Escorts refusing to see because of UKP

[Upsndowns79]

I’m not really sure what I think about this idea, because both your arguments and Strawberry’s make sense to me.

I’ve definitely met quite a few guys with several reports who turned out to be perfectly fine clients. I saw them because I made my own judgment after reading the reports.

Would I see someone with bad reports just because they also had a few thumbs up? No.
So I don’t think a system like this would change much. Girls and FGAWOA(S)S (I like it by the way, wouldn’t mind adding it to our vocabulary), would probably still form their opinion based on the negative reports.

Thanks Sarah

Or should I call you FitSarahFGAWOA(S)Sfe

Sorry I couldn’t resist 

[Massage Bloke]

It’s a mine field out there 

Although my oh has gone out for a “girls night out”. Is that ok? Should I remind her she’s a grown woman?

I've recently stopped saying "burd"...!

I must be turning woke in my old age.

But it is minefield out there. Many SAAFE threads start with "Hi Girls"..?

[boardyhell]

will you on ce if I can login

[alabama1]

will you on ce if I can login

Are you talking in code 

[mh]

I think my punting number may have been added to a blacklist. Recently I tried to book a return meeting with a (touring) SP with whom I'd exchanged friendly, flirty messages after the meeting while trying to find another place and time to meet. It took a while until she was listing as back in my vicinity but when I tried to book I was given the most immediate 'fuck off' type message I've ever had and it was completely out of keeping with previous messages from her. No reply to further messages asking what I had done wrong.

Today I messaged early in the day two SPs with "Available Today" lit that I've not seen before and have not got even a text reply back with services and rates. Not a dicky bird.

I am starting to think perhaps my number was submitted to a blacklist by the mad as a box of frogs TS to whom I gave a positive review on UKP but later a negative one. She went ballistic as a result.

Luckily I am not tied to that number but would prefer not to change it. Is there anywhere we punters can check???

[shed]

I think my punting number may have been added to a blacklist. Recently I tried to book a return meeting with a (touring) SP with whom I'd exchanged friendly, flirty messages after the meeting while trying to find another place and time to meet. It took a while until she was listing as back in my vicinity but when I tried to book I was given the most immediate 'fuck off' type message I've ever had and it was completely out of keeping with previous messages from her. No reply to further messages asking what I had done wrong.

Today I messaged early in the day two SPs with "Available Today" lit that I've not seen before and have not got even a text reply back with services and rates. Not a dicky bird.

I am starting to think perhaps my number was submitted to a blacklist by the mad as a box of frogs TS to whom I gave a positive review on UKP but later a negative one. She went ballistic as a result.

Luckily I am not tied to that number but would prefer not to change it. Is there anywhere we punters can check???

 
Sounds like you aren't using a punting phone otherwise you would just change your SIM card 

[MLawro93]

I think my punting number may have been added to a blacklist. Recently I tried to book a return meeting with a (touring) SP with whom I'd exchanged friendly, flirty messages after the meeting while trying to find another place and time to meet. It took a while until she was listing as back in my vicinity but when I tried to book I was given the most immediate 'fuck off' type message I've ever had and it was completely out of keeping with previous messages from her. No reply to further messages asking what I had done wrong.

Today I messaged early in the day two SPs with "Available Today" lit that I've not seen before and have not got even a text reply back with services and rates. Not a dicky bird.

I am starting to think perhaps my number was submitted to a blacklist by the mad as a box of frogs TS to whom I gave a positive review on UKP but later a negative one. She went ballistic as a result.

Luckily I am not tied to that number but would prefer not to change it. Is there anywhere we punters can check???

Nope. And asking a SP to check for you, can also get them banned from using them. Probably best to get a new punting number, not ideal, but can start with a clean slate. As it does strike me as you probably got a retaliatory complaint on CE or something.

[finn5555]

Unless you know a SP well enough to check for you (like I did) your best bet is a new SIM card

[campkh]

Nope. And asking a SP to check for you, can also get them banned from using them. Probably best to get a new punting number, not ideal, but can start with a clean slate. As it does strike me as you probably got a retaliatory complaint on CE or something.

Thanks god I got my punting number checked by a regular last week, please I wasn't on any report.

[Massage Bloke]

 
Sounds like you aren't using a punting phone otherwise you would just change your SIM card 

Do punters really need a SIM card at all?

Most SPs are happy to use WhatApp, and many prefer it.

And there is still regular email, of course.

You need an active internet connection, but free Wi-Fi is everywhere.

And as far as central London is concerned, it's not very sensible to be standing in the street with your phone, using your mobile data. Much better to get off the street and dive into a coffee shop or some such, and use their Wi-Fi...

It's easy to forget that a smartphone is a mini computer and internet enabled device. A SIM just allows you to make calls and send/receive SMS...

Without a SIM you can still use mobile banking apps to transfer funds. And you can still use map apps.

But you still need a phone number to set many things up to begin with, but you can use any number.

[MLawro93]

Do punters really need a SIM card at all?

Most SPs are happy to use WhatApp, and many prefer it.

And there is still regular email, of course.

You need an active internet connection, but free Wi-Fi is everywhere.

And as far as central London is concerned, it's not very sensible to be standing in the street with your phone, using your mobile data. Much better to get off the street and dive into a coffee shop or some such, and use their Wi-Fi...

It's easy to forget that a smartphone is a mini computer and internet enabled device. A SIM just allows you to make calls and send/receive SMS...

Without a SIM you can still use mobile banking apps to transfer funds. And you can still use map apps.

But you still need a phone number to set many things up to begin with, but you can use any number.

You need a phone number for all of that, which means getting a SIM or eSIM. Its just a lot more easy to do. Sometimes there is no wifi available, so people rely on their mobile data. I'd never use random wifi without using a VPN first at least, I'm not raw dogging someones random Wifi connection 

[JonasG]

I think my punting number may have been added to a blacklist. Recently I tried to book a return meeting with a (touring) SP with whom I'd exchanged friendly, flirty messages after the meeting while trying to find another place and time to meet. It took a while until she was listing as back in my vicinity but when I tried to book I was given the most immediate 'fuck off' type message I've ever had and it was completely out of keeping with previous messages from her. No reply to further messages asking what I had done wrong.

Today I messaged early in the day two SPs with "Available Today" lit that I've not seen before and have not got even a text reply back with services and rates. Not a dicky bird.

I am starting to think perhaps my number was submitted to a blacklist by the mad as a box of frogs TS to whom I gave a positive review on UKP but later a negative one. She went ballistic as a result.

Luckily I am not tied to that number but would prefer not to change it. Is there anywhere we punters can check???

It's shit but yeah for new WGs have a backup/new punting number.

And for regulars still use your OG punting number. That's what I've been doing.

It's bollocks what some WGs put on CE just for being on here/reviewing but ah well. Bitter stuff.

[webpunter]

It's shit but yeah for new WGs have a backup/new punting number.

You can have more than one punting phone
AFAIAA my mobile not on clit eye
No issues
I've a spare older iphone & pondering getting another cheap SIM & use for VulvaS / other action where you think a higher chance of problems
Tho if warning flags best to avoid
On the SIM get one where the credit lasts for donkeys ages & anyways mostly its WA nowadays so no monthly charges texts data etc

[MissWolf]

It's shit but yeah for new WGs have a backup/new punting number.

And for regulars still use your OG punting number. That's what I've been doing.

It's bollocks what some WGs put on CE just for being on here/reviewing but ah well. Bitter stuff.

Tbh I almost always ignore reports that say ukp member, if they link a username I will check the member out but it wouldn't stop me accepting a booking from them.
Unless there is other reports or information in that report that would be an issue.

[JonasG]

Tbh I almost always ignore reports that say ukp member, if they link a username I will check the member out but it wouldn't stop me accepting a booking from them.
Unless there is other reports or information in that report that would be an issue.

Yeah it really is a split opinion WGs have on this place. Quite interesting really.

A WG i booked last year must've checked CE where it said I'm me, and she brought it up in the session that I'm on here and said she couldn't care less but then others feel really strongly about not seeing UKP members. Which is absolutely fine.

But what irks me is i can just imagine the language used in mh's report to slander him (judging by my reports) which understandably will put some WGs off to book him. Because it's human nature if you read a negative report stating mh is this/that/such and such given by a fellow WG.

Even if mh's conduct on here and his specific review in question was fair and representative of what happened.

[JonasG]

You can have more than one punting phone
AFAIAA my mobile not on clit eye
No issues
I've a spare older iphone & pondering getting another cheap SIM & use for VulvaS / other action where you think a higher chance of problems
Tho if warning flags best to avoid
On the SIM get one where the credit lasts for donkeys ages & anyways mostly its WA nowadays so no monthly charges texts data etc

Yeah in this situation you've got to have 2 numbers. So i feel mh's pain.

Because regulars will definitely reply to you quicker/fit you in quicker when they know it's you and trust you. So you can't ditch your OG number.

But just like mh, I've had new WGs I've tried to book not reply to my OG number but then reply to my 2nd new number.

[Colston36]

I am just surprised they read this forum lol why would they care? Apparently they do, but it's quite the revelation

People are naturally curious, particularly with respect to anything that may relate to them personally.

[Strawberry]

Yeah it really is a split opinion WGs have on this place. Quite interesting really.

A WG i booked last year must've checked CE where it said I'm me, and she brought it up in the session that I'm on here and said she couldn't care less but then others feel really strongly about not seeing UKP members. Which is absolutely fine.

But what irks me is i can just imagine the language used in mh's report to slander him (judging by my reports) which understandably will put some WGs off to book him. Because it's human nature if you read a negative report stating mh is this/that/such and such given by a fellow WG.

Even if mh's conduct on here and his specific review in question was fair and representative of what happened.

The thing that is jumping out at me (as an SP with experience), but I may be wrong, is his mention of flirty texts with the touring SP whilst they try to arrange another booking. He has had one booking with her, that may or may not have been straight forward to arrange. Sometimes, some punters do not realise how many texts they send, they think they are being friendly or polite, but the exchange can be lengthy or disproportionate.

[LLPunting]

The thing that is jumping out at me (as an SP with experience), but I may be wrong, is his mention of flirty texts with the touring SP whilst they try to arrange another booking. He has had one booking with her, that may or may not have been straight forward to arrange. Sometimes, some punters do not realise how many texts they send, they think they are being friendly or polite, but the exchange can be lengthy or disproportionate.

Concur. Unsolicited flirtation whether in a chat that should be just about making a booking or even out of the blue attempts to engage without booking are suggestive of a boundary pushing punter trying to get free fulfillment of needs and no self-control or respect of the SP's business or privacy.
The only time I would flirt is if the SP engaged first and only for as long as she indulged in it. There is marketing flirtation you should learn to identify and treat as you prefer, whether as unwelcome spam or some quick, brief, furtive and harmless fun.  If one subsequently gets into a more blurred social/fwb/dating zone then that still has it's reasonable and respectful amounts that should be scoped by sincere conversation so there is no unsaid expectations or unreasonable ones on either side.  Sure the honesty may be suspect given the origins but cynicism aside the best option is to openly agree on boundaries. 
If you have trouble guarding your own emotional involvement then punting probably isn't a mentally healthy pursuit for you. It's bad enough getting a grip on the spending for the unique pleasure of convenient, consensual sex.

[berksboy]

  So i was trying to book a SP  the other day and she sent me a screenshot via WA of client eye were i have 2 negatives. One was because i cancelled as soon as i got the flat name as a workmate lives in there i told her this but she put me down as a address collector ! Why would you ? The other SP i cancelled the day before but on CE she put that i ghosted her on the day. As far as i know we cant replay on CE . I don't think its too bad for me as i mainly see the same SP but in the end i may just get a new sim card.

[Massage Bloke]

@berksboy

What happened with the SP who sent you the screen shot? Did she go ahead with your booking?

BTW, there used to be a way for punters to look at CE, but sadly a smart arse member on here blew the gaff on a thread. CE were monitoring the thread and closed the loophole!

[daviemac]

BTW, there used to be a way for punters to look at CE, but sadly a smart arse member on here blew the gaff on a thread. CE were monitoring the thread and closed the loophole!

As a new loophole was posted they closed it, one member on here joined but was sussed out almost immediately and it caused one SP a load of grief when she looked him up as it wasn't public knowledge. They contacted me a few times over inaccuracies being posted particularly regarding GDPR.

Any number put into ClientEye now shows 1 report.