[whiskyfan]

Thanks Phoenix - you have always been a Long Standing Member. 

But not quite as upstanding as he used to be.

[fredhiggins]

My slightly smaller than average willy always benefits from viagra/sildenafil. Nearly 60 now and glad blue pills are OTC now.

[shagmore]

I was reading about ED, as in the last few days have had an issue, could be mental, not sure seeing doctors tomorrow, but natural substances that have similar effect to viagra are L Arginine and L Citrulline with Beetroot Extract - Nitric Oxide Supplement, these relax the tension and allow for an erection. Have some on order and will try out.
But in response to the original question, my toddger is about average and do believe in what was said. Its physics are the end of the day. Blood pressure is causing the issue, be this mentally or due to some physical condition, hence the docs appt.

Well i have to the pills as mentioned above do appear to be working, taken them for a few days now, and the old man is standing to attention when needed, and staying that way

[ZeroCount]

I frequented a lot of swingers events ( there is nothing more painful than being told by a woman "I only play with 8 an above inches and your half that matey )

To which the correct retort is "oh I'm sorry, I didn't realise you had a bucket twat".

[Thephoenix]

To which the correct retort is "oh I'm sorry, I didn't realise you had a bucket twat".

Or similarly. If being described as only having a small organ, replying that one's not used to playing in a cathedral.

[Barista123]

Amidst this discussion related to size, the age old question looms. Just how big is 'big'.

From the foregoing posts some would say 7 ins. Swinger ladies 8 ins.

I'd guess SPs would have a good data base but I've never managed to get a clear response from one about dick size.

Are we (UKP posters) a 'small' population or 'large'?

[GreyDave]

Amidst this discussion related to size, the age old question looms. Just how big is 'big'.

From the foregoing posts some would say 7 ins. Swinger ladies 8 ins.

I'd guess SPs would have a good data base but I've never managed to get a clear response from one about dick size.

Are we (UKP posters) a 'small' population or 'large'?

  Hmm in the 40 odd years of Punting a few of the WGs ive seen have had wooden rulers and one had "Do you measure up? " on it she had several 10 inch marks and many 9s At the swingers events the ladies are really only after the bigger ads and the Paradise Spa swinger ladies only wanted 8 plusers  Great if your one of those lads but a real downer if youre standing around watching as Pam used to say the Lads laying pipe , in group situations usally the WG asked for extra lube and got on with it Ive watched on as the girls stopped full lenght by holding or by them sort of bending as it reach the point of Shall not Pass ...(ive never had that pleasure 

[DastardlyDick]

Amidst this discussion related to size, the age old question looms. Just how big is 'big'.

Are we (UKP posters) a 'small' population or 'large'?

AI tells me that the average erect cock in the UK is 5.2 inches long and 4.6 inch in girth.
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[Barista123]

That has always seemed like a small number, hence my query to this group. Anyone else think that’s well below average?

[Thephoenix]

AI tells me that the average erect cock in the UK is 5.2 inches long and 4.6 inch in girth.
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They've obviously not heard about mine.
Once they get the photo, those figures will shoot up.

[oldrascal]

For many years, my penis size was about 7.5 inches, with a girth of 5.5 inches (Doesn't stand up to The Phoenix!). For the first 30 years of my punting activities, erection was never a problem. Just over 20 years ago, I was diagnosed with high blood pressure. and was prescribed three hypertension drugs (beta blocker, A.C.E. inhibitor and diuretic). The effect was immediate and dramatic. No erections! I was, however, able to get back almost to 'normal' by taking sildenafil (viagra), or tadalafil (cialis). Over the last few years, I have gradually had more and more difficulty getting an erection despite taking the maximum dose of ED pills beforehand. Maybe my size was a contributary factor (?). For the last year or so, the maximum dose of sildenafil was ineffective, as was tadalafil. I consulted my GP, who referred me to a urologist. He presribed a daily tadalafil dose of 5mg. To my surprise, my OH showed an interest, and I was able to get just hard enough for penetration. I have yet to make a punting visit - i can only get away very infrequently. I'll report back if and when I get a chance for a punt....

[Thephoenix]

For many years, my penis size was about 7.5 inches, with a girth of 5.5 inches (Doesn't stand up to The Phoenix!). For the first 30 years of my punting activities, erection was never a problem. Just over 20 years ago, I was diagnosed with high blood pressure. and was prescribed three hypertension drugs (beta blocker, A.C.E. inhibitor and diuretic). The effect was immediate and dramatic. No erections! I was, however, able to get back almost to 'normal' by taking sildenafil (viagra), or tadalafil (cialis). Over the last few years, I have gradually had more and more difficulty getting an erection despite taking the maximum dose of ED pills beforehand. Maybe my size was a contributary factor (?). For the last year or so, the maximum dose of sildenafil was ineffective, as was tadalafil. I consulted my GP, who referred me to a urologist. He presribed a daily tadalafil dose of 5mg. To my surprise, my OH showed an interest, and I was able to get just hard enough for penetration. I have yet to make a punting visit - i can only get away very infrequently. I'll report back if and when I get a chance for a punt....

That pretty well mirrors my experience except for the OH bit unfortunately.
The daily 5mg dose of tadalafil seemed to be a good option for me as it also helps with the waterworks, but unfortunately I'm unable to tolerate the side effects particularly the heartburn.
That's the drawback with tadalafil in general as any side effects last longer.

I should also say that I'm predisposed to suffer from heartburn anyway.