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Offline lanlover

Hola,

I've seen a few aw profiles that want aw feedback before they'll accept a booking with you. For a newbie like myself who's a bit picky and restricted in terms of times I can escape the house should I just spend some time with "acceptable" punts in order to build up rep or is it worth messaging and asking anyway? So far I've only had one punt off viva which was all handled via text which was OK but felt a bit grim due to it feeling like student digs. I think im still trying to work out if I prefer massages or full services.

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Just send them a polite, brief and to the point message explaining you're new and would like to see them. The worst they can do is ignore you or say no.

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As a newbie I would stick to well reviewed SPs on here who are also on AW.

If you message them with a clear message and make yourself appear to be genuine and drama free then they'll probably let you have a booking. Include all the information in one message which includes

Date/time you want to book them for
Duration of the booking e.g 30 minutes or 1 hour
Services you would like
Any special requests like clothing
The fee you expect to pay them including any extras you'd like as per their pricing on their profile - this shows that you've taken the time to read their profile

Explain that you're new, so don't have any feedback yet.

Don't get too graphic or porn like in your descriptions

Try to appear vaguely normal.

Be polite and answer any questions they may have with complete non-vague answers in a timely manner and they should be ok to see you
« Last Edit: April 20, 2026, 03:54:30 pm by RandomGuy99 »

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Offline EmmaJ

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From a SPs point of view,

If a profile states they want clients with feedback, the only thing I would recommend is trying to gain that feedback from elsewhere first.

Messaging knowing you don't fit their criteria, may come across as you've either not read their profile to begin with or you have, but have chosen to ignore the requirements and try anyway.

Also, personally I find newbies to be more of a risk of either not showing up or cancelling last minute due to nerves, which is one of the reasons I have a policy in place so I don't imagine many SP making an exception because you're new.

Offline Ivor Hunch

if you do message someone who requires feedback, at least make it clear that you have read that (and every other word on their profile), but you are asking them to make an exception because....

Offline Stevelondon

You can only ask if they will see you. After you have explained politely that you are new to the hobby. Whats to lose.
Emmaj misses the opportunity to meet you and find out you are the gentleman of all punters and gods gift to all SP’s

Her loss innit 😂

I’m joking Emma I’m joking 😘

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if you do message someone who requires feedback, at least make it clear that you have read that (and every other word on their profile), but you are asking them to make an exception because....
You're hung like a stallion and look like Justin Bieber

Online RandomGuy99

You can only ask if they will see you. After you have explained politely that you are new to the hobby. Whats to lose.
Emmaj misses the opportunity to meet you and find out you are the gentleman of all punters and gods gift to all SP’s

Her loss innit 😂

I’m joking Emma I’m joking 😘
She is right that newbies do get nervous and no show.

Try a well known SP who has lots of feedback. She might be open to seeing a newbie as everyone was a newbie once.

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You can only ask if they will see you. After you have explained politely that you are new to the hobby. Whats to lose.
Emmaj misses the opportunity to meet you and find out you are the gentleman of all punters and gods gift to all SP’s

Her loss innit 😂

I’m joking Emma I’m joking 😘
:lol: :lol:

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She is right that newbies do get nervous and no show.

Try a well known SP who has lots of feedback. She might be open to seeing a newbie as everyone was a newbie once.

And experienced punters with good feedback also do not show or are unreliable. :unknown:

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And experienced punters with good feedback also do not show or are unreliable. :unknown:
So you're saying having good feedback doesn't guarantee anything? 🤔

Having some feedback must reduce the odds though, right?

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I only see people with feedback and I've had 2 no shows in 10 years. It definitely helps. Almost everyone I see has seen at least one girl I know well enough to trust her judgement usually, which really helps weed out bad eggs.

It's also exactly as Emma says from my perspective also. If a SP haS It stated clearly on their profile that they don't accept bookings from folks with no feedback, and then a SS tries to say "But I'm different/but I'll do XYZ" it, to me, is indicative that they don't care about my boundaries and could try to 'get around' my other rules.

Offline alabama1

So you're saying having good feedback doesn't guarantee anything? 🤔

Having some feedback must reduce the odds though, right?
Nothing is guaranteed in the punting world. Its not only SP's feedback that has to be taken with a pinch of salt.

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So you're saying having good feedback doesn't guarantee anything? 🤔

Having some feedback must reduce the odds though, right?

It means they have turned up to some bookings for which they used a booking form, and the SP felt able to leave feedback, they could have not turned up to 100 other bookings. Sometimes they have turned up to the first booking they used a booking request form for, then gone on to mess the same or other SPs around. Sometimes SPs do not leave feedback for bookings that did not go ahead, sometimes they give benefit of the doubt.

Someone with zero feedback or without an AW membership might have turned up to many bookings, or simply be one of those people who do what they say they will.

Offline runner in the woods

Regarding feedback, it seems in my experience, it's only British girls that give feed back. Thai's and Brazilians rarely do. Imho I wouldn't stress over feedback, I rarely leave it on AW. Just here really. Twice my own feedback has nudged near to 100 and then it's locked me out of my account and I was back to zero with a new Account. Having no or little feedback hasn't been a problem. If the girl wants the money and she's free , it usually goes ahead anyway. I'd just avoid the girls that make you jump through hoops. There's plenty of others out there.

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Regarding feedback, it seems in my experience, it's only British girls that give feed back. Thai's and Brazilians rarely do. Imho I wouldn't stress over feedback, I rarely leave it on AW. Just here really. Twice my own feedback has nudged near to 100 and then it's locked me out of my account and I was back to zero with a new Account. Having no or little feedback hasn't been a problem. If the girl wants the money and she's free , it usually goes ahead anyway. I'd just avoid the girls that make you jump through hoops. There's plenty of others out there.
You get locked out of your AW account if the email account that you gave to them becomes inactive over a period of time. You don't need to set up a new account. It's happened to me in the past, but can't remember what I did to reactivate my account lol. I probably rang them. Anyway,  it's nothing to do with approaching 100 feedbacks. There are many punters with hundreds of reviews on AW  :hi:

Offline alabama1

Just send them a polite, brief and to the point message explaining you're new and would like to see them. The worst they can do is ignore you or say no.
This is what I did several years ago, with an SP who is now a reg.

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You get locked out of your AW account if the email account that you gave to them becomes inactive over a period of time. You don't need to set up a new account. It's happened to me in the past, but can't remember what I did to reactivate my account lol. I probably rang them. Anyway,  it's nothing to do with approaching 100 feedbacks. There are many punters with hundreds of reviews on AW  :hi:

I don't think AW have a contact number, they have a help centre that uses a contact form followed by email follow-up.

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Regarding feedback, it seems in my experience, it's only British girls that give feed back. Thai's and Brazilians rarely do. Imho I wouldn't stress over feedback, I rarely leave it on AW. Just here really. Twice my own feedback has nudged near to 100 and then it's locked me out of my account and I was back to zero with a new Account. Having no or little feedback hasn't been a problem. If the girl wants the money and she's free , it usually goes ahead anyway. I'd just avoid the girls that make you jump through hoops. There's plenty of others out there.
Thai and Brazilian SPs don't use AW for their comms and bookings, which is why they never leave feedback.