What am I doing wrong…no responses?

[msosvr]

I’ve been trying to arrange my first punt for 2 weeks and am struggling to get any responses to my messages. I’m trying to arrange a simple 60 min gfe experience. Nothing complicated just straight forward meet without time pressure hence 60 mins. I’m in London southeast area (45 mins drive around Kingston / Heathrow) so there are lots of options but I have had various issues.

1. Mobile phone numbers on AW don’t work on SMS or whatapp.
2. I send a short polite message on AW, but get no response at all….burned quite some credit.
3. I tried a reverse booking but only got 1 response which I’m really not interested in (too old and not my type)

I’ve sent like 20 messages and cast a fairly wide net in my area so as not to be too picky.

I’m trying to arrange it for this Sat or Sunday any time. Ideally not between 6-8.

Is advance booking not preferred?

Any advice very much appreciated.

[MissWolf]

You shouldn't be burning credit on AW as the standard email is free as far as I know.

The only message system that costs is the new direct message option, lots of girls won't use it as I think it costs to return the message.

My only advice is to keep it clear, keep it brief and polite, state what you are looking for (a 1 hour gfe) when you would like the booking (May 5th or 6th between 6 and 9pm e.g) and use the system the escort states she prefers on her profile.

[Bighornyone]

I am curious to know if the SP gets any percentage of the let's chat fee.

[MissWolf]

I am curious to know if the SP gets any percentage of the let's chat fee.

I've had a couple of guys use this and I haven't as far as I can tell received and payment from AW for this, its just another way to fleece you guys.

[RandomGuy99]

As a bank holiday weekend it's likely that any SP with family will be doing stuff with their family and thus won't be working.

Have you checked if the SPs are actually reading your messages?

Send a message like this

Hi <SP's name>

I would like to book you for a <amount of time> incall on <date> at <time> for a fee of £x as per your profile.

I would like <list of services>

I am new at this, but I have read your profile.

I am <age>, <height> and <weight> and <clean shaven>/<full beard>

Are you free?

Thanks

[MissWolf]

As a bank holiday weekend it's likely that any SP with family will be doing stuff with their family and thus won't be working.

Have you checked if the SPs are actually reading your messages?

Send a message like this

Hi <SP's name>

I would like to book you for a <amount of time> incall on <date> at <time> for a fee of £x as per your profile.

I would like <list of services>

I am new at this, but I have read your profile.

I am <age>, <height> and <weight> and <clean shaven>/<full beard>

Are you available?

Thanks

On a personal level I find the bold bit comes over as a bit creepy and desperate and puts me off a bit, might just be me though 

[RandomGuy99]

On a personal level I find the bold bit comes over as a bit creepy and desperate and puts me off a bit, might just be me though 

It's just that some SPs come back with age, ethnicity. They're not too fussed about height though. Some are wary of SSs who are 19 as they might be hard work.

I wasn't sure if he was saying he was trying to book his first ever booking or his first one for 2 weeks. Maybe he has zero feedback on AW?

Ok, maybe replace the bold bit with "I am hung like a stallion and can make you orgasm just by looking at you"

[myothernameis]

1. Mobile phone numbers on AW don’t work on SMS or whatapp.
2. I send a short polite message on AW, but get no response at all….burned quite some credit.
3. I tried a reverse booking but only got 1 response which I’m really not interested in (too old and not my type)

On AW do you by chance have any feedback, and if so how many do you have, so

If you have around 10 feedback, the escort will look at these, to see what type of person you are, but

If you have 0 feedback, most escorts on AW wont see you

[myothernameis]

Ok, maybe replace the bold bit with "I am hung like a stallion and can make you orgasm just by looking at you"

My tongue is 10" long, want to see what I can do with it 

[RandomGuy99]

My tongue is 10" long, want to see what I can do with it 

I'd ask if you were green, had scaley skin and were called Sid

[Ivor Hunch]

sweeping generality, but quite a few SPs take the weekend off;  maybe try a few mid week 30 mins bookings just to get some feedback.  or use an agency for your first punt to see if you actually enjoy it

[MissWolf]

It's just that some SPs come back with age, ethnicity. They're not too fussed about height though. Some are wary of SSs who are 19 as they might be hard work.

I wasn't sure if he was saying he was trying to book his first ever booking or his first one for 2 weeks. Maybe he has zero feedback on AW?

Ok, maybe replace the bold bit with "I am hung like a stallion and can make you orgasm just by looking at you"

  that will get them every time 

[MLawro93]

On a personal level I find the bold bit comes over as a bit creepy and desperate and puts me off a bit, might just be me though 

Some SPs do request that kind of information. I would hope OP is just tailoring his responses depending on what is requested on the profiles.

As always, messaging direct if their number is listed is always the best way to go. AW emails can be rather slow

[RandomGuy99]

sweeping generality, but quite a few SPs take the weekend off;  maybe try a few mid week 30 mins bookings just to get some feedback.  or use an agency for your first punt to see if you actually enjoy it

If an SP works from home then her neighbours might not be working at the weekend, so more chance of a string of visitors to the SP's home being spotted and then questions asked, so many work from home SPs don't work weekends.

[MissWolf]

Some SPs do request that kind of information. I would hope OP is just tailoring his responses depending on what is requested on the profiles.

As always, messaging direct if their number is listed is always the best way to go. AW emails can be rather slow

Agreed a lot do, as I say its probably just a me thing as I don't want that kind of information other than knowing they are over my lower age restriction,  ethnicity etc has no impact for me.

Definitely read the profile and use the escorts preferred contact method is best.

[PilotMan]

Skip all the text WhatsApp messaging, you're wasting time.

You want fast answers; go straight to phoning. At the end of the call most SP's will send you a text with their list of services / prices.

Then, confirm by return message the date / time you want. Don't go too much in to services you want, unless they ask you what you want first. Have a plan B and C lined up.

Forget using AW messaging for the majority of girls. I find only the really professional SP's use it.

I have almost no feedback on my AW, and the last one is over 7 years old. Although strangely enough, for the first time I can remember, I was asked for it twice in the past month, one of whom was a girl I had already seen and confirmed it through AW, but we never left each other feedback.

[msosvr]

thanks for all the responses. My account on AW is brand new so I have no ratings etc and I guess I will avoid the direct messaging system.

This is what I am putting in my message:
"Hi,
Hope you’re well. I’m looking for some relaxed company this weekend, ideally morning or afternoon on Sat or Sun (though I’m fairly flexible and could do late evening).
I’m 40, trim, very good hygiene, respectful and easy-going. I have cash ready in hand. Could you let me know if you’re available for 60 minutes? Also interested in any costs for extras."

I guess maybe I just need to start calling directly rather than using any form of message. I did find that quite a few of the mobile phone numbers for the SP's does not work at all. I just get message not sent warning, or number does not exist in whatsapp.  Is that normal? I did try sending message from my punting phone to my personal one and was getting message back and forth just fine?

I guess this is just a numbers game! Is booking in advance recommended - I would assume so?

[Punting2022]

Text a brazilian girl. Do like a quickie so dont cost you as much. Or another short quickie
Book on aw get feedback. 0 feedback works against.
Some are  fussy over feedback.

They dont need to know age or build.

Just say time and date you want. Duration and ovs your punting name

Most girls use whatsapp now. Dont have to top up a phone,

[Strawberry]

thanks for all the responses. My account on AW is brand new so I have no ratings etc and I guess I will avoid the direct messaging system.

This is what I am putting in my message:
"Hi,
Hope you’re well. I’m looking for some relaxed company this weekend, ideally morning or afternoon on Sat or Sun (though I’m fairly flexible and could do late evening).
I’m 40, trim, very good hygiene, respectful and easy-going. I have cash ready in hand. Could you let me know if you’re available for 60 minutes? Also interested in any costs for extras."

I guess maybe I just need to start calling directly rather than using any form of message. I did find that quite a few of the mobile phone numbers for the SP's does not work at all. I just get message not sent warning, or number does not exist in whatsapp.  Is that normal? I did try sending message from my punting phone to my personal one and was getting message back and forth just fine?

I guess this is just a numbers game! Is booking in advance recommended - I would assume so?

My recommendation is either summarise you can be flexible both Saturday and Sunday, and or give a definite time window.

Remove 'cash ready in hand'.

[Watts.E.Dunn]

Most all the time in the past i've just phoned and if no reply usually get a text back some times to say call again or a list of what she charges and the like..

[koshkaj]

thanks for all the responses. My account on AW is brand new so I have no ratings etc and I guess I will avoid the direct messaging system.

This is what I am putting in my message:
"Hi,
Hope you’re well. I’m looking for some relaxed company this weekend, ideally morning or afternoon on Sat or Sun (though I’m fairly flexible and could do late evening).
I’m 40, trim, very good hygiene, respectful and easy-going. I have cash ready in hand. Could you let me know if you’re available for 60 minutes? Also interested in any costs for extras."

I guess maybe I just need to start calling directly rather than using any form of message. I did find that quite a few of the mobile phone numbers for the SP's does not work at all. I just get message not sent warning, or number does not exist in whatsapp.  Is that normal? I did try sending message from my punting phone to my personal one and was getting message back and forth just fine?

I guess this is just a numbers game! Is booking in advance recommended - I would assume so?

I am still fairly new to this, under a year. When i started, i decided that i was not going to bother with AW bookings, did not see the point as you can book most (but not all) without it. WhatsApp is my preferred method of contact. The AW mobile site (viewable on desktop) usually shows if the SP uses WA, but it is not always accurate. Putting the number into WA will show you if it is active and 80% of SPs usually have a picture as well. If it is not active on WA, then SMS is the way to go. A lot of SPs tend to specify which method they prefer to be contacted on. Also, if you can find reviews on here, they usually specify if contact was made via WA/SMS/phone call. Can check a few and use the most common one.

I use a very simple message to start (and most of my punts are made on the day). For example:

"Hi <SP name>. How are you?/I trust you are well. Are you available today for a <duration> appointment at <time>?"

If they have said they want extra details i add them like so:

"Hi <SP name>. How are you?/I trust you are well. My name is <name>. I am <age>. Are you available today for a <duration> appointment at <time>?"

I don't usually specify what I am looking for in the initial message (unless the SP has asked for it), as I have checked their profile/likes/UKP reviews and if they do not have what I want, I don't reach out and I think that most SPs feel the same way. IMHO, your inital message is too wordy (like this post, ironically) and better suited to AW mail when an SP usually requires more detail then WA/SMS. Think of it like a CV. If your CV is too long, companies just chuck it in the bin. You need to convey as much relevant detail as possible as succintly as you can. Most SPs get hundreds of messages every single day. Would you want to read all that, or would you just skip to the next one? Sometimes, less is more.

The inital message usually leads to a response with their menu of services/rates/extras as well as statement of availability in 95% of cases. I then repeat the duration, time, cost (and extras if needed), and ask the SP to confirm booking.

"OK, so <duration> at <time> with DFK/RO/OWO for £150. Does that work for you?"

or

"OK, so <duration> at <time> with anal extra for £190. Does that work for you?"

SP then confirms. And i finish off with "Great/Perfect. I'll see you/Looking forward to seeing you later today at <time>".

If the SP does not send me a menu. Or responds with just "Yes" or "I am available", i sigh and and send a followup:

"Great! Please could you confirm your rates and inclusive services? Do you have any extras?"

This prompt will then have the desired effect and I can resume my usual flow as above.

Over time i have modified my responses slightly based on what the SP says on her profile or what her initial response is but the first messages is always the same. My phone actually auto-predicts this sentence now.

I have a fairly high response rate, but i attribute this more to the fact that i tend to select my punts based on the reviews i see here, rather than finding an SP first and then looking for reviews.

After a few months i found some SPs that i wanted to see who won't see you if you have no feedback. Some other SPs will see you if you have no feedback, but insist on a AW booking, so I started there to build up a few. Now i have enough good feedback to see most SPs. You don't need to have loads. The first SP i wanted to see i think insisted on at least 3 so that was my initial goal. I have been quite lucky because a lot of SPs use the same feedback for multiple punters, but my first few were not C+P jobs and were very complimentary, which helped with future requests and piqued the interest of new SPs.

Finally, some SPs do not provide any contact details and want to you message them on AW first. Generally I only need to use AW mail for advance bookings. I use the same inital message, easily modified for a future date and time and go from there.

Regarding advance bookings, it depends on the SP. Some only take advance bookings, some only take bookings on the day. Some do both. They will usually say which is their preference on their profile.

Hope you find some of this useful. Welcome to UKP and happy punting! 

[Strawberry]

thanks for all the responses. My account on AW is brand new so I have no ratings etc and I guess I will avoid the direct messaging system.

This is what I am putting in my message:
"Hi,
Hope you’re well. I’m looking for some relaxed company this weekend, ideally morning or afternoon on Sat or Sun (though I’m fairly flexible and could do late evening).
I’m 40, trim, very good hygiene, respectful and easy-going. I have cash ready in hand. Could you let me know if you’re available for 60 minutes? Also interested in any costs for extras."

I guess maybe I just need to start calling directly rather than using any form of message. I did find that quite a few of the mobile phone numbers for the SP's does not work at all. I just get message not sent warning, or number does not exist in whatsapp.  Is that normal? I did try sending message from my punting phone to my personal one and was getting message back and forth just fine?

I guess this is just a numbers game! Is booking in advance recommended - I would assume so?

I do not use WhatsApp with my advertised work number, so that is normal for me.

[Jonestown]

If you are trying to contact girls who may have limited English language skills I’d keep it as concise as possible,

 Hi can you do one hour at 2pm this Saturday?

[Strawberry]

If you are trying to contact girls who may have limited English language skills I’d keep it as concise as possible,

 Hi can you do one hour at 2pm this Saturday?

I would be very happy receving a message like this, it is straight to the point, contains all the information I need and I think my English is reasonable 

Only other thing I would want included is whether this is incall or outcall, location if outcall.

[RandomGuy99]

If you are trying to contact girls who may have limited English language skills I’d keep it as concise as possible,

 Hi can you do one hour at 2pm this Saturday?

Yes, Brazilian and Thai SPs generally do not use AW and prefer short text messages.

I think your initial message is too chatty. You are not their friend. Keep it very matter of fact and sinple language.

SPs who use text like the Thai SPs have standard text messages that they respond with and theae contain details of services and prices. Asking a British SP, who already has her prices clearly described on their AW or VS, for their prices makes it look like you have not read their profile and may annoy the SP, so be prepared for some very short text replies

[alabama1]

My recommendation is either summarise you can be flexible both Saturday and Sunday, and or give a definite time window.

Remove " cash ready in hand"

Old habits. He's probably a second hand car dealer 

[Fitsarahgfe]

I think your initial message is too chatty. You are not their friend. Keep it very matter of fact and sinple language.

I like it (apart from the cash in hand ready part). If I received two messages at the same time, one like this and another saying “hi, can you meet at 5pm?”, I would reply to OP first.
Nothing wrong with the second one though, of course.

[Stevelondon]

My tongue is 10" long, want to see what I can do with it 

My tongue is 10” long but unfortunately I can’t breath through my ears. 🤷🏼

[MissWolf]

If you are trying to contact girls who may have limited English language skills I’d keep it as concise as possible,

 Hi can you do one hour at 2pm this Saturday?

Yep this works for me too, I can say yes or no and if its no I can say....sorry cant do 2pm but would be able to do 3pm if thats ok

[PilotMan]

Some great insight there from SS's and SP's

In my summary, not an AI 

Read the SP's profile, contact her accordingly (if instructions are given).

Call first, if no response, then try WhatsApp, if the SP doesn't have WA use SMS.

Only use AW messaging if SP doesn't list her mobile number.

Keep it brief and polite. Only say when you want to meet for how long, unless additional instructions are given on the SP's profile. No need to provide additional information that has not been requested.

As with everything engage your brain and use your judgement based on the SP's profile and responses.

[lanlover]

And most importantly, try and appear normal 

[RandomGuy99]

And most importantly, try and appear normal 

You missed "vaguely"

“**Vaguely normal**” usually means **something seems normal in a rough or loose sense, but not clearly, strongly, or exactly normal**.

“Vaguely” softens “normal,” so the speaker may mean:

1. **Mostly normal, with some oddness**

   * *“He seemed vaguely normal at first.”*
     → He seemed pretty ordinary, but there was something unusual.

2. **Hard to describe, but generally okay / typical**

   * *“I’m feeling vaguely normal again.”*
     → Not fully back to normal, but closer.

3. **A bit sarcastic or humorous**

   * *“For once, this meeting was vaguely normal.”*
     → It was more normal than usual, but still somewhat strange.

It can also hint that **“normal” is subjective**—the speaker isn’t making a strong claim, just a rough impression.

[puntmiester]

thanks for all the responses. My account on AW is brand new so I have no ratings etc and I guess I will avoid the direct messaging system.

This is what I am putting in my message:
"Hi,
Hope you’re well. I’m looking for some relaxed company this weekend, ideally morning or afternoon on Sat or Sun (though I’m fairly flexible and could do late evening).
I’m 40, trim, very good hygiene, respectful and easy-going. I have cash ready in hand. Could you let me know if you’re available for 60 minutes? Also interested in any costs for extras."

I guess maybe I just need to start calling directly rather than using any form of message. I did find that quite a few of the mobile phone numbers for the SP's does not work at all. I just get message not sent warning, or number does not exist in whatsapp.  Is that normal? I did try sending message from my punting phone to my personal one and was getting message back and forth just fine?

I guess this is just a numbers game! Is booking in advance recommended - I would assume so?

Is this entire thread a troll? What’s wrong with you people .

Filter AW by ‘available now ‘ .
WhatsApp the number ,’hi *insert name* are you available today at 6pm?what’s your location?’

Y’all sound like serial killers

[PilotMan]

Is this entire thread a troll? What’s wrong with you people .

Filter AW by ‘available now ‘ .
WhatsApp the number ,’hi *insert name* are you available today at 6pm?what’s your location?’

Y’all sound like serial killers

And most importantly, try and appear normal 

[lanlover]

Y’all sound like serial killers

Do you just blanket ask everyone available ?

[WelshClipper]

On an iPhone you can type your message into the keyboard

Settings/general/keyboard/text replacement

I then type AW and the whole message is posted. Add a name and press send.

Doesn’t really work for advanced but I usually get a response same day after third or fourth message.

I suppose it also depends how fussy you are. If your balls are blue, most ROMs and Brazilians respond.

 

[puntmiester]

Do you just blanket ask everyone available ?

No just the profiles I like . But I’m in and around Heathrow / London so have plenty of options

[Ace_max66]

If it makes you feel better OP -  I reached out to a few ladies to check their availability to meet over text. 3 of which I’ve seen before who are aware of me and my AW with feedback. 2 have not responded, two got back to me after cancellations one which was a whole 24 hours later. One did get back but after I committed elsewhere.

With the sun out, payday week and approaching a bank holiday, I reckon the popular ladies will be fully booked. Chances are even slimmer if you’re reaching out on AW , especially with no feedback as it’s a lot of admin responding to emails and also filtering out time wasters.

It’s the luck of the draw sometimes.

[Paul9144]

If it makes you feel better OP -  I reached out to a few ladies to check their availability to meet over text. 3 of which I’ve seen before who are aware of me and my AW with feedback. 2 have not responded, two got back to me after cancellations one which was a whole 24 hours later. One did get back but after I committed elsewhere.

With the sun out, payday week and approaching a bank holiday, I reckon the popular ladies will be fully booked. Chances are even slimmer if you’re reaching out on AW , especially with no feedback as it’s a lot of admin responding to emails and also filtering out time wasters.

It’s the luck of the draw sometimes.

No, but you have made me feel better! Thanks for sharing your input here as I can relate to this. It does tend to feel like it's just me not getting responses at times. So, with you posting this, you've made me feel a lot better, and like I'm not alone here, as it can feel personal at times. The same as yourself, I also have very good AW feedback, detailed profile, good photos etc to not get responses at all sometimes or long delayed responses, even with previously booked SP's at times. So, thanks for sharing this.

[Ace_max66]

No, but you have made me feel better! Thanks for sharing your input here as I can relate to this. It does tend to feel like it's just me not getting responses at times. So, with you posting this, you've made me feel a lot better, and like I'm not alone here, as it can feel personal at times. The same as yourself, I also have very good AW feedback, detailed profile, good photos etc to not get responses at all sometimes or long delayed responses, even with previously booked SP's at times. So, thanks for sharing this.

Yeah I cant speak for the SPs but doubt it’s personal. I once saw an indie Thai lady who was on tour and had some reviews on here but not many at the time I saw her and wouldn’t call her popular. After we finished the meet I mentioned that I emailed 1 or 2 days prior without a response, so she logged into show me her inbox and asked which one was me, and the inbox was flooded with dozens of emails lol. Think my email was on page 2 or 3. Granted, her services were very competitively priced so I can understand the interest.

However, It put into context what the in demand and popular girls must have to filter through if a moderately lowkey lady is inundated with emails.

What I tend to do now is if it’s a popular SP that I want to see I’ll try and reach out well in advance if I know her working days or upcoming dates are on the profile to try and fit something in. Failing that, I’ll create a shortlist of ladies I want to see on the day I want to punt (Could be someone new or a repeat, depending on the mood) and begin reaching out a couple of days in advance. Same day bookings rarely work anymore, or if an SP is available on the day it’s usually an unsuitable time for me.

[Paul9144]

Yeah I cant speak for the SPs but doubt it’s personal. I once saw an indie Thai lady who was on tour and had some reviews on here but not many at the time I saw her and wouldn’t call her popular. After we finished the meet I mentioned that I emailed 1 or 2 days prior without a response, so she logged into show me her inbox and asked which one was me, and the inbox was flooded with dozens of emails lol. Think my email was on page 2 or 3. Granted, her services were very competitively priced so I can understand the interest.

However, It put into context what the in demand and popular girls must have to filter through if a moderately lowkey lady is inundated with emails.

What I tend to do now is if it’s a popular SP that I want to see I’ll try and reach out well in advance if I know her working days or upcoming dates are on the profile to try and fit something in. Failing that, I’ll create a shortlist of ladies I want to see on the day I want to punt (Could be someone new or a repeat, depending on the mood) and begin reaching out a couple of days in advance. Same day bookings rarely work anymore, or if an SP is available on the day it’s usually an unsuitable time for me.

I agree & find that scouting out their tour dates, adding them to my AW hotlist, then reaching out in advance does help at times.

[PilotMan]

Same day bookings rarely work anymore, or if an SP is available on the day it’s usually an unsuitable time for me.

I am rarely able to make an advanced booking, unless it's with an established and professional SP, like PoppyX for example.

If I do enquire about a booking for a day or two ahead, or even the next day, I either get ignored or told to call back / message on the day.

[worstnameever]

I was with a thai girl a while back at 10.30AM on a Tuesday who had left her work phone on quiet and not silent and the amount of times it was pinging was amazing, granted it could be aload af blokes wanting a 15 min sesh or timewasters.

I usually just fire off a text like,
Hi <NAME>,
Could i book you for a 1 hour appointment today between X and Y time?
Regards
Worst Name Ever.

Some of you lads don't half waffle over texts 

[Heph]

Is this entire thread a troll? What’s wrong with you people .

Filter AW by ‘available now ‘ .
WhatsApp the number ,’hi *insert name* are you available today at 6pm?what’s your location?’

Y’all sound like serial killers

It can't have entirely escaped your attention that-

1. 'Available now' isn't an especially reliable indication of who is available and ready to respond, or those that are available generally. I can't recall if it costs the advertiser £5 per day, but plenty have said that they want to avoid that charge (which I'll grant does seem an absurd false economy)
2. A fair chunk of profiles, including ones which turn out to be good, expressly recommend against sending messages like ’hi *insert name* are you available today at 6pm?what’s your location?’. Many, perhaps most, suggest giving more information about ourselves and our tastes.

It's impossible to know where that balance lies in their minds - we have to guess and hope we get it right, knowing that, whichever we choose, it'll be too long/short; crude/indirect; last-minute/far in advance for any given half of them.

[Devon450]

I've had a couple of guys use this and I haven't as far as I can tell received and payment from AW for this, its just another way to fleece you guys.

I did ask a regular I see its cost 0.5 credits for us to send a message and the SP gets 0.42 cedits AW get 0.08 credit, wonder if AW will eventually remove the existing messaging and force guys to use the chat (sorry for going ot a bit here)

[Strawberry]

It can't have entirely escaped your attention that-

1. 'Available now' isn't an especially reliable indication of who is available and ready to respond, or those that are available generally. I can't recall if it costs the advertiser £5 per day, but plenty have said that they want to avoid that charge (which I'll grant does seem an absurd false economy)
2. A fair chunk of profiles, including ones which turn out to be good, expressly recommend against sending messages like ’hi *insert name* are you available today at 6pm?what’s your location?’. Many, perhaps most, suggest giving more information about ourselves and our tastes.

It's impossible to know where that balance lies in their minds - we have to guess and hope we get it right, knowing that, whichever we choose, it'll be too long/short; crude/indirect; last-minute/far in advance for any given half of them.

The cost of available today is currently more than £5, also cost aside some SPs do not find it useful regards enquiries, but other SPs do.

[Heph]

The cost of available today is currently more than £5

How much is it?

[Strawberry]

How much is it?

I had to look this up, I only had time to answer.quickly yesterday.

6.57 credits per day

I understand this may be less if an SP has paid for other features. I don't have much time this morning to look up more information, from memory it's cheaper if an SP is paying to be featured or using Local Escort Search but I believe this has been made unfavourable due the the town search/listing now being limited.

[Ace_max66]

I am rarely able to make an advanced booking, unless it's with an established and professional SP, like PoppyX for example.

If I do enquire about a booking for a day or two ahead, or even the next day, I either get ignored or told to call back / message on the day.

Yeah established SPs are a bit easier to book in advance I’ve found with the caveat some either will insist on an aw booking to secure your advanced booking slot or ask for a deposit if you have low or negative feedback.  It’s something to hold punters accountable as they do get cancellations which isn’t ideal if they’re renting accommodation/ paying for hotels etc - so I totally get it. Calling or messaging on the day mitigates that risk a bit I suppose as on the day punters might be less likely to cancel or bail on them. 

 

[puntmiester]

It can't have entirely escaped your attention that-

1. 'Available now' isn't an especially reliable indication of who is available and ready to respond, or those that are available generally. I can't recall if it costs the advertiser £5 per day, but plenty have said that they want to avoid that charge (which I'll grant does seem an absurd false economy)
2. A fair chunk of profiles, including ones which turn out to be good, expressly recommend against sending messages like ’hi *insert name* are you available today at 6pm?what’s your location?’. Many, perhaps most, suggest giving more information about ourselves and our tastes.

It's impossible to know where that balance lies in their minds - we have to guess and hope we get it right, knowing that, whichever we choose, it'll be too long/short; crude/indirect; last-minute/far in advance for any given half of them.

Yes I know all this . But my response was to someone that isn’t getting any replies when writing a  100 word cover letter, which makes them look like a weirdo a working girl would probably want to avoid.

I thought it best to keep it simple

Read their profiles and follow any instructions obviously. But if you want to get more advanced , then you can look at their last logged on date .

And then we can going into: popular girls with lots of regulars may not turn her green light on as she’s content with regulars and word of mouth /ukpunting punters.

 there isn’t an escort regulatory body or standard and each of them has their own style of communication . Then you have girls that handle their own comms vs a maid.

But before all that , this help thread is for a few prospective punters that don’t seem to get it . Punting (Unless you pay a lot ) is a numbers game for both the girl and the punter .keep it efficient and keep it simple . The lady doesn’t want to read an essay and write one back to you. She’s probably banging out her copy and paste replies while her current punter is in the shower