Petite~Clarycee - Gatwick - Denied at the door

[Luckyboy69]

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Denied at the door

Month: June 2026

Location: Flats near Gatwick (Her location has now changed)

Petite~Clarycee has been in my hotlist for a while now. Finally got a chance to meet with her. Booking was done by text on the day, nothing unusual. Drove 1 hour to the location and parked up.

Walked 15 mins to the arranged postcode. Texted to get full address. Radio silence for 20 mins. (It was also pouring down that day). After getting soaked, she gave the flat door number.

Went in and up the stairs. I knock on the door and she openings. She took 1 look at me and said “sorry I only see white british males” and closed the door! 

I was stunned. This the first time I was denied service! I have booked many girls in my lifetime, from beautiful to ugly, young and old. But never this!

Sadly my plan B was fully booked that day so it was the saddest drive home. 

For those booking her just be careful. If you are a “white british male” then you have nothing to worry about. 

[Fuzzyduck]

Sorry to hear that, and that you had your time wasted. You might expect a heads up on the profile, wouldn't you?

[Mkhelen]

Girls should explicitly advertise this on the profile so you can avoid them
Did she ask your ethnicity on the messages

Racism is still strong in this day and age it's so wrong I really don't understand it

[scouting]

Dreadful fella, sorry you had this experience.

[PuntingPro1]

I texted her before and she asked what nationality I was.

[simon07]

Nothing on Profile to state racist preferences! She is Romanian though and the majority, i have experienced challenges.

Maybe we should all book and just before meet, say, sorry i only see blonde Scandinavian women?

[MrMatrix]

Simple bang out of order. If she feels this way it should be clear on her profile. After all she isnt the only one. Sorry you had a wasted journey OP. At least you still have your money for the next punt.
Negative well earned.

[Bonker]

Unlucky boy69

[Stevelondon]

Totally agree she should at least have it written on her profile Whats colour men or what nationalities of men she chooses NOT to see.

When my accent was a tad thicker than it is today. A lass I spoke to on the phone declined my request to see her. She said “Sorry but I don’t see black men”. 😂😂

In the States I’ve been asked where in Australia do I live. 

[PilotMan]

I have a fairly deep voice and for some reason this seems top be associated with gentlemen of colour, hence I'm sometimes asked if I'm sure I'm not black (checks in the mirror  ).

I also have a strong Cockney accent, with no hint of anything else.

[Stevelondon]

I have a fairly deep voice and for some reason this seems top be associated with gentlemen of colour, hence I'm sometimes asked if I'm sure I'm not black (checks in the mirror  ).

I also have a strong Cockney accent, with no hint of anything else.

😂.     I’m not sure what’s worse PM.

Being refused cos you’re black. Or being asked if your sure your NOT black.

I’d be tempted to shout down the phone (Gasps in amazement) “Bloody hell, I am black…….. thank you for getting me to check” 

[PilotMan]

“Bloody hell, I am black…….. thank you for getting me to check” 

 

My parents have a lot to explain.

[GCAS9]

My parents have a lot to explain.

😂.     I’m not sure what’s worse PM.

Being refused cos you’re black. Or being asked if your sure your NOT black.

I’d be tempted to shout down the phone (Gasps in amazement) “Bloody hell, I am black…….. thank you for getting me to check” 

Thank you Stevelondon and Pilotman for demonstrating to us the concept of white privilege in this thread: for you both as "white males", you've found Luckyboy69's experience to be entertainment to inspire you into laughter and jokes, as it's extremely unlikely you'd suffer this indignity; but for those of us like Luckyboy69 and your other non-white British male punting brethren, this is an extra hurdle on top of those already faced by the "white British males" in arranging a successful punt.

[PilotMan]

Thank you Stevelondon and Pilotman for demonstrating to us the concept of white privilege in this thread: for you both as "white males", you've found Luckyboy69's experience to be entertainment to inspire you into laughter and jokes, as it's extremely unlikely you'd suffer this indignity; but for those of us like Luckyboy69 and your other non-white British male punting brethren, this is an extra hurdle on top of those already faced by the "white British males" in arranging a successful punt.

It's nothing of the kind. In what way have I demonstrated "white privilege"?

If you got over yourself you would see, in my case, it is my own observation of racial stereotyping by an SP.

Did you stop to consider my self observation about my Cockney accent, due to which I may not be afforded the "privilege" of other well spoken individuals?

I doubt it, because you're probably in a narrow mindset of only linking privilege to race / colour.

There is "privilege" everywhere in the world, it isn't just about somebody's race or colour. The world in which I operate in has a majority of so called "privileged" white university educated males. Do I let it bother me, no I don't. In fact it's the opposite.

What a person chooses to do and how a person chooses to restrict their own life's' outcomes, is up to the individual. What I have found is that those who are unsuccessful / unhappy in life are generally looking for someone or something to blame, so race / colour is an easy one.

[GCAS9]

It's nothing of the kind. In what way have I demonstrated "white privilege"?

If you got over yourself you would see, in my case, it is my own observation of racial stereotyping by an SP.

Did you stop to consider my self observation about my Cockney accent, due to which I may not be afforded the "privilege" of other well spoken individuals?

I doubt it, because you're probably in a narrow mindset of only linking privilege to race / colour.

There is "privilege" everywhere in the world, it isn't just about somebody's race or colour. The world in which I operate in has a majority of so called "privileged" white university educated males. Do I let it bother me, no I don't. In fact it's the opposite.

What a person chooses to do and how a person chooses to restrict their own life's' outcomes, is up to the individual. What I have found is that those who are unsuccessful / unhappy in life are generally looking for someone or something to blame, so race / colour is an easy one.

"get over myself", lol seems i've hit the right mark, you are part of the problem: you can't solve an issue if you fail to recognise it and continue to not see it even when people point it out to you.
You've even gone far enough as to victim-blame: by your rationale it's now Luckyboy69's fault for not being white that his time was wasted by the bigoted service provider?  We are all poorer for discrimination but from your view it's for the victim to fit into the bigot's needs and desires, not for the bigot to improve their own lot and wellbeing with educating themselves.

You have the option of changing your accent (unless you're Dick van Dyke) to be accepted, though you shouldn't have to; but those who are discriminated against by race/colour have no such luxury, and therein is the difference which you seem unable to comprehend: it's a situation you can't suffer from as a white male, so you don't deem it to be relevant, damaging or serious, hence the term white privilege.

We all suffer for shallow behaviour of racism, including the bigot.  For the service provider she's putting herself in a position where she'd sooner open the door to Fred West as a "white British male" than to Luckboy69, Mo Salah or Will Smith, and she'd rather suffer loss of income pandering to her bigotry.

[Stevelondon]

Thank you Stevelondon and Pilotman for demonstrating to us the concept of white privilege in this thread: for you both as "white males", you've found Luckyboy69's experience to be entertainment to inspire you into laughter and jokes, as it's extremely unlikely you'd suffer this indignity; but for those of us like Luckyboy69 and your other non-white British male punting brethren, this is an extra hurdle on top of those already faced by the "white British males" in arranging a successful punt.

Oh for fucks sake.
“White Privilege”
“You are part of the problem”

Get over yourself you twat. You should be riding a miniature pony instead of that high rocking horse.


My kids are mixed race. My grandkids are even more mixed race 😂

I’ve stood up and protected my family from more racial tensions and abuse than you’ve had shags you idiot.

Jeez…… lighten up and try seeing humour when it’s tossed your way.

[scouting]

Reading this thread brings to mind the early series of Till Death Us Do Part in the late 60's. It was criticised by some for it's language, race, politics & social stance. What it's critics failed to realise was that the humour was in the bigotry of Alf Garnett. We were laughing at him and his ranting, not agreeing with it.

People should contextualise better rather than jump on the racism bandwagon.

[GCAS9]

Oh for fucks sake.
“White Privilege”
“You are part of the problem”

Get over yourself you twat. You should be riding a miniature pony instead of that high rocking horse.


My kids are mixed race. My grandkids are even more mixed race 😂

I’ve stood up and protected my family from more racial tensions and abuse than you’ve had shags you idiot.

Jeez…… lighten up and try seeing humour when it’s tossed your way.

Classic, a new variation of "I can't be racist/bigoted because my wife/girlfriend etc is black".
you don't me from Adam, so you know jack about what i and others i know have been through; i'm judging you from your comments and behaviour here, and not hurling abuse and dismissing your concerns.
What is the point of "ethnic minority" punters even contributing to this site when their experiences are dismissed and become the subject of amusement for those who never be in their shoes and lack empathy for what they endure?

[Stevelondon]

Classic, a new variation of "I can't be racist/bigoted because my wife/girlfriend etc is black".
you don't me from Adam, so you know jack about what i and others i know have been through; i'm judging you from your comments and behaviour here, and not hurling abuse and dismissing your concerns.
What is the point of "ethnic minority" punters even contributing to this site when their experiences are dismissed and become the subject of amusement for those who never be in their shoes and lack empathy for what they endure?

Classic. Not trying to even attempt to see what was being said because you have Mr Goody two shoes tattooed on your forehead.

I’ll stand by what I said in any of my comments as opposed to someone like you just coming up with the never ending “You are a bigot and a racist because you make jokes about ethnicity and someone’s colour”


Question for Luckyboy69.
Tell me………. Were you offended by anything I said. ?

[GCAS9]

Reading this thread brings to mind the early series of Till Death Us Do Part in the late 60's. It was criticised by some for it's language, race, politics & social stance. What it's critics failed to realise was that the humour was in the bigotry of Alf Garnett. We were laughing at him and his ranting, not agreeing with it.

People should contextualise better rather than jump on the racism bandwagon.

It also served the purpose of holding a mirror to your own self and your own attitudes, for you to consider if you have similar bigotry to Alf Garnett and if you looked as ridiculous to others as he did with his own bigotry.

I've not seen any consolation expressed from Pilotman as to what luckyboy69 suffered, only inspiration for him to laugh and joke about luckyboy69 being mistreated by the service provider through no fault of his own.
There's a hint of it from SteveLondon, though he advocates the provider making herself clearer, rather than educating herself.

I do accept that the service provider is free to see whomever she wants on whatever basis.
I also accept that we're still far from the ideal in this world when it comes to bigotry.
But things won't change for the better without a will to improve, and reducing bigotry improves life for us all.
I find it rather telling that SteveLondon and Pilotman have become defensive, resorting to ad hominem attacks and abuse rather than giving thought and consideration to Luckyboy69's experience and my commentary on their response to it.
UKPunting will have a broad membership and each of us have our flaws and failings.
Members will observe and make note of what we post here and how it reflects of our attitudes.

[Stevelondon]

😂😂😂.      Show me my defense 


Plus…….. forgive me to fuck. But is it really my job to tell a SP to better educate herself.

[Fitsarahgfe]

Classic, a new variation of "I can't be racist/bigoted because my wife/girlfriend etc is black".
you don't me from Adam, so you know jack about what i and others i know have been through; i'm judging you from your comments and behaviour here, and not hurling abuse and dismissing your concerns.
What is the point of "ethnic minority" punters even contributing to this site when their experiences are dismissed and become the subject of amusement for those who never be in their shoes and lack empathy for what they endure?

I honestly don’t see how he was being racist. And jumping on people over harmless (and non racist) jokes, desperately trying to find something offensive in them, is probably pushing a lot of people away from even trying to be considerate. No matter what you say, someone will always find a reason to be offended. I bet plenty of black guys are reading this right now wondering what you’re even on about.

[PilotMan]

their experiences are dismissed and become the subject of amusement for those who never be in their shoes and lack empathy for what they endure?

You really are tying way more in to things than is reality, nobody has dismissed the OP's experience. You really do need to get off your woke wagon.

What is the point of "ethnic minority" punters even contributing to this site

As for ethnic minority punters contributing, most members on here do not self describe, so stop trying to differentiate us for no reason.

[PilotMan]

@GCAS9

You have your view and that's fine. I think your view is as biased as you say mine is.

At no point did I blame the OP, or suggest it was his fault, the problem lay firmly at the door of the SP. Her behaviour was very poor, she should make clear her conditions of service and who she won't see, rather than reject someone at the doorstep.

As for bigotry, here is where I see your bias and judgement against a persons free will.

Any SP has the right to see whoever she wants to see, and if that is someone who you find abhorrent, e.g. a fat, balding, ugly white OAP with crooked teeth, then so be it. You seem as though you couldn't care less about her ability to make decisions for herself. It's her body, it's her choice, if she decides she'd rather "suffer loss of income", then that's her decision and not for you to judge.

I wouldn't have sex with a chunky Indian women, in fact any chunky woman. But if you want to waste your good money on that, then that's not for me to judge, that's your choice.

There is all sorts of discrimination in the world aside from colour / race. Age, gender, sexual preferences, physical disability, weight, height, education and qualifications, accents and so on, many of which cannot be changed, many of which are physically obvious.

My original point that you have missed because you're so far up on your high horse; it isn't "who we should be looking to blame", it's about how we respond to what life puts at our door. And over that, each person has full control.

[PilotMan]

I've not seen any consolation expressed from Pilotman as to what luckyboy69 suffered, only inspiration for him to laugh and joke about luckyboy69 being mistreated by the service provider through no fault of his own.

Show me where I did this.


You're really clutching at straws now fella.

[PilotMan]

I phoned up the beeb and asked if they would write this article and post it tonight.

Would you Adam & Eve it, they've only gawn an dunnit 

BBC News - Mocking regional accents is last form of acceptable discrimination, says MP

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[Stevelondon]

Hadaway and shite …… as they say where I’m from. 😂

[The Gent]

Lord it's pathetic posts like this that make normal people not bother posting or helping. Fake cries of racism , baseless accusations against White people and the racist trope of White Privilege...

Why do some men think women who prostitute themselves should fuck anyone. It's like you have zero respect for women and their choices and (ironically) try and White Knight non-White men. I get the sticking up for men but it's because you seem to lack any respect for women.

The one and only thing to criticise the woman on is not explicitly stating it, as obviously it wastes everyones time.

[daviemac]

Lord it's pathetic posts like this that make normal people not bother posting or helping.

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