Tipping

[magicfingers82]

Interested in seeing if anyone else tips a SP?

I usually go for girls who are well reviewed on here so know the service I am getting will be good. I feel a bit guilty due to being quite ugly so I'll add a bit extra in the envelope.

Some tell me I have paid too much which is appreciated. Others have not mentioned it which is a bit annoying.

Am I the only one, or do others tip?

[Nomerzypuntr]

If you have money you can give tip or gifts, it’s up to you.

[Massage Bloke]

Sorry,

But what you are doing isn't tipping.

You are simply paying the incorrect amount.

There is ample scope for confusion and miscommunication between punter and SP already.

Just make sure you tell the SP that you've put a bit on top, as a good will gesture.

[Massage Bloke]

If you have money you can give tip or gifts, it’s up to you.

"gifts" is whole subject in its own right, and I'm sure could run to many pages!

[Nomerzypuntr]

"gifts" is whole subject in its own right, and I'm sure could run to many pages!

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[RandomGuy99]

No

[Massage Bloke]

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For instance, I've become reluctant expert on Tom Ford perfume!

It's also amazing how many SPs don't like flowers and chocs...

But they all like expensive hair brushes, although I can't remember any brand names of the top of my head.

Also, some SPs will take a gift and then bin it after the punter has gone if the item is not to their taste.

[Jonestown]

Also, some SPs will take a gift and then bin it after the punter has gone if the item is not to their taste.

EBay or FB Marketplace more likely, unless “the gift” is complete tat.

[Massage Bloke]

EBay or FB Marketplace more likely, unless “the gift” is complete tat.

They also don't like cheap wine, but do like scented candles.

I've also just remembered a make of expensive hairbrush: "Mason Pearson"...  if you bring her one of those, she will always think of you fondly...

If you're on a tight budget, many SPs like Badedas bubble bath gel.. or bad ass gel as I call it..

But the thing most SPs hate most is a punter bringing a sex toy as a gift!

[Jonestown]

You have to remember it’s a paid for punt, not a date, you’re not there to woo her, it’s a done deal.

[jimbobted]

The girl sets her own fee. If she's good I'll see her again. The fuck would I want to give her a tip for?
Same as my barber sets their own fee. I don't tip them either .

[hendrix]

The saddest thing here is that you're paying her extra because you "feel guilty for being quite ugly"

You have got to change that mindset.

[Thephoenix]

They also don't like cheap wine, but do like scented candles.

I've also just remembered a make of expensive hairbrush: "Mason Pearson"...  if you bring her one of those, she will always think of you fondly...

If you're on a tight budget, many SPs like Badedas bubble bath gel.. or bad ass gel as I call it..

But the thing most SPs hate most is a punter bringing a sex toy as a gift!

You really are over complicating a simple monetary transaction. 

[alabama1]

For instance, I've become reluctant expert on Tom Ford perfume!

It's also amazing how many SPs don't like flowers and chocs...

But they all like expensive hair brushes, although I can't remember any brand names of the top of my head.

Also, some SPs will take a gift and then bin it after the punter has gone if the item is not to their taste.

And how the fuck would you know that 

[RandomGuy99]

And how the fuck would you know that 

Because sometimes they give the gifts they've received to me.

[alabama1]

Why the fuck would you tip SP's who are already charging us a fortune for their business ? If you want to wooh her, the best thing she would like would be a repeat booking.

[alabama1]

Because sometimes they give the gifts they've received to me.

Butt plug ?

[Massage Bloke]

You really are over complicating a simple monetary transaction. 

Not really.

Another poster brought up the subject of gifts.

I replied to the effect that the subject of gifts could run to several pages. He than post four question marks: ????

So I listed a few things I've learnt of the past 35 years.

[RandomGuy99]

Butt plug ?

Bottles of wine and boxes of chocolates mostly.

[Nomerzypuntr]

Because sometimes they give the gifts they've received to me.

Exactly, for eg: Christmas to New Year time, poor punters give gifts to SP, she gave them clients to clients
 

[MissWolf]

Why the fuck would you tip SP's who are already charging us a fortune for their business ? If you want to wooh her, the best thing she would like would be a repeat booking.

This

[alabama1]

Exactly, for eg: Christmas to New Year time, poor punters give gifts to SP, she gave them clients to clients
 

Is it just me who can't make sense of this statement 

[MissWolf]

Interested in seeing if anyone else tips a SP?

I usually go for girls who are well reviewed on here so know the service I am getting will be good. I feel a bit guilty due to being quite ugly so I'll add a bit extra in the envelope.

Some tell me I have paid too much which is appreciated. Others have not mentioned it which is a bit annoying.

Am I the only one, or do others tip?

What you look like is irrelevant in this industry, as long as you are clen, you turn up on time and you are not a twat in the booking then you do not need to 'compensate' any SP over and above their agreed fee for the time you book.

As for the bold bit.......I'm not sure what you want them to say, this sounds like you are waiting for them to thank you or to say you have overpaid me

[Jumping Jack Flash]

OP do you overpay other service providers in supermarkets, petrol stations and pubs etc? You’re over complicating a simple financial transaction between two consenting adults.

[mr.bluesky]

And how the fuck would you know that 

He's a dustbin man , he collects her bins every thursday

[OakTree]

Is it just me who can't make sense of this statement 

Totally lost on me too.

I noticed the OP mentioned putting the money in an envelope. All rather quaint but not a good idea. I count it out in front of them, the exact amount agreed on.

I guess if someone wants to give a tip it's up to them but I never have. If I receive a fantastic service then I might be inclined to go back for another visit. I would imagine that is more appreciated than an extra tenner or whatever.

[Stevelondon]

Soooooooo long ago. I used to visit a working flat quite regularly (Just liked a couple of the girls there and it was geographically convenient)
I often sat with the maid having a chat (Before and after). I noticed she liked grapes from the local M&S….. so used to buy her some whenever I visited.
It ended up (after the punt) I would sit for an hour or two drinking wine that another regular used to bring. But the maid nor the girl he saw, used to drink it.
I cheekily told the maid to get him to change that particular bottle to something I was very fond of…….. and he did. 😂
So every couple of weeks I enjoyed a punt with a nice lass and had a bottle of very good Pinot Noir from the very same M&S I bought the grapes from.

So if anyone out there was the guy buying the wine……… cheers 

[MLawro93]

Nothing wrong with a tip. Whether that during the Christmas period or a birthday, etc. I don't see the issue. It should never be expected, but always a nice surprise.

[Massage Bloke]

Totally lost on me too.

I noticed the OP mentioned putting the money in an envelope. All rather quaint but not a good idea. I count it out in front of them, the exact amount agreed on.

I guess if someone wants to give a tip it's up to them but I never have. If I receive a fantastic service then I might be inclined to go back for another visit. I would imagine that is more appreciated than an extra tenner or whatever.

Never used to be an issue, I just used to hand over the £20 or £30 or even £40, and the SP could see just my looking, that it was the correct amount. But now that we are into hundreds of pounds, it means the money has to be counted out.

[OakTree]

Never used to be an issue, I just used to hand over the £20 or £30 or even £40, and the SP could see just my looking, that it was the correct amount. But now that we are into hundreds of pounds, it means the money has to be counted out.

I got caught out a few years ago. Dumped the cash on the dressing table, went for a shower and when I came out she claimed I was twenty quid short. I’d literally just counted it two minutes before in the car.
I know some people like to pass the cash over all discretely, in an envelope for example as if it then seems like not a paid for fuck but the bottom line is the cash. I’m sure it goes the other way too, punters short changing the girl. That’s why it’s best for both parties to count it out and then hand it over.

[Massage Bloke]

Also resist the temptation to make nervous small talk, while the SP is counting the notes, because things can go wrong!

A while ago a punter on here left a review for a HOD SP.

He had just been to an ATM, and got out the exact fee. The notes were very new.

He handed over the money to the SP, who went out of the room to take the cash to one of the maids. The SP came back and said the maid had counted the money and it was £20 short.

The punter was thrown: Had the ATM dispensed the incorrect sum? Had two notes got stuck together? Was the maid and/or the SP dishonest?

He paid another twenty, but the whole thing ruined his punt.

He later thought that the most likely explanation was that two notes had got stuck together. I think there may even be some official advise somewhere to be careful about the new generations of plastic notes getting stuck together.

[midspunter]

Does the bag of Haribos I take whenever I see one of my regulars count? That girl will do anything for a Tangfastic.

[daviemac]

A while ago I was in Asda and when it came to pay I handed the cashier an envelope with the cash in, she looked at me as if I was stupid and insisted on the money being taken out of the envelope and counted, on reflection I understood her point.

Ever since anything paid for in cash is counted in front of both parties so any mistakes can be rectified. If the person receiving the cash decides not to count it then that's on them, no comebacks later.

I've never understood the logic behind the envelope thing anyway. 

[Stevelondon]

A while ago I was in Asda and when it came to pay I handed the cashier an envelope with the cash in, she looked at me as if I was stupid and insisted on the money being taken out of the envelope and counted, on reflection I understood her point.

Ever since anything paid for in cash is counted in front of both parties so any mistakes can be rectified. If the person receiving the cash decides not to count it then that's on them, no comebacks later.

I've never understood the logic behind the envelope thing anyway. 

Asda………too posh for me Davie.
I catch your drift.

As far as the envelope thing goes. In all my years paying for sex I’ve never handed over an envelope. But I have heard of the cash being asked for in this fashion when it comes the BDSM, Pro Dom scene.

Why ?

Your guess is as good as mine. 🤷🏼

I mean if it’s a stipulation on meeting someone so be it. I draw the line at sticking a stamp on it though.

[Jonestown]

Diana’s Dungeon one time of Gloucester Place, Marylebone used to have a draw string pouch, such that Robin Hood might have kept his groats & guineas in that you were supposed to put your Tribute in and then hang on the door knob of the dungeon door.

[shagmore]

When I closed my AW account, I sent a tip to the max amount I could to my regular,

[Markc]

To the OP like most have said here don’t put more money in the envelope you give your SP as she will
think you are trying to trick her in some way. I also give the fee to the escort at the start of the appointment
and say how much it is based on her advert. So it says £100 for 30 mins l hand her this amount and don’t use envelopes
so she can see the money and confirm this will cover services like kissing, OWO and CIM. There online profiles normally
cover this detail. If she wants extra for these services and l like the look of her, l give her the extra money at this point.

I rarely tip as a normal but have given the odd extra £10 or £20 at times if the service has been really great or l have got
a service from them l wasn’t expecting like them rimming my ass. Also to the OP don’t think you have to give more because you think you’re ugly. I don’t expect your are and remember these woman are doing this mainly to earn money.

[WAY-WARD]

I've given an extra tenner to agency (Thai) SPs as I don't know how much they get from the agreed price.
I sometimes buy sexy knickers on eBay and gift them...they put them on and I take them off.
One regular I had....at this time of year I would bring watermelon.
She incidentally would tell guys to never bring flowers of chocolates as she didn't want the neighbours to get suspicious.

So nothing expensive...but it's nice to be nice

[worstnameever]

I had it when the cash machine only gave me £20 notes and the girl was 150 for the hour all inclusive So i just gave her £160 as i didn't want to make it weird and ask for change. I did tell her the reason.

What ive come to realise is no matter how fat/skinny/ugly you think you are their is always some poor bastard who is fatter/skinnier/uglier than you so just be grateful your not that guy 

I did see a thai girl once who was fairly new here and was suffering with hay fever but didn't know what it was so i bought her a box of hay fever tablets from the supermarket across the road and posted them through her letterbox as she was booked back to back. I did tell her about them but her english was crap.

As others have said being punctual/groomed/clean/respectful will bump you up a few notches.

[Jerboa]

Yes I give them a tip........the tip of my cock! 

[mikey_mike]

when i started this hobby I would sometimes give a little extra if I felt I'd got particularly good service, I've also turned up with gifts in the past but not anymore ... my tastes have gone up in price and I can't justify giving more. 

[Alexmck]

Recent punt (report coming) got asked for "tips" at the end. Refused and got a speech on being cheap and why women didn't like me 

[MLawro93]

Recent punt (report coming) got asked for "tips" at the end. Refused and got a speech on being cheap and why women didn't like me 

Asking for a tip is just tacky. The cheek on her 

[Paul9144]

A while ago I was in Asda and when it came to pay I handed the cashier an envelope with the cash in, she looked at me as if I was stupid and insisted on the money being taken out of the envelope and counted, on reflection I understood her point.

Ever since anything paid for in cash is counted in front of both parties so any mistakes can be rectified. If the person receiving the cash decides not to count it then that's on them, no comebacks later.

I've never understood the logic behind the envelope thing anyway. 

A few good points that you've mentioned here.

It's one of the reasons that I've never used envelopes, as the first thing that I observe SP's do is either go away into a different room to count the cash that I've given them or some even quickly do it in front of me, which makes the process quicker for them.

[mancsguy1975]

... this is not f#cking Pretty Woman and youre not Richard Gere  !


Tipping is not necessary - good service attracts return business, and this only sets a precident for expecting extra cash to the basic fee. ( IMHO )

[Jonestown]

... this is not f#cking Pretty Woman and youre not Richard Gere  !


Tipping is not necessary - good service attracts return business, and this only sets a precident for expecting extra cash to the basic fee. ( IMHO )

+1

Start as you mean to go on, there are more ways to be one of the good guys than just throwing money at them.

[Massage Bloke]

Recent punt (report coming) got asked for "tips" at the end. Refused and got a speech on being cheap and why women didn't like me 

I think that has something to do with the fact that you punt at the higher end of the spectrum.

The SPs often have an entitled attitude, and like to think money will fall off the trees in to their laps. And, I don't blame them, when there are punters such as yourself who are willing to pay up to £1500 for an hour.

I assume you've paid hundreds to the SP in question, and then get called cheap!

[hendrix]

A while ago I was in Asda and when it came to pay I handed the cashier an envelope with the cash in, she looked at me as if I was stupid and insisted on the money being taken out of the envelope and counted, on reflection I understood her point.

Ever since anything paid for in cash is counted in front of both parties so any mistakes can be rectified. If the person receiving the cash decides not to count it then that's on them, no comebacks later.

I've never understood the logic behind the envelope thing anyway. 

I think the logic for the envelope is in maybe two scenarios. One (which I don't do) is where you're meeting in a hotel bar first, and the WG wants to be paid on arrival but discreetly. Second, where I have a multi girl punt, at different prices, having the cash in envelopes with their names on helps, and they can count it there or in the bathroom or whatever they prefer.