Author Topic: Completely different (bad) experience with the same SP  (Read 2175 times)

Offline Davey80

Recently had a bizarrely bad experience with an SP who had been fantastic and accommodating in a previous meet.

Surly doesn’t cut it - this time she was downright rude and angry. Refused a BJ on her knees she was happy with last time and ordered me on the bed. Told me off from touching her. Pussy completely out of bounds. Huffed through a short missionary fuck and insisted I had come. I left after about 12 minutes of a 30 minute booking.

I’ve never known anything like it, completely taken aback, and wondered if others have had such different experiences with the same SP.

Not reviewing on UKP as my punting phone recurring monthly plan screwed up on the day and I had to use a traceable one to finalise the booking.  But it was VS not AW.

Offline Punting2022

Whores can change their mind each day tbh or with diff clients.
One man has a good review here. few weeks later another may have a negative.

Its a risk you take. One day can be good one day not.

Its also just woman really. You could have brilliant sex with your partner one week. The next week if she isn't in the mood, can be crap

Offline RandomGuy99

Could be she was just having a bad day and maybe your phone problem caused her more stress as you were calling from a different number than your previous booking. She might not have realised she had seen you before. She might have interpreted the use of a different number as you trying to trick her.

She may also have been doing a brilliant acting job on your first visit and couldn't be arse with the acting on your second visit.

I wouldn't think about it too much. Plenty more escorts around.
« Last Edit: April 26, 2026, 09:31:47 pm by RandomGuy99 »

Offline koshkaj

I think it just happens. While i have not had the same experience as you with the same SP (perhaps because i don't often see an SP more than once), i have punted a few who have stellar reviews, sometimes very recently with well-established reviewers, only to have a shite punt with them myself, wondering wtf happened.

SP having a bad day/doesn't like you or finds you unattractive/you did something unknown that pissed them off/a previous punter pissed them off/dick too big or too small/uncircumcised/tried to make them cum via RO/period is due soon/you talked too much or too little/seen too many punters that day/SP leaving soon/It's the morning/affternoon/evening/it's raining/it's cold/SP is homesick. million and one reasons.

i find it best to try not to think too much about it other than deciding if you want to try again another time or just not bother after posting a review (understand your reasons for not doing so in this case)

2022's last paragraph is very true

« Last Edit: April 27, 2026, 01:52:20 am by koshkaj »

Offline runner in the woods

It does happen. I had a fantastic meet and she was going to be a reg. Next time I get to see her, she's like a different person, in fact got me naked, then said pimp on way , would give me a kicking and ordered me to leave, scamming me out of £70.
It happened so quick I had problems processing it.
But, there are nice girls out there.

Offline maybe

Sounds like life just hit them, it gets anyone at anytime. It could be she is jading or jaded.

Offline southcoastpunter

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Whores


Maybe you should look back on the thread you started ( condom prices) and see the general strength of feeling against your continued use of this term !
Is it too much to ask - Please - show a little more respect in your general comms on threads!

Offline signy

It's happened to me within the same booking!

A two-part roleplay with a femdom, who I had seen previously and had a great time. The first part was rubbish; she seemed disinterested, didn't engage and wrapped things up quickly. The second part was great; inventive, engaged, energetic and took the full rest of the time booked. I did wonder if she buzzed herself up whilst I was quickly changing between parts.

People are unpredictable.

Offline Captainhowdy666

Probably goes to show that fuck so many blokes in a week they instantly forget you and move onto the next cock.
Done it a few times in the past where I’ve such a great experience I book them a week or less later and they act as if you’ve never stepped through the door before

Offline MaxVerstappen

Probably goes to show that fuck so many blokes in a week they instantly forget you and move onto the next cock.
Done it a few times in the past where I’ve such a great experience I book them a week or less later and they act as if you’ve never stepped through the door before

That’s why I have a motto of fuck them once and dump them. With so many girls around what’s the point of going back to a girl who you have already fucked previously?! If you wanna fuck the same girl just get a girlfriend FFS! I much prefer the buzz of unknown and meeting new people… but horses for courses of course and whatnot.

Offline Mr Sinister

That’s why I have a motto of fuck them once and dump them. With so many girls around what’s the point of going back to a girl who you have already fucked previously?! If you wanna fuck the same girl just get a girlfriend FFS! I much prefer the buzz of unknown and meeting new people… but horses for courses of course and whatnot.

Used to have the same motto but sometimes you find an ideal WG, it's good to get a full fill of her before she - gets too popular, more expensive, disappears, jaded etc....OP should be reminded a prossie is still human and humans can have wild mood swings

Offline MaxVerstappen

Used to have the same motto but sometimes you find an ideal WG

Nope, it doesn't matter to me how good she was or how fit she is or even if I had the best sex ever... pay, fuck, leave and never return = no exceptions whatsoever:hi:

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Nope, it doesn't matter to me how good she was or how fit she is or even if I had the best sex ever... pay, fuck, leave and never return = no exceptions whatsoever:hi:

That's how I approached the first 20 years of my punting. Things changed after that, whatever works, works!

Offline coolkid05

I remember having two great experiences in London with a popular Polish girl named Anna back in around 2013 time, but she moved back to Poland, but came back for tours I think. I saw her in 2016 and she was awful. I booked an hour and was out of there in about 20 mins.

It's weird, some girls just get jaded. I thought she really should knock it on the head now. TBF, I think she did retire after that.

Offline Jonestown

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Perhaps it shows that being an escort isn’t just like having any old job, maybe having to put more into it than just mastering a few skills sets it apart, perhaps she woke up that morning and thought fuck this for a game of soldiers, i wouldnt mind if I never saw another dick again. Why not give it a week or so and ask her if she’s ok, if you did anything to piss her off, if you should delete her number and move on ?

Offline Stevelondon

That’s why I have a motto of fuck them once and dump them. With so many girls around what’s the point of going back to a girl who you have already fucked previously?! If you wanna fuck the same girl just get a girlfriend FFS! I much prefer the buzz of unknown and meeting new people… but horses for courses of course and whatnot.

I’m not sure how you can dump a SP. She’s not exactly yours to dump is she  :D

As you say it’s horses for courses and your way of punting is simply that……… your way. It’s not mine.

I’m a tad confused as to why the OP can’t write another review of a SP he’s seen before.
Whats his mobile got to do with anything ?

Just asking. I’m thick remember. 🤷🏼
« Last Edit: April 27, 2026, 04:52:00 pm by Stevelondon »

Offline MaxVerstappen

That's how I approached the first 20 years of my punting. Things changed after that, whatever works, works!

Exactly, you do you. Everyone is different. Different strokes for different blokes  :hi:

I’m not sure how you can dump a SP. She’s not exactly yours to dump is she  :D

 :D It’s just a saying/expression, the same way pump and dump is. Anyhow, you get what I mean  :)

Offline MLawro93

Sounds like she was having an awful day and took it out on you, or simply didn't want to be there. Either way, not your problem to absorb. Twelve minutes and out is about all you can do in that situation.

To answer your question, yes, had completely different experiences with the same SP. It happens. How you deal with it really depends on the provider. I've had situations where a simple conversation fixed the problem entirely, no drama, just an honest word and things improved. Others, I've raised something gently and had it blow up spectacularly. At that point you just stop going back.

It comes down to how seriously the person takes their job. The ones who care will hear you out and adjust. The ones who don't, well, no amount of feedback is going to change that. You just move on.

The traceable phone bit would concern me more than the booking itself, if I'm honest. Worth sorting that out before anything else.

Offline the_exile

As others have said, sounds like she was having a really bad day. I wouldn't think too much about it, these things happen.

I've had the opposite experience too, where a first meet has been pretty meh but then I have ended up seeing the woman again (the one I'm thinking of was where girls had swapped working days at a flat, so thought I'd made a booking with someone else!) & had a very good time.

Then there's been the times when I thought I was up for it but really wasn't, when I really shouldn't have bothered!  :(

Offline Fookmefooku

That’s why I have a motto of fuck them once and dump them. With so many girls around what’s the point of going back to a girl who you have already fucked previously?! If you wanna fuck the same girl just get a girlfriend FFS! I much prefer the buzz of unknown and meeting new people… but horses for courses of course and whatnot.

It's the way I live my punting life that.

Variety is the spice of life as they say

Offline MaxVerstappen

It's the way I live my punting life that.

Variety is the spice of life as they say

 :cool: :drinks:

Offline Mkhelen

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Sounds like hormones and due on her period
She should have not worked and taken the day off

Have you messaged her are you ok and that you didn't enjoy your time together
She might try and rectify it and offer an apology and / or a make it up to you

Offline JustaPunter

Whores can change their mind each day tbh or with diff clients.
One man has a good review here. few weeks later another may have a negative.

Its a risk you take. One day can be good one day not.

Its also just woman really. You could have brilliant sex with your partner one week. The next week if she isn't in the mood, can be crap

You really do sound like an unpleasant misogynistic little twat.

Offline Natwest

You really do sound like an unpleasant misogynistic little twat.

I'll gladly second that.

Offline MLawro93

You really do sound like an unpleasant misogynistic little twat.

Not sound like, he is one. Its the same in every thread he posts in.

Offline Natwest

Not sound like, he is one. Its the same in every thread he posts in.

I have reported his posts but either he has been warned in private or they are considered acceptable but I am sure that is not the case. He did receive a 60 day ban at one time and I think was warned the next ban would be permanent. That moment cannot come too soon.

Offline Sunny

Davey80

Where is the lady in question based?
Age?