To nut or not too nut?

[yon yonson]

Was wondering if ppl have a rule they stick to (guess it depends on how often you visit an escort) or saving your nut for a good while before the session, or have a nut a couple of days before so that you don't nut too soon during the meet?

[Munter84]

I'm sure this discussion has been had many times, it really comes (heh) down to the gentleman's refractory period and whether premature/delayed ejaculation is at play.

Some chaps have a wank the morning before a punt to avoid cumming too quick with the girl. Myself, I've compared wanking before a punt to eating a large McDonalds on the way to a meal at a posh restaurant so you don't arrive hungry - madness!

Horses for courses.

[Malvolio]

I like to refrain from wanking for three days before the punt - this guarantees I will be in the mood.  I also book an hour to make sure I have enough time to come twice, so all is not lost if I do come early on in the punt.

[Stevelondon]

I think sometimes this thing about not cumming too soon. Has more to do with blokes thinking it’s more macho to stay longer. “I’m a stud” 

I mean fair play if your a guy who cums quick. Then I’d be looking into ways to last longer.
I’ve said on here before. In my case it’s having to conjure up an image of Maggie Thatcher lowering herself onto my face. Always stops me cumming too soon. 

I’m not much of a wanker nowadays and don’t feel the need to spend a lot of time just shagging. I’m more into other things so have no need to worry about performances.

But whatever works for people 🤷🏼

[lewisjones23]

Depends on who I am planning on seeing.

If my planned punt is with a WG who offers facials, then she is getting a weeks worth, as part of the pleasure is seeing myself make a right mess over their face.

If its a WG that I know offers a killer blowjob, then I might take the edge off it a couple of days before, so they don't get me out of their too early

[runner in the woods]

Depends on who I am planning on seeing.

If my planned punt is with a WG who offers facials, then she is getting a weeks worth, as part of the pleasure is seeing myself make a right mess over their face.

If its a WG that I know offers a killer blowjob, then I might take the edge off it a couple of days before, so they don't get me out of their too early

A week is best for me, as you say, for a good facial. Plus if I go a week before seeing a girl, then with her finger in my ass, I cum loads, which is very satisfying as I like to leave with my knackers drained.

[Mark.wilmots]

For me personally, I found for a 1 hour booking, releasing some pressure 24 hours works perfectly for 1 nut in the session (I gave up trying to do 2 nuts past 35)

I've been struggling with this question of late as I booked 72 hours with a beautiful 20 year old for a summer trip and thinking I might need to hold back a week for such a marathon.

[gurds]

nothing wrong with nutting every day, is good for you.

[Smama]

As long the money doesn't run out

[Jonestown]

If I had a wank before a punt I’d need to reschedule the punt for the following week.

[Ivor Hunch]

For me personally, I found for a 1 hour booking, releasing some pressure 24 hours works perfectly for 1 nut in the session (I gave up trying to do 2 nuts past 35)

I've been struggling with this question of late as I booked 72 hours with a beautiful 20 year old for a summer trip and thinking I might need to hold back a week for such a marathon.

it's not a humblebrag exactly, but a lovely way of slipping in the 72 hours with a 20 year old!  And presumably you will be slipping it in a fair bit in those 72 hours.

How did you arrange that, if I may ask?

[Ghost89]

I usually give myself 2-3 days before a punt. That way I’m rock solid and cum with the thunder!

[Mark.wilmots]

it's not a humblebrag exactly, but a lovely way of slipping in the 72 hours with a 20 year old!  And presumably you will be slipping it in a fair bit in those 72 hours.

How did you arrange that, if I may ask?

Apologies if it came across as a brag, it's a genuine "problem" I've been thinking about 

I've seen her before for an overnight, I reached out to her asking if she would be interested in joining me for a holiday this summer and asked her to quote her price for the time. There are boundries set of course (i.e no waking her up at 3am for a round) but yes it should be fair amount of slipping if i can keep up!

[Stevelondon]

Apologies if it came across as a brag, it's a genuine "problem" I've been thinking about 

I've seen her before for an overnight, I reached out to her asking if she would be interested in joining me for a holiday this summer and asked her to quote her price for the time. There are boundries set of course (i.e no waking her up at 3am for a round) but yes it should be fair amount of slipping if i can keep up!

No need to apologise Bonny lad. Good on ya.

I’d be envious if it wasn’t for just one or two things.

I’d be afraid of waking her up cos I’d be getting up to go to the bog through the night. The other thing is this. I’m definitely a young at heart bloke. A big kid really. But I have to say I would probably be struggling to find similar things a 20 year old lass and I would have in common. Apart from the bought sex that is 

[Mark.wilmots]

No need to apologise Bonny lad. Good on ya.

I’d be envious if it wasn’t for just one or two things.

I’d be afraid of waking her up cos I’d be getting up to go to the bog through the night. The other thing is this. I’m definitely a young at heart bloke. A big kid really. But I have to say I would probably be struggling to find similar things a 20 year old lass and I would have in common. Apart from the bought sex that is 

haha Steve, 100% a real concern. lets hope for enough sex to drown the awkward silences of when i tell her i don't know who Geese and BTS are.

[therichardrichard]

I like to maximise my time with a girl so don't want to go off too early if I've only got one shot but hope to get the first one out more quickly and be capable of another if I have a longer meet and/or the opportunity to go again. To that end I try to at least avoid the day before if I'm just planning on a 30 minute meeting and give it a maybe two or three days if I'm going for a longer meet where I can cum more than once.

Despite any planning I sometimes things just go counter to what I expected/hoped on the day. Also I can't always account for how tight her pussy will be, how much lube she may or may not slather on and how enthusiastically she might suck my cock which are all contributing factors.

Previously I've managed to fuck a girl and finish by filling her mouth with my cum twice, despite having self served a couple of times the day before, and also struggled to cum at all with another despite saving myself for several days in advance 

[marmalade17]

I have a slightly different approach.  I try to do something that connects my mind and body so I'm more relaxed and self aware. 

So that means I have a bit of relief the day on the morning gets me warmed up and relaxed.  It's a bit like having a double session with a g/f when the second time feels more relaxed and easy going. 

The other thing is a hot bath beforehand.  That's definitely the physiological benefit of the heat being a muscle relaxant as well as vasodilation benefits for erections.

Finally, I used to do a lot of meditation and that gave a huge sexual benefit.  That takes time and I've got out of practice which is why the hot bath is an easy quick alternative!

[alabama1]

I have a slightly different approach.  I try to do something that connects my mind and body so I'm more relaxed and self aware. 

So that means I have a bit of relief the day on the morning gets me warmed up and relaxed.  It's a bit like having a double session with a g/f when the second time feels more relaxed and easy going. 

The other thing is a hot bath beforehand.  That's definitely the physiological benefit of the heat being a muscle relaxant as well as vasodilation benefits for erections.

Finally, I used to do a lot of meditation and that gave a huge sexual benefit.  That takes time and I've got out of practice which is why the hot bath is an easy quick alternative!

Are you dsylexic 

[marmalade17]

Are you dsylexic 

Seriously it's the best pre punt prep.  It means you start the punt with heightened self awareness and every touch feels so much more powerful.  To answer the OP,  it means you can orgasm when you want.

[Fuzzyduck]

I think sometimes this thing about not cumming too soon. Has more to do with blokes thinking it’s more macho to stay longer. “I’m a stud” 

I mean fair play if your a guy who cums quick. Then I’d be looking into ways to last longer.
I’ve said on here before. In my case it’s having to conjure up an image of Maggie Thatcher lowering herself onto my face. Always stops me cumming too soon. 

I’m not much of a wanker nowadays and don’t feel the need to spend a lot of time just shagging. I’m more into other things so have no need to worry about performances.

But whatever works for people 🤷🏼

Are you sure, Steve? 

As I've gotten older, I've focussed more on the journey rather than the destination. I can still just about get 3 pops out in an hour, with the right girl(s)/circumstances but multiple orgasms aren't the be all and end all that they used to be for me. If having a wank on the day means you can enjoy the ride a bit more then do it. If it kills your mojo, then don't.

[Jonestown]

I can still just about get 3 pops out in an hour,

Blimey, how old are you, fourteen ?

[Fuzzyduck]

Blimey, how old are you, fourteen ?

I did use to wank furiously when I was younger to be fair (it might explain why my cock seems smaller now )
We're all different. Gone are the days when I could come again without losing my boner.

[the_exile]

Gone are the days when I could come again without losing my boner.

Wow, that's impressive - was it always like that for you or something that you learned?

[nwluvit]

When I was younger I found a stiff G&T just before the meet would relax me enough not to shoot too soon. These days I don't shoot much, so wanking before is a no-no!

[Fuzzyduck]

Wow, that's impressive - was it always like that for you or something that you learned?

More something I found out. Didn't happen very often at all, and only when I was very turned on.

[worstnameever]

Gone are the days when I could come again without losing my boner.

I used to be like this, You sure witness a look of disbelief when you ask her if the wants to go again about 30 seconds after she has watched you cum

Now it seems to take me 30 mins or more of action before the finish.

I's bet a lot of no-shows are down to customers knocking one out pre-punt and loosing the urge.

[the_exile]

I used to be like this, You sure witness a look of disbelief when you ask her if the wants to go again about 30 seconds after she has watched you cum

I think I only managed that once but I cheated & had taken a blue pill!

To answer the original question on the thread, I would say abstaining for three days before a punt makes sure that I am ready for it, but it's really a matter of knowing yourself and what works for you.