SPs who give you their personal numbers

[koshkaj]

This has happened to me quite often, and more than a few times after a first visit.

What does it mean? Are they hoping to increase the chances of rebooking? One told me that if i wanted to see her again i should only contact her on the public number, others have said i can book on personal or public. i am presuming it is for repeat business because only a couple have contacted me first to chat about non-escort activities. Are SPs just giving their personal numbers out regularly to punters? One SP made a huge song and dance about the face she was giving me her number as she was not supposed to do so, but in my mind i do not consider myself special, so i always think if i am getting it, so is everyone else.

On one occasion i was a little pissed off with an SP as her maid had kept me waiting outside and as an apology she said she would give me her personal number. This did not improve my mood.

i don't get it. if i wanted to see the SP again, i am fine to book the normal way. As my punting habits have developed, have got myself a punting mobile, so now have started turning down these offers as it is off most of the time, which seems to put their noses out of joint that i don't want their number, especially if i book a return visit.

[Jonestown]

It’s simple really, agency girls will give you their personal number so you can book them outside the agency regime and save her the 30% agency fee. The rest, independents and such, are in love with you and want to have your babies.

[MLawro93]

It’s simple really, agency girls will give you their personal number so you can book them outside the agency regime and save her the 30% agency fee. The rest, independents and such, are in love with you and want to have your babies.

Basically this 

In all seriousness, yes its to avoid agency fees, and for the indies, well it doesn't have to mean anything specific, but most likely they feel you aren't a twat and they somewhat enjoy your company. Don't overthink it.

You can always say no, or just sharing your punting number instead, etc

[anonymouse72]

As above and you're right to think that you're not the only one in possession of a private number. It might give a brief feeling that we're in some way special but ultimately we're just another source of income either privately or via an agency. I've several private numbers on my phone right now. Equally there are many girls who would rather not share and prefer the privacy.

[koshkaj]

Maybe i am just overthinking things

[Shadow314]

Well you'll be having more babies than me!  Can only recall one agency girl that's given me her number, and one indie (because her battery died when I was en route).

[advent2016]

It probably won't be their personal number, but another burner number. Bit like us punters they have multiple phones.

[anonymouse72]

It probably won't be their personal number, but another burner number. Bit like us punters they have multiple phones.

Not all. I have numbers for girls who have retired from the industry yet remain in touch.

[chr0n0_0]

I never ask and they seem to offer. I've had several give me their personal number.

Next time I'll ask them why they want it in the first place. I am 99% sure it's only because they want us to revisit. Nothing beyond this.

[schlong118118]

I have never got an independent SPs personal number after a punt but after going to brothels its happened quite a few times. and few have contacted me out of the blue. Im sure its just them trying to  make bit of money and avoid paying a percentage to pimp/manager.

[advent2016]

Not all. I have numbers for girls who have retired from the industry yet remain in touch.

For what reason and how is this related to punting? If they are retired they are civvies. Try not to share them without their permission.

[anonymouse72]

For what reason and how is this related to punting? If they are retired they are civvies. Try not to share them without their permission.

The point I was trying to make is that the number is still active and therefore was not a burner phone when in use for escort work. Otherwise it would have been binned off when they left the industry.

[Punting2022]

Just ask why they giving. If agency they ovs want bookings off book.
If independant. Maybe shes up for social time. Possible freebies in there

[advent2016]

The point I was trying to make is that the number is still active and therefore was not a burner phone when in use for escort work. Otherwise it would have been binned off when they left the industry.

OK, fair point.

[loki33]

Have got a few personal numbers... Mostly they say so they can be more responsive when I want to see them.

[LLPunting]

The only time it's not because they see you as some kind of mark is when they meet you away from work, they pay their own way or even treat you and they never ask for risky favours or loans.  Oh and you get sex for free (or at least some serious free upgrades).  They may say they love you, they may cry, but be careful when they start preening you and buying you clothes.

[Tokidoe]

I’m stupid enough to not have a punting number, but I don’t think I have anything to hide. Single, unattached from work etc etc.

Attaching socials to your contact number will eventually expose their socials vice versa. Managed to build a weird rapport with some SP’s since I expose a “personal” side. Slightly akin to an arrangement meet rather than per hourly. YMMV though.

[mightymunce]

It’s simple really, agency girls will give you their personal number so you can book them outside the agency regime and save her the 30% agency fee. The rest, independents and such, are in love with you and want to have your babies.

 

[Stevelondon]

I’ve got numbers given to me by three SP’s.

But we are friends outside of the business arrangement (have been for a number of years) so different I guess.

But I’ve also been given a different number to make contact from one or two other SP’s. Simply because I had seen them regularly. 🤷🏼

[Bum Lovin Criminal]

The only time it's not because they see you as some kind of mark is when they meet you away from work, they pay their own way or even treat you and they never ask for risky favours or loans.  Oh and you get sex for free (or at least some serious free upgrades).  They may say they love you, they may cry, but be careful when they start preening you and buying you clothes.

Ahhhh!  The Dream of every Punter who is Single..

[GreyDave]

  1st time Happened a long time ago when I was in my 30`s it made me nevous 
There was a Brazlian house that had parties and Steve2 and I went the girls there all gave their numbers out, the parties were a sort of sample the goods and come back thing (gawd I miss those pre Covid )

Then about 2 years ago I started doing the local Chinese flat girls and  maybe as Im an old git now Ive had several who spoke passable english as me if I wanted a wife  and give me their number telling me where they would be going the following week and to keep in touch I never have 

Then there was Kerry a WG who died and her sister kept the phone and number tellling punters what had happend ( mentioned by another of her regulars ) 

[Markc]

Once l had been seeing a blonde escort who was a university student in a nearby town at a parlour in 2012.
She was great and l went to see her once a month for about 6 months. Then one day she texted me from a
number that l didn’t recognise. She offered to see at her student house instead and offered me a discount
to what l had been paying to see her. The phone number was her own personal number.

I used to pay her £50 for half hour at the parlour which she said they used to take 50%. She offered extras
like OWO, CIM and anal which she used to keep the full amount she charged for this service.

She charged me £90 for an hour with OWO and CIM included. Anal was £30 extra. She offered this service to
about 20 of her clients and stopped working at the parlour. I saw her regularly for about 2 years after that until
she finished her Uni studies.

[Trotter671]

Happened a couple of times but ages ago. Both parlour girls in Manchester. Blonde gorgeous lass at WFB and extremely pretty Filipina girl at Hayleys Prestwich - was supposed to meet up for a date with the Filipina girl but never happened in the end!

[quatter11]

I saw a girl in a parlour then three times in a week when she touring. She gave me her personal number as she felt we had a connection. Three and a half years later I still see her as a friend with benefits. I pay for dinner and hotel, she enjoys my company and sex with me.

[Monaco]

Never happened to me.

[koshkaj]

Thanks for all the interesting input in here. 

[shagmore]

Have the personal number of a couple indies,
Can mean a number of reasons why they have done this. But do not dwell on it, appreciate it and move on with life

[Mr Garmin]

I have exactly 5 personal numbers for girls that are no longer on AW.  Two are girls that wanted to get out of the grind while keeping a few trusted regulars.  Two are for girls that never advertised a number and all comms were by AW messaging normally.  And the last one is for a girl that got out of the game but who I still see off the clock.

[hendrix]

I have a few. Typically it's because of shared interests outside the usual business.

[Mikefr1972]

I have been given phone numbers from massage girls who are not allowed to offer more than HE at those places. When i have met them privately much more is offered and of course they get to keep all the money

[bigpole]

In my case it's always been due to SP's poor opsec rather than the SP liking me.

When I started seeing escorts I didn't have a punting phone (I rectified this a long time ago) and a few of SPs I've seen popped up in my suggested friends on Facebook, not sure if it was due to them not having a separate work phone and me using the default setting of allowing Facebook access to my contacts, or was it because Facebook would suggest people it figured out you spent time with based on your devices' location data (which of course FB claimed they have never done).

I have also experienced some girls from Seeking.com giving away their personal numbers. I do have a separate instagram account on my punting/seeking phone so I don't care about contacts syncing, and every now and again after saving a girl's number I will see her (presumably) real instagram account with her (once again presumably) real name in my suggestions.

[anonymouse72]

In my case it's always been due to SP's poor opsec rather than the SP liking me.

When I started seeing escorts I didn't have a punting phone (I rectified this a long time ago) and a few of SPs I've seen popped up in my suggested friends on Facebook, not sure if it was due to them not having a separate work phone and me using the default setting of allowing Facebook access to my contacts, or was it because Facebook would suggest people it figured out you spent time with based on your devices' location data (which of course FB claimed they have never done).

I have also experienced some girls from Seeking.com giving away their personal numbers. I do have a separate instagram account on my punting/seeking phone so I don't care about contacts syncing, and every now and again after saving a girl's number I will see her (presumably) real instagram account with her (once again presumably) real name in my suggestions.

It's quite odd how frequently girls pop up on my Instagram as recommended people to follow. I do follow a few and my account is private so I can restrict who follows my account back. Definitely info sharing going on in the background. Once you follow one you can soon spot thier colleagues on there. It can be a bit of a rabbit hole to fall down if you let it.

[OakTree]

As others have mentioned, Agency girls.

I’ve only ever been offered another contact number, personal or otherwise for meets outside of the agency. Even then it’s been a rare occurrence.