The frustration of age!

[Morefun]

Sadly, as I get older my punting days diminish. There are various reasons for this-not working and driving for work being one. However, my biggest frustration is not being able to find someone nearby who is available regularly, who offers an erotic massage (sex not really wanted), able to chat and develop a rapport to make the time better. Most ladies now are only around for a week or two then go off touring. All I want is to find someone who  I  can meet often, have some fun and they don’t disappear! Does anyone else have this problem or even recommendations?

[RandomGuy99]

What area are you looking in?

[Mr Garmin]

This is where I am to some extent.  I don't know if it fits in with your lifestyle but Seeking may be for you.  I have 3 long term SB's on the go, 1 I visit and the other 2 come to me.  On the face of it, it sounds more expensive than seeing an escort but when you work out the rate pro-rata it's quite a bit cheaper. 

I have got to know the girls and they know all about me.  I have no other commitments so this works well for me but obviously this whole arrangement could be fraught with danger if you have somebody else to answer to

[Morefun]

Merseyside preferably

[Morefun]

This is where I am to some extent.  I don't know if it fits in with your lifestyle but Seeking may be for you.  I have 3 long term SB's on the go, 1 I visit and the other 2 come to me.  On the face of it, it sounds more expensive than seeing an escort but when you work out the rate pro-rata it's quite a bit cheaper. 

I have got to know the girls and they know all about me.  I have no other commitments so this works well for me but obviously this whole arrangement could be fraught with danger if you have somebody else to answer to

I have thought of this but there are certainly dangers for me but I might be tempted. It is very expensive?

[Thephoenix]

Lucy Czech in Chester....string of positives reviews.

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[Mr Garmin]

I have thought of this but there are certainly dangers for me but I might be tempted. It is very expensive?

If I was in a relationship there's no way I'd see SB's, far too much danger.  I'd pay to see an escort for an hour, and leave.

For me at least, seeing an SB is much more like paid-for dating and I'm sure that you wouldn't want to do that paid-for or not.

My most recent SB meeting was an overnight which worked out at less than £30/hour. Oh! and I cooked her a steak (beware girls that don't eat properly )

[JRWK]

I've seen Jopan in Southport off and on for many years now.
She used to run the massage shop in Post Office Ave, although still there, she now works from home - across the road.
I've had many a chat with her, even a good haircut once to twice
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Or for a more legit massage, legit but one of the best, Ive seen Emma from Royal Thai in Eastbank St Southport many times - great value too ££
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They are my go to massage places locally, I never need to go anywhere else

[Morefun]

If I was in a relationship there's no way I'd see SB's, far too much danger.  I'd pay to see an escort for an hour, and leave.

For me at least, seeing an SB is much more like paid-for dating and I'm sure that you wouldn't want to do that paid-for or not.

My most recent SB meeting was an overnight which worked out at less than £30/hour. Oh! and I cooked her a steak (beware girls that don't eat properly )

🤣🤣 I agree

[Morefun]

I've seen Jopan in Southport off and on for many years now.
She used to run the massage shop in Post Office Ave, although still there, she now works from home - across the road.
I've had many a chat with her, even a good haircut once to twice
External Link/Members Only

Or for a more legit massage, legit but one of the best, Ive seen Emma from Royal Thai in Eastbank St Southport many times - great value too ££
External Link/Members Only

They are my go to massage places locally, I never need to go anywhere else

Thanks for that.  Is she legit now?

[Morefun]

Lucy Czech in Chester....string of positives reviews.

External Link/Members Only

Yes thanks. She’s on my hit list

[Degsy101]

Thanks for that.  Is she legit now?

Well if your asking about Jopan that's a good question. A couple of reviewers on here have said she's gone legit but just recently adverts have appeared on viva street (in the escorts and massages section) and adultwork (calling herself Jo Jo) which would imply she's offering extras to her massages again.

[tr!gger]

I'm in the same boat !

I used to see Melody - Sensual Sensations in Norden - once or twice a month for 5 plus years. Exactly as you outline - great conversations, great service and a lovely person. Genuinely felt like visiting a friend - she chose to retire last year after being stalked which by all accounts was traumatising. I thought perhaps she’d return but it would seem it’s permanent.

Spent the last 18 months trying to find someone similar … not got there yet !

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Msvictoriajacksonx - External Link/Members Only
zoe of manchester - External Link/Members Only
Antonia Full body massage - Leeds - External Link/Members Only
Anna - Body to Body Whitefield- External Link/Members Only

[Morefun]

I'm in the same boat !

I used to see Melody - Sensual Sensations in Norden - once or twice a month for 5 plus years. Exactly as you outline - great conversations, great service and a lovely person. Genuinely felt like visiting a friend - she chose to retire last year after being stalked which by all accounts was traumatising. I thought perhaps she’d return but it would seem it’s permanent.

Spent the last 18 months trying to find someone similar … not got there yet !

Notable mentions :

Msvictoriajacksonx - External Link/Members Only
zoe of manchester - External Link/Members Only
Antonia Full body massage - Leeds - External Link/Members Only
Anna - Body to Body Whitefield- External Link/Members Only

Well hopefully we both get there soon!

[Numberone]

I'm in the same boat !

I used to see Melody - Sensual Sensations in Norden - once or twice a month for 5 plus years. Exactly as you outline - great conversations, great service and a lovely person. Genuinely felt like visiting a friend - she chose to retire last year after being stalked which by all accounts was traumatising. I thought perhaps she’d return but it would seem it’s permanent.

Spent the last 18 months trying to find someone similar … not got there yet !

Notable mentions :

Msvictoriajacksonx - External Link/Members Only
zoe of manchester - External Link/Members Only
Antonia Full body massage - Leeds - External Link/Members Only
Anna - Body to Body Whitefield- External Link/Members Only

Have you tried Sams Secret Soa. I miss melody too but Sam is apparently similar, although I have given up trying to get an appointment

[JRWK]

Thanks for that.  Is she legit now?

She has always been good for everything - from a great massage to extra's without wanting to much ££
I last saw her in her flat a few months ago when even RO wasn't allowed

But last week she was on VS advertising herself as a 'naughty girl' .. so it's maybe a case of try and see!!

[tr!gger]

Have you tried Sams Secret Soa. I miss melody too but Sam is apparently similar, although I have given up trying to get an appointment

Yes I had clocked her profile. Have tried without success to book but will keep trying.

[Morefun]

Thanks for replies. As luck would have it, I was visiting a friend in Brighouse this week and came across a Thai place. Really enjoyed it. Review to follow. It doesn’t solve my problem as it’s too far away but it was fun.

[Hollywell]

Been seeing  ĺucy Czech for years,I think  she would be perfect for you excellent service off a lovely girl